FATHER WOUNDS, RELATIONSHIPS + HEALING with Odilakachi (Ep. 80) | Express Yourself Black Man Podcast

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In XYBM 80, I talk with Odilakachi who is a Master Life Coach, Therapist, and content creator. We talk about father wounds, how they show up in relationships, raising children, vulnerability, toxic masculinity, how to heal and more.
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@Dvideowatcher4646 Год назад

Great topic as my therapist told me that most of the small issues I would bring up to him are based in the love I want from my father

@Svga0006 Год назад

EVERYBODY WANNA BE MUFASA, but don’t NOBODY wanna be responsible of everything the light touches🗣️

@kjsmith9043 3 месяца назад

Bars 🔥💯

@KalanMiller Месяц назад

I like that. Powerful

@barakfuller6508 Год назад

I’m a young man 17 yrs of age trying to find comfort in my masculine and feminine energy’s nd just would like to say I appreciate Wht y’all are doing for the community Love nd peace my brothas 🙏🏾

@Daizy10231023 Год назад

We are proud of you young brutha!

@SunseedStarchild Год назад

Keep growing, young brother ❤❤❤

@artsy21 Год назад

This episode was exceptional, layered, insightful with plenty conversation starters for all sexes. I definitely benefitted from seeing this and was compelled to self reflect how the topics discussed show up in my life and relationships.

@ExpressYourselfBlackMan Год назад

Thank you so much for watching. I'm really glad you gained value from it!

@Svga0006 Год назад

This rlly is helping me accept who my father is too.. time to move forward

@leonvinson7107 9 месяцев назад

Thank you so much for being authentic

@isiah8804 Год назад

Man I needed to hear all this. The segments that truly touched me was the unwillingness to admit what I’m struggling with off the basis of hyper masculinity, emotionally abusive women and talking so harsh to myself dehumanizing myself

@_Mochaaxx 10 месяцев назад

Not gonna lie me and my pops fell out today. Recently got hooked into the podcast for about a month now. But this episode popped up at just the right time. Really needed that. On my self healing journey. Love the cause and will engage in any way possible

@dr.noaveyarlee Год назад

I ❤ that you are unapologetically addressing the needs of Black men and their mental health. 🖤That IN 👏🏾IT 🙄SELF 👏🏾is revolutionary!!! So many gems.

@HeyItsBri Год назад

@36:04 you made WAY too much sense !!

@blazerstimul8 3 месяца назад

This is the softness masculine posturing man I ever seen

@demetriuswilliams3965 Год назад

being a black man this podcast really opened my eyes to a lot of different perspectives. thank you so much.

@dopediscussionslive6418 Год назад

This was so good! Being able to admit to yourself that you were hurt by your father's actions or lack thereof is so difficult for a lot of men because they feel like they're betraying masculinity. That's deep.

@ExpressYourselfBlackMan Год назад

Very true! Thank you for tuning in 🙌🏿

@jefradrianstafford1230 Год назад

Tic Tok brought me here, I’m truly grateful for the podcast. Thank you so much!

@9inety6ix18 Год назад

Needed this as a young black man. Who knows our mentality and ways are not the best I’m highly invested.

@JEFE310 Год назад

I'm a 41 year old man. This episode touched my spirit. I've made some many connections. I ty you brothas

@MichaelBrown-xk7pc 3 месяца назад

It is a must to have every black man to listen and learn. I’ve went through a lot of what was discussed but really didn’t understand why I was going through it. Lift up every black man. Love my brothers!!!

@acmikell6765 Год назад

Hearing you brothers talk about repeating lines to learn things is SO IMPORTANT, and THAT'S WHY we black man have to watch what we listen to!! How many songs PROMOTE hyper- masculinity and are misogynist!?

@SoundsbyIvory Год назад

I’m probably going to be running this interview back for the rest of the month because there were so many jewels back to back to back.

@michaelwilson9197 Год назад

This episode will be on repeat because it a lot to process. Too many things are hitting home for me

@EDubb91 14 дней назад

30:12 - 30:41 thats a deep realization there!

@rhyland1178 9 месяцев назад

I'm only 28 mins in and already there have been so, so, so many jewels dropped. This is definitely what I needed. "Life is kicking my ass!"

@jojo1234587 Год назад

Brothers you guys are helping a lot of guys like myself heal from wounds of not having a father and dealing with the lack of male guidance now

@ericanicole81 Год назад

I'm only 25 minutes in and wow! Very deep and insightful conversation for both men and women to be able to self-reflect on. Thank you for this episode 👏🏾

@jasonrwhitingjr Год назад

Wow... by far one of THEE most crtical episodes everyone needs to listen to!

@bryantcoleman4731 Год назад

Trucking was considered a man industry, but women are coming ing to this industry at a fast rate, Everything he's saying is the truth how we view muscalinity as men we are making muscalinity toxic.

@sheraudj 8 месяцев назад

Gents.. this was much needed. I appreciate y’all peeling back the layers, especially with Father wounds. I couldn’t stop sharing this video🙏🏽

@mom-and-son Год назад

I have NO WORDS for this episode!!! I can’t put enough 💯 and 🔥 emojis on this!!! When he was talking about anime!!!! DONE!!!! 🤯

@shomoboyce3711 2 месяца назад

38:55 the way you put this my guy, Jesus it really be that simple sometimes, it was funny how you delivered it but the impact of the message hit like a meteor.

@sallyhemings2295 Год назад

I found your channel via IG…THESE are the conversations that need to be had 🙌🏽If I hear one more black male centric pod cast asking a BW what she brings to the table I think I’ll scream 😂

@jgalore345 2 месяца назад

I’ve already shared the video six times! Gems Gems 💎

@SauceBelfort 11 месяцев назад

I had to come back to this video before spinning the block 😂😂😂 blessing to brotha Odi

@TheDean6101 8 месяцев назад

Great episode!!!! Lots of Gems 💎

@Chef.Darryl 6 месяцев назад

Top notch 👌

@mrich7363 Год назад

I love this tremendously i share to all my brothers and black friends, because I know a lot of them don’t speak out . But I love this . I have seen so many of me and what I hold back in my life . I AM GOOD , no I am not always good when I say . But I know now why I say . Love it . Bless you guys

@ChristophRo95 Год назад

Mans was Hip Hopping though the conversation with all the BARS he was dropping! 👏🏾

@rickywilliams9176 3 месяца назад

This episode got me. This hit so hard right here im damn near 😢 maaaan!!!!!!

@rib_bear2492 7 месяцев назад

i shed actual tears watching this episode thankyou..

@holidaystate7092 Год назад

Ngl professor odi is extremely smart I learned a lot just from listening 💪

@briasutopia Месяц назад

Definitely coming back to tune into this‼️

@ETx03 Год назад

This was my first listen and I’m walking around mind blown and realizing how much I related to this and how I view not only myself but my relationships past & future wise

@IamLevi144 Год назад

Definitely a solid interview. Taught me that my girl be trying to emotionally manipulate me when I bring issues to her. I’ll feel some way about something, and she’ll start talking about how it made her feel. Appreciate you brothers.

@munix9351 Год назад

That's not a bad thing. But she needs to acknowledge what you said and navigate your thoughts. But then it's okay that you are aware of how your words impact her.

@backboytman8290 11 месяцев назад

Hey I'm doing a podcast as well brother thanks keep grinding

@isaiahector3375 3 месяца назад

I appreciate this video right on time

@jujubeatz3006 Год назад

This episode has changed my life and It definitely made me want finally do the work to heal thank you 🙏🏽 I just discovered this podcast a few days ago and I’m sold

@ExpressYourselfBlackMan Год назад

Honored fam 🙏🏿

@ExpressYourselfBlackMan Год назад

I hope you signed up for the webinar 🙏🏿

@dominiqueward1059 Месяц назад

Excellent episode!!

@patrickmalanda5717 3 месяца назад

I have never heard toxic masculinity be explained this way, most of what we here is how masculinity in itself is bad. thanks for this Proff really appreciate it

@michaelwilson9197 Год назад

20 mins in and this podcast is golden

@KOFIO4E 3 месяца назад

❤

@Amberxclusive Год назад

❤❤❤❤

@joshuamatthew523 Год назад

Beautifully executed talk

@itoshii12345 Год назад

I believe in spirital self and lesrning about healing for sure. As a women i want to really feel more close to my husband and try my best to give him peace too and for my kids. 😢😢

@acmikell6765 Год назад

So glad to see a woman say that about her husband and children! Props to you!🙏🏽

@lovelay1660 Год назад

Love this episode a lot of things y’all touched on I see in black men around me

@bakaribradford Год назад

Man how can I have a mentors like him in my life I’m damn near brought to tears 😢

@1youngmarvelous Месяц назад

🔥

@TywanBell 10 месяцев назад

This episode is refreshing to see other black men in the community openly expressing their emotions without being judged and showing emotional intelligence on many levels. And the best part is knowing the intentions behind it. Keep and continue helping the black community Brotherman💯

@LIFEOFHOLLI Год назад

🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

@blieuprintcatvonbee 3 месяца назад

Loving this content!!!

@acmikell6765 Год назад

11:45 in this video so many gems dropped!!

@ExpressYourselfBlackMan Год назад

thank you for watching!

@Awe_InMyHead24 10 месяцев назад

It’s sad because we treat men like they not even human and they treat themselves the same way.

@terrellwilliams8712 Год назад

Powerful conversation!!!

@Douglasvideos25 Год назад

This video was right on time for me. i seen that it was posted weeks ago but didnt listen. Just went through a repeating situation with my father and these words came right when i needed them. Ihave to learn how to allow him to be him and not try and find the healing through him.

@RodrecasDavis 12 дней назад

👏🏾

@KemeticVisuals Год назад

LOVE THIS!!!

@introverted_pickle00 Год назад

My new favorite podcast. Love the brotha Odi and the wisdom he dropped!!

@anthonyreeves5248 Год назад

Bro this is the shit man this is fire. man this is so true. compassion is the key for ourselves and then it will ripple out into all relationships

@acmikell6765 Год назад

57:17 = RU-vid short video!!!!!

@ExpressYourselfBlackMan Год назад

gonna have the team grab that!!

@Tazamisha Год назад

I haven’t had something so layered to unpack. As a mother who has a son… this was a beautiful truth and reality

@kdrickSportzHustLE Год назад

A powerful 01:14:00 segment that my brother sent to me. So many jewels were dropped in this segment and so much I can relate to. You bruthas are appreciated and thank you for this segment. A new subscriber gained. Peace and Blessings to you bruthas. 🙏🏿🙏🏿👊🏿👊🏿

@bostic3 Год назад

I wish I could come on your show an talk about these father truma wounds

@jaedenwoods8710 Год назад

Prolly my favorite podcast out rn bro

@SekondSun Год назад

POWERFUL session 💪🏾 PEACE Love and Light GodBody☝🏾

@ekelly120 Год назад

Love Odi and Love the platform bro! Definitely inspires me and helps me be intentional along my journey. Messing with EYBM, my emotional toolkit is getting deep! 😂 Seriously though, this is the episode I was the most excited for and it definitely exceeded every expectation 🖤

@histakes12 Год назад

Wonderful. Thank you. 🤝🏾

@904DuvalRaised Год назад

Love brothers ! Good video y’all boys !

@Prxfetx Год назад

Had to pause this a couple times sheesh

@jayremy7567 Год назад

Mind blowing stuff. Phenomenal.

@antoniojenkins7352 Год назад

This is powerful💪🏾

@jasonedmead4594 Год назад

Amazing conversation!

@BoxersDelite Год назад

great pod. heavy heavy shit. here from tiktok

@stetsonhonaker20 Год назад

Beautiful work

@EDubb91 14 дней назад

13:46 - 14:04 MMM!

@DaKidKueso Год назад

✊🏾❤️

@Svga0006 Год назад

#leaveher

@bendndj2845 Год назад

DR UMAR SON

@randymelendeznbbb1543 Год назад

I think y'all confusing Pride, Ego, and Denial with so called "Toxic Masculinity"😂😂....feminism & LGBTQ coined the phrase "Toxic Masculinity" to shame & gaslight men.