fall vlog 🕯️🍂 cozy productive day, fall makeup, dating chat, clothing haul 

Because you are a beautiful woman , MEN will try to humble you or “NEG” (backhanded compliment) since they know that in many instances your beauty is an asset that often HELPS you through life. So they are trying to bring you down a notch. You are doing nothing wrong . DON’T change . Your looks, upkeep & intelligence is also your BS filter. It’s keeping those miserable spirits away from you ❤❤❤ . Wish I knew this when I was younger 😅Much love .

‘You’re too high maintenance for me!’ Is code for ‘I can’t afford you.’ Continue to be authentically you! Rolls Royce never goes on sale. The price is the price. You don’t want a man that tries to bring you down. You want one who can assist in your elevation ❤

Girl it’s not you it’s them!!! They both were pissed that you were not giving them the time of day. Morning flirty ditsy…. Keep being intimidated because a strong man won’t mind it!!!!

You seemed so much more at peace in this vlog and I'm so happy for you! I loved everything in the Walmart haul.

Yay sponsored by Walmart okay!!🎉❤

Okay, but I REALLY enjoyed you chatting about dating bc everything you said it’s straight facts lol

Go sponsorship!! I’ve heard another pretty lady talking about guys trying to humble her immediately too, which is so corny. It’s bizarre behavior and people forgot they don’t have to say anything at all. Anywho, I hope you enjoyed your date!

Yay!!! I’m soo happy you are posting more often, I got so excited to see the notification that a new video is up. You look gorgeous as always honey! Also has anyone told you have a nice voice? like even when you laugh you sound good 😆

I think it's important to say that you're dating for marriage and entertaining anything else is a disservice to yourself. In the other hand I also think that society has bamboozled women to think that we have all the time in the world to find a husband. When in reality we're the ones with a biological clock. I don't think you're intimidating to men because a man who has it, will approach you..those that don't will say a sly remark.

Hi! Yay…… a sponsored video,congrats! Sabrina, when you least expect things in life - God will bless you! 🙏🏻💙

Bus driver looks at you...because you're pretty pretty 😍 💕 ✨️ 💖 💗 ☺️

Those men are just intimidated and haven't found themselves yet. What they are basically saying is that your ora is strong in self-love, you care about lookinggoodfor yourself, and you dont need a man but want a man. Girl, don't dim your light for anyone, let alone a young minded and insecure man. A real man....a man that's ready for you...he will know exactly how to approach and handle you. God has been working on him now, and he'll be in your presence soon.

Love the Walmart haul they definitely stepping up their game! And yaaayyyyy a sponsorship!!!!!!

Sweetie, it's called "negging." I came here to say this and the sistren are already here. DO NOT compromise your standards. Any time a man approaches you like that, it's an immediate no, he knows he does not and cannot deserve you, and is just looking for a way to knock you down emotionally so you'll allow him to sleep with you. KEEP YOUR STANDARDS AND EXPECTATIONS HIGH, YOU GOT THIS! ❤❤❤

Hi. Oh yeah. I wanted to wish you all the best on the new journey ahead and much blessings.

No hun, you seeming unapproachable weeds out the weirdos. A man who can appreciate and respect who you are is what you want anyway. If your appearance doesn’t intimidate them then they will learn who you are. Whatever is meant for you will be for you and nothing will deter that. For believers, whatever God commands can’t be undone by you or the man He has for you.

LA girlie here🙋🏽‍♀️ and I’ve given up😂

Sabrina! I wish u would've told us to grab a glass of wine 🍷 & some popcorn bc your "car chat" was so good & relatable! That guy's behavior (who bought u the drink) was the typical toxicity I've encountered & should"ve avoided. I think we are now able to spot them immediately because of all the red flags we've ignored in the past. They try to break us down to their level bc they dont believe they deserve us. I, too, gave up too much power to 1 guy when "dating" without giving him time to court me first. I forgot I had a choice to date several & not so quickly commit to just 1 person. Some guys want to rush. I hope u have more of these conversations in your videos bc i felt like this really resonated. ❤

High maintenance cuz u love yourself and put urself together in the morning with little earrings? Come on now they are boys!! Gives me the ick 😅

Are you still moving in w your parents?

Omg I loved the dating talk! These boys want to date MEN lol

To be honest, that’s why I never liked dating in bars. It’s hard to come across a genuine guy who has good intentions.

Aquarius 💜Love n the house…grl…im sitting here watching ur video CRACKING UP ABOUT DATING 🤣🤣🤣🤦🏻‍♀️I’m so OVER IT…I don’t understand it these days…I had a guy say this to me…U LOOK MEAN AS F@@K and u know us Aquarius’s mouth 🤣🤣…I said then Y THE F@@K R U TALKING TO ME🤷🏻‍♀️🤣🤣🤣🤣because REALLY…what kind of pick up line is that and what was I suppose to say to that…THANK U…like REALLY…grl keep doing U…GOD WILL BLESS US WHEN ITS RIGHT…Love yall Aquarius ♒️💜🥰😘

Sabrina, you have quickly become one of my favorite vloggers!!

After the last vlog I said sponsorships are about to pour in like crazy. There’s more where this came from. 🥂🙏🏾✨🙌🏽

You carry yourself with class and confidence!!! The right man will come across your way with the same energy eventually!!! Enjoy being alone and being free of ducks into your King come and finds you!😘

I loved the dating stories! More please 💞 also, they’re insecurities are showing & I feel like men who feel less than around a beautiful woman try to humble/tear down the woman that’s why insecure men are always a NO

The way you carry yourself only intimidates the wrong man. Keep doing you sis ❤️

New Yorker are very abrupt when they speak.

Loving your content so therapeutic to watch🥰 I'm in Pittsburgh PA and it's definitely fall here 😢 wish I lived somewhere warm year round!!

Come on sponsorship!!!!!!!!!! Love love everything. That white top is EVERYTHING!!!

HIIII LOVE ❤❤❤❤❤ we love to see the sponsors 🎉🫶🏼

Yay for the sponsorship 🥳🥳🥳 and I’m definitely supporting and ordering a few things! 🤸🏿🤸‍♂️🤸🏻‍♀️🥰

So happy you posted 😊 now I can work and not feel at work lol 😂

Ooooh sis it’s not an LA thing, it’s an ‘in the freaken water’ thing. #DecentralizingMen for me thank you- No body is messing with my piece 😌

Dating men is hell right now

The boots 😍

Every time I see you post a video. I am clicking before I blink an eye!

We got a sponsor! Yaaaaay 💃🏼💃🏼💃🏼💃🏼💃🏼💃🏼💃🏼💃🏼💃🏼

I think when you’re a powerful woman, men are intimidated by that. When I see your videos, i don’t find you intimidating because you radiate power and a higher energy. Like you radiate inspiration. It’s beautiful! I love surrounding myself with women who have that energy…& as someone who also prides themselves in having high standards, high goals and ambitions, men will often try to bring that down for real. It’s their own ego and insecurity. I knew my husband was the one when he was in awe by my power & not trying to bring me down. He was inspired by who I am as a woman. I’ve dated so many men who made me feel uncomfortable because I am successful, secure in myself, etc. there’s also such a bad stigma on women who are secure in themselves. I learned it’s a reflection of them & not you. You don’t come off intimidating at all! Honestly you radiate welcoming and warm energy. Those men are just insecure fr

Hey love! Maybe an idea to focus your videos on one theme. For example, “Walmart fall clothing haul”, “Updated fall make up routine”, etc etc. Your videos are so nice but sometimes really nice elements of your video get lost in the sauce or feel rushed. Girlies looking for Walmart clothing hauls probably wouldn’t find your video because of the wording in your titles doesn’t reflect that. Just some ideas🧡 Love your videos though!

Sabrina, the next time a man tells you you’re too high maintenance for them, you agree and say “yes, because I’M NOT FOR YOU!” 🙄 these dudes I swear. Girl there’s a reason our moms always tell us que “es mejor estar sola que mal acompañada”…never settle! In our culture it’s so easy to feel like “te va dejar el tren” but that’s not true! Your person will come but you can’t be with bobo when he shows up, so don’t settle lol. I met my now husband in my mid thirties, got married and we had our first baby last year at the age of 41 …not that I’m saying you’ll have to wait that long, but I tell you that so you don’t feel rushed in life. Trust me, it was hard watching my friends marry and start families, but your person is worth waiting for :) I got an education, travelled, dated, and lived my life so that I would be READY for my life partner when it was our time. If we’re lucky, this life is long and good things take time ❤ you will have lots of time to do all the things your heart desires.

Your fall videos just always hit! Such a vibe! 🤎🍂✨

Hey Girl Hey! You found some Gems but don’t sleep on Free Assembly. they have a sweater with a collar with three buttons on it. That material is everything it’s heavy like a Zara or Aritzia.

I think the comments from those men say a lot about how they feel about themselves and not you. Any time someone says “you think you’re xyz” it is really what they think and says a lot about how they feel about themselves. It comes from a place of insecurity and them deflecting those feelings onto someone else. I agree just keep it pushing and leave women alone if you don’t feel like you’re good enough for her. Keep being you. The right man will love you for you and will not expect you to be less of yourself to make him feel better about himself. ❤

Okay I have to say something , first of all looove you , , and I feel your energy most of us here do that’s what we are here , before I got married this year to my Norwegian husband , I also went through that dating scene , but am from kenya 🇰🇪 so I quicky realized Kenyan scene is not mine , so I did not even waste my sweat , I tried dating American black men, and yooooy 😅the ego, chileeeeee ,they kept saying the American black woman is high maintenance so I should not be like them , and I remember thinking that is a red flag , first of all don’t put other women down just because you can’t reach , 2. Am Kenyan but I work and I drive and I have a good life so what ,,,!!!am Supposed to lower my style for you , bro sit down , and that was almost all Of em , that I talked too , 😅they made me feel like they are the price and I am to attain them , thank God am too stubborn for that BS, and I would tell them Straight up what I think of them and chile 😂 I would be blocked , All am saying Marie ,it’s not you , don’t ever down play or explain the type of earrings you were wearing , you wear whatever you like baby gal and keep looking good for you , the one for you will like that , and appreciate that , what is high maintenance to some dusty , will be seen as how you value yourself to the right guy , 🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪Kenya loves you don’t hesitate to date outside USA , you may just be surprised 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 keep winning , am here for all of us women who love love and don’t settle for less

I love the jazz and soft background music in your videos it gives Love Jones vibes or 90s era. ❤

I love the chat about your dating life unfortunately most men are not mature enough to handle a real woman who has standards, and is truly doing well for herself. They are often used to a certain level of interaction that doesn't require much effort from them. When they try to approach a woman who is beautiful, intelligent, and takes good care of herself as if that is a crime!! They want to label you high maintenance, or assume that you think you are too good for them. Um yes as a matter of fact I am too good for you if you think you can speak to me in any kind of way. Kick rocks scrub!! Lol. You deserve a real MAN emphasis on man! Who will not be intimidated by you but appreciate all you have to offer, and love, and celebrate you. Don't water down who you are, or feel like you have to appear, or act a certain way for the ones who are too blind, and immature to know what a real woman looks like their loss not yours. The man that deserves you will truly deserve you anybody else is a waste of your time!! Sending love, and prayers for that MAN for you. ❤🙏🏼

All of the items you selected were SUPER cute but that caramel colored puff vest is 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

Well.. it’s currently 5am here in Vegas and now I’m waiting for Walmart to open 😅 SOLD SOLD SOLD!!

The Walmart haul is everything ❤ you picked great pieces. Shopping now. Also what kind of genesis suv do you have? I’m looking at them for my next purchase

I love love to hear women’s dating experiences. Or just women’s life experiences, makes me feel like we are friends chatting/chismiando.😊

Girl, you are a very naturally beautiful woman and you carry yourself in a way that exudes class and confidence and your always put together so nicely! You’re going to attract a high value man, keep being you. You have a beautiful spirit and energy about you❤

YES to the Walmart sponsorship! keep that beautiful apartment that you worked so hard to decorate. Love to see you continue to win and have your prayers answered

Girl congratulations to you ! You look great you look so youthful and glowing ! Keep doing you girl you’re amazing and gorgeous. You are goalssss

Can you link where you purchased the Brown and Black ( in the frames on your kitchen counter) Please and Thank you 🤎🖤

Those guys that approached you were definitely insecure and it shows. Don’t pay them any mind, there is nothing wrong with you or how you carry yourself.

Bravo!!! more women need to hear this 💞 Empowering! Women don't need to settle!!

Loved this video! Happy to see the sponsorship, blessings are coming your way 🫶🏽

Do not dim your light, my girl. That bright light you give off will attract the man God has for you.💙🇨🇦

I snatched that bodysuit so quick! 😅their quality items go so fast. The boots are completely sold out😢

I just got divorced at 30 years old…the thought of dating scares me. God got us though ladies ❤️

Idk we gotta text someone we know when a guy sends a drink through the bartender in these Diddy times lol

I've been told that some men assume that sex is also involved when it comes to dating and that is apart of their issue with women who date multiple men.

If someone ever said you’re too high maintenance I would reply with “so why are you here?

Thank you for sharing with us those unreal in another video love love love

I love that you updated us on your dating experience…hoping to hear more stories as you continue!

I was born and raised in Long Beach. And giiiirl. Dating in LA is GHETTO 🤣

What bra are you using with the white off shoulder top????

Hi Sabrina!! Love your content!! What camera do you use?

“Yes I’m high maintenance sir, go away, scraaaam” 😂😂

I’m in Miami, and there’s definitely piss in the dating pool!

Hello ✨sponsorship✨!!!! Happy for you 🩷

Find a husband at church. Someone who follows the word of God. ❤

Loved this vlog ❤🎉

❤❤ I love your channel! I do look forward to your videos!

“The silence and the stillness” took me out 🤣🤣🤣

Heyy girl ❤

Where did you get your rug where you did your try on?

Love your mini cross necklace where is it from?

Hey Marie Jay

Come through sponsorship 👏 👏 👏

“Includes paid promotion” period

Blew drivers mind girl!!! 😂😂❤

I love love this girl here. She keeps it real

loved this cozy vlog ❤

Love your content. ❤

Such a great vlog ❤

Love the video 👍😃

Happy for you

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On my way to Walmart today after work to pick up some of them pieces. Those tops are soooo cute. Thank you for sharing.

I've never understood men who feel the need to backhand compliment /insult, insinuate my maintenance, give something with expectations of getting something (am I a fish you catch with bait sir? lol) - like are your dating skills so bad that you are trying these tactics. But also, who did this work on that made you think it was okay to approach a woman like this lol.

do you still self tan? Cause girl the bronze is bronzing and it has been for a while 😮‍💨

🎉🎉🎉congratulations on the sponsorship I really enjoyed this vlog it was short & sweet left me wanting more! Girl you are classy, successful, beautiful and well spoken you will NEVER be “too much” for the RIGHT man. ❤

That's why people should not judge a book by its cover! There have been many men I judged before getting to know them and I'm like na he's too good for me. So I think it works the same way with men like 'na she's too good for me" cause you do look like a woman with her shit together so maybe that intimidates them. Their loss honey! If a man is willing to get to know you they will.

Sounding alot like Atlanta when it comes to dating 🥲

Yay to another video! That Trader Joe’s pumpkin brew with califas coconut milk and some coconut creamer is chefs kiss 💋

The link for denim dress is not working. I can't find it on Walmart website. Do u hv the name is it Scoop or Free Assembly? 🤔

Yay new video! Good for you for actually dating properly. That’s how it’s supposed to be done.