Seriously getting married young is a really common thing in the south. I can’t tell you how many weddings I’ve been to that were dry, not for religious reasons, but because the bride and groom weren’t old enough to drink 😂
Hahaha this sounds so crazy! Dont get how they dont themselves cringe a bit at doing a full wedding like that. Is it because u dont do sex before marriage?? (I live in a country where people can drink at 16 and usually dont get married at all, or marry at 30 years old)
@@kiraanastasiaandersen1145 Many people are forced into guilt if they have sex before marriage if they are religious. Basically a "you did it before? you whore" type thing for religions. I honestly, as a southerner, don't get it. It's why I don't have a religion, they can be toxic here.
@@anastasiao4036 the part of Ireland I'm from is the same. Its not like its a hard cut rule but in certain circles it would definitely be scandalous if you were to be sexually active before marriage. I think about 5 or 6 people I went to high school with are married now, and I'm 22. Another dozen or so are engaged. My best friend is getting married soon and had previous partners but her fiancé didn't, which raised eyebrows with some folks. Its so silly, but here we are 🙄 thankfully your country and mine have a decent variation in attitudes so its not like everyone is judgy.
@@5slistenup.a10isspeaking2It looks slightly like a fake, minimalistic take on ,"Boro" imo. The cut looks a lot like the zero waste shirt patterns. Literally just rectangles so you use all of the fabric. If you sew it would be relatively easy. Zoe Hong has some vids on Boro if you're interested.
That's like when they expect all women to be good with doing hair and stuff. I don't know what secret women's classes I was supposed to attend but I clearly failed. 🤣
"And I'm just saying,,,, as a Good Gay CatholicTM ,,, I never met anybody that was incredibly chic..." lmaoo i really felt that It really DO be like that
The pink in the second video is FAR TOO MUCH, these bridesmaids will not be able to rewear the dresses ever and the wedding photos will look far too busy
That one tall, slim blond bridesmaid made all the dresses look good - I could see her wearing hers again. The pink looked terrible on the second girl, great on the first.
They said at the beginning, the dresses will all be champagne or ivory. The pink is just to try on for the style. It's a sample dress that also comes in champagne but they don't stock every dress in every color and every size in the shop.
To clear up also any potential confusion, the reason why the bridesmaids modeling the dresses aren't wearing the color the bride ask for is because those are sample dresses. Once the style is chosen, the color and sizes are then ordered. It took me a few episodes to realize that
....the first bride.....I used to kill time in mass judging people for wearing wedged flip flops, embroidered capri jeans, and hairstyles stuck in the 80s. Going to church is truly what instigated my interest in fashion lmaooo
When I saw that front plead I was immediately like "it looks like V". And then Luke pauses and says it out loud and I couldn't stop laughing. In creme it's gonna be even worse. Or any other skin-similar colour.
Something to keep in mind is stores typically have samples of a particular style in just a few or sometimes only one color but they can be ordered in many colors. So just because the sample is white doesn't mean the final dress will be. Also they only carry a few sizes so like wedding dresses the final fit will be different. The first girl in the blue was probably in a dress that was to small
I chose long dresses for my matrons of honor (no bridesmaids) with the idea that the dresses fit their coloring and body types. The dresses were picked so they would look good cut shorter. Each of them had seamstresses who made the dresses from patterns. They enjoyed having the fit exactly tailored for them in colors that played off the flower colors.
“If that’s what they want to do, who am I to judge?” in the hautelemode judgey diction and delivery we all know and love. I hear what you didn’t say loud and clear. And same. 😂
As a gay man, um did those two men play a game of Marco Polo in the dark to dress themselves. Nothing matches and they have the audacity to criticize others...
"I wouldn't do this to my worst enemy." What I initially thought when I was younger: "Oh, they're calling you as bad as their worst enemy." When I put more thought into it: "They think that doing that is so horrible, they wouldn't even do it to the person they hated the most in the world so it's actually them recognizing humanity in horrible people."
At the beginning I legit thought she said "we have intentionally kept a cry-centered relationship" and I was all "wha? Well if you guys are cry babies then whatevs." But she actually said Christ-centred. She can't enunciate for shit. And so then i was all "oh ffs."
Best bridesmaid dresses I ever saw were all custom designs and fitted to each bridesmaid. One bride did long slightly flowy skirts with simple and elegant blouses. They just looked like tasteful party outfits that the bridesmaids loved. The bride insisted on paying for the dresses.
Most bridesmaids don’t wear white you are correct! Lol bridesmaids typically try on the dress size and style that’s in store, and then order the correct color and size for each person
but i will say i did kind of the same thing with my girls where they all had the same color, length and slit but could pick a different bodice style that suits them the best
i have to say, i love bridesmaids /moh in white. it think its more traditional in europe (or at least some parts of it) because we dont have bridesmaids just moh and those were traditionally dressed completely as a bride (same dress + veil), so now that is popular for brides to wear white, it follows.
Prob because it was contrived? When standing she had to awkwardly jut her leg out to make the look everyone remembered. Had she simply stood at the mic naturally the impression made wouldn't have been as noteworthy.
... she was getting married at 21?! Like. ... when was this a thing? I don't?? I'll say this: I have not heard of this happening in the south for the last... many decades. Not where I am, at least. Is this different in other places? I must know. Edit: Yes, I wrote this comment literally after hearing her age. I'm watching more and I love this dude like. Awesome.
as a good catholic girl i also went to churchh every sunday until i was 16.i went to a lot of different churches (my mom is busy so we’d go based on mass time) and my fav churchces were the one connected to my elementary school (but it got traumatic cuz 1 time my ex fb was the alter boy and 3 of my other fbs & 1 crush came up to me AT THE SAME TIME after mass) but the other was the one in the semi boujee area near my house and i liked looking at all the rich white ladies dressing like british people at that horse race thingy!!
I hate how when the bride doesn't like the dress or likes it and wants the bridesmaid to wear it, in this show it is shown as her being a bridezilla and a mean girl. Like, sometimes it is true, but in the situation with the "mean girl" telling the bridesmaids she wants long dresses and choosing a dress for them, that isn't be a bridezilla, that's her knowing what she wants for HER wedding. It isn't their wedding, its HERS.
A photographer told me it is best to have all of the dresses in the same length so it will look cohesive and not be a distraction in photos. Seeing all the different lengths proved them right!
tbh i think it's just that the other girl was taller, and so it reached a different part of her torso. of course it's going to look different on different body types, but i dont think the confusion had anything to do with her weight
Personally for me I think the first girl had a slightly bigger stomach (at least it LOOKED like it). Or at least the pinched fabric made her stomach look bigger than the second girls
My high school has a senior skirt that had a pleat in the middle and I hated it because because I thought it looked like an arrow pointing to your vagina. Luckily the senior skirt was optional so I did not buy it and just continued wearing my junior skirt. I have no idea who designed my school’s uniform but literally every piece was terrible and they should get fired. They have no business designing uniforms. And this is coming from someone who loves school uniforms.
I’m getting married in 2022, and my theme is Harry Potter! The plan is that both groomsmen and bridesmaids are going to wear their house color! I’m super excited about it 🥰
That would be horrible for me lol, I look absolutely terrible in yellow 😂 would probably lie so I could wear blue instead, I'm only a liiittle bit more Hufflepuff than Ravenclaw anyway hahaha
The first bride acting like Church changed her life.....where for me the church made me realize how many homophobes were in the congregation that were (ironically) in miserable marriages
I honestly just gave my bridesmaids a list of colors they could choose from, told them to add silver accents and let them off on their own. Turned out just fine. Plus, I really, REALLY, hate any kind of symmetry.
I think if you want your bridesmaids to wear something that you know they will never wear again or that is over their budget than you better pay for the dresses. I don’t think it’s cool to force your friends to buy something they can’t afford that they will then never wear again. Also no one is supposed to be looking at the bridesmaids anyways lol so get them something timeless, inexpensive and flattering to all sizes and shapes. I can’t even remember any of the dresses the bridesmaids wore at wedding I’ve attended aside for the colour but that’s just the theme.
“Unfortunately, in my experience as a good gay Catholic, I never met anybody who was incredibly chic, but I’m hoping Jesus is guiding…” 🤣 this whole riff should be a Netflix standup special… or a Ted talk.
If I ever got married, I'll be sure as hell that my bridesmaids will be wearing the best thing for em. Don't care if it overpowers the wedding dress. Also, when I saw the 1sr bride, the 1st thing that came to mind was "why does she look like regina george but tanned?" And then she said she was the biggest mean girl lmao.
i KNOW. its killing me to just look at them. especially the girl who kept wearing strapless dresses. if she just STOOD UP STRAIGHT SHE WOULD LOOK AMAZING BUT NOOOOOO ladjflsdkjflsdkj ughhhh
Its hard to stand up straight when you already don't feel comfortable. When you feel confident with what you're wearing you stand up straighter. They probably say themselves in the dressing room and already hated it
Luke in this video you are look like the white lady at the textile art studio who is always eating Activia and wears a different pair of glasses every time you see her. You assume she is a lesbian until one day she mentions her husband and you're like "wait what?" You find some old college pics of her with dreads on facebook and you're like "yikes yikes yikes". But still you enjoy her jokes and she is always willing to give you advice on dying techniques.
PFT I literally had a textile design professor who checked off every single one of these boxes. Except instead of dreadlocks she was slightly too obsessed with Japan. A weeb before weebs. Really amazing artist though
I don't even think the bride was mean, when you sign up to be bridesmaid you need to be open and they were being kinda difficult. Seems like she's just found some other slightly-less mean girls haha.
CrashHarmony Roberson ikr. I was a bridesmaid for my sister last year and the color scheme was maroon and gold. I don’t really look good in warm tones but the day wasn’t about me, so I shut the fuck up and wore what she asked me to.
@@PrincessSixThirteen I LOVE black taffeta -- bought a frilly vintage dress from a thrift store, strapless. Cut off all the frills & had a great deconstructed look for Halloween.
When I got married I told my bridesmaids the budget (I paid) and the colour/s, they knew the venue and the kinda vibe - then they just talked amongst themselves and picked something. I could have vetoed the choice if I wanted but didn’t need to. I wanted them to look good. Give people a clear brief and you’re fine! Marriage didn’t last but friendships stronger than ever.
Vary much so. And of course her snappy bitchiness came out when the heavier/curvier girl spoke up. I hate dealing with people who use their privileges in such a disgusting manner. They know they are doing it and fully intended to do so; having such behavior backed up by the peanut gallery makes the exchange even worse.
Yeah like it's definitely high risk high reward. Cause your young with less life experiences and it might end badly, but if it goes well your with the love of your life for so much more time
@@araaraurydice I always hope for the best. Just not many of my friends married before 30 stayed married. Very sad. My parents were married at 22 and are still married, but it was no fairy tale.
@@foxycinnamon7307 I get it, I understand marriage struggles. My parents didn't have a happy one, mother got married at 21 to a 50 year old then had me.
