@@shaunwhitehead1485 actually in california you have to return the ring or return it's value in money. All but montana consider it a conditional gift. Some states do actually allow the donee (person who receives the ring) to keep the ring if the donor cancels the marriage.
women dont usually wanna be just friends after a break up if the breakup was your fault. She wanted to keep him to the side to see if he "improved" while she tries other guys and then she would swoop back. Didnt work out that way because OP kicked her to the curb after the breakup. Now it is possible if you just werent compatible and it ended amicibly, but what she did was not one of those, especially once he realizes she was planning it for months. She was gonna string him along. edit after story: point proven. I might not agree with the cousin not being able to pursue thing, but it does show how far she was willing to go to get OPs attention(and no i dont think she honestly likes chris).
Stop being a doormat; you were her backup plan. He should have called a moving company, pack up her crap, and send it all to her parents. Anything less than that is pure weakness. You dodged a bullet, dude. The mother owes the OP an apology. Send a mass e-mail with details of what happened, don't let the psycho write the narrative. Also, dude, she is playing head games why are you playing along.
A fiance that picky and then dumps him....of course she has to give back the ring and get out. Seriously , she dumped him , how the heck does she expect to stick around.
If modern woman have standards, boundaries, and expectations let them know that you as a man also have standards, boundaries, and expaectations as well. And if she doesn't meet them, boot'em!
One trick I developed, and it often works, is when someone brings up some stupid shit like OP's mother did... "Do we have to do this dance, AGAIN?" They get angry, but the usually STFU.
This guy must love the drama. Just physically take back your property from her, that ring is yours and call her parents and if they won't help call the police and kick her out. This should have been done the moment she dropped him like a POS.
Did... Did OP completely forgot to tell his Mom that his ex is the one who broke up because she doesn't like his job ? Why did he just said half of the stuffs
She didn't want it to end this way, but she did want it to end. Just, you know. Living rent free in your place, eating your food, watching your TV and bringing strangers over for loud, rough sex while you are at work since she just wanted to be roommates.
Guys, you have to be more careful when you’re picking partners. Women’s don’t just want to destroy you, they want to destroy all of your relationships. It doesn’t matter if it’s your cousins or your siblings or your parents, the go scorched earth with you if you don’t do as you’re told. Please pick better.
Im gonna be honest, the guy sounds like a bit of a loser, dont really blame her for getting sick of him, but she shouldve just ended it and left instead of playing stupid games
Nah dawg the moment she said I didn’t want it to end this way I would’ve shot back well clearly you wanted out of this relationship long ago according to your diary you’re just mad it wasn’t on your terms
--- I wager ex-fiancee thought when she broke up with him because of his job hours, he would cave and quit his job to keep her. OP didn't cave, much to her dismay. Laura was hurting because although she didn't want OP, she expected him to plead for her to not leave him. Cousin Chris can hang with Laura all he wants, because ya'll are not a couple any more. Get over it OP, you played into Laura's plan to cause drama. If you had not voiced your unhappiness and had been nonchalant, Laura would have dumped Chris like yesterday's trash.
She was using Chris to get back at you, to try and punish you, good you blocked her, to bad Chris doesn't see the big picture, oh well he'll learn in time.
She never loved him and was upset he wasnt her playtoy to customize as she feels fit plus keep his stuff and benefits of the relationship. What how dare you not cover her living expenses and gift her the engagement ring anyways! Geeze feminist right. Lol She was only waiting to find the right guy to move on with. She found what she was looking for and did as she did. F her, she wanted a fall back and time to date around.
When an ex brings the parents into it and the parent automatically is defending the ex that's when the OP should be telling the mother the whole story and not just whatever manipulation tactic the ex is trying. The ex knew it was going to end but she thought she could end it on her terms.
OP should've repeatedly say, "YOU broke up with me. Give me back the ring and get out!" Also, OP should skip the foreplay and go straight to the eviction. It's her fault she wanted to ended the relationship. It's her fault she didn't plan on how to move on. And for the love of God, stop participating in her mind games and tell her f-off.
Cousin: yeah, I am hanging out with Laura. OP: OK. I mean, we lived together. In the same house. Slept in the same bed. How do you get those pictures out of your head? That will take care of cousin and Laura
"I had to explain to my Mom..." No, no you didn't. And you are broken up iirc. Why the hell do you care what this woman-child is doing? All of you are too young to even be dating, let alone consider marriage.
Omg, she dumped you and thought she could stay in your house forever?? That is just all kinds of messed up.. Your mom being on her side is crazy.. Im not at all surprized she flipped the script and told her friends it was all your fault.. Id tell mom to stop talking to my EX.. Break ups are brutal: I left a guy who admitted he spent the night with some ho.. It was his place, so i had to pack my stuff; he dated the ho for a few weeks until he realized she was a Ho: but the first time he saw me with someone, who was actually more of a friend than a date; he flipped out, acted like Id betrayed him..
probably a cheat gripping on to her bill-paying platform... the cousin? But, either way he fell right into the trap with the cousin 🙄 and any complaints will be met with `but it`s family you need to let it go` i wouldn`t be surprised if he got an invite in the future for his cousin and exes wedding 😂🤣 but i have to wonder if she was with the cousin for a while and didn`t want to break it off and lose her free bills and meals.
This doesn't sound like a break up, this sounds like a stupid test cooked up by the internet to test the relationship, and unfortunately for the ex-fiance it backfired immensely, she ruined a perfectly good relationship over a very trivial thing. Me and my gf have been together for 4 years, and most days we barely see each other for more than 2 hours total the whole day before we have to go to bed in the evening. But on days off we make the most of the time we get together. If the ex-fiance was so bored and lonely in those times he it at work and she isn't, why didn't she get a hobby, make a friend, get a dog anything really to feel not bored and lonely, instead of fixating on changing his job. What happens if he did get a new job? one with even longer more unpredictable hours? in a job he absolutely hates? What happens when she sees far less of him because of her decision to forcibly change his entire career? Will she be happier or the more likely she'll be even more miserable and lonely.
Some of these stories are so dumb because he should have told everyone that was close to him what happened immediately instead of letting her tell her side, and obviously lying which made people turn on him! Some of these stories are just annoying!
OGM SHE ENDED IT WITH YOU ! AND ITS YOUR HOUSE ?. NTA your Work in One of the Hardest Industries of All Working in a Restaurant is One of the Toughest Jobs you can think of ?.
Years together and you wanted her out in a week. Try 2 months and then start acting like that. The ring part is perfectly fine but the eviction is WILD
If someone is not good enough for someone let them go so they can find someone who will love support be faithful honorable loyal dedicated supportive understanding ect. You want to be friends you don't love me my job isn't good enough give me back my ring and go about your way. I don't want to be your friend you can now leave. Find her own place get going to the left to the left now change the locks on the door.
