Noelia, I am so glad that you are reorganizing your life and doing the "makes me happy" things. I also had a couple "heart" issues which will definitely take a huge toll on you and your family. Please reevaluate and learn to schedule time for self-care and relaxing. The work will be there and you can do it all the while of taking time for yourself daily. You must take care of yourself because you only have one body and if you don't take care of it...then where are you going to live? You are a beautiful human and I know we all here love you tremendously....no checking out on us! We will be continuing to send healing prayers for you and be waiting patiently while you learn your new priorities. You've got this and if you need pep talks, just hit us up and we'll help you! Big hugs to you and yours from your planner family here!💝
Thank you!! 🥰. I am genuinely evaluating all things in my life that bring me stress and bring me joy. I realized the stress side was overtaking my life. working on chipping away at the list and creating more joy in my life. ♥️
I am so glad you are here with us. We may be strangers who will never meet, but I feel that we could be friends in real life. Your health is what matters, without it you have nothing. I do hope you can remember to focus on what matters. It’s so easy to fall back into patterns once the event has passed. Hugs to you, and I hope your kids are okay. Sending love ❤❤❤
Awe Lori- I dont see you as a stranger at all!! I see your posts on instagram of your cats and your family and I feel like your my best buddy in Texas and we stay in contact via social media. 🥰. Thank you for being my friend... (que the golden girls song). 😉🥰♥️
Been where you are, Noelia. It takes strength to say no to the things that take away your joy and away from those who love you most. I'm a new subscriber, and it's been very easy to be drawn to your light. Stay lit, Noelia! (Just realized that could mean something other than what I meant...😁😁😁) Prayers for you and your kids!
oh my goodness. Your comment made me cry! For real. Thank you for watching and for leaving this comment which has left a positive imprint. 🥰. I am definitely putting an effort in making my JOY list longer than my Stress list. Slowly making progress. ♥️
25:35 self assessment no doubt is right & this segment really hits the feels omg!, especially after your happy food planning etc. did not expect that! So serious now - Whatever the event/ issue you should get independent support for YOU, not your fam, not IG etc. So that might be church or counseling or whatever version of 'help' resonates with you. Meds from your cardiologist is only a sticking plaster, they are notorious for failing to treat the person as a whole being. You need a compassionate professional to help find & fix the root cause of the trauma. Random recommendation to listen to Dr Gabor Maté, VERY insightful & also calming.
Thank you. Didnt mean to be Debbie Downer but I feel like I have been so honest with my planner community. I have a great family and a great therapist and an amazing support system. The issue is my work and allowing it to spill over to my family and the things that bring me joy. ♥️
Hi Noelia, no sorry's are needed you went through a very traumatic experience. I am very glad you are doing okay. Sending you and your family love, hugs and prayers❤ Vickie
Please take care. I know from experience that stress has long tentacles and it will reach really far back in your past to things you thought you had dealt with and had gotten over. It will bring them to the surface and use it to hurt you all over again. It will strike when you least expect it and in ways you never thought possible. I am glad you are prioritizing what matters in your life.
Noelia, I am so happy that you have decided to analyze what is most important to you. I have also done that recently. I have asked my Father in Heaven, to help me slow down and focus on the things are most important to me, which are also the same family, planning my hobbies. Hobbies is what makes us happy so we need to do more of and less of worrying about work because we are replaceable. So I’m just wishing you the best and I hope you feel better soon. Bye-bye 🥰🤗
Thank you!! 🥰. You are 1000000% right. I realized my stress list overshadowed my joy list. I am working on making sure my JOY list wins every time. slowly working on it. 🥰
I’m so sorry for what you are going through. I can definitely understand to an extent what you are going through. A few years ago things happened that landed me in the hospital and I was diagnosed with congestive heart failure. It is terrifying and it is life changing. All this to say.. I’m sending you all the positive vibes and huge hugs. It will get better 💕
Thank you!! 🥰. You for sure understand more than most what I am going through. focusing on getting better and making sure I stay around for my kids. ♥️
I am so glad your OK, please look after yourself. I know exactly where your coming from, i nearly bleed to death 3 years ago 1 week after having a hysterectomy my house was like a horror scene. I passed twice but glady the amazing team in A&E saved my life, took me a few weeks to recover uti did slowly, I appreciate my family more now and I know they do me. Rest a d do what the Dr's say. Take care and lots of love ❤
Oh my goodness Claire. I had to have a partial hysterectomy due to endometriosis. So I understand. Not as serious as your experience but I am so glad you are ok now!!! sending you a big hug! I am working on making sure I cut the stress and add joy in every part of my life. ♥️
Please take care of yourself. You comes first in everything you decide. Do not put your bosses or your job on No.1. That is you and your health. Stay safe!
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