Yeah me neither! I’ll catch an old video and see a ton of likes down in the comments section. Comments section is my favorite part of RU-vid so glad others enjoy it as well... Sean
I think there are so many infps in literature and movies because infps in real life become writers. Then, with that scope and ability, they write the way they wish to be seen.
@@shieldmaidenarreh4265 An interesting theory... Might be fun to read. I wouldn't necessarily call them victims, or even go so far as to say they were just misunderstood. But I do believe there are unexplored depths to the Dark Side, and that the Jedi only had a small part of the story. I'd dearly love to see a story that follows a squarely Grey Force-user, and get the reactions/thoughts of both sides of the Force (Jedi/Sith). XD
@@warriormaiden9829 indeed, but all i see in sith are angry children. But like count dooku, he joined the dark side not for the darkness itself, but for the freedom and lack of restrictions to the farce that the jedi kept, so i agree with you. But fun fact, thats also why dooku never had sith eyes was because he wasn't evil, he just wanted freedom.
Me as INFP: I want a girlfriend so much beacose love is amazing and it makes my heart melt. Also me: oh wait.... i am afraid to talk to a girl.... eh i guess i will live inside my head, here everything is posible
Mario B61 my fiance and I are both infp we stared at eachother for an entire semester of art before I finally messaged him on fb because I was too afraid to initiate a conversation in person he also had been wanting to talk to me the whole time but was also afraid
I relate to Charlie Brown standing up and then sitting back down I've had my fair share of days where I want to even compliment someone just to be nice but I never do
completely agree. i always make simple things complicated. i wish to be able to just leave my mind for once to be able to do something so simple without the feeling of regret.
I honestly feel like the modern society really influences women to have more INFP tendencies like feeling like misfits relating to external/body facets, being overly apologetic, feeling like they cannot express feelings or share their perspectives well, keeping the power hidden away inside and not feeling like they can be more assertive about it. INFPs can get shit done like everyone else and sometimes better with those perfectionist tendencies but they still get ignored and outcast and its perceived as ok. There is also the factor that INFPs feel like it is better to listen to everyones perspectives and take it all in before making a final claim so they are quite and listen more and are often ignored in the modern world because of it, until people come to really learn about what they are capable of. INFPs can't just walk in and influence a room it takes time to build up to that but when they do speak its more comprehensive and considerate of everyone present and based on a value system. I value all of these qualities but I can also see how they might make an INFP feel dejected if they are not strong in self love and self appreciation
WELL SAID MA’MN! Love it! Yeah I have a BIG distaste for what society places on everyone for what is perceived as “normal” (not a fan of that word). It’s so true that INFPs have the ability to do / create such impactful things, but time and time again are quickly rejected of their ideas upfront simply because that other person making the comment can’t see the vision since it’s usually so out there and abstract. With being hung up on things like criticism and fighting perfectionistic tendencies, this can create the “win environment” for the majority trying to repress that INFP individual which is extremely unfortunate... It still can affect me where others will team up on my thoughts (now a days I try to keep my passions more to myself and just DO them which helps to keep moving - once that “thing” is created then they can’t stop it beforehand). Funny because I finally just made a video that I’ve wanted to make from starting RU-vid “On being an INFP Male” (editing / posting tomorrow). In there, I do take the video towards all those stereotypes that have always affected me personally. Being an INFP male is a struggle due to a lot of the preferences and actions we do are perceived as more “feminine” so everyday life of wanting to just be myself can come with waves of negative criticism because I’m not acting “stereotypical manly” 100% of the time. I “understand” where these surface level comments come from (this gives me the knowledge to ignore / keep going) with them and it’s largely due in part to all the mass confusion that society has beat in our heads. Status Quo and stereotypes are something I really have a dislike for... Thanks for taking the time out of your day to comment!! 👍🏻 Sean
@@INFPHD I am a woman. I agree the stereotypes of society apply to everyone and pretty much everyone feels victim to them at some level in some way. I love children and the elderly because all these silly limitations we all put on ourselves simply seems to not matter to them, its a choice for them to matter or not and for some reason only those age groups seems to be the best at not being influenced. I wake up everyday thinking am I an in the mood to be a child today or an old woman who is tired of the world but still somehow charmed by it. So far it has been the best way to embrace life. Some days I swing from old to young and young to old in the matter of minutes but that only makes the end of the day feel like I lived ten lifetimes and that has been beautiful to see as well. Thanks for sharing your thoughts and the video Himani
Sorry about that Himani (edited previous comment to reflect) the image is obviously small so to the confusion. Yeah I’m a big fan too of watching children and how they have yet to be confused by societies expectations. Obviously when they grow into the teenage years and start really becoming their own person where the real world can grab them closer is when that strong amount of confusion and sometimes depression sets in because they were used to doing their own thing which can be construed as not ok. Raising a 10 year old and I super enjoy seeing her do those creative things where I make sure to give her full freedom on. I do from time to time reminisce on the “simpler times” where that’s just not the “now reality” but it helps me to keep the thought of personal freedom close to home. We can get to more of those self freedom states it just takes a large hill to climb and criticism fog to push through but I feel it’s worth it!
I'm always insecure because I can't fit in... but now i think, i think i gained a lot of confidence and I don't really care if i don't fit in anymore. I'm just gonna be myself :)
You go girl 👍🏻. Hard to keep on that path as the more you embrace that concept, the more the verbal resistance comes, but it’s important for us INFPs to look past those shots the best we can when it comes to personal happiness... Sean
I usually get infp on my test results and see that Belle gets categorised in the Infp section. I find this interesting because Belle is the Disney Princess that I relate to the most.
Hi Adora nice to meet you girl!! Yeah I’m glad you found a close connection there with her character as do I! It’s great to find relatable qualities within others to help feel understood a bit more and that we aren’t just some crazy people lol! Hope all is well! Sean
She's the Disney character I've always related to the most. She loves books, she's kind, she's a daydreamer, and she has a sense of wonder and curiosity. She brilliant. So are all my fellow INFP's.
Being an infp is the most painful yet riveting thing ever. Some nights I'd cry myself to sleep wondering why I'm like this, other nights I just enjoy being lost in my own thoughts. Hell, I even enjoy crying sometimes LOL Side note; while I absolutely adore all of these characters, do people actually find INFPs irl "cute?" I agree with creepy and weird but "cute" never crossed my mind lol
Honestly I feel like there is no better character to portray INFP’s like Amelie Poulain. I relate so much to her it always brings tears to my eyes. Thanks for including her!
Hey Miranda - pleasure to meet you girl!! Yeah I actually came across Amelie from a subscriber and yeah was completely INFP blown away! She definitely made the cut... Hope you’re doing well! Sean
I totally agree! When I was younger I thought I related to Amelie just like every other girl because it was cool to pretend to be like her. Years later I watched the movie again and felt a really tight connection, then I figured it out she’s an INFP and everything makes sense now 🥰
Yeah he is said to also be a couple other types, but I see a lot of INFP in him. He was also recommended via another INFP and I liked the clip.. Hope all is well neo! Sean
Yeah it can get rough sometimes managing all of our craziness. Glad you were able to find relatable stuff in there and just know amid all of our struggles we actually have tremendous abilities to make the world a more colorful place... Nice to meet you! Sean
Nice to meet you Patricia! Yeah I love to stumble across people / characters that I too have also always felt really drawn only to then find they are said to be INFP as well. Really cool!! Hope you have a great Thanksgiving... Sean
Does anyone else on here engage in intense daydreaming? Not just the looking out of the window and thinking types of daydreaming...I'm talking about creating an alter ego for themselves with a really detailed life story. I spend hours in thr evenings with my earphones in, listening to music creating my world.
Oh my gosh...... I thought I was the only one, I am always thinking about playing another role and switching up my personality. Kind of like acting I guess lol if you haven't seen Cruella, I highly recommend it to you! She's literally so inspiring, she's a queen
Yesssss! It gets me nowhere in this cog of a world, but in those moments, I feel sorry for the rest of the world, because they’ll never see the visions i have in my own headspace.
Daenarys is a good example of INFP: " I wanna help people I wanna stop the wheel". Danny when people break one her very personal stupid values: "Drakarys".
Hello Erin, I am an infp and I saw this comment and ended up clicking on your profile as well.. and noticed you had a supernatural event as a teen, if you ever see this reply, I would be quite curious to hear about it. I find you enfj's amazing also, it's so easy for an infp to feel invisible... but not ever from you guys, so thank you for existing. :)
I’m an INFP and I had a guy friend who is an ENFJ , AND OMG HE TREATED ME LIKE I WAS THE LOVE OF HIS LIFE LMAO, but I didn’t like him tho, Idk what you guys see on us, I mean, I feel so dumb and powerless being an INFP
Wanda's scene was near perfect with how I vent my emotions to one friend. The sense that I feel that I am being horrible to other people because I have brought false harm to them and she snaps me back into reality saying that I have done nothing wrong.
Yeah I’m right there with ya! These style videos was not so much as the characters in them, but rather relatable clips I found that I essentially spoke through in my own experiences... Nice to meet you! Sean
I know Dany can be controversial In terms of her type, but in the books at least, she's infp. She spends most of her time alone reflecting, well into the series. When she does have to play political games she's far less than great at it. She's interested in art and George, an infp himself has spoken through her directly a few times. I find stuff he's said in interviews parroted in Dany's monologues. This isn't present for many other characters. She's incredibly idealistic and yet wise, she only wants to do good but gets tied up in the extroverted thinking associated with good rulers. She does her best work creating plans alone behind the scenes, and acting them out. Her decisions are always preluded by a statement on how she pondered about it on her own first. Not to mention her immense empathy. Shes portrayed as awkward and nearly invisible within her own story early on. Only magical dream intervention gave her the strength to adapt to the dothraki lifestyle. I could go on and on...
Awesome depiction Paul!! Yeah Dany is tug-o-war’d pretty big in the MBTI world with what type people feel she is. I agree that there are many types in the series that she can come across as, but as can we in real life. I personally have been in Management roles for many years and even though it was an extremely stressful atmosphere for me I had to adapt and fill the role which was typically far from my preferences on a daily basis. During that time I would indeed come off more ESTJ etc, but to the core I know what / who I am. I like how you picked many parts out that can be missed from the many scenes of her dominate leadership role she was born into. It’s commonly said that INFP’s should avoid management, supervision, salesmen, etc type career paths - it doesn’t mean we can do them or be good at them it just means you are probably just going to have to work a little harder in your scary non preferred functions to succeed. If done then you actually can come out a more well rounded developed individual. Making these types of videos I know is opening a door to opinions which have come in and that’s completely understandable. I did have a selection process outside of just “me” picking them, but yeah the main point was mostly speaking through the selected clips I found to which I related to. Hope you’re doing good man! Sean
@@INFPHD exactly! This is why infp depiction in media as these strong leader characters is so important. Everyone is well rounded, and adapts when necessary, its Dany's whole arc being able to turn around her circumstances. I really enjoy her character for this reason, and I hope there will be more powerful infp's shown in the future!
Williams idk it seems that you got seduced by the POV trap. Dany is way more empathetic in the books, but she's also dwelling with her dark impulses all the time. To a point where she can detach herself from the bad stuff she and her dragons do. Is interesting to think Dany as a dark infp but idk..I see Sansa more like an INFP. She's more dreamy and escapes her own fantasies and idealized world of good and kindness.
@@LadyLilith1015 Sansa definitely fits the description of an INFP, I never thought of that! But we have to take in consideration that her dreamy state was in her early teens when most girls are kind of dreamy when it comes to guys, and on top of that she was very sheltered growing up and didn't know any different than kindness from others. I,as an INFP, never related to her, but did to Dany. I believe Dany is INFP because fictional characters I relate to almost always end up being INFP. INFP's are not always rainbows and sunshine, especially if we are unhealthy. Everybody has some kind of dark side, especially if they had troubled childhood. So I believe Dany as an INFP can have dark side and be conflicted. Also, knowing that she has some higher purpose could lead to her being able to detach when she is doing something unethical because she knows it's necessary..
@@yenneferL98 I think that Dany is more an INFJ. I've read somewhere that one of the INFJ negative traits is paranoia and thus when they believe that someone is going to betray them, the dread and pressure becomes reality, like the self fullfiling prophesy. And Dany has a lot of prophesies that makes her insecure and paranoid. And with Sansa, while yes she was dreamy and romantic when she was younger, she still is in her current state. Is part of her personality and mind pattern. The show made it seem like unnecessary and immature, because she never seems to go back to her love for arts and songs, they erased so much of her 😭 it breaks my heart. Perhaps she could also be an ISFP or ISFJ, too. So I'm not sure if I can cathegorize her entirely as an INFP, but she could very well be. I do believe that Dany is either an INFJ or an INFP.
Lmao. I feel like if I was a protagonist in a book or movie, I'd always end up forgiving villain. I cant even hold up grudges- and even if the cause of an argument is not me...I'm always the one who ends up saying sorry first 🤷♀️😂 #INFP
2:24 when the kid talks about books and the man said "who are you running away from?" The kid said "the kids from school" I felt that. I read to get away from reality.
Had a wonderful family and academic life. In the social context I was bullied prevalently for twelve years. I do hold grudges but not to the extent of hurting anyone physically. I normally try to let grudges go as it only hurts me and those I love.
Hey Abigale - nice to meet you! Yeah it’s all subjective and depends on where you look online. Edward (Robert Pattinson) is said to be a real life INFP....again all subjective. Stay safe out there 🤙🏻 Sean
I’m an INFP with avoidant personality disorder and in the AVPD community it’s theorized that Charlie Brown has AVPD. To find out he is an INFP too.. I feel like I relate so much to his character
Well do plan to keep diving into all the Personality type / psychology world as we INFPs tend to get fascinated when finding out. Been about 10 years now for me and still diving lol. Welcome to the party and nice to meet you Bethani! Sean
i always feel like I'm out of place, anywhere i go. i really want to have a friend, like, a bunch of friends who understands me. but no matter how hard i try, i just can't connect to them. no one understands me 😔
...there are people who get you out in the world. However, we are similar to you and spend a good bit hiding. So as much as you are hoping to find similar minded people so is everyone else. Large reason why I created this channel to essentially throw out video “fishing lures” to help us all better locate one another. Go through the comments sections and upon reading I think you will see many relatable things.. Sean
Most of my friends are INFJ, more assertive and goal oriented, but still kind and fun to be around. Try joining a club or chat room for something that interests you and you will be sure to find likeminded individuals. Best of luck!
Awesome thanks! Yeah I not an anime person, but have gotten a lot of anime character recommendations. With that I will definitely get at least one in the next vid, but also started to think about just making one solely for INFP anime characters because the list is getting big.. Nice to meet you! Sean
Lol - just go with it Mr. Beau!! I will say that rummaging through all the clips to find my choice one for these types of videos are very enjoyable/ relatable. Glad you enjoyed sir! Sean
Yooooo I knew there was a deeper reason I like belle so much when I was a kid, I thought it was because she has brown eyes like me and likes books, but we're also infp! ❤
I am an infp and i am living similar life as 500 days of Summer movie..thank god i've watched that movie, now i am not getting too emotionally attached.
As an INFP I truly believes that we as a person have to think both logically and about feelings such as empathy. I find that it's hard for people to do this and I rarely able to express this to other people because most of them just chooses to not listen at all. I know not all INFP can find this idea intriguing as their ideal is different from me. Because we have F in our mbti. When I did this test my marks on feelings and thinking just have difference of 2%. Moreover I have simians line on both hands. I think this is why I find that INFP stereotypes often felt weird and odd. I do understand how they feel and decided to be more proactive. But sometimes I am an INFP especially in term speaking 😂. So yeah my point is that our personality is more complex because we have so many other causes that may affect our personality. I can see the changes because I decided to face it not to just go with the flow... so yeah
COMPLETELY agree with you here and also why I combat stereotypes on my channel. I am not fond of people in the MBTI community assuming that just because you are a certain type that you "can't" do anything that anyone else can do. Sure, things will be harder, but any person can truly accomplish anything. I believe that life is truly traversed best with "balance" in every form. If you're too introverted that's a problem. If you're too friendly that's a problem. If you're too logical that's a problem. The more that a person develops their weaker functions the better that person makes a happier / easier life for themselves after all the work has been put in... Sean
Yeah that cartoon was very long running, and definitely weaved into American comics. I lived in England for 4 years back from age 19-23 - beautiful old country - very gloomy.. Sean
Retreating to books cuz kids are bullies, people not understanding you, laughing at people's shallow attempt to conversation, people watching as your own life passes you by, "not what everyone else sees", wanting to be included but not wanting to be rejected again, being able to feel peoples inner struggles, It all is spot on for the INFP.
Cool selection. Are you gonna do infp TV characters next? Or infp philosophers? Or infp comedians? Ah, the possibilities. Keep at it. Your audience is growing so you've got a pulse. Have a good day. Take care.
Yo BFC!! Yeah I was on the edge of that was my last one of those type of videos (however fun they may be to dig through all those clips). I love the comedian idea as I'm big into humor already so that may be worth trying to pick some more out of a pile! :) Sean
I judged almost all these characters as dreamy, nice and too off from reality but then I realized that that's how everybody else probably sees me *surprised pikachu face*
I think the reason there are many infp characters is that we’re pretty interesting people to others once they can see from our perspective. Being infp is a gift and a curse.
Yeeeeeeah I feel it’s the least I can do for people taking the time to comment. Plus I love the comments section 🥳 Not sure how I will be able to manage all that as things keep growing which is one of my thinking struggles. I’ll feel bad if I can’t get to most people, but at some point I assume it’s impossible or one would explode 🤯 Nice to meet you Ms. Potatoes 👍🏻 Sean
There is something about infp main characters, I mean seeing world through their eyes is so special, because of the way they perceive everything around them. Yes they are awkward, but very interesting at the same time and you can feel a lot of emotions when you are watching something from their point of view...And yeah I'm an Infp and I feel different, but I also like it♥️♥️♥️
Hey Brooke nice to meet you! Yeah I actually spent a very long time looking for a relatable clip from him. The clips weren’t just randomly out of a movie, but was strategic for sharing a message. With him I ended up tossing him aside because just couldn’t find anything that week. I’m making a list though for a future potential next one and he is still on it.
Oh, 500 Days of Summer hits different now ten years later when I know more and have experienced more. You know, the whole message of the movie is that Tom thinks they have this big romance between them even though Summer never pretends or implies anything like that. Also, I love Amelie. I had never seen a character like her before or after. I am like her or want to be like her.
Very nicely done, sir! ☺️ The *only* thing I'd like to change is the casting for the role of Bella (but Stephenie Meyer seemed happy with it, so that's all that really matters). **double bonus points for including a character portrayed by the lovely and talented Emma Stone (my woman crush, lol) #wcw
Thanks Nichole! Yeah Kristen Stewart broke ole Robert Pattinson’s (real life INFP) heart with that whole Producer thing or whatever back when they were dating. I just liked the clips I found with her so I threw her in there. Yeah I like Emma Stone as well and actually got her in there “twice” lol. You ever seen her in “Crazy, Stupid, Love”? That movie cracks me up and is one of my favs... Sean
@@INFPHD Yeah, let's just say I'm not a fan of Kristen Stewart and leave it at that, lol. The clips you chose from the movie were great though. They definitely fit. Why do you think I gave you "double" bonus points? 😉 lol "Crazy, Stupid, Love" is hilarious. How could it not be with Steve Carell in it? lol
I only found out that I was an INFP a few years ago. Not only is a relief to find other INFPs out there (I'm the only one in my family), but also to know how to put that into perspective for a life strategy.
Great to meet you Roger! Yeah I'm the only one in my family as well and throughout my physical life I've only come across "3" other INFPs. I'm sure there has been a lot more - just not tested ones.. To always fill that void of feeling misunderstood and essentially being cast away from the majority of society I found myself consuming a TON of relatable RU-vid content over the years. Watching others on here essentially helped me to conjure up the courage (took awhile lol) to also share my life's perspective with it all which I've found to be a great creative outlet for myself. I will say the connections made and the people you meet on here is pretty amazing and more of a common, understood, safe place to hangout in... Sean
True. Lately, I feel like I'm my own therapist, trying to find myself while finding a compromise between my ideals and reality. INFPs are in real danger of becoming unhealthy if constantly disappointed by the cold, harsh reality of the world.
I think Daenereys is an INFJ because she clearly doesn‘t see the good in everybody, she‘s very judgemental and prejudiced. Besides, the fact that she had her own idea of the perfect world which she wanted to force into reality by brutality doesn‘t seem like an INFP at all but INFJ. INFPs have their dream world, too, of course but it‘s more like „oh I‘d like to live there, there, this imaginary place in my head“ and we know it will never be the real world. In Addition, the producer of got fucked it up a little, in my opinion they didn‘t stay by one clear personality it seemed more they wrote what they wanted in the end whether or not it fits the character. Maybe if they explained her change of mind it would me more reasonable
I KNEW TOM HANSON WAS ONE OF US! I could feel it, I felt like i was looking at myself the entire time throughout the movie, the INFP male truly is a hopeless romantic.
I always knew it. When I was young I felt like Bastian, then like Belle and sooo much like Amélie. I love these characters because I find myself in them so much.
I think Shinji Ikari from Neon Genesis Evangelion is one of the most accurate depiction of an unhealthy INFP. Maybe that's why I found him very relatable at times...
Watching this video like "yeah I can relate to a few of these, that's quite funny. Dunno wtf Amelie was trying to suggest" Charlie Brown clip plays *TRIGGERED*
Peter Parker fumbling his way through a proposal, Charlie Brown siking himself out from sitting with the cute redhead, and Skeeter Phelan having to tell that man she's never dated were things I felt in my soul. I've done the last two, unfortunately, I remain unable to fumble my way through asking anyone out since I've already given up on the idea like Charles over there.
i was so confused about why the no.1 character i got was charlie brown when taking a that personality character test, followed by a lot of these other characters and now i understand 😭
Years and years ago I take in the myer Briggs several times a pause in college and I kept on getting INFPI didn't under really understand it then but recently . I have understood it and I've been highly intrested in it. And I feel like I've been having a epiffney after a epiffney. I am amazed the all these characters that I related to growing up and absolutely love Are INF p's.
Yeah Malaha the point was more directed at "small talk" when someone brings up "the weather" etc. I like rain as well as I feel most INFPs do as well... Sean
