FFXIV Dawntrail - Valigarmanda (Extreme) 

Try using the Party Finder! Lots of groups progging the fight atm.

@@s81n Don't be discouraged! See if you can attempt or practice it with an FC or some friends. I'm not sure what data centre you are on but you can make a practice party as well.

Honestly sucks i know how you feel. If you're willing to wait: wait until after a day or two of official release so those who didnt preorder will be coming in

Everyone has to start somewhere! It's early in the expansion and a lot of people are currently practicing. There are quite a few groups who are still learning. I only managed to clear because I'd joined other groups in PF who were also still progging. It's easier to slide into groups if you can cover a range of roles (Healers and Tanks are especially coveted).

That's not true. It may seem hard to find people that are still learning the fight as well, but it takes time. Open your own party finder saying your fresh to the fight. People are bound to join you. Good luck!