I feel like a strong independent woman listening to this song. But I'm a 16 year old man Ps: I recently turned 17; it feels so great to live a life like this! I'm 18 now lol
Hi I wanna tell you Jesus Loves You So Much He Gave His Life for our sins so we can be forgiven from our sins and Go To Heaven! Gods Love For Us Is Unconditonal ✝️
Lullaby_Moonchild I hate that so much lmao. Yeah I can see the coronavirus saying that shit 😂😂😂 I’m in Texas, some colleges have began sending students in housing away
This whole album was a constant when I went through a divorce becoming a single mom at 28 with 3 kids. I'd never been on my own & I was in an abusive & controlling marriage. This album helped me restore some self esteem & life expectations, boundaries. I belted this song with tears streaming down my face more times than I can count.
you got this queen! stay strong kuz those babies are watching you they are watching you be the strongest woman ever the one who doesnt take shit from anyone not even their dad. 👏👏 i made one of the hardest decision of my life as i was still in the hospital holding my new born son knowing i had nowhere to go i stood strong i knew that if i even went home from the hospital with him i would scar the precious gift God gave and i am dedicated to raise a man of God who knows who he is and is not an emotional reck.. now my baby is 18 months God provided even now that times are not hard they are great the blessings keep on raining! hold on to Gods hand and he will help you through it all so your children never have to see a single soul bring you down remember you are their super hero sorry for that long paragraph
Big girls don't cry because they don't want to be SEEN as weak. They're are actually very strong and to hold back all those tears is really hard to do. This is modern society, people get judged no matter what their doing, so for a girl not to cry means that they are strong in a different way.
My ex broke up with me and dedicated this song to me. He’s following his dreams and sadly I couldn’t be the one who helped him achieve them. I love you jaden, I wish you the best ❤️
when i was young like 5 years old my grandma used to make me listen to this song and we always vibe to this song. i really don't know what the lyrics meant before i just like the flow of the song. whenever i cry we always listen to this song. she passed away when i was 12 years old and now im turning 18 tomorrow and I've realized the the lyrics meant as i always have breakdowns and i always cry. i love you mama see you.
I think the lyrics mean what you want them too .. for me as a kid back then I never payed attention to the lyrics I literally just thought it meant big girls aren’t supposed to cry now I can relate to this song in so many ways .. expectations, disappointments , losses , gains etc it truly is an amazing song !
When I was little, I loved this song, but I didn't understand the meaning. Now I'm almost twenty and in my last relationship I felt the same way, like I was becoming too dependent on him and I needed to get over my issues, and to learn to be happy, independent, and myself without him again. Even though I knew it would hurt to end it, it would've been much worse if we went on without solving our individual issues and I had to learn to fully love and depend on myself first before entering a relationship again.
I'm exactly in this situation myself and I think I'm in love but I know it's not the best for me, I need to solve my personal issues as well but it's so hard to end it...
Imma try that with him. Kinda feel like an idiot when I can't find myself with the person I love (?) Seven years... I belive we can survive everything. And so... this... growing up
Same... I miss it everyday. It was when kids weren't fxcked up with that toxic shit that some people call music. What happened to all the great bands, I mean, Fergie had great music back then. What happened??
My mother passed away yesterday...and I remembered this song. Rest in peace mum...I'll work harder for you. It's time for me to be a big girl now...And big girls do cry...
2007 was the best year of my life. Things seemed to be going always uphill. Young, new experiences from meeting new people, playing outside all the time, riding bikes, the first crush, ding dong ditch, the first school dances. Economical situation seemed fine, youtube was amazing in 2007, even Runescape lmao. Music was great (not realizing this till now unfortunately). Things changed dramatically so quickly. Part of why I think we enjoyed it was because we had no idea it would all disappear. To us, we were just living life and it seemed to be default that the world was such a nice place. At that time I was able to make friends with everyone. I was friends with people who I grew up to be complete opposites of and later end up hating but as kids we were all able to be friends because that's just how things were. Life was full of color and fresh as could be. God I miss those times and hope to give my children the amazing childhood I was lucky to have.
so true..... 2007 feels like 80 years ago. and i miss it. it was the best year of my life and i had the best childhood. People who were born in the 90's or 00's had the best childhood ever. RIP 1990-2007
I remember hearing this song on the radio as a kid on the way back from fishing in Puget Sound with my dad. Good times. Can't ever go back, only in memory now.
I've been jamming to this ever since I was a kid. 2003 baby. Anyone else tear up at the fact that our childhood is over? I miss being a kid even though I wanted to be older. I wouldn't miss the chance to be a kid again for just one day.
Meee😔. I’m turning 18 (legally an adult) in October and let me tell you. I miss being a kid. Everything was so simple back than. I miss how everything was but all I can do is take a deep breath and keep on moving forward. I didn’t have much fun in my teenage years and it’s honestly makes me sad sometimes but when I listen to this song, it sparks happiness in me :)
Your only as old as you feel. I'm a 44 year old. Keep a young mind , play video games , ride a bicycle, live laugh , have fun try and not worry too much. Chill it's all good.
All these years I've listened to this song and I'm just now understanding it 😭 yes I needed this today!!! 🖤 Find your own way kings and queens and give yourself everything you deserve.
Life asked death one day “ why does everyone love me but hate you?” Death said “ because you are a beautiful lie and I’m a painful truth” And that hit hard
"But it's time for me to go home. It's getting late, dark outside" This one hits so close to me, it's the moment the girl I've been my entire young life with said the same thing, and then to leave my house, forever. It makes me feel the loss of her, the moment when she walked out of my life.
If we cry, it's okay... even though we are old enough.. you cry cause you're strong not weak.. if you love and hurt, love more. If you love more and hurt more, just love more... until it hurts no more :)
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Let me tell you a good quote to come along with that: "People don't cry because they're weak, It's because they've been strong for too long" ~Johnny Depp
Not me. I don't care where I am. If I feel the need to cry, I let my tears flow and I'll accept any comfort from anyone because I'm not afraid to show that I have emotions. Emotions is part of being human, people.
Makes so much more sense today than it did a decade ago.❤️YES!! I finally love ME!! I found my Peace and Serenity through all of the chaos!! Big Girls Don’t Cry.❤️
Sometimes you will outgrow people. Other times, you’ll realize that you haven’t given enough attention to yourself in a while. Feeling lonely can often mean that we are in desperate need of ourselves, and at times, we are the ones that need to give ourselves a big hug and say “it’s okay”. Learn who we are, accept our failures and accomplishments, and be at peace with where we stand and where we are heading. “Be with myself and center, clarity, peace and serenity.” I hope this helps anyone who needed to hear this. ❤️
Aah, finally found this song after years! This reminds me of my childhood...I used to listen to this and sing those lyrics...now that I have become older, I understand the meaning of this song and it comforts me...
What’s so crazy is that I rediscovered this song when my boyfriend and I ended 5 years of a relationship just two days ago on Valentines day (go figures loll) But we moved in together and started a home but in the end he realized he couldn’t move forward with me and I’m actually in the midst of moving out and moving past the sentiments and lost intimacy with someone who I loved with more than 100% of me. It’s so tender and bittersweet but at the same time we knew maybe it wasn’t just meant to be right now. To all my sisters out there girls you are absolutely strong no matter what predicament you’re under if you’re in the midst of overcoming keep your head up keep smiling and remember to take care of yourselves ❤️
Remeber, big girls do cry. We cry when we get hurt. We cry when we get mad. We cry when people break our hearts. We cry when we just can't take this world anymore. Girls reading this, it's important you know that. We walk this planet earth with fake smiles plastered on our faces everyday. "Oh, I'm fine," we lie when we're really broken inside. Do not believe that smile because every girl hurts, and you aren't alone. When you're alone, crying into your pillow because you're at your absolute breaking point, you are not different than any other girl because somewhere, she is doing and thinking the exact same thing. It's okay to cry because this world is cruel. Life is tough, but you are tougher, so cry it out then pick yourself back up and keep going because you are not alone.
Ariana Ryals can’t girls have anything without men being the center of everything? This is a girl trying to empower other girls who are hurting. If you’re aching to help the hurting guys then go do it. This is a post for girls, under a RU-vid song for girls
Such a beautiful song. I love it. It's almost as beautiful as Fergie herself. This song really touches my heart and pulls on my heartstrings. It reminds me of my youth and my Primary schoolmates.
Man, songs like this just make you wish that you enjoyed the past when you had the chance to. Back then, all I wanted to do was get a driver's license, move out, and be out on my own. But the difference between now and back then was how I used to love car rides because I didn't mind them playing these types of songs over and over. Now days, if I'm not driving I hate car rides because "Love Yourself by Justin Bieber" plays every other time.
Cette chanson me rappelle une époque où mon amour pouvais survivre a la méchanceté des gens et leur soit disant bonne intentions.Merci Fergie.Bonne année 2022 pour bientôt.bisous ❤️❤️❤️😭
zhubox03 yep.... like me... Rip Great Grandpa Don... And Great Grandma Pam, AND uncle Dug, miss you guys more then you may have ever known... You probably know now... expessally at night... while im staring and my own great grandpas shirt and remembering the last hospital visit before you were gone. God i wish i could see them again.. But i know... they will always be with me... In my heart.. As they dance in the sky's and stars of heaven... ✨
if my younger self could only understand what my mom was feeling while blasting this, with her cigarettes' in her hand and, the windows down. Younger me just looking out the window like I wonder what this all means. As an adult damn I should've just hugged you mama.
Alright, kiddos. Big girls do cry. We cry. It's not good for you to hold in all those tears that will turn into cuts on your forearms one day. Let it all out, and don't be afraid to. Just remember that there are people who love you, no matter what. Keep that in your heart for the rest of your life. Don't get a boyfriend early in your life and shatter your heart, wait until the right time and guy come along. Keep your head up, honey. :3
Honestly, I don't care to much for this 'inspirational' speech of yours. It's almost like.. you have no idea what you're talking about. You are wrong about that and it bothers me.
+Silenå “Master of Weird Faces” Beåuregård There's Two ways to cope with something. Positive coping and negative coping. You act like there is only one-the negative one. You only referred to cutting as a byproduct therefore only mentioning the negative opinion. That's why you are wrong. That's why what you said bothered me.
@@DesiMarie4231 but i dont cry though because im grown up now hence the song title "big girls dont cry". Plus i get what she means now but back then it seemed more sadder to me.
This song helped me with my first love, when he left me i said i dont want to live anymore.... 😔 Now Im married with someone else and i have a beautiful doughter 😊
My favourite song when I was 9/10. Honestly, this song is so nostalgic. Whenever I would get upset, my mother would turn on this song quietly and it would calm me down. I still do it to this day.
