@@Harvey256lol no. Having a child gets you just child support at max. Wife on the other hand is entitled to alimony + half of all marital or husband's assets
Its like a 42% divorce rate in the uk, its really not much of a commitment to get married especially in todays age where everyone is so weak minded that their solution to any problems together isnt to push through snd work them out but to just divorce because its easier.
Yeah she just wants to go to the courthouse real quick that’s the point… if you were saying oh, I’d go through the church and not the state we would understand.
She don’t want a big do she wants to get down the court house so she can have half his money signed to her when she decides to leave 6 months later🤦🏼♂️ gotta hate seeing this happen to Ethan but he’s blind to it
@@NathanDavis508 hmm well Trent I be the insecure males with fragile egos always having the prejudices towards woman, just for simply breathing or even having a personality. Makes a lot of sense to most people that don’t hate woman for being a woman😂
@@jachovdalseg3647 u call constantly complaining about every single thing small big or other a personality. Never being happy a personality. Constantly publicly berating and tearing ur man down a personality😂🤦🏼♂️? Got no problem if she wants to get married, no problem if she wants to have a big wedding🤷♂️ but let the man plan it and surprise u don’t just nag him on a proposal to the point where he’s just doing it to get it out of the way, way to make a special moment mean nothing if ur just constantly nagging him to do it because your already got a kid together🤦🏼♂️🤷♂️.
It's not the biggest form of commiment. He's commited to be a father to your child, not to you. There's a difference. The point of marriage is commitment, yes, but it's also about binding yourself to someone and them to you, as long as you live. It's supposed to be public so that everyone knows and the people who witness are supposed to support and reinforce that commitment. So that even if your worst times the witnesses hold both of you accountable. Breaking the commitment is supposed to have a life long lasting effect.
Everybody saying the “I might” is a joke is forgetting about Ethan’s comment before that. His response shows that they have had this conversation multiple times 🤷♂️. May be a joke but it’s got some truth. Also, it’s her choice to leave if she wants to as well
I feel like she has a point for sure. I don’t want to have a baby out of wedlock simply because the first time I have a baby I want it to be with someone who I’m spending the rest of my life with so that the baby has a healthy one house upbringing and parents who are committed to one another. That’s just what I want. So if I have a baby with you already and you’ve made no effort to give me your last name I have a hard time taking our relationship seriously and may regret being with you, not necessarily having a baby but staying with you when I found out I got pregnant because it goes against what I actually want for myself
They can raise the child without being together so its not the biggest commitment lol the commitment would be of them to eachother … she cookin bro run while your ahead
"Having a child is the biggest commitment you can have with someone" Yeeee that is YOUR opinion. Maybe Ethan don't feel the same :) Not everyone value the things the same way :D If he treat you right and is a good dad. Don't push him away with that kind of bullshit
This is the wrong way of thinking. Marriage should be a commitment for life. Having a kid is important but eventually they'll grow up and become less of a responsibility Marriage is responsibility for life
Bro what just because the kid grows up doesn’t mean it’s not a bigger commitment. With marriage U get a good prenup and if anything goes wrong u can divorce and never see them again. With a child there will always be a biological connection around. Divorce is way messier with a child cause u have to figure out custody. You’ll always have to see them even after the child grows up, like a wedding then future grandchildren birthday party. Ur literally always connected
Having a child is a commitment to the child, not the mother. Marriage is committing to the a woman. The are equal in terms of commitment, just a mother will always say the child is and the father will always say the marriage. It’s perspective
Why are people haiting on Faith every chance they get. It truely isn’t that deep. She seems like a lot of fun, i really don’t understand why people feel like they suddenly need to read into everything they say when they clearly are just joking around.
Children are unexpected. Marriage is arranged. u don't have to commit to the mother of ur child if you're not together, but u have to commit to ur marriage.
Thing is, we all know his issue is his worries about divorce. Not the name thing. That’s just the cover up. And yes, he has a right to be. Even with a prenup, the court system is easy to manipulate. Add a child too that, and being a man getting a divorce is a hard deal. They already have a kid together, not too sure why she needs the marriage commitment to show his commitment. If she wanted that, she should have not acted like a wife before he put a ring on it.
No it isn't. You don't want your partner to get complacent and think oh what are they gonna do if I don't try to make them happy? Leave me? As if! That means they've lost all respect for you and they've got you in the bag and they never have to try to earn your respect or love again. That's when relationships start to die.
Tbf I’d agree and would be upset if my partner said that but that’s only because she never says anything like that as it’s not her sense of humor. It’s obvious these guys like taking the piss out of eachother so whilst it might seem crazy we don’t know the dynamic of their relationship outside of the little hints given in their yt shorts.
Exactly, like even if they get divorced they are still connected by Olive and will have to interact. They will be in each other’s lives in some capacity now forever.
I can see her point of view. A baby can come by mistake. A man proposing means he's making a conscious choice to commit to your relationship and be a partner for life, which is healthy for any children you have.
She won’t take his last name though. She doesn’t have a point to understand. She just wants to get married just because it would set her up to be rich regardless of their relationship.
@CarrieBearCards34 then you might want to rethink how you judge people, because you're wrong. I married my best friend over 12 years ago. You, however, sound like you don't even have the maturity of a 12-year-old, let alone be old enough to maintain a healthy relationship for 12 years.
You never had a girlfriend bro this is how couples banter its comfortable you think this is arguments he bends her over mate and she loves him and his fame she couldn't get better that why she wants to marry him and get his kids you never had a girlfriend you think couples don't banter they are best mates who bang ethan is a wind up anyway he don't take things seriously
I actually think she has a point. He made the comitment to getting her pregnant but his reluctance to promise stability is also showing he wants to stay legally single in case something better comes along
You're making assumptions at this point. You not even their relative or friends. Just someone you know in the internet. They don't even know you. Well, whatever.
Women thinking a baby means commitment is just stupid. The statistics of single mother households tell a different story. What kind of backwards society is this😂😂
No one has to marry you just because you have a child. You wouldn't tell a woman she has to marry a man. Try using that same logic when it comes to men. He didn't get her pregnant while she wasn't looking.
@@nesetakilli8739he said the reason he didn’t want to propose was because she said she was going to keep her maiden name plus his name if you love someone you don’t care which name they take you just love them
It was obviously a joke. Ethan even said and I'm paraphrasing "you can't say things like that, because it's going to get clipped and put on shorts with dramatic music" Very convenient that the person posting cut that out.
Doubt you’re actually in a healthy relationship then. If your relationship is so fragile, making that joke causes you insecurity, it’s your relationship that’s shit.
@@jordan3400 maybe I just don’t get UK humor because where I’m from that didn’t sound like a joke whatsoever. I’ll just leave it up to cultural differences.
no she don't. they have a kid togheter for fuck sake. why do you even think that leaving a relationship is a posibility? why the fuck you in a relationship to begin with if you think there might be a chance you will split up. that's the problem with the world today. to many idiots getting in relationships with people they don't love just so they don't have to be lonley for the moment
@@savagememes873 well they are engaged now, also there is a huge difference between boyfriend and husband, I would pick a husband over a hundred boyfriends lol we love religious commitments here lol
@@bluerayzzz The only difference is that wife gets more money and/or assets during seperation. There is zero other tangible difference All this more commitment blah blah is horsehit that you lot say to hide your true intention of getting money that you don't earn or deserve
@@priyamtolani1480why just the wife?! 🤣🤣 it’s not the 50s anymore. My fiancé and I have been together since we were teenagers. Everything we own WE built together. I even earn more money than he does and I own the car. Back in the day when women had nothing but being mothers of corse they had to “take” what they could when a relationship ended! Because they would have nothing otherwise as they gave their life to their partner so they can raise the children. If we would ever split, married or not, it would be 50/50!
@@CrazyPanda688 lol assuming is a tell of a fool or a naive child, got a 5y happy relationship and a healthy life but dont got to belive me. Every couple is diffrent, some have dark humor or Even same expirences which makes them compatible. Just because you don’t do this with your SO, does not make it a standard for others. Me n my other have the same humour, are not sensitive, and understand boundaries. So this would be completely fine if you know your partner’s dynamic
If he is not meeting her needs/wants, then it totally makes sense and it would vice versa as well. A lot of women leave long term relationships when the man fails to commit. If she wants a husband, too bad for her? If he wants loyalty from a woman whos needs arent being met, too bad for him too I guess.
Saying marriage doesn’t protect men shows a lack of understanding of what a partnership is. It’s not about a contract; it’s about trust and mutual respect. If you think it’s just a legal shield, maybe you’re more concerned about keeping assets than building a real relationship.
@@Jinnivsjini As someone who has been married, I say this from my experience, from logic and as a man. It doesn’t make sense to incentivize women to leave in 2024. If a life partner wants to do life together, and would want to still have the wedding as a ceremony to solidify it, I don’t see a problem with that. But I no longer believe having the state be in control of something that has nothing to do with them. This is an honest and respectful response to your comment
Don’t speak for us if you aren’t one of us. We absolutely can be joking when we say stuff like that, are only men supposed to have a sense of humour like that?
What it looks like to me, is a finesse and a long game. She wants that contract, but act like its not a big deal. Its a huge deal and she knows it, but wants to know she has that security if she ever had to leave. No pressure on the woman, all the pressure on the guy. Its actually evil.
Dam how can ur women say I might that for a man can be the worse thing said to him but if he said that alright bye then and he f for the most of his life
To be fair, she has a point. My opinion on marriage nowadays is what is there to commit to? You guys already had sex, a baby. These are all the things I want to do after I get married. But at the same time why get married at all, what's the point then if by her words they are already fully commited, she ain't going to leave for that right?
Marriage is no more than a social contract nowadays. It’s not like they’re religious or anything. All its going to do is put Ethan at risk of losing half his net worth if she decides to divorce him
If you actually follow marriage correctly through religion you will find sex and kids come after the actual marriage……marriage is the most important thing on this earth , thats how families are created, marriage is something you have to give consent to as you are sharing you life with another individual and intertwining you lifes with eachothers and become a strong team that turns into a loving family, if everyone walked round thinking marriage isnt a commitment then they wouldn’t be no families and the world would be fucked and to be honest it is slowly happening. I mean just look at some of these countries that allow bullshit into there country, you have men pretending to be woman and cutting of there genitals and vice versa this world is slowly falling apart and it’s because of MARRGE the youth should be wanting to wait till they find the one and only love of their life( love at first sight)and marry said person and be with them and love them until the day they die, but no you have the youth wanting to sleep with as many people as they can because they think having a high body count is something to be proud of or something🤢or they sit there thinking about the same sex which is even worse!!!
@deangreen2567 That's what I'm saying, I'm religious so marriage is actually a proof of commitment and allows me to have sex and a baby and form an alliance for the rest of my life with my partner. For Ethan and Faith the only thing you could argue is financial benefits. Why I partly agree with Faith is because you already have done everything so might as well get married but I also agree with Ethan because what's the point of getting married if you are already committed and have done multiple acts of commitment.
"solidalitry" faith people say your begging marriage so you have access to his money not because of a big showy wedding. i like faith but she needs to chill cos shes looking kinda gold diggery
“he won’t marry me, i don’t know why” “i might leave you” certain things you just don’t say. joking or not, *feelings last and hit fast* can’t say “jk” before it hits.
ask if you can get a prenup and you can see her intentions, if she starts the whole "YOU DONT BELIEVE IN US, OR THAT WE WILL LASt???!" speech then u know her intentions fully
@@hastyswept5486this generation is doomed cuz of how easily some1 could get divorced and how RS r betrayed on SM and on Movies women think marriages r easy and that love is for ever lasting and that happiness is something u chase so they choose to bail out at any opportunity and also giving the incentive that they receive. So no u really can’t blame a man for not wanting to get married
I don’t blame him tbh because he’s got money and a kid. As soon as you have a significant amount of money and a child you care for, knowing that divorce can strip that from you at any moment just because she said she isn’t happy is just fucked up. I wish that marriage was treated like it’s supposed to be, permanent and unbreakable. The only time divorce should be accepted is when there’s actual physical abuse and otherwise marriage should be forever.
You can tell the immaturity in both but also the stupidity… cause how are you gonna expect all this when you already gave him a child and everything he wants?
Giving men an ultimatum to propose doesn’t make them want to do it more btw, because then when they do it doesn’t feel out of love - rather out of requirement
I feel bad for her because I feel like they dont take her seriously :( she's seriously hurt by his view on this, thats why she said she might. The look on her face shows it all
He made a huge mistake getting her pregnant if they broke up she’d have the cheek to think she has absolutely any right to his money when really she should be grateful she has the life she has cos of him
