Filipino Men Ask Me Very Inappropriate QUESTION...... 

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I am sorry you had to deal with those situations. That said, your daughters are both so adorable and mature. They speak so well for their ages. You're clearly a good mom.

It is hard to think of what to say in the heat of the moment. If someone else, in the future, asks that rude question again, you could say, “Yes I am sure because I am a woman. Only women know for certain who the father is. Are you sure your children are yours? Ask your wife, she knows”.

Something my father taught me when I was a child is that while you owe Family the truth, you don't owe strangers asking questions the truth or an explanation about anything. Just say excuse me and turn away, walk on, go back to what you were doing or whatever else you need to remove yourself from the situation. Hell if you want to have a bit of fun, just make up something crazy and watch there face as it bounces around in their heads. No. You don't owe strangers asking questions anything - not your name, not your phone number, where you live, kids names ... anything.

what a beautiful woman god bless you ❤

Your daughters are soooooo cute!!! 🤗

Unfortunately, the world is full of jerks. Leah, you're a beautiful, sweet girl, do your best to not let them get you down.

You are a beautiful young lady. Maybe she was jealous of your beautiful so she say something not true. Keep being nice. Don't let those people make you change.

Many filipino men leave their ladies who then have to make life work out for themselves as best they can. Good that foreigners appreciate filipina’s qualities and become the father figure for the children.

Those are the people who take advantage of Filipino kindness and gentleness. I would say something to defend you as well. People need to be called out for their bad behavior and shamed so that they might think before doing it again. Good for Gary.....he is a true gentleman.

We your viewers Rejoice with you and Gary in your honorable marriage, the two of you are now one . And you have a caring home for your two daughters. Leah you take the high road very noble. Self control and mildness are Godly qualities, love is Patient and Kind does not return evil with evil . Keep conquering the evil with Good

I wonder if he would have asked if Gary was at youre side.

Learn to ignore people that don't matter to you. Be above the situation and treat people like they are irrelevant.

So sorry to hear that, usually people that say things like that are envious or jealous of you or what you have. Don't let them get to you (I know that is hard to do) and if possible don't engage them or ask if they are brave enough to say that to your husband! Just know you are beautiful inside and outside and are a great mother and good wife so who needs more than that? You need a splatter screen for your fry pan so you don't get burned (especially wearing that lovely satin dress).

You are so attractive. Your skin tone, your natural black hair, your voice and accent... Wow

Your daughter with the curly hair reminds me of my grand daughter very cute 🙏

It's not easy for a Filipino/a to tell someone their being rude, disrespect, and inappropriate because you're raised to be non-confrontational. It's not that hard for a foreigner to say it, but of course if we say it, then we are the ones being rude and disrespectful. The simple answer would have just been to say "It doesn't affect you and is none of your business," and walk away, don't entertain people like that by answering their questions. If you answer their questions they won't think or realize how inappropriate they are being and will continue, that's why you need to tell people when they make a mistake or are being a problem, you can still do it in a polite way. Remember, it's an "ALLEGEDLY" religious country, the more stories you hear the more you realize, some just SAY they're religious because that's what society expects, others are only religious when it benefits them. Religion isn't Build-A-Bear, you don't get to pick and choose which morals and values you follow, it's ALL or NOTHING. When I go to the store, I know what I'm there for, and I go and get it and get out. The less time I'm there the less chance I'll WASTE money on something I don't really need and not have to stand around talking to people either. When I'm at the store in line, I look at the person behind me, if they have less items, I'll let them go 1st (Unless my stuff is already on the conveyor), they're usually done checking out before I'm done putting everything on the conveyor any ways. You give what you get, if you want to be respected you have to give respect first. Maybe the pregnant remarks was because you said you have TWO kids but only 1 was with you so she assumed you meant you were pregnant.

You are a good mum (it shows in your kids). Gary is a good dad and a monster when he needs to protect his family, as it should be (it shows in his wife and children). It’s lucky Gary was upstairs when you were questioned about the kids, I don’t think he would have taken those questions well. Be proud of yourself and your family, we are.

You are a wonderful person Leah. Anyone who knows you or watches your channel knows this. I think many people are jealous of you because you are so beautiful and have a very good life. Also some people are just rude. Don't let these people get to you. Most want to get a reaction from you so if possible just ignore them.

There are many rude people in this world. I'm glad that you're husband stood up for you. But he has to watch what he says. I'm proud of him. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

That’s a shame. When we went for a vacation there the Filipino people were all super kind. I loved our stay there. I hope you don’t let some rude person like that change who you are. 🙏

Stay graceful, 👍 don't worry about people with bad attitudes. They are everywhere.

My father is also not my biological dad. Looking back I think it's good to not tell her until she is older. It doesn't really matter for her if she has his genes, if he cares for her, she will feel like he is her father, even after she finds out it's not biological. To me that's what a father is, a parent who cares for you. Her situation is so much better than to have a guy there who IS her biological dad, but he abuses her. To me, that's even worse than having no dad at all.

Sister I experienced the same thing that you experience with your daughter, as an American black man this happen in the USA so after the 15-second of Engagement I just said to him I am so so glad to be in America): so I shook his right hand and put him on his knees while looking deeply in his eyes, he received a tangible message from me, that whenever my family and I travel to the Philippines we are ambassadors to the Philippine people with loving kindness to all citizens!

I think your very nice looking, I can't understand how somebody could insult your looks or say you look pregnant. And when frying food you need to use a splatter screen to stop the oil from burning you or ruining your clothes.

Get yourself a list of some one-liners. If she was fat or big, tell her be careful wearing high heals, you may strike oil. Or, if she's wearing green, say if that dress had pockets, you'd look like a pool table. It doesn't really match your personality to say those things, you seem very sweet and nice.

People like that bring it down in your life. There are a lot of people out there that are just very miserable or have miserable lives. And I have learned that people like that the only way they can make themselves feel good is by criticizing or making other people feel bad about themselves. I usually try to stay away from people like that I just smile and try to be very polite and to be honest it actually pisses them off more when you're nice and polite. Because you are not given them the reaction that they expected from you. Just keep being you and God bless. And do your thing about your daughter. Always remember blood does not make you family the love in your heart is what makes you family. Maybe one day I'll I will message you personally tell you my story

People can be so darn nosey.

That's the first question that cropped up in my mind too as soon as I saw both your kids. Your older daughter is from another man. So you were a single mother when you married your husband. That's so typical of a Filipina. Yes, it's disrespectful to ask a stranger such questions but deep down fact is fact. A Filipina will get pregnant, deliver a child out of marriage, then her boyfriend will disappear, then she registers herself on a dating site and finds a stupid white man (most of the times, a grandfather husband), seduces him and then marries him and has his kid. Marrying a white man elevates her position in the Filipino society by several notches, suddenly people start thinking she is extremely rich, her new kids have white skin, green/blue eyes and straight nose and she has found herself an idiot who is willing to not only support her child from another man but her parents, step-parents, 1000 siblings, 10,000 cousins, 100,000 distant relatives, a million neighbors and a water buffalo in the province. If she plays her cards right, she lands herself a visa of the US/Canada/Australia/Germany/Faroe Island/Denmark, or NZ and becomes extremly rich because her grandfather husband will die soon, given his age. That's the story of almost all the lucky single mothers in The Philippines. Honestly speaking, I am in complete favor of such marriages. A Filipina finds a rich old husband who pays her bills, supports her family until he dies, elevates her position in the society and he gets a housemaid, a cook, a cleaner, a massage therapist, a nurse, and an excellent bedmate. It's a win-win for both parties.

There is a lot of evil in the world today, pray for the evil. Thank you. 🙂👍👍👍🙏

You are a VERY BEAUTIFUL Lady ! I believe she was jealous of your youth and beauty ! Keep the great videos coming . 🌺😊

I would never say something like that. But my asawa has gotten used to me sometimes saying to a mother or a father or the parents together with their young anaks, "Enjoy him/her/them while he/she/they are young". I wait a few seconds and watch their smiles to see if they know what is coming. Then I say, "Because one day he/she/they will turn into teenagers." They always smile with a laugh as they think back to when they became teenagers. Talaga.

We see that Gary, like many of us older Sasquatches, loose our top hair. So, I was wondering dose his back hair stand up too. I mean when he tosses a bit a bass in his voice with volume., does his fur rise like Wolfe too. We like Gary and love the girls Leah. Many of us hope to finish this life doing what we do best, taking care of our girls, children and beloved.

Have an amazing day, take care and God bless you 🙏 😊

When I was living in Sardinia, Italy years ago, I never knew that the elderly randomly liked to cut in line. I was getting tickets for a ferry one day and as I waited for my turn to pay, two old ladies cut in front of my completely ignoring my presence. At first it used to bother me. Then as time went by I thought it was hilarious, so I started to do the same sometimes so that they could see how it felt. After awhile they knew who I was. If they were respectful, I would let them cut in front me. If not, I would act just as crazy as them.

It was good to call out their bully behavior in public. People like that will not stop bullying unless someone stops them. Americans call them “entitled Karens”. Good for you and it’s good to have understanding Utube followers to listen while you get out the frustrations of the day. It is also difficult to show all your anger in public when the daughters are right there. It’s a frustrating situation.

I resided together with my wife on Cebu for 7 years and i can relate to rude people passing comments or pushing in sometimes. Like Gary, i did not let them get away with it either and when i had finished with them, they shut their mouths. It's all jealousy you know? Bob.

People will be chisma because something is missing in thier own life. Be thankful that you you have God,your husband, your kids, family, and friends. Life is good. Don't give people the power to ruin your day. Wishing you and your the best. May God continue to bless you.

In America, they'd say, "Are you crazy? It's none of your business."

For this is a very simple answer. Tell him: it's not your business. That is what we would say in the UK!

I was greeted by a security guard here at a province supermarket, who knew me and my Fillipina gf well.. i was by myself that day and he said where is your daughter today sir oh i mean , your granddaughter.

People like that I would just ignore and let skip in front. They are looking for drama and to create problems, so if you say something they will have their argument and you will get even more upset.

The meeting of people like that is like stepping in dog poo. It happens sometimes and all you got to do is to scrape it of and continue. It is nothing to delve over. Life is better with clean shoes.

My asawa hates going to the province for that very reason. The chismas can get pretty bad.

Hha there was so much shade throwing at the supermarket. It's okay to let it go sometimes. Both daughters are cutie pies by the way.

Such adorable wee ones! Brings back memories. As for the knucklehead at the mall? I am deeply sorry to hear you and your adorable children got asked such rude questions. I was always taught, you owe only your family or the courts the truth, and for children, as much truth as is age appropriate. Strangers, salespersons, so on? You owe nothing, ma'am. Not even an acknowledgement that they asked a query, if too inappropriate. Besides, genes are weird. A 23 and me shows my red haired, Blue eyed, taller than I son is definitely mine, despite neither of us having any of those traits... but his grandfathers on both sides did... so the genes just expressed finally. (we were looking to see if any French ancestry in there, not concerned about parentage at that point.) Clearly you're a great mom, and a loving, close family.

The question was so wrong. Beyond the questions, and asking in front of your child is even worse. A good response at times might be, "Why do you want to know?" or "What? I do not understand why you are asking?" or just ignore and act like you are confused. Sorry you encountered people without manners and plenty of hostility. Now what will be funny- is if you are pregnant but really early! Go Gary!!! Anyway, when people act bad to you, feel sorry for them..they are unhappy. You are so pretty, pretty children, handsome husband...jealousy runs deep in people

I know how you feel because this just happen to me last week so it not just there because i am in the states and stuff like this really piss me off as well.

Hi there! I'm Mexican married to a Filipina and we're leaving in the United States. A lot of people that go with someone else get in two different lines and they end up moving to the one that is got to the cashier faster. I've done it myself. I don't find this disrespectful. Who told you that you don't suppose to do that???

Bless is such a beautiful child❤❤❤

Good on Gary I would have done the same and even more maybe. I cannot handle rude people.

Shocking Leah 😮 and our worse ones for us is when adult Filipino men say "Hey Joe" to our 3 boys aged 8, 5 and 3. They don't say it in a friendly manner but in a mocking manner. The boys are innocent...love Leah ❤

Hurting people hurt people. I've found it's better to not interact with someone who is that unhappy in life. They would love to learn that they ruined your whole day.

Taylor swift said it best, “ ppl throw rocks at things that shine. “

Everywhere on our planet are people who think and look first what others do, instead thinking about what they do or talk! Its that kind of people who failed to make themself a happy life, so they always look jelaous on other people and try to make them unhappy like they are!

Gary is a good guy for standing up for his wife I would have done the same thing I don't care if I'm a foreigner or not I wouldn't let no one disrespect a woman on with are married to no one they was in the wrong I would say something

These are envious people both the man in the furniture store and the woman in the store. I had a dark skinned stepdaughter, she’s Ecuadorian and my biological daughter is more fair skinned. Nobody ever asked me that when I was married to my ex wife. Even though I’m divorced from her mom my family and I still have a relationship with my step daughter. BTW your kids are so cute.

I think you are very beautiful and I enjoy listening to your videos thank you very much

Saturday, July 22, 2023 ☁⛅ ☁ I admire Gary for being brave and standing up to that selfish woman! 😀 Gary is a wonderful husband and a kind father. 👨‍👩‍👧‍👧 Yes, many people who look like adults are not really adults. They are selfish children. The woman in the grocery store was selfish and emotionally immature. 😕

The thing with foreign men even with sone of us young ones when we do get mad it is for a reason but I hope I don’t run into Filipinos like this in the Philippines

You dont owe any stranger anything.theres weirdos out there dont tell personal things to anybody yourr not comfortable with.

5:50 yes Gary’s daughter,part of the family. You forgot to answer a simple question. He didn’t mention biological

The relevant part is after 2:17. You're welcome.

Let’s all be nonjudgmental-we may not know about the other person’s life or struggles/hidden sufferings-a priest’s sermon once-he was on a train and he was tired and there was this man with his 3 boys running crazy on the train-he said can’t you control those kids! He said sorry-my wife just passed and it’s hard for me!

Lol! That WAS a day in your life. Just that it wasn't a very good day. That's just how life is sometimes. Thanks for sharing. I've heard of the line cutting in the Philippines and often wonder how I would react.

Hi , I'm a 66 year old American, living with my 28 year old fillipina gf in the province here in Bohol . We were at the pier when a fillipino man on a boat asked her if i was her boyfriend and then asked if her old man boyfriend was able to still have sex .Since this conversation was in Bisayan, i didn't have a clue and she wanted to avoid confrontation so she didn't tell me until we got home .

Do you follow The Filipina Pea? She warns us that people do that in the Philippines 🇵🇭. It happens in the US as well, but people will start giving them a hard time. Sometimes the cashier will make them go to the end of the line.

Some years ago when I first decided to find a Filipino girlfriend , I was thinking Thai at first , anyway it’s not allowed there in Phillipines that a foreigner be left alone with Filipino children and in public you will draw attention to yourself a white guy with children, it’s not a good look - bear in mind I’m a foreigner as well so I think of this rule before I let myself be in this situation - yes I also seen this selfish behaviour once at a ATM , this women couldn’t get her card to work instead of moving away she stood there and made a line up off people wait anyway that was my first experience with rude people there 😅

when someone is disrespectful of you always say yes I have six kids at home as well, and say im the 99 person and the 100 person get there cart paid for so can we swop places, and if they say are you pregnant just say yes sextuplets they won't know what to say because they are expecting for you to design it, good luck girl stay strong.

Fools are fools, rude is rude and ignorant is ignorant. I have one mixed Filipino/European child and an adopted Filipino daughter with my wife of 8 years. Don't let these idiots get to you. My wife was disrespected by a Filipino woman in the local mall, which started over a minor disagreement that somehow escalated. My wife was with our kids - I was not there - and the woman and her partner/husband made comments to the effect that my wife was somehow a prostitute for having children by two different men, one of whom was a foreigner, i.e. me. Fortunately, my wife has learned to step back and use logic/argument as opposed to emotion in any conflict. She was very polite, which probably made them lose so much more face. My daughter did not extrapolate on exactly what happened but she was somewhat brimming with pride at how her mother dealt with the situation.

Sorry to hear this man upset you. Why did he think it was any of his business? Being a father involves more than the physical act of fathering the child. When you and Gary met he clearly understood thay you and your daughter came as a "package deal" if I want this filipina I accept her daughter. You married had a second daughter and I'm sure he loves each girl equally. And why shouldn't he they are both adorable 😊

You know, you have to let things go after 15 minutes or so. If you don't let it go you will have Grey hair at a young age and wrinkles too.

The nerve of the first guy to ask you that especially while bless was there. Bless is a smart kid, but I hope she didn't hear him. For the second situation that was mind blowing. Some people like that just need a good old fashion chewing out(yelling) or beat down smh

People are just ignorant! My 3 children are all Asian and are adopted, 2 from Cambodia and the youngest from China. My ex-wife and I are both white. When I would take the kids out by myself, everyone just assumed that my wife was Asian and would tell me what beautiful children they were and that my wife must be so gorgeous. However, when their mother took them out, she would get dirty looks because people would assume that her husband was Asian and that was not as acceptable to them. This happened about 20 years ago in the US. We even had a visitor at church ask us in front of the children why we would adopt children from another country rather than locally when American kids need homes? My response was, not that it's any of your business, but if you took the time to know us before asking such inappropriate questions in front of our children, you might have found out that we waited years to adopt both locally and internationally! And that ALL CHILDREN DESERVE A HOME! So if you feel so strongly about it as you appear to, would you like me to recommend an adoption agency or a social worker for you to do your part? Hmmm, I never saw her again.

It sounds like some kind of a racial thing. People used sometimes think my ex-wife was the nanny of my kids because she is black although our kids look white.

Very narrow minded people dear I've had the same thing said to me because I adopted my son and people here in New Zealand have come up and dId are the father and what nationality is the mother my wife is my son's half brother her mother gave birth to him and we took him first two days from hospital 14 years ago so many times people have stuck their nose in and gossips all nationalities when the ask me are you the father I always say yes and I was at the hospital when he was born my poor wife gets really upset we really love our son I was the first person to give him. bottle the bond is strong even now he wants to sleep in the same bed as is he knows the truth but we are Mum and dad. ❤ Love has no boundaries God 🙏 Bless Jesus is king of kings Amen

You did the right thing. Never horror a bigoted idiot with a respectful response. They've done nothing to warrant your respect. Your daughter's father is the person who treats him as her Dad. Biological determinism is a dumb idea; please do not take anyone expressing this notion seriously.

Keep your chin up sweetie...some people are just jerks!

Shout out to Gary again I would have done the same thing

Lmao , too funny. The red dress looks the best .

I don’t know why I Filipino guy would ask that question it’s none of his business he’s a stranger you don’t need to know and the second part the lady is jealous of you because you’re so beautiful my wife is beautiful and it’s just jealousy of the other woman I would’ve flew off the handle to put them chipping in mind you did a good thing have a good day

What an extremely rude man, I'm sorry you had to be insulted by Such a fool, you have a Beautiful family I don't think anyone has the right to ask Such a rude and disrespectful Question. God bless you Sis ❤

O.M.G theres alot of that kinds of people in the Philippines Masdayadong Ignorant hindi muna nila iisipin bago mag tanong nang ganyan. I experience that when I was in Pinas and here in the US filipino din. Makes me angry 😡🤬

Stay strong❤

There is definitely a class system in the Philippines. The more affluent don't like to play by the rules all the time.

Did Gary have curly hair?

Leah Gary is her dad don’t let anyone take that from her and you don’t owe anyone any explanation about your family .

2 angels The baby has big eyes. Lucky Hope u can have a boy.

Kids don’t need to know that they aren’t “FULL FILIPINA.” Not that young

I am very sorry that this happened to you. There are idiots all over the world. The worst i think is that that dude asked you in front of your 2 daughters :/

Your right to be mad

Leah it is very hurtful when you experience rude people, especially when you are doing the correct thing. I have a feeling that she insulted you is because she is jealous. Gary did the correct thing by protecting his wife and family. Hopefully he shamed them into not trying that stunt again. A online high five for Gary for doing the correct thing.

Sounds like you have a bad day i too don’t tolerate people who do or say bad things about me or the people i am with . The guy who insults you should be thankful you’re husband wasn’t standing next to you .

It's offensive sure, but it's an *existential nightmare* for men. Paternity fraud has been prevalent throughout all of human history, there's no shortage of men who have _died_ without passing on his genes simply because of female mating strategy. That said, it probably would have been more prudent for the guy to ask the man instead of you.

My reaction to such a rude question would be "Would you like to ask my husband?" Or just walk off and find Gary, I'm sure that if Gary knew about that question, Gary would have handled the situation in a Christian manner.

I'm guessing the lady with the cart is jealous? So she treats you poorly. Is that a possibility?

Well there are times it's ok to tell someone to f#%& off

welcome to the real world

You should raise the subject of her father with her before others do: you must avoid her feeling very uncomfortable if she is caught off guard by discovering it outside the family. In playgrounds, children can be very mean to each other, especially when parents encourage this meanness. She is big enough to know what an error is; of course you have to explain to her that the mistake is not to have given birth to her but to have chosen a bad companion. She must also understand that the ties of the heart are stronger than the ties of blood: the father is the one taking care of the child.

You are so right here in the United States you go shoving your way to the front in front of everybody else you are right there be a big fight somebody in the head😅