Appointment day, and a huge challenge for snack ✅ Little update too. We keep on keeping on 🌟 #anorexiarecovery #eatingdisorderrecovery #edrecovery #recoveryispossible #inpatient #dayinthelife #recovery
as a sufferer of anorexia for 3 decades, I've learned that perfectionism comes into recovery and can make us fall into the "perfectionism trap". I've had to remind myself daily that recovery is messy, and kindness to yourself will make it so much easier to manage. I'm mailing your box on Monday btw!-Danie and Finlay
I have quite the opposite issue with eating. And I am quite large so I am learning about a food disorder from you! I appreciate that. I use your words of encouragement and everybody that follows this page to help me on my journey of losing weight
Hey! Question and don’t answer if you do not feel comfortable, does the taste of food help with your meals. For instance you really enjoy hot chocolate powder in your porridge, does the taste of it make meals easier?💕💕
You seem to be the kind of person who would treat someone who is struggling with warmth and kindness. You absolutely deserve to treat yourself that way. You are worthy of self love.
Hi Fi! I have been following you for a while (came across you on TikTok!) and just wanted to say that I think you are so strong, sweet, and an inspiration! While my story is different from yours, I struggle with mental health issues that I have been addressing in therapy the last two months and your monologue on how hard you are on yourself and how you are where you are and its okay you just need to keep pushing resonated with me!! Thank you for being so honest in your videos and helping me see that I am not alone and as long as I too keep pushing forward (even though its so uncomfortable!) I will say "Thank God I kept going!" Praying for you and your recovery! ❤️
You’re so young - you have lots of living to do. I see a significant shift in hope, optimism, determination and your faith in yourself. You have turned a corner.
Fi, you're incredible!! You're fighting so hard, facing your fears head-on, and If you have a bad day you get up the next day and keep on going. I admire your determination and fighting spirit so much ❣️ 'nothing changes if nothing changes' is my new favourite saying. I'm glad you're trying to be kind to yourself. You deserve all the love and kindness 😙 I know that if I knew you in person I'd definitely want you as my friend xx
I keep thinking about a few videos back you described anorexia as a scream toddler trying to get their way. Well today in this video, you put your foot down and said NO! IT'S MY WAY NOW! Good for you Fi! I am proud of you!
Fi you are just doing so well! Even your voice is stronger and you are beating this! You are so articulate and balanced, your ability to think and process is returning. You are amazing x
Great advice!! Hide it in your heart and mind.. grace you give to others IS the Grace you deserve and are allowed to give yourself. You are so worth it sweet Fi!
I think I saw you in a coffee shop the other week. I had no idea you were local to me. I wish I said hello now! You’re doing so unbelievable well. Proud of you 💖
Would you ever be open to talk about your relapse? what caused it/how it crept on, if you ever realised you had relapsed while in it, and how you eventually ended up in hospital?
I do think it is a desission. It is now a daily desission. A desission for a healthy life. Of course it wasn't a desission to get ill. I was mxself once in that horrible place. Bit then one day I had to decide wether to live or to go with the annorexic voice and to die. Luckily I still had the strength to decide. Many got to the point where their body wasn't able to go on and it was to late. I wish you all the best on your daily fight back to a happy and healthy Fi. Go on girl. You can do it and you'll never regret it. Live is to good to waste. Love yor videos. They' re so motivating. I even recommended them to a friend of mine who is struggling massively right now. So, thank you!
There is going to come a moment where you turn the corner but what you need to know is you won't see it in that moment. You will look back and think "oh that's when it changed". I cannot promise you you won't have bad days or spells in the future, honestly I can promise you will have those tough times but what I can also promise is you will find your way and you are not alone.
You amaze me! I am so proud of you and your courage. I was one of those that thought anorexia was a choice. I think largely because of the way it is portrayed, or has been for so long. I cannot express how grateful I am to you for educating me, and the world, on the truth behind this mental illness. Stay strong and stay positive!
Just a question- for your brekkie increase, does it have to be the hot chocolate powder or can you choose anything?? Or does your dietician lay out specifically like “snack must be a protein bar” that snack must be …. Type thing ?? Or is it like “it has to be a starch exchange or some sort- whatever you want”???
Yay a Fi video. Really invested in your recovery especially as we started out in hospital at the same time and I'm going through this journey with you. Inspired by you and your bravery 🙌❤️ your personality is returning which is lovely to see ❤️
I've been in recovery for nearly a year now and I have only recently had the same realisation about nothing changes if nothing changes and I live by that now. I've been applying it to my studies and my relationships and my future. I am so grateful to have come across you on tiktok and feel like I'm sharing similar experiences to others and not completely alone. Thank you for sharing your experience
