Fall Asleep Next To Me [ASMR] 

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I really appreciate how safe these videos make me feel

i’m now 21 days sober from alcohol and i think this is my reward haha

I’ve been social media free now for 2 years now and it’s been the best thing for me. I’ve been so much more happier and not have to “please people”

2 hours 15 mins is my average screen time a day! I deleted all my socials in January & I love it. It’s great no one knowing your business & not having to compare yourself to anyone else. Keep it up man :)

That voice, those eyes, THAT face…I can’t 😩❤️

I really like this type of video, just listening to you talk is quite relaxing in itself. Glad you're getting sponsors, you deserve them.

I'm alone so much that I have been really enjoying the chit chat videos a lot! I rarely sleep at night.

I can’t help but smile when I watch you.

This is definitely better than the role plays. It was nice just listening to you talk.

Please do these kind of "being only you" videos more because nothing could be more perfect than listening to you talk, while going to sleep. I can listen to you all night, it was great knowing you as a person, what you think about and how easily you converse with the listener. It seems so real. I actually feel, I am right next to you ! Thank you so much for making these videos. I wish you could make these kinda videos everyday! No need to roleplay just share your thoughts and feelings!

Simple, genuine, perfect ♥️

I really like this! I enjoy having you just be you and talk to me, especially in this relaxed setting. Thank you!

Ok, your voice is so soothing. And much more when I'm wearing my headset. Play a video, fall asleep within 10min.

I don’t get around to watching your videos nearly as much as I would like too but I always enjoy them when I can. Thank you so much for putting out content. 💖 💖 💖

you seriously make some of the most calming videos ever, loved this :) - my screen time lately is about 14 hours which is actually down lol

Thanks a lot for this video, Tom! I had terrible insomnia today and since I enjoy your videos, I decided to watch them. I really enjoyed this one! Instead of a roleplay (which I like as well), I felt like I was just having a nice talk with a close friend, and it helped me a lot! Please make more like this one if you can, it felt really good to feel more sincerely connected to you!

I’m right there with you! I’ve started listening to the podcast: Offline, with Jon Favreau and it helps me realize the toxic parts of being addicted to screens and the benefits of a little of it. I highly recommend!

Tom, I really appreciate this video of you being you. It helped me get to know you even more and on a deeper level, and also connect as well as relax with you. I totally agree with you on the social media thing. A lot of us have become a complete social media dependent society and not sharing more physical human connections like we use to which is not healthy. I only have a few social media platforms but I try to only allow myself 2 to 3 hours per day but because I have OCD everytime I see a message pop up I have to check it so I can immediately remove it from my phone. I try to ignore but it's very hard. We definitely need to get back to how life was before smartphones and social media existed and consumed so much of our time/life. I enjoy all your videos and content as they always help me to relax even the more. Sometimes I'm asleep within minutes and can't comment because of that so job well done Tom. Thanks so much my friend of the same name. Keep these great videos coming. Oh, lastly you should come to Florida more, for the most part it's always warm here so you'll love it.

I love this video more than role plays, I can really hear the true you so it's more relaxing

Its always a great day when you upload! So close to 100k dude, well done :D

Your hair looks so good!!

I live up north too aghh the winter is still bad! Midway through March vibes are back and they are unique 😂ppl bragging bout spring vacations I’m like ehhh let’s just stay home and watch ASMR forget the world for a bit :) Ty for being so real with us your work is really the work of angels I swear ❤

These are always so soothing.

It's luxury video. I love it. It's so strong it would put me to sleep at noon if I watched it at the time. It's beautiful to fall asleep next to someone, even if it's necessary this way... Thank you, Tom, you're the best!

Thank you for these amazing Asmr videos

Thank you Tom for making this fantastic video!

Thanks for the video, Tom! Gonna be a good night's rest. 💚

Social media is, sadly, very toxic. But it sucks you in and is addictive. I try to cut back. I do spend the last hour of my day with my headphones listening to your ASMR videos before heading to bed. I do that religiously every night.

Sadly its every chance I get but thanks for the advice im definitely going to work on spending less time on my devices, thanks for the vidoes they always help me relax n hit the hay, I use to drink tea to fall asleep but now it's your videos that KO me to sleep much appreciated Tom keep it up.

Am 29 yrs, and i never had a boyfriend... The more am watching ur vids the more it makes it hard to find someone like tom.. Not the tom who roleplays and stuff, but that kind of tom, who is just caring and listening and loving......

I've taken so many steps to break my phone addiction. It's still at 3h 45m. But that's with leaving yt running while I sleep. Things I've done: ~Deleted social media aps except YT ~Deactivated: Twitter, insta, snapchat, tiktok. And suspended Facebook so I can still use messenger. ~Set the yt app to open on my subscription page instead of explore (this makes a bigger difference than you'd think) ~Used an adblocker to block the YT explore page on my laptop ~Switched to a phone with an e-ink screen. (video and pictures suck but reading is way better)--this was extreme and not feasible for everyone.

Rambling story time Tom is the best Tom

I am a little late to this video, but I just wanted to say thank you!! On a more personal note, intimacy in this way is very foreign to me so I usually get spooked and skip to the next part etc. However, this video and your past videos in this setting make intimate moments like this feel less scary to me. You make me feel so comfortable and relaxed. Thank you again :)

This is a lovely video. I really enjoy this honest connection.

Warmer weather sounds nice. It’s -23 where I am in AK.

Hooray for sponsors! 💥🎉💥 Great vid as per usu ♥️

Always love these. 😌☺️🖤

Happy Birthday!

See this is what I do I will literally ramble till I fall asleep when I have someone sleeping with me

I love this video. The “just Tom” videos are the best. I love hearing and getting to know the real you, it’s very comforting and relaxing. I can relate to the phone issue, I’ve got rsi in my right arm from constantly being on it. 🫢 I could achieve so much more if I could just leave it! This video calmed my anxiety and it was lovely falling asleep with you. Maybe run an 8 hour video of you asleep? It was reassuring to see you still sleeping there when I’d open my eyes occasionally ❤

You should try a cabernet/merlot blend if you like red wine. My favorite is Luna Di Luna Red.

Please know how amazing and inspiring you are. I always look forward to your posts. I’m sending you all of the positive vibes… thanks for smiling :)

Great asmr and sounds🥰

This was so good!

I needed it, I needed a video of you. 🥰😴

Hi Tom. Thank you for another quiet and thoughtful video with you just being you. It's refreshing. I don't have social media myself. I tend to watch videos here to relax and or sleep. I really appreciate you and your honesty. It's going to be okay. And I really like your haircut. Big smiles and hugs💜

your haircut suits you Tom:) thanks for the video,i was doing my project for college and you were the nicest company:) hope youre going good!^^

The face touching parts are soooo tingly I keep replaying them

Just have to say hun, you have a gorgeous voice, I’m just realising that I must becoming a lover of asmr 💕. lol

I love your new haircut !

I’ve missed you and your voice! I’ve been watching re-runs ❤️ I hope you are doing ok in your personal life…..thanks welcome back. I recommend a song by Nat King Cole called “Smile” have a listen sometime. ❤️

Ok, what's an ice cream turtle? Like a sundae?

Great Video 🙂

I love reading comments that talk about stuff you talked about in the video knowing I’ll never know what it’s about because I fall asleep too fast lol

I hope you're doing okay! - I'm at 5 hours screen time right now, I got rid of Facebook off my phone and I definitely feel a lot better checking it once a day on my computer. I'm struggling to get rid of Instagram though, I use it to talk to my friends too much!

Do you ever offer private custom videos?

I call it "scrolling paralysis." I have experienced--I *do* experience this on a regular basis. When you're scrolling, and you know you're scrolling, and you know you need to get up and do something, you know you need to just ... put ... the phone down ... but somehow the idea of trading the one simple accomplishable action of scrolling and reading for a larger harder task such as managing life is paralyzing. For me, it comes from a deep dissatisfaction with my life and the inability to find what I can do to shove an actionable change through the doggy door of success. (Strange metaphor I know but it's the only thing I can come up with.) For every addiction there is a root cause. For my scrolling/social media addiction, it is dissatisfaction as I said. For anyone struggling with this I would recommend journaling (pen and paper ... even pencil nub and the back of a torn junk mail envelope) thoughts and feelings once you catch yourself scrolling for no good reason. For me the reason I've logged out of Facebook (my kryptonite) is that the highlights of peers' lives in my news feed only fuels envy which literally only hurts me. That's my deadly. Envy. And social media ... the lookbook of the season called life ... is like gasoline on that spark of evil. To answer your question Tom ... I don't know what my screen time is. It's bad enough I've never bothered to check. I think I'm legit afraid of the answer.

The help just came at the right time!

I wish your video had Persian subtitles :) because my English is weak and your video is really relaxing

OMG I love your haircut 😍

🇬🇧Thank you Tom. Angel blessings and love to you from England uk. X🇬🇧

Good wines are hard to find and steak and shake is good 😂 great things to dream about good night

But next time do a husband roleplay,I bet we all miss it 😹 I swear,I feel such so peaceful whenever I watch the one from the beginning of these roleplays like so much often

Heaven on earth , OMG 💞

I only have IG and Twitter. And that’s all. I deleted everything else. And yes, I do MISS the days where flip phones were it and nobody was obsessed with the digital age.

the new one！！❤️

We were waiting for your new video. This video was as enjoyable as the rest of your videos. Your sound is really good Tom💖😌

I’ve just put daily screen time limits on my apps! Let’s see how that goes. Not put them on RU-vid or Patreon of course 😂

I never wanted to be petted like that bed but now I do

I usually hate sponsored videos, but I’ve just ordered a Helix mattress. 🥴

Man i dont even remember falling asleep. Had to be within the first the minutes 😅🤣

0:31 It reminded me of the Simpsons opening.

3/4 hrs is typical for me. But most of the minutes are made up of me reading on my kindle app lol

You are sweet and amazing thank you for helping me with my lonlyness

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I mean mines 7 hrs… which is actually low for me 😂

Will Tom also be shipped with a Helix order? 😁😄😍

Thank you for your video interesting and fantastic... ciao da ITALIA 😘🇮🇹👍🔝🔝❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

My one and only asmr husband from the beginning 🥺💕

OMG, I just subbed to you the other day, and now theres a new vid.. Cant wait to sleep while listening to this and pretending to have a boyfriend. 😅😝

Hey my name is Mohammad i love your video but can u do a longer version of just breathing exercise n will calm ourselves together please?that's all i ever wanted buddy n thanks for your understanding

He got a haircut and I like this video when you are you hearing the Tim when don’t always hear

For me it was the “Beer Fear”, which in other words means that same ominously terrifying sensation you get the morning after a night of being totally shitfaced and suddenly deciding to exacerbate things by getting “Keyboard Happy” i.e. I would seldom operate on Social Media unless I was under the influence of some sort of chemical (alcohol). Cut a very long and sad story short I decided to deactivate all of my socials in late 2018 coz was I willing to put down the booze instead……..heck no.

"Don't tell me how to live my life I need a snacc"

Доброе утро я харашо выспалась❤❤ месте стабои

19:30

Даваи закриваи глаза и спи❤❤ добрыи ночы дарагои

♥️♥️♥️♥️

Relaxing Male ASMR: it's REALLY INTIMATE & RELAXING!

Jou are Just unique

I’m pretty sure you’re the perfect human being. I was seriously considering sliding into your dm’s but then you said you deleted everything lol. Seriously Tom you’re a gem! ❤️

there's a vein on your throat I can see moving after you close your eyes, pretty cool

Good morning my husband from Saudi Arabia ❤💋🫂💍

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Я судавольствием ❤❤я спать хочу ятибя люблю тибя в комнате где есть только один человек который меня любит больше всех мущин эта ты

This is my first time seeing one of your videos. Very nice bud. As far as the comments about laying there next to you...as a gay man I'm not saying anything 🤫

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My husband good morning from Saudi Arabia ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊

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