Fashion Doesn't Get You Women (Tinder Edition) 

What was your experience with dating apps and profiles should I make for the next "vs" video?

When you dress average you attract average people so you get more matches, but from personal experience I can say that dressing in your style is way better for attracting women that you will actually like and get along with.

try not wearing any clothes on tinder

Every girl you asked couldn’t look more lesbian

I dont want women I just wanna be hot :(

“You can never be overdressed or overeducated.” ― Oscar Wilde

The interviews were on how to get STRICTLY bisexual women

Fashion getting you woman is like a bell curve

“I’m not like other avant-guys”

This man got matches, getting matches in general is unheard of.

Feeling like a old FIlthy Frank video idk why

Fashion should not seek external validation but rather inner enlightenment, a canvas for self-expression. It reflects our true selves, guiding us towards authenticity and self-awareness. Using fashion solely for women validation leads to a false self-image. Be true to yourself.

Bro does have a crazy face shape, jaw specifically, but the more I look at him the more I like the way he looks. Bros pretty

FINALLY IVE BEEN EDGING SINCE UR LAST VIDEO IM BUSSSSING

Sick leather jacket bro. I agree with the sentiment of the video, but I wish you went a little deeper into the assumptions people make when they see something they perceive is fashionable vs the pretentious level of yohji users fashionable (which I mean in the nicest way possible.) I think when the female gaze was discussed earlier it really hinted towards a lot of it is people making up personalities of people based on how they dress. Which is a huge problem for men as well ie: "I want a goth gf" cause they're assuming personalities based on their fashion.

From Personal experience I've noticed that whenever wear more simple but "put together " I get much more compliments in public However when wearing my more "alternative " Nobody says anything. Suprising from older folks aswell

what if I only date cyborgs

Honestly, great video. I also had experience similar to yours: when growing up, at the age of 12 I got depressed for some reason and now when I'm almost 19, I think that I did to myself on purpose to fit in the western trend, because during those times depression was sort of cool. BUT I AM FROM EASTERN EUROPE. This is quite important because the youth from there tends to copy the western trends but they were doing it with a big delay. Thus, I was one of the first people to jump on a western trend. On one hand, it was great because you are a pioneer, but on the other hand you continue to be alone and misunderstood for a long time. Moreover, as soon as people started getting on the trend, there was a new one to shift to and I did so once again triggering this cycle of things and same shit happened with fashion (and many other things too). I went from palletable to avant-garde to personal style, and throughout this process I was getting no recognition on time whatsoever. I am glad that I am on the last stage of fashion - personal style (unless the next thing is the human uniform), where I can just wait for everyone to catch on and be finally a 'normie'. Now I realize the meaning of 'rebel can also seek for acceptance', that's what dandies do. This is why I hate the majority, trends, the west and individualism, which brings you to the edge. I am tired of being 'special', but I know I can't go back anymore, because I feel authentic now. If you can get of the fashion cycle, do it now, just stop, don't get deeper. It is transcendental in terms of art, it is just a trap of individualism. Have a great life

Great video, I have noticed I'm a lot more approachable dressed in my athletic clothes or something casual compared to where im wearing a full yohji fit. As for dating apps I always tried to only match with people who had common interest not just looks, the conversations goes way better that way.

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Dude, this video was amazing! absolute cinema

Lots of good takes on this video, wanted to comment on a lot of them, but liked this new style of video. Still fashion related, IRL and interwebs

''Priests don't get women'' me loling in my very catholic country

Didn't this guy make a video that went something like "it's not your clothes, it's your body"? Basically saying that the reason you don't look like models is not because of fashion but because clothes are designed to look good on a specific body type (tall and lean) and _you_ don't have that. Soooo, putting two and two together, the reason we are not getting any matches isn't because of how we dress. We're just ugly.

Everybody likes mcdonald, only specific people like polish cuisine, some of them were born in Poland so its natural for them, other were brave enough to try and find out if they like it My choice is to be cuisine so specific and authentic to myself that i will only attract people intrested in real me I decided that restricting myslef for acceptance (more men will like me when im "normal") is bullshit because how long i can pretend to be something im not? also mcdonald attract mcdonald and i got a little bit more fancy taste (Yes im girl from Poland yes i do make mistakes in english yes being real to myself is hard but im way happier now☕)

I've found when using dating apps that the conversations can be very awkward and empty, this is probably due to matching purely based on looks. There are times when I match with someone due to a similar interest and it feels very refreshing to have something to talk about. But ultimately, most matches do not lead to anything due to the feeling of emptiness that occurs when you match with someone just because you like how they look.

asking 15 women in New York is a brave sample pool You should rather have asked for "what are the female gazes" since there are of course multiple, depending from culture and age group too

love the skit, do more of these please

Normal “I’m not like other boys” fit

bro using minghao as normal person in a fashion sense example is crazy

Not sure if this is relevant BUT I started working an office job recently where I have to wear suits as part of the dress code. Now after work I have hobby that invovles groups of people of both genders, and I get complimented on how I dress if I don't change my clothes after work by the men and women (e.g. when I leave the office late and rush to the hobby venue). Having said that, what I wear doesn't save me from the fact that I'm not very handsome. I tried using a few dating apps with pictures of myself in suits in different settings (e.g. in the office, on the street, or in random places), and I did notice a slight uptick in likes, but most of them are women asking these things: expensive dinners; how much I make/what my job is; dressing advice for (other) men; or bots. Don't want to be a downer, but I think if you're handsome/beautiful you'll do well on dating apps, and if you're not then you'll struggle regardless of what you wear. Clothing only attracts/repels a portion of the people who are already interested/could be interested in you.

modern day philosopher

one of the greatest video ive ever seen

Great vid !

this video was so entertaining lmfaoo

bro is the rizzler

Great video. What pieces are you wearing in the thumbnail/picture at the start of the vid? They look really cool

When I use Tinder, I usually engage people in a conversation of substance since I hate small talk and I cannot and will not picture myself with someone I cannot connect with personally. Now most people on these apps hate it, as most people do in real life, but there are some very open minded people that arent afraid to just jump into a deep discussion just for the sake of it. Does it lead to something meaningful? who knows. But it surely is more fun than just doing meaningless small talk all day hoping to get laid.

this was actually such a cool experiment, but one thing I would say is that even tho the second profile got more matches with the basic fit, it doesn’t mean they were all great quality matches that you’d be interested in. first profile may have gotten fewer but they could be better🤷 idk for sure but i think if you used tinder/hinge seriously for a while thats how it might turn out

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This video production was really fire. But what really matters.... Man, WHAT IS THIS BLACK JACKET U WERE WEARING HALF OF THE VIDEO? Is it Ifsixwasnine? Its really sick

As a girl, guys with alt or streetwear fashion are really hot but I'm usually too scared to approach them lol

literal minutes ago, already know its peak

The apps turn people into baseball cards & it freaks me tf out…. Especially here in the city

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Your friend with the ruler is so goddamn funny😭

I think fashion that look effortless generally allow ppl to perceive the wearer as someone that is easy going and easy to talk to. Alt fashion on the other hand is very deliberate. Which could make the wearer look tryhard (not saying they are), or someone hard to up keep.

I would love to dress like you but that would mean a complete opposite wardrobe to what I have now. I admire your style

where did he get that attack! jumper from, it's so flames

Bro did my swiping method, man of culture

Bro u majestic af you should model for Yohji

great video bro

Idk why ppl talk bad about your appearance, you looks great, i wish i had a hair like this good and all

mystical wizard man trotting the realms of the youtube algorithm

it’s all about energy. you can dress very cool, stylish, out there and still feel approachable. i’ve met guys who looked straight out of an H&M commercial and still felt ice cold, judgmental, intimidating. nobody’s gonna want to talk to you if you make them feel like you don’t have time for them. obviously you shouldn’t “just smile more” if you don’t genuinely feel like it. you shouldn’t pretend to be someone you’re not. but if you don’t necessarily take yourself that seriously maybe communicating that to others via politeness, gentle smiles, kindly helping others out, etc. can help you.

I actually managed to pull my dude (6 year relationship now) by putting a picture of me up on a refrigerator but the ratio for men and women is extremely different. It'd be interesting to see this video but through a male gaze vs an avant dressing style ?

Very informative.

My hair is so thick and fluffy i cant style it what should i do (my hair is medium lenght)

Looked too good in those photos dawg had me crushing on you 😩

i would swipe on both of those profiles but i would be scared to interact to wagyu u if i was still on dating apps lmao and men with an more thought out style tend to be meaner in first interactions in general :( they sometimes soften up after tho

Something that should be noted is that, even if your personal style gets you much less likes and interaction, I think those few people that likes it will be way more into you and you will probably have a lot more in common with them. At least that is my experience.

omg do a make up tutorial lolol loving the eyes!

I'm sorry, but that brown jacket actually looked great on you. 😭😭😭 (I do like your sense of style no matter what though.)

Actual effort shown in this vid

for me when I intially got tinder I maxed out the like capacity in about a week and I was averaging about 5-10 matches a day. I never paid for the app, I moved to hinge because I found the women on there were more my vibe.

tl;dr if u dress "normal" people will act normal around you/with you, if you dress avant, people will get scared, we get scared about what we don't know, its a human thing, btw i love avant-garde, not something i would wear, but dam some looks and styles look stunning

I would be interested if you talk about your thoughts on middle aged fashion. Most of the content and releases is, understandably, aimed at young people. BTW Joaquin, how the earthquake treated you? Hope everything is ok.

the kay cameo is crazy

I once used tinder for like one hour and deleted it. Maybe I will download it now just as an experiment

A message from an elder goth/dark avant garde granny: You have to ask yourself: do you want quantity or do you want quality? Making yourself look like a normie isn't going to satisfy you in the long run, you'll be bored and not connect in some key areas of life. Be yourself and you will attract less-but more like minded-interests. I tried online dating as someone who dresses dark avant garde and it was rough, to be sure! However, I ended up with a long term relationship with a dear old friend who also dresses only in black,etc. Keep wearing all the cool fits, it might take longer but you will be more satisfied in the end.

THE GODS HAVE DROPPED

does anyone know who's the guy with the red pants at 1:55? That fit looks so clean

I get like no compliments when I am wearing my all black outfits I take time to put together but if I just put on stuff I didn't even really think to hard about I get compliments more often

1-5 likes a day?????!! I was lucky if I got that in a month!

this is a short film someone give him an oscar

GOAT

HE POSTED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

In my experience of being called arrogant/ pretentious because of being strongly opinionated/ fashion forward it seems that people that are like minded can compliment that part of you that is articulated on the highest level versus people that are "normal" categorize you as a threat since they can't comprehend what you are doing. People assume arrogance once presented with alternative thought or fashion they are not equipped to mentally rationalize. I don't blame them.

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btw bro what products do you use for your hair cuz i have same type

Women have been able to message guys the whole time?! Then why haven’t I gotten messages? 🤔

so id say hinge is a better app to use I've had in a week maybe around 3-4 matches for the next 9 weeks but the problem was that most girls either dont respond back or cant hold a convo and dont bring anything to the table so they end up ghosting ive had probably 4 dates in total out of 29 matches so idk anyone here wanna chime in as to why peoples are like this ?

I ain't want women I wanna be fly

5:49 yooo Angel's Egg. Sick

Bros majestic

Bro i love the necklace 🤜

4:29 we made it boys

How can his hair grow so fast?

Watching this video hurt my ego…I don’t think I’ve ever had 43 matches

i would say it helps alot though

what color sambas should i get?

grindr next pls

After a week I would have 0 matches, I did the same where I spammed the like button and maximum matches h got was like 4 or 5 matches in months of doing the spam like see what lands 1 of em likes was just promoting their Only Fans Edit: For the record I did pay once and got 0 more matches

This is just cap. It absolutely does boost your chances, at least depending on who you're looking for. If you are looking for a goth girl then if you're on some wearing leather you will def get her or at least have better chances.

Fuck, this was such a good vid JQ😫

Oh, there goes my dating tactic 😔

proffesor Steven is literally my 7th grade science teacher

I don't think its only the outfit, the backgrounds and poses look important to me. In your first profile your pictures are either selfies in your room or pictures where you're just standing straight in a plain grey background, gives an awkward vibe. I think the results would be a little less different between the 2 versions if only the outfit changed

12:26 got me bi curious

ur face is ethereal