May Allah makes marriage easier for men & women who are finding it difficult to get married, Ameen Ya Rabbi. We are living in an era of fitnaah. Marriage is the best solution to avoid adultery, fornication, lust, addiction to porn & etc. May Allah protect us all, In'sha'Allah Love & prayers from Europe❤
Why is Marriage solution to Lust Marriage is still lust Sex is always lust and have you no will to not watch Porn no 1 forces you rght. There r so many other things in World why people who believe in Allah think they have to Marry and fuck etc Your born alone it's a Choice if really love Allah you take Allah love and opposite you no need Men Wife bcs you have Allah
@@maryammary3494 I am extremely sorry actually you are right ..,this is not the way to ask someone for marriage..!😔 For sure I am going to die single in this world no problem insha'Allah will marry someone in jannah...!
Ma sha Allah.... alhamdulillah we have people around us like Mufti to understand life and situations in a better way . He is one of best guide..... jazak allahu Khairan for your every video.
Masha Allah Barakallahu Fik Sheikh. Well said. We loved you for the sake of Allah. May Allah rewards you immensely and your family Ameen. Beautiful reminding us all. Jazakallahu Khayran for sharing your knowledge.
Aameen waiyyak .. May allah make it easy for all of us , bless everyone who is looking to get married with a good, righteous n understanding spouse n may he bless everyone who is married with a happy married life filled with rahmah n barakah aameen aameen aameen
@@The-Monotheist Women want a man they can be safe wit and be safe from. I know I am a worthy wife willing to submit and serve my husband. When a man marries a woman he gives up his money, when a woman marries she gives up her identity, her autonomy, and the future of not only herself but also her children. Good men need character. Money can't buy character. There are 2 tragedies in marriage 1) a godly woman falling victim to an an ungodly man 2) a godly man falling victim to an ungodly woman I am secure in my faith and willingness to have a good marriage. I know what I'm willing to give...everything. but not to just anyone. The fact that you instantly created a straw man where I am full of anger based on wanting to be cared for...what does that say about you?
@ongpong7726 Then that man needs to pray he is prepared to be worthy of a good woman. "Be broken over and over while he matures" is not an acceptable life. I don't want to gamble on if he even wants to mature when I'm married for life. If he is an angry abuser and abuses for ten years then one day he is better then now she is broken from ten years of abuse. Also the kids are broken. This philosophy is dangerous for generations
@@The-Monotheistbut there is a difference in being a little bad and literally being an abuser, I would rather stay single then stay in an abusive marriage
@@The-Monotheist I don't have to prove myself to you. You don't have to prove yourself to me. But I know what I'm worth. I will not settle for a man who is not worthy of my love because when I find him he will get the best of all of me. I don't believe in divorce. I am not willing to gamble all of me for the rest of my life for someone who might mature. For someone who might not abuse, or someone who might have the character to have honor when things get tough. I trust our creator to show me the truth. I have continually prayed for Him to prepare me to be the wife He wants me to be and I know there is a man out there praying to be the husband he's called to be.
@sigmagrindset8627 are you asking me? Some of it I like very much. Wearing the beard, no tattoos. Praying 5 times a day, no unnatural behaviors in the marriage. Even doctors say that’s best. (Even if the evil therapists say everything is good)
May Allah guide everyone of us in spreading peace and being good to one another. The purpose of marriage in Islam is so you can find peace in one another and create a family so that our ummah grows. We should all apply the guidance of the Quran and follow the sunnah if we are to find peace in our homes.
Don't be depressed brother, it is from shaitan. I'm 30 and I've came situation, but I trust Allah's plan, and if He wants to test me harder, I'm willing to take it for the afterlife
Wait if he has anger issues, and doesn‘t show compassion and love to his own wive, he is SINFUL and has to improve otherwise the wive will be unhappy and that won’t do him any good
@@yeager9731 but you do now that we cannot interfere and tell people to forgive sb else. The only one to decide this is the wife and that’s it. Allah gave everyone the right to forgive or not.
Yes!! I was shocked when I heard the sheikh basically told women to endure husbands that have anger issues!. Isn't the Quran says that men should treat their wives with kindness and respect, and that they should be patient with them?. I wonder if this sheikh will advise a husband to endure a wife that has anger issues 🤔.
Subhanallah an amazing video.. Im actually looking to get married n it has been very hard to find a good man who accepts a niqabi.. Pls include me in ur duas .. May Allah bless me with an amazing, understanding husband who loves Allah n his rasool , has a good character n treats me nicely n also will take me to jannah.. may he also help me be a good understanding wife who compromises n does everything for the sake of allah n a person who brings him peace at home n someone who will help him go to jannah.. May he bless everyone who is looking to get married with a righteous n understanding spouses who will be the coolness of thier eyes n may he bless everyone who is married with a happy married life filled with rahmah n barakah aameen aameen aameen ... May allah make all our tests n trials easy for all of us , make us steadfast in our deen ,guide us to the right path n always keep us connected to the quran at all times n forgive all our sins n accept all our duas , grant us jannah n safeguard us from the hell fire aameen aameen aameen
@@sheriffmanneh4989 Jazakallah khair.. May allah bless u with his unlimited rahmath n make whatever test or trial u are going through easy for you , forgive all your sins, accept all your duas n grant u jannah aameen aameen aameen ..
@@azkahajadeen Keep wearing niqab. That's the legit full hijab. May Allah Keep you on the straight path. There are many men who accept and want niqabi women. Men who have ghayrah and respect niqabi women. Wish i was rich so i can marry a righteous and niqabi woman. Anyway, Alhamdulillah.
@@Sabersafe Jazakallah khair for ur kind words ...May allah make it easy for u , bless u with his unlimited rahmah n may he bless with a good righteous understanding spouse who will be the coolness of your eyes n will take you to jannah aameen aameen aameen
Teacher assim has enough experience to talk about those topics and he knows what he's talking about. I hope sisters can see the wisdom in his words. Overlook the emotions of frustration or the feel of discrimination because what he told about demand and supply and also the situation after dovorce is common. If sisters would not aim so high with educational goals they would not exaggerate their standards. Arrogance and pride can destroy your heart
Not everyone gets that choice though especially if there is alot of discrimination and discrimination from parents and sometimes you may not be ready to get married if you have had a eg major operation which sets you back 3 or 4 years it's not cause you don't want to get married but if you can't find the right people then. I got married when I was 27, but cause of my race I would not beable to marry who I want
😂At the people upset at the laughter, we have to understand it’s the island culture. I grew up around Samoans and Tongans and they laugh very loudly, at the smallest things.
nowadys everyone wants to get married reir girlfriends. noble woman dont make boyfriend, they are not involved in any illegal relations and love thats why they are still single.its a bitter truth
The pious men are for the pious women. Better to not marry then endure a life with someone who is far below your level. Compatibility is key. Kafaa I believe it's called
Some parents don’t want their daughters to get married so they can forever take care of them. My father said even if you are under the bed, your proposal will come.
It’s not a woman’s job to make her husband happy, it is to obey him. As for obedience to parents the woman is only responsible of obeying her parents fully until she gets married. After she marries she must keep them good company and obey them if she’s able to under her husband. For example a married woman doesn’t have to obey her parents if they tell her to move back home and leave her husband. Or if her parents tell her to give them some of her husband’s money. But a man must obey his parents even if he’s married.
You are absolutely right! The fact that they are displaying picture in MASJID, the house of Allah, this is very offensive, not to mentioned being ghuluw towards the Sheikh. The Nabi shalallahu alaihi wa sallam order the Muslims to destroy the pictures and flattened the graves. The Sheikh should be the first one to notice this and reject this act of ghuluw.
@@SalafiRemindersi think the picture is displayed during questioning times and removed during the prayer to their Lord. it seems like a roll up picture!
@@sully111 There is no justification whatsoever for displaying/hanging pictures of living being in Islam. The Sheikh himself said in his lectures, that's why this video contradicting what he said in his lectures about image making.
I agree with the former comment. The best contingency plan is to create a big family which supports one another and is always there. Does a boss save you from poverty or is it Allah?
Thats west mindset, you dont want the contingency plan, you just want plan B, that in case if you dont like the person or you get bored in relationship that you can rely on that plan. And most women stays single with that having that mindset. Relationship is all about sacrifice and compromises. Follow teaching of quran and allah is the best of planar. May allah plan best of the best of us. Amen
Does Sheikh Assim saw the picture of him behind him. What’s the point of putting his picture?? This is not right, giving fatwa is something but hanging a picture on your back is a different world. How does the angels enter the masjid now? Why do you deprive them of the masjid??
Please address the single never married muslimahs over 45 who were overlooked because the males and their mothers didn't want an educated muslimah. These males went back home to marry. This has led to so many single muslimshs in middle age, struggling and depressed, in the west. These males are now raising daughters and pushing them educationally. Hypocrisy.
Don’t worry sis life is a short tests if you’re single maybe couple of women got widowed or divorced or had abusive marriages all youth- always work on your main goal cause all the married folks will die and so will you and in hereafter this life and it’s enjoyment won’t be remembered except the good deed we did to please Allah- as Allah says verily in the remembrance of Allah hearts find peace so find peace through Allahs obedience be a devout Muslim these humans aren’t our fixes
It isnt "hypocrisy". No man wants an old wmn. Yohu pursued your own career, men didnt push you to it. And men dont want to marry such wmn because often theya re arrogant and unsubmissive to their husbands...and a man values a wo;m;an's beauty kmore then he values her degree...
Assalamu Alaikum warahmatUllah wabarakatuhu Alhamdulillah Good advice Jazak Allah khairan kaseer Ya Allah please bless every Muslim believer to obey Your Commands and teachings of Rasul Ullah Sallalahu Alaihi Wassallam ameen. (Please myself not a religious scholar, but isn't it wrong to have pictures of making or decorating of animal kingdom means humans and animals?) Assalamu Alaikum warahmatUllah wabarakatuhu
I’m 30s still unmarried. Have degree but couldn’t find good match yet not because I didn’t want to marry young. In the west it’s hard to find good man, everyone did zina
@@DemoGlory why are you commenting here? You don’t sound Muslim considering you just recommended me to get a dog… Also society looks down on you if you’re single and family pressures you till you get married. Am I supposed to die a virgin?
@@user-zm3no5xb6t as a Muslim too he’s right why? Because life is a test and even we don’t find then it’s Allahs test just like someone married young but became widowed or divorced or their kids died- people still talked and people talk for singles too- let people talk- focus on your life you work you relationship with Allah what’s the point of saddening over spouse if you get hellfire in akhirah? Make jannah your main goal and live a productive life anyway we all will get old no one will remember us and InshaAllah in jannah there will be a spouse for all
@@DemoGlory Those women aren't the role models for muslimahs women who sides with her feminine attribute is Islamic otherwise it is cursed by Allah. For a muslim marriage is important the parents of a Muslimah will be eager to find a good groom for her, they don't go for their daughters career.
@@user-zm3no5xb6t I feel sorry for you. Single life is suffering when you reach at a age where there is no hope left then it will be living hell nobody loves us as our spouses love s us even our children don't want is when we're useless. Ever body around us only want benefit from us that's why people are getting suicide. Women who are average men are happier than single rich earning women. Women who get divorced regret later and cry for their presence. Women need to get married at Young because so they can give their husband best of her self and healthy children. Your heart is so good and pure as i can sense it through your word. The man who gets your love is luckiest to have you.
@@shahid8673if I get married, I would care about his character not the money... I would rather marry the poorest man who would treat me with kindness and love than marrying the richest man who barely shows his love or care or is too controlling
Also female is not like male Go and watch Christian prince's video Now no one is coming to accept the challenge Now Quran is in 27 or more different forms Allah Not unchanged Allah has two right hands and leg 😂😂 So Allah has shape So Allah is not infinity, eternal Embryology is wrong in Quran It's proved by Embryologists So many mistakes and contradictory things Don't try to fool the world in 2023
@@factsgalaxy6228re you a christian or a muslim Allah says وَلَمْ يَكُن لَّهُ كُفُوًا أَحَدٌ Allah has no form of anything. Human biengs have their patners but allah does not have any partner. Allah is just alone nothing or none like him. How great is he??? Not only Allah who doesn't have gender even his angels Allah mentioned in the quran that those who call angels with female names don't have anything from the knowledge except following steps of what they think of إِنَّ ٱلَّذِينَ لَا يُؤْمِنُونَ بِٱلْئَاخِرَةِ لَيُسَمُّونَ ٱلْمَلَىٰٓئِكَةَ تَسْمِيَةَ ٱلْأُنثَىٰ وَمَا لَهُم بِهٖ مِنْ عِلْمٍ إِن يَتَّبِعُونَ إِلَّا ٱلظَّنَّ وَإِنَّ ٱلظَّنَّ لَا يُغْنِي مِنَ ٱلْحَقِّ شَيْئًا Indeed those who don't believe for hereafter they call the angels female names And they have no knowledge of it, they don't follow except conjecture and conjecture does not avail anything from the truth
@@factsgalaxy6228Look at this Mickey Mouse rambling all over the place, your mind is so baked and toasted with all the lies you’ve been fed by Christian Princess.
Sheikh plz reply for me. One day I met a man in my relatives home. I like him. I can't forget him. His looks at me feels like he likes me.... But recently his parents has decided to marry him with his cousin after 5 years. Bcz he is not in marriage age.he is only 23 yrs. He is now in another country. What can I do ? U can't forget him. Sometimes I feels may be he loves me...he may be thinking about me.
Go with your parents/wali to his parents and see if he is interested, or have your wali/parents talk to him and see if he is interested in marriage at this time. If he is either not interested in marriage or his family is unwilling to marry him to someone else other than his cousin, move on. yes, move on. walk away from it and move on. There is no use putting yourself into fitna, volunteering yourself for a trial of heartache and heartbreak over a man who is either not ready for marriage or a family dynamic which may break a marriage. there are plenty of good men in the sea, so to speak. And your husband is written for you no matter how many glances you sneak or not. And until you do the above things, stop thinking about him or writing about him. This is a non-mahrem strange man you are dreaming about. The first glance was not a sin but if any other glance follow, know that the consequences are on you for those actions. So lower your gaze during this process. This could be very well someone else’s husband. Another man could very well be written for you as your husband. So stay modest, and remember Allah has already written what will and will be, and nothing good will ever come from haram. (I hope you don’t find this blunt or harsh, this is a message to myself also). May Allah grant us spouses who will be the coolness of our eyes and keep us on the firm path. None lose hope in Allah’s plan except the disobedient people.
I Don't understand actually, women also get attracted to men's voice, to their attitude, to their presence. But women control her feelings. It doesn’t mean she feels any less than a man. Women control it. They are taught to control from childhood and it ultimately becomes a mindset. But in islam i noticed only women are said to hijab herself more, The logic is that men can get attracted to the women! Why are men not taught to control themselves? If it is Ramadan do men break their fast and eat? Do they break their fast and get intimated with their wives? No they Don't. Why? Because they control. No matter what Muslim men fast till the magrib. That means they can control themselves if there is a mindset. Sometimes I feel islam is not the same for men and women. You can say, look at the other religion. How is the position of the women there! Islam rulings are a far better religion to women. This is not the point. Islam is the ultimate religion, this religion is the truth. I know! But it feels like women are 2nd class citizens in the eyes of islam. Astagfirullah if i am wrong. But what can i do? I feel that way sometimes. Why can't women sing nasheed without music in front of non mahram while the men can. Why women need to cover more than a man? Why can't she preach islam to all directly but the men can? Why she can't do adhan? Why she can't speak or laugh loud? Men can get attracted? Women also get attracted to men! Don’t women have thoughts of non mahrams? Don't the fall in love with a mufti's face or way of speaking / or the way he behaves? What about women's thought?!! What about their attraction? Why don't men cover themselves, why don't men stop preaching islam with women directly, why not men stops call out for adhan loudly? Since both parties got attracted to each other, shouldn't the rule be like men interacted with men only and their mahram girls and women interact with women only and mahrams. Or...if the things which men are allowed to do, women should be allowed to do those right? Else, The rules which are there for women, men should also have those rules. I Don't understand. I Don't understand.
Do sahaba women did this? No. Men and women are different like day and night. Women control her urges because she is a woman and have the capability so she can give her husband best. Women praise their men in islam because what they're obliged to their women so good women will never hesitate to be chastity to him and she thank to Allah for her husband and children by avoiding their negative sides. If you still think why this then ask Allah why you created like this and get what you deserve am afraid of the consequence Allah created men and women for different purpose and have their obligations to do themselves.
@@KadershaN-ou2sj i got it, what you've said. Well i am trying to Follow Islamic rules unconditionally. Like putting on a hijab, praying etc. It's not like- 'show me, prove me all rulings with logic and then i'll follow Islamic lifestyle' I am already trying to follow it Alhamdulillah. But I also want to know and understand the logics. What's the point behind the rules. Since islam is a rational religion, it is the ultimate truth. Then what are the rational truths behind these Islamic rules for women. Women and men are different. Obviously. Physically, also mentally sometimes. (Mental differences - women are more adaptable, sometimes more mature, but more affectionate to gossip, much more emotional, also more painstaking. But since they are emotional in decision making and physically not stronger, I understand why Allah chose men as the 'captain' of the ship. But are their feelings different than men? Don’t women feel hungry just like a man? Don’t they need to sleep - feel pain - have sexual desires? Ofcourse they have! These are the basic human feelings. These are the same for women-men-all humans! Which Allah swt created all of us as like this with these basic feelings. Sahaba's didn’t ask these questions? Why? Actually i think, if I am having these feelings and questions then definitely there were- are- will be more people like me, who had/have the same questions. So, there must be some rational answers. Where can i find it? Which sources can enlighten me, clear my confusion? Islam is not an illogical religion. There must be some specific answers. But if there are no answers. Then i doubt whether these 'women rule' are authentic or common human made.
Ikr. This was ridiculous. Idk about the sexist part though as he also said in one of his videos about how if your husband isn't providing for you, taking your money you should get a divorce. I'd say say he's out of touch from reality and thinks women care more about getting food and clothes rather than a nice, kind husband
Sheikh is grounded in reality. I live in Germany and most German girls in my office are not married while they are looking for ideal husband. Those above 35 are complaining that they are not finding any male to marry them. Women need to settle for men who are meeting 25% of their expectations. If the man is praying 2-3 times a day, earning halal income and is not a drug addict, that's it. You do not need looking for more qualities till you hit menaupause. Now you may say that German ladies in my office are happier and richer that most Muslim women out there. Yes may be they are. But if 25% women in this generation do not marry. Germany and German culture is finished. Economy is also finished as there will be not enough people to run the economy as birth rate will go below replacement rate.
Jakie single wszak moim mezem jest moj umysl a serce duchowe jest zona i tworza jedno cialo a nie dwa odrebne ciala,kazda istota ludzka ma umysl i serce i cialo umysl symbolizuje meza a serce symbolizuje zone a cialo to ich wspolny dom o ktory razem sie troszcza jaknajlepiej potrafia ,..a teraz jesli takie umysl serce i cialo chca zawierac zwazek z odrebnym cialem to pamietaj ze takie odreebne cialo nie moze byc przy tobie zawsze i wszedzie a umysl i serce i cialo w ktorym mieszkaja sa ze soba wszedzie razem ,..gdyby moje cialo lezalo pod gruzami to kto przy mnie bedzie obecny Umysl Serce Dusza i Duch i Cialo ktorym jestes jako zlozony mechanizm zatem kto z was czuje sie Solista czy rzekomym Single ??,wyslij do wszystich systemow odczuwania i myslenia i algortymow pogotowie duchowe bo ono naprawde istnieje,..bywaja takie chwile kiedy ktorys algortym i system czuje sie prawie jak puste naczynie ale nie jest calkowicie puste a Milosc jest wszechobecna nawet tam gdzie Logos jeszcze nie ma mocy odzialywania bo nie wszystkie sytemy odczuwania i myslenia rozumieja dzwieki werbalne jak slowa i wydaje sie to byc jakby niewyrazalne slowem ale tylko chwilowo choc taka chwila wydaje sie byc jakby bezczasowa,..jeszcze prosily te glosy w mojej glowie zeby odczytac wam Sure 2 ayat 29
As far as I know, the first word revealed to Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) was 'Iqra', not 'Nikah'. He didn't know how to read or write. What kind of speech is that 'quit college'? Does this mean we shouldn't have female doctors ect.. ? Should women go to male gynecologists? Oh, wait, that's haram too. Hatidja (may Allah be pleased with her) was a successful businesswoman, or do I not know nothing about Islam? On the Day of Judgment, it is our knowledge that will save us, not our husbands. Because of such statements, the West World thinks that women in Islam are oppressed.
Many people are misunderstanding me, I am not blaming the Shaykh here or catching the Shaykh's mistakes. I am just showing the foolishness of the organizers of this program to Shaykh.
@estiakahmed2033 organizer stupidity? That's just to indicate the place, because not every place is in the mosque, there are some events that are held at hotel
@estiakahmed2033 because this is an official invitation, of course the banner.... No need to worry about trivial things, especially if it's not your country, it's better to respect each other
Is Sheikh at 3:57 making fun of suicide? Sheikh with all due respect, you're not a comedian or maybe you want to be one? Suicide is not a joke! I expect a Muslim knows that better than anybody else. Don't try to make people laugh by making fun of religion. You try to talk a lot then you're gonna make mistake. Your own advice, Sheikh.
@@iShahfahad So? Are you sure you're not a munafeeq or can't become one? The point of that verse is for the Muslims to not joke about Islam. Comprende?
Just so you know, you are not alone. Many Muslims have their own circumstances. Ask your parents to find you a spouse, if they refuse, this is depending where you live but you can try marry an orphan girl, you can kill two birds with one stone, you can get married and you're helping an orphan. But it's really difficult to get married now because the girls wants to pursue their career even an orphan girl and they don't care if a man propose to them. Back then in the time of Prophet Muhammad, marriage is easy because you don't have to wait until the girl is graduated from her school. Now, the most of the Muslims make marriage difficult.
@@SalafiReminders i am girl not a boy, my parents tried alot even i tried alot bt Allah knows better my parents r failed to find husband for me and know people say u r over age
@@TahseenulQuran39 I'm 32 also looking for a spouse, I'm like desperate, so how about it? I'm in Indonesia and I'm poor but if you don't mind me then maybe this is a sign from Allah... Or not?
It's an English saying that afrer a certain age, a man needs a nurse or a purse i.e. someone to look after him or provide for him because he's providing for his first family.
Same I’m from Pakistan, I have given up on marriage to men now. InshaAllah a single chaste life till I get one in jannah cause Pakistani men and their mommies are too toxic and secular sometimes
@@labs9618 I’m arab, Pakistani women are the same. Even if they appear religious they end up not knowing anything about it and want you to marry their family. Nothing Islamic about marrying Pakistanis. It’s like marrying a hindu
@@labs9618 don't give up on marriage. Change your environment or your settings. Rasool (s.a.w) says those who choose to remain celibate are not of us. Have you really exhausted every guy in your country? I'd say that's impossible
Sheikh what you said IS WRONG. The acquisition of knowledge is an obligation. And you know that. there is many people who are married and they have studied together.
The acquisition of knowledge which is fardh on you is knowledge which regards faraida. Allah did not command us to learn something we don't have to learn. Is it an obligation to study art, literature or language?
@@MrMago11 I'm not a scholar. However, write on youtube: Muhammad fazlur rahman ansari. Listen his lecture intitle: Address to muslim youth. Take your time and listen carefully this lecture. I think this lecture will provide you an answers of your question inshallah.
How do you say acquisition of knowledge is mandatory?only Islamic basic knowledge is mandatory -_-... and in few stances there is worldy knowledge which is communal obligation nothing else .. sheikh mentioned about the girl..in no way their gaining knowledge is obligatory except in very rare cases as their husbands will provide for them
I don't agree . Islam is ordering you gain useful knowledge. It can be religious knowledge or other.In my country scholars says there is only 2 types of knowledge. One is knowledge about creator ,2nd is knowledge about his creation. I am disappointed with your sheikh. I thought you will advise to muslim women to gain knowledge as much as they can.Is women's are made for babysitting, satisfying their husband.
Thats why i advised to rely only Saudi sheikh for fatwa about obligations like prayer,fasting.I always like sheikh yusuf al qardawi.Hi daughter is one of the best nuclear scientist.
@@Ira1000-w5h Deen supercedes culture. Do you agree with me. No buts. Imagine the Sahaba laughing and viewing Muhammad SAW revelation as some kind of joke. Your men need to man-up!
