00:03 Extramarital affairs in females are often driven by unfulfilled emotional and physical needs. 02:28 Emotional intelligence is an important pillar for personal growth and is often neglected in upbringing. 07:49 The key reason for females having extramarital affairs is the unrealistic expectation of a perfect 100% relationship. 10:14 Lack of communication and loneliness leads females to seek extramarital affairs. 14:38 The understanding level between couples is decreasing due to busy schedules. 16:53 Men are visually stimulated during intimacy, while women are stimulated by auditory senses. 21:34 Girls get attracted to boys with power, authority, and swag. 23:35 Girls are attracted to 'f**k boys' but still expect them to change. 30:12 Females getting into extramarital affairs is influenced by age and hormones. 33:20 Cuckolding involves a male wanting another male to join in sexual activity with his female partner. 39:39 Breakups in relationships are common between 6-18 months 42:21 Emotional needs of individuals change over time in relationships. 47:33 Acceptance of different personality types is crucial for a successful and happy marriage. 50:25 Extramarital affairs can be a significant reason for females to seek a divorce. 56:13 Male ego and possessiveness can make it tough for men to accept a breakup. 59:12 Understanding the opposite sex's psychology is essential for a healthy relationship.
Women need only the attaintion and love of her man. But men don't like this. This is the real reason of breakup. Just listen to your wife even if u don't accept her views. All will be good.
In relationship for marriage write 5 most important thing you need from your partner and write big No just cant tolerate things ..than write down points that are ok and you can tolerate ...this will help you to select right partner and adjust with him...cause every human has good and bad
Bhai is bande ne har ek baat 100% sahi boli h ... I can't believe... He is very good in his work ... I usually don't comment in any video but I commented because I'm very very impressed 🫶🏻 more video like thissss
I must say that he is amazing Doctor...bus Ye three boys jo girls ko le ke bol rahe hain...that is totally immature. Har kisi ko apna dukh bada he lagta hai bhai. Sir ne bola bhi break up mai dono ko pain hota hai..itne acche guru mil gaye tou guidance bhi lena har girl gold digger nahi hoti.
Vikas bhaiya is a legend⚡️♥️ when you meet him, you feel that positive and energetic aura💯⚡️✨ this man make your life, life concepts and relationships point of view so much better and different, I’m very glad to have him in my life as a big brother 💪⚡️♥️ he always motivates us and he is one of my idol♥️💪
Dil ki baat shayd apki age aur hormone Wali bhi hai kya ohh matlab tum age aur hormone ki Wajah se tum apne pati ko cheat kar do di wah se feminist ki chodiyaan
Most imp...line❤ " Western culture sabse jyada failure hua h to wo h relationship/ marriage " So copy everything except live-in / relationship/ marriage.❤❤❤ Love u vikash sir 🙏🙏🙏
While I hv liked ur comment, do you think what our youngsters are copying from wests are the good ones those guys have? Sorry to say, NO. Our young people are copying the darker things keeping aside their good ones like integrity, and sincerity towards job. This is only one thing I quoted, there are lot many to say.
Moral of the story: if you are a man be strong, be brave, be independent, learn to live alone, and never expect anything from women, if a girl wants to be with you let her be and if she does not want let her go. Focus on yourself that's it
I shifted to Dubai for my husband and my husband didn't talk to me for even 10 minutes. Literally I used to tell him that I will do affair with someone else if he doesn't fulfil my emotional need. But he doesn't care. Finally we got separated after 2 years. Not possible to live like this. Better to stay alone
@@animedc69 agar pata hota to shaadi hi nehi karti na. Jab tak ladki mil nehi jati tab tak to good boy ka image banake rakhna jaruri hai. Shaadi ho hai ya relationship confirm ho gaya matlab abto ye meri ho hayi, ab to ye kahin nehi jayegi. To isko itna importance dene ki kya jarurat ??!! I wish sabko shaadi ke pehle apne partner ka real image dikh jata. To fir breakups ya divorce hi nehi hote. Qki hum unse relationship hi nehi banate
@@piyahansda1263 haan toh efforts toh Dalna nhi Hota hai tum ladkiyaan ko bss chahti ho ki bss sab ladka kare tumhara naukar hai kya wo, aur didi suno tum log efforts dalte hi nhi ho relationships me, ladka bhi insaan hota hai, toh uski bhi feeling hoti toh usko bhi pyaar se samjha sakte ho, toh jaise ek ladka tumhare liye karta hai tume impress karne k liye toh tum bhi kara karo usko bhi accha lagta hai lekin tum wo kar nhi paoge aur last me Galti ladke ki nikal doge
Pyar se samjhati toh sahi hota lekin nhi affair ki baat Kar thi kyuki tumhare dimag me pehle se koi hoga toh tum yahi bolti hogi aur bss ek excuse chahiye hoga divorce ka bss, Sala ye affair dhamki k time hi laat maar kar nikal dena chahiye tha tumko, pyaar se baat karte toh accha hota Jaise ladka tum logo ko manane k liye karta hai
@@aghor5317 honey ,what u said in comment I believe u r like pretty decent guy. Nt like others. I didn't take ur comment as offense or women hater. Bt that's the truth. Men never respect women's efforts or compromises or sacrifices. No matter how much we try men never get that. Aur agar hum unko samjhane ki ya discuss karne ki koshish karte hai to unko lagta hai hum unko force kar rahe hai. They don't even have time to talk .that's the reality. U take us fr granted. We try to hold on as long as possible. Bt U left us no other choice. In any relationship respect is the base fr everyone no matter who u r a man or a woman. If u can't respect ur partner nd his/her effort, it's obvious that relationship is nt gonna work out fr long. U r nt 12 yrs old boy. U r a full grown up man. U should know ur responsibility nd duty.
Yrr plzz Part-2 for Male personality and their personalities We girls need to understand what boys want and how to connect with them emotional mentally. How to lead a healthy relationship with males. Pleaseeeee 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Kya Fayeda uska ? Thoda dimag lagao gi easily samaj jao gi Hum Straight forward hotey ha Jaha apna Emotions invest kar datey ha waha apna piyar bachane ka lia kuch ve kar saktey ha Humara ❤ jeetna easy ha 😂 Bus EGO ko challenge karnewala Attitude kavi mat dikhana warna piyar to bhool jao Bhayanak Nafrat milegi 🔥 Sabsey achhi Male personality ha Wise Men wali jo mature or Wise hota ha Ya Sabsey Loyal hotey ha Agar powerful Male chahia to Superior Male wali personality better ha lekin agar Superior Waley ko Hurt kya to tum ko hurt ve karengay or Cheat ve karengay protection ke hisab sa BEST choice ha Piyar ho to apni jaan dekar ve har keemat per tumko protect karengay BEST husband type chahia to Father Figure type personality BEST ha Aisa husband jo Achha Baap banne ka Talent rakhta ha wo loving husband ve bohot achha hota ha
no adjust krte krte hm jida lash bn jate h.samne vala mouj m puri life nikal leta h.aur time jane k baad umr bit jane k baad aap pchhtate rh jate ho ki ab kya kre Maine toh apni puri life spoil kr li
One of the most well-established podcasts on realHit. I thoroughly enjoyed it. The manner in which he delves into the dynamics between men and women is truly remarkable. This podcast provides a profound insight into the workings of relationships, focusing not only on perceptions but also considering the influence of age.
I loved this podcast..just because so much things were informative and really it's gonna help us in our life's too.. I really want to hear more from this person on your podcast only.. because you three are different personalities and you ask some various questions so that we get more and more perspectives.
10:06 Ladki agar apne relationship se khush nhi toh vo apne kaam par focus nhi kr payegi Aur ladka agar apne kaam se khush nhi toh vo relationship pe focus nhi kr payega 100% true
I really wish for separation with my husband. He is not compatible with my mental stage he is still dependent on his parents although he is in the age of 51 .. I have two k7ds and I'm 41 I'm fed up ..
Conclusion : we should understand our partner and respect them . Don’t put on pressure of expectations over them and yourself as well . Always have spark in your relationship. Don’t cheat and choti si life hai yaar ache se raho aur pareshan na ho aur na karo .
The things that he explained are even a part of Kamasutra... Kamasutra is 80% of such education based on emotions and understanding and 20% is about physical intimacy... that's why Hindu Sanskruti is oldest and stable civilization.
Thank you for bringing to light all of what nobody ever has the courage and heart to talk about. The world needs more of this. Especially India needs more of this. So much to add & contribute to this! Thank you for being men & talking about what most men love to push under the carpet & what most of society is living in denial in or blaming women & keeping the men safe. Brilliantly explained the initial intentions of how cheating that too from the perspective of a woman. Hopefully this world can open up to the idea of what love can be beyond marriage, sex & blame games & what not. Absolutely mind boggling!
It's been 10 yrs of our marriage now.. I hv 2 kids.. the communication between me n my husband is almost negligible or may be 5-10% and earlier I used to be very sad about it.. but since last one year I hv made myself really very very busy. I work like donkey and hv made nice friend circle so I myself get hardly any time to talk to my husband now
According to Biology Women can live without SEX 4 to 5 months So what about those girls who want new Boyfriend in every week or montg for sex ? We can call then Characterless Rundy ?
Haan tu hi bata aab kya cheat karna thik hai kya toh ye randi Wali harakte kyu karte ho tum ladkiyaan aur haan atleast loyal rhna sikho bhenchod 20 logo k sath hook up karke ladkiyaan gyan chodna shuru kar deti hai
Matlab tum ladkiyaan unrealistic 100% perfect relationship k naam par bhi cheat kar deti ho aur tum apne age ya hormone ki Wajah se cheat kar deti ho, fir suno shadi mat karo Kothe par Beth jao
Oh my god this guys is bang on with understanding women. His wife will be a content with him. Green shirt guy needs some moulding to his nature about knowing a women
Thank god, someone speaks about this and spread clarity why things are happening in one's life. Thank you RHT, for bringing this up with such a great mentor.❤ Hoping for part 2.
Genuinely he's a man that understands everything about both genders very well . 1) men always think ki , girls breakup se easily move on ho jate hai, but he said no which is true. 2) he said ki girls relationship acha hoga then unka Kam pr focus acha hota hai, but boy ka kam acha hota h tb focus krte hai relationship me . 3. Thx for telling so much about men , kyu k kafi kuch ladkiyo ko ni pta hota ...and it's true ki fir girls time mangte rehti hai. There are all the points he said so well .
@@blackvenom2945how many girls have you seen moving on so easily? The one who is attached and invested takes more time , gender se kuch Lena Dena nhi hai
1st timr I've seen a Podcast in my life and trust me it was so freaking good. Helpful tysm Realhit for Such a Beautiful Podcast. It'll help billions of People. Thanks Vikas For giving us so much clarity On Couple Psychology 👍🏻
This man must work with our Govt, Niti Aayog, Education Ministry and should Design a curriculum under New Education Policy. It's Must for our Country Future 🎉❤🙏
Girls kobhi bahut choat lagti hai dil me lekin wo dikhawa nahi kar sakti Indian society me qki uski family ki izzat ka swal hota hai , aur jab married woman ke saath dhoka hota hai toh wo bachchon ka bhavishya aur unki emotional support ke liye nerve katne ka drama nahi kar sakti hai , mann maar leti hai aur khud ko busy kar leti hai , lekin mann se kabhi aise insaan ko maaf nahi karti
Durust kaha Vikas Bhai ne Questions asked in this podcast by RealHit brothers to Vikas Bhai were upto the mark and answers given by Vikas Bhai to these questions were practically related regarding relationships including other factors as compared with today's lifestyle. 👍🏻
Haan tum ek baat batao Kya cheat karna sahi hai kya ya tune bhi 10 ladko k sath Bistar garam kara hai aur yaha gyan chod ne aa gyi, loyal rhna sikho characterless toh randiyaan bhi hau
No Mr. Vikas, you are wrong about talk 20k and 7k words. These depends upon person to person whether its a male or female. Its depends on blood group of male and female who is more talkative and less talkative in both.
Thank you realtalk for inviting such a mature and intelligent people, but you guys should mention full name of the guest and his channel name (if he has ) . Lots of love from Assam ❤
HUSBAND and WIFE MUST WORKOUT or DO YOGA, or GO ON A MORNING WALK or a EVENING WALK TOGETHER DAILY. BREAKFAST / LUNCH / DINNER SAATH ME KARO WHICHEVER IS POSSIBLE. KUTTA 🐕 CAT 🐱 PAAALO.
Really, this is the unique podcast and really we should not follow the western culture. Now foreigners are following our Indian culture. Indian culture is the best culture overall the world.
10:31 exactly! Being a girl When relationship goes well i can focus on things very well on the other hand when it takes downward slope i get frustrated and disappointed and very sad then eventually everything gets messed up!! 😢🥺
@@rabimsah3241 no i didn't need ! It just i need someone to listen me ,someone to hold upon me when life gets tough ! Someone to be my side all the time!
My relationship to minus mein chal Raha Hain... Pahele 50 thaa... Kuch he dinon mein minus mein chala Gaya thaa... 4.5 years Tak minus mein chala Raha hoon... Main to introvert hoon, din mein 50 words bolna v pasand nehi Hain Ghar walo k saath, par husband se baat karna chahti thi pahele pahele... Aur Mera husband extrovert Hain, wo din mein 20000 words use kar he leta Hain, par meri baat sunney ka time uskey paas kabhi nehi thaa... Sabki relationship ekk tarah nehi hota... Cheat relationship v hota Hain, jaisa merey saath ho Gaya...
I'm glad bro said not all girls love guys who are rich and not all girls are attracted to money but he said girls get triggered by authority bro should've mentioned so does the men. men do get triggered if the women is richer, more independent or more educated or wise than men!!
Bhai app log ek messanger ke tarah Kam kar rahe ho. Today's youth involve in many bad habits and you guys work as a messanger ke " Sudhar Jao" (for youth) . Thank you so much guys
Not every girl moves on easily she just can't express and her family and circumstances doesn't allow and to choose the way she wants to live her life (just like her career)
Nice podcast, definitely he said correct we should not follow western culture and should work on our relationships, human emotional psychology .. Thank you
I think it would be better if the reasons behind a woman's psychology are better discussed by females and not males 😅 Bcos they don't understand the female psyche anyway. Just. No offence meant. 😅
This podcast is very helpful, some couple can realise their misunderstanding and can learn so many things...I think psychology is very important for sound relationship.
From this podcast I realised importance of spirituality which tells wishes are endless these make human to devil so keep Sanatana spirituality as parameter. 🙏❤️
Vikas is just amazing......I am amazed to see how a man can have this understanding of females.❤very much impressed . I wish my man can understand like this
Being married and comparing your man with a random different guy on the internet is not so mature. Talk to your husband and sort it out rather than sharing things here in the internet that will just make things worse
I love to listen Vikas Sir, my genuine experience is that i spoil my all traits just because lack of emotional intelligence, i just stucked in a one side attachment for years and affected my whole life.... But now i learned a lot from different people and podcast about mental health and emotional intelligence and changed my life 😊 Will be on a better pace soon❤
@@LilyYuzo sabko pta hai kon cheat karata Hai ye statistics ka chutiyapa band hi karo aise ho me bol du ladkiyoon ka rape hi nhi Hota kyuki more than 74% rape cases fake hai aab bol? Tum ladkiyaan sali kisi ki bhi sagi nhi hoti ho kabhi check kar Lena apne aas pass hi ladkiyaan hi jyada cheat karti hai, me khud college me padhta hoon mereko pta hai sali ek college Me rhkti aur dusra ka college k bahar kyuki Bistar dono k sath garam karna hota hai, are didi tumhare gender me sali loyal rhne ki takat bohot kam hai kyuki humne toh soldiers ki wife ko bhu cheat karte dekha hai, tumne kitno k sath kara hai ye bhi bata do, aur tum ladkiyaan relationships me jhaat barabar efforts dalti ho ye toh me dekh chuka hoon college me hi, tum ladkiyoon ka Sala ke jata hai dusra ready wahh, aur suno didi ek case Batata hoon college ka ki ek ladki k 2 boyfriends the matlab wo cheat hi kar rhi thi, jab uska ek boyfriend k sath breakup ho gya wo rone lagi batao yrr kitni loyal hai ladki wo
@@LilyYuzo tum bhi aise hi hona jo cheat karti ho kyuki fitrat jo hue tum ladkiyoon ki aur sun bhi wahi Hona jo ladke ki need ko hawas bol deti ho aur ladki ki hawas bhi need bol deti ho, kyuki feminist chodi hogi na
@@LilyYuzo ye age aur hormone k karan bhi cheat karte ho tum log toh bhenchdo randi ban jao na kyu shadi karni hai, aur sun expert sab cheez me true hai toh matlab tum lakdiyaan cheat ko bhi justify karogi matlab cheat karne k baad bhi tum log sahi rhna chahte ho ye toh wahi toh gya ki ek randi bol rhi hai ki wo virgin hai
Ego bhi hurt hua tha mera aur dil bhi tuta tha tabhi muje time laga 3 saal ka move on karne mein...zindagi me sb bekar bate hai pyar vyar bas paisa kamao har cheez hasali kar skte ho jaisi chaho ldki mil skti hai aur rishte bhi automatically bante hai paiso se lakh dukho ki ek dawa paisa..💵
