#FamilySecrets 

The grandma knew what her husband was and she was trying to protect her girls as best she could without speaking bad about the family because it sounds like he’s touched all his daughters in someway, probably which indicated that she had to kind of speed up her daughters at the house, but it was too late for the fourth child, the baby of the family as they say because it obviously went too far if she actually has a child, which is proof that he did more than touch add Jubilee some of the other children might’ve known what their daddy was but they didn’t know how to deal with him. It’s actually a wonder they didn’t give away her granddaughter. Just to make sure he didn’t screw up with the third generation basically Just to protect her as best they could, but I am glad to hear that apparently he didn’t do what he did to his other children

Wth

Sad

She failed her family! Her job was to get rid of him not the children.

Yeah she should have left after the first incident!!

Exactly drove her out her mind

I was thinking the same. I pray for her healing.❤️‍🩹😢…heartbreaking part is the grandmother not helping her daughter/believing her & thought it was best for her child to be in a mental institution over her husband. 😣…that man actions effected & affected so many lives in his family it’s terrible.

I had my daughter at 16. That in itself being a teen mother is traumatic! I’m still blown away that I have a 16 year old I CANNOT begin to imagine the pain this young girl went through. The isolation, the shame, the blame, the guilt, the embarrassment, my heart and soul goes out to her. I am so so sorry no one protected her.

Right

@@alexajay6896 Can I ask you an honest question? How was it traumatic, when you knew what would happen by having unprotected sex? Why are people so shocked when they get pregnant??

And hold em accountable

@@amitlegare7 We must tell ourselves the truth about these matters. In those days women were property. They didn't work, couldn't open a bank account without a man's permission & so much more. Her grandma handled the situation the same way it was handled when her own offenses came. There was no "Me too" movement to protect her. She did as she was told for her own survival. A woman in those days with eight kids and no means was gonna go where? I'm glad this woman gets to do the healing her grandma wasn't provided the privilege of doing. Her grandma's voice and discrepancies in life never mattered. So she must do the healing for herself, her ancestors and her future lineage.

@@TEmily-ug7viall of this

Everyday sadly, my vessel's son is a molester and she did not believe me... found out later he molested 5 others in our family.. she still has a relationship with the molester but not me... its OK though, I am better off ❤

That's the curse. . protecting "the family name" over children's innocence and safety. Exposure to sunlight disinfects

That behavior sounds like how the church handles child sex abuse.

@@2024Betterthanever what the hell is wrong with people. No sense of value or morals about themselves. That behavior is so disgusting and I’m glad you got away from that bs !

@@jassn6957 Thank You ❤️ We are Blessed!

Contrilla Jones

Yep! Sure do.

Exactly

You are not wrong!

Your comment reminded me of this movie that's on tubi called father may I

Many of us

MOST Black Women’s Inheritance Has ONLY BEEN: Tears, Pain and TRAUMA! Ask me HOW I Know… 💯🙋🏾‍♀️🗣️ #ButGOD

God Bless 🙏🏽 those families that has had to go through this ugly behavior. The monsters that had done these evil desires souls will never rest in peace. Amen

😢

​@NikkiaSings Yes. 😢

For telling THE TRUTH !!

Gaslighting at its best! The more you tell the truth, the more of a threat you are to them.

Exactly

Exactly

It's so heartbreaking 😔😔😔

My goodness. Bless her, her mom and family.

😲😟😩😡...HELL NAWL 😡 SHE ❤️ DIDN'T DESERVE ANY OF THAT...😡

So sick 😢

She probably relied on him for financial support, so she tolerated it.Additionally, as you said, grandma was covering her husband.

Seems like she married them off because she knew he was a sick man plus dependent on him

Right

Yep... nasty

Exactly but that’s what they teach us

The book is out it’s titled The Lies They Told $25.99

@@Tamzbongeaux thank you 🙏🏾

thank you!

Just purchased my copy

@@weensiegirl186 where I have been trying to find it, please advise. we have so much in comment it so sad.

You took the words, RIGHT OUT OF, MY MOUTH. She is BEAUTIFUL. And I didn't even, listen to her STORY!!!

@verajones9158 I don't think she realizes how beautiful she is! Thank God.she is in her right mind... she was given beauty for ashes.❤️

Beautiful Woman… Indeed!!! Blessings to you Ms. Trina

Aww thank you so much I truly appreciate all the kind and encouraging comments 🙏🏼❤️❤️

@TrinaDorsey-yu9un My pleasure... I give credit where credit is due. You are truly a 👸🏾Queen... I am glad that you still have a voice... keeping doing what you do🙌 MUCH LOVE ❤️

That is so true, I noticed my friend mom, mother did the same with her girls n left the boys with the father in the 60s and come to find out cuz he was r@ping the daughters, but sadly the brothers in the 90's was messing with the nieces the sisters had, n that's wen all the shyte hour the fan n came out

YES.

Thissssssss! Most definitely she knew.

And I’m sure grandma knew who he was before she married him 😢

​@@miyahbabymiyahbaby8811How would the grand mother had known he was a s*xual predator? She probably married him for his good name thinking that equal good man.

@melodyshari

What is the benefit of a movie?

@@moniquehamilton5195 A movie would reach more people & might help others speak their truth and end these generational curses of abuse.

There's a lot of Trina's still standing.

@@user-sm9oz5tm1h True

I think her presence reminds them of their trauma they endured with the dad. It's so unfortunate.

Exactly…I’d bet any amount of money that 2 of my cousins are the children of one of my grandmothers husband

Yep. Or when you doing family research/ Ancestry. Family go mute when giving info.

Very true it comes from fear to. Not speaking on family situations was taught to not go outside the house

Happened in my family. Heartbreaking

Amen!

YES.

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Her mother life was loss and they just tossed her in the trash 😢. Then the baby she had didn’t really want anything to do with her out of embarrassment. Her mom got no love at all. I wish she took ahold of her mother to help her heal and take her home.

@@BeautyInYOU583wow I’m in tears😭

Yes. 100%

I agree with what you're saying but its clearly both men and women. Some women are definitely enabling these monsters for selfish reasons.

This is rampant in EVERY community, not just one community

🙏🏾

Mine as well, so sad…

Many Of US carry the SAME SCARS with ZERO apologies!

I'm so glad you used the word common and not normal. I work with parents, youth and families that have experienced generational trauma and they, and even some other service providers say "this is normal". NO. This is NOT normal, it is COMMON, meaning it happens often. Normal means something that happens that is common AND healthy. They are NOT the same lol. So thank you for your word choice ❤ Not trying to be word police, but words used are important ❤

Same. Happened in my family. They protected my grandfather which was sick.

Oh wow 😮😮😮

I wondered the samething. Is the Father someone who was in the institution with her? I hope this is all answered in her book cuz I ordered it.

The aunt was an inlaw. Spouses talk. I know my husband's family secrets as he knows mines. There are things my nieces & nephew's don't know that I know.

At the 6:24 mark she starts to talk about when her aunt told her that her grandfather was her dad. She asked grandma and she denied it. Then finally, the man that they said was her father. He took a DNA test and he wasn’t her father, another red flag 🚩. Then her mom wind up having a baby and blood had to get drawn and that’s how they found out the match was the grandfather with her.

So the grandfather pregnated her mother twice, maybe during home visits, The grandmother knew what was going on. How sad is this story her mother had to go through life being raped by her father and she's the one who gets put in a mental institution no one helped her mother they failed her

EXACTLY!!!!!! THANKS FOR MAKING THIS COMMENT!❤

Baby, this shit is gross and her grandma was trash 🗑️

It is wonderful to stay together for years. Not all grandmothers sweep things under the rug! Why when something happens, black people are so quick to try to confirm their assumptions? Smh

That's not everyone's story. We had strong families. But sadly there were also stories like Trina.

You are so right! There were horrible, horrible secrets that destroyed many young children who were left to grow up broken to undue trauma they never deserved

She drunk ensure

Yes amen in Jesus Christ mighty name🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

Amen

God bless you.

Jesus

😢😲

I would’ve been locked up

The kids from incest, need to marry another ethnic group

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Same 🙋🏾‍♀️ #BlackSheep #Scapegoat #ChosenOne ✨👑✨

Keep it black then!! I would be the black sheep and stand in it for my peace of mind and mentalhealth.. If your family knows of this wrong doing and mad at you for standing g up for yourself, you don't need none of them. Bless you 🙏🏾🙏🏾

Lock they azz up they are wicked and dumb for always trying to hide them dark secrets

Nope they wanted to shut her up. She was perfectly fine mentally. They wanted to hide what they did to her unfortunately

@@krystingrant6292 If you truly think someone can be repeatedly raped by their father, and then impregnated by their father, carry a baby by their father to full-term, give birth to a baby by their father, and could end up "perfectly fine", then have at it.

You don't realize how common incest is because it is taboo subject

@@julieproctor6039 actually I do know that it's really common

It happened in my family

@@user-sm8hh9cn6u Mine too. It was said that my uncle had fooled around with my female cousins, which was his own daughters. We lived with my aunt and uncle when I was 12. My mother had already warned me about how he was. At 13 years old my uncle tried to kiss me and touched one of my breast. I quickly pushed his hand away and then he slapped my face. 😢 I was hurt because up until then I'd never seen thst side of him and thought that he must care enough about me not to try me like that. I immediately went to tell my mother. She was very upset about it, but she didn't make much of a fuss because we lived with my Aunt and uncle. We moved out into our own place not long from then because I remember that I was still 13 when we moved. My big cousin whom I loved so dearly had two sons and she would be at my aunt's house during the day and would ask her father, my uncle to give her a ride home during the early evening. I used to wonder why she didn't just want to stay longer. One day he was gonna take her home, she asked me if I'd ride with them to take her and her children home. Ofcourse I said yes because I loved my big cuz! On the way back from dropping her and her children off my uncle said to me that he could be my boyfriend and that he could buy me school clothes and nobody else would have to know about it. After saying that to 13 year old me, he reached out to touch my chest and I smacked his hand away and I told him to stop it! I said your married to my Auntie, you can't have a girlfriend, and I'm 13, I can't have a boyfriend! He got upset because I refused to let him touch me. I couldn't wait to get back and tell my mother. I told my mom this time and she told her friend whom I referred to as my play momma Helen. Ms Helen knew about everything dealing with my uncle and she vowed to converse with him the very next time he came to our apartment. When he came by there one day she asked if she could speak with him. My mother was in momma Helen's apartment as well when my uncle was present. Momma Helen got straight to the business of straightening him out and she told him if you Ever touch her again your gonna have to answer to me and then she slapped his face! My mother was there to witness it all. He never tried that anymore with me after that, but I would always see him staring at other women and young girls like a hungry wolf! In spite of everything I still loved my uncle because he did help me a lot by driving my mother to take care of some things and then getting me to important places after I had a daughter. I always loved to be at their house because my Auntie was so funny, and she had rules and structure in her house, and also food which wasn't something that we always had at our place. 😔 My uncle had been in the Army and he had mental health issues with that and he'd frequently stop taking his medication and go off on my aunt and had to be put into the V.A. hospital. When he took his meds he was fun to be around and we would just laugh and talk to one another all night and day.

It happened to me 🙋🏾‍♀️ from the age of eight!

@@NikkiaSings Bless your heart. I was almost r at the age if 13 when I took a ride from an adult male. He forced me to perform o on him. And I'm telling my story in order to help others. This isn't my shame to bear. I was 13 years old and didn't know what I was supposed to do. He came to his senses and stopped. My face was filled with tears 😢. He apologized and took me home. He could have deleted me and r me too! It was god alone who protected me. I know that it was. For you my dear, set the eight year old in you free from any hurt or shame for what you endured. I can't imagine how hurt you feel about it, however it's my wish for you to not be a victim but a Victor! Amen? Amen! ❤️ Live your life with happiness 😊

I agree. #Gullah #Geechee people sound very similar to those from the New Orleans area ❤

@ peyton3348, I was wondering the same thing. Trina’s grandparents were something else. This is truly sad! 😔

It’s all nationalities not just the “African American” Community…. Simple research would tell the tales. It is disgraceful I agree with you, but it doesn’t mean one nationality has this issue more than others… It is just one nationality that is sick of holding this in that is speaking out more.

It amazes me that the grandfather/father was known for touching the females in the family. Like why would they even keep coming around one another. All theses people knew but no one called the police even one time, or child protection services.

@@ajanetarver6374I’m pretty sure that’s already known….it’s okay for comments to speak to just the Black community sometimes….🤷🏾‍♀️ This shouldn’t bother you. It’s not hard to stay on topic here.

I’m proud of you for speaking your truth

I would like to read it

❤❤ will buy I can't wait I to was molested by my step father from the age of 4-8 he told me if I ever tell my mom he would kill me and my mom I finally told my mom she confronted him and he beat her so bad that she had trauma to her head which caused her to be in a mental state of mind szophernia my grandparents took me and my 2brothers and 2 sisters in where we all endured mental, physical and emotional abuse later after I became an adult I confronted my grandmother who was the abuser towards us along with 2 of our aunts she said she was so mad that her beautiful daughter went through what she did and was mad at me bc I told my mom what happened 😭😭💔 and growing up that's what I always thought why my grandmother treated me and my siblings the way she did

@@roseleestrout297 Gm, I am sorry . Unfortunately, the abusers use all kinda of tactics to not be discovered. I am glad you'll made it out of it alright . I pray whatever unhealed wounds you and all your sibiling may have left that God removes them. God bless Yah.

And when Blkgirls speak and complain they’re shouted at to be quiet and stop ‘lying’ when in fact the girls are hurting and telling THE TRUTH !!

Yep they both did and both should be held accountable

No mistaking our NOLA Accent ⚜️

You are so right. My mother always told me this and it saved my life. And I tell my God children all the time and thankfully they tell me EVERYTHING even things they probably shouldn't. It is so important that children know they have an adult they can trust and feel protected with.

Once a predator is always a predator.

I believe he touched her as well but she has blocked it out now that’s just my opinion

This story reminds me of the book "A Child of God" by Lolita Files..

@@brilasblog714 Interesting. Never heard of it. Added that book to my Amazon list. Tfs❤️

And the fact that her mother is still alive and nobody in the family has atoned for what happened to her means that the curse will remain on the family. This is the most wicked story I’ve ever heard.

What happened to your brother

Wow 🥺

In all walks of life.😢

It happens in all races and it's really a shame that it's covered up

@@bettieharris3999I came here to say that.

I totally agree no disrespect towards her but I feel it could have been a little more compassionate.

WAS THINKING THE SAME THING

@@thetropicalredladya.k.atam7960 wow so I'm not the only one

🎯

Ty so much I’m so greatful for all this love and support I really appreciate it

Yes 🙌🏽

Aww ty so much 🙏🏼🥰

Not only beautiful but also quite intelligent and well spoken.