Thank you spill bee for covering this issue. This happens in educational institutions too, I have observed that male teachers, professors and PhD candidates hunt and groom young female students. I am myself a victim of grooming. I was suicidal and I still get panic attacks when I look back. I suffered a lot in my early 20's. I had no idea at that age that anything like this would happen, especially in educational institutions. It took me a long time to get out of all these things, but the worst was that even in such cases, everyone questions the victim, I have been asked multiples times that why did you go to him? But no one asked the man a single word, it all passed as if nothing had happened. And all the blood-boiling thing is that such people roam freely and again start looking for a new target. In this journey I learned a lot from my experience, I want to tell you through this medium that you should warn the little people around you about such predators and institutions. Remeber Guys, grooming has a pattern too. All we need is break the cycle and pattern of lies. And most important thing don't be ashamed of your past. Thank you.
you are right this very much happens in universities .. I had a roommate who was physically involved with her tuition teacher since age of 13 yrs and accor to her, her whole family and village knew about it .. The teacher was very much married and had had children . He used to visit her in university as her guardian ( would you believe it). I never knew her family very well .. They were from a village in Uttarakhand but well to do ..but her whole family was weird .She would travel with her teacher on outings .. . God knows where She went with him .. Till now She has not married and supports him financially.. Cringe AF and pukish
@@arjunsworld205 I agree with you!!! The worst scenario is these things still happen. But why this happen??? you know? coz young people are easy to manipulate, they are soft target, they are unexperienced. In these cases we can't blame the minor. You know these predators don't do these things with grown up woman or women of their age. Coz they know if they will trap grown up women, they are going to be fucked up. So, they target young girls and women ( 14-18-19). This is predatory and pedophilic behaviour. I wish I would have known these things earlier, I won't be trapped in these things. In educational institutions, these predators lure young girls in the name of support, motivation etc etc. These young women think they are helping them and they fall in the trap of these pedo predators. And then these predators ask for sexual favour in exchange of support and help. Then these predators normalised it by saying ki yeh sab toh hota rehta hai. But it is too late when the truth is realized. I'm telling you these things from my experience. When I realized it was already too late, I fell into depression. I used to ask myself why it happened to me only. After talking to other girls and learning through books, I got to know that these predators are everywhere. I started healing slowly, took medicines, therapies. It's been 2 years I'm still healing and learning. Now I don't blame myself anymore. Coz I was a young and innocent girl. Thank you everyone for reading this. Please teach your kids these crimes in your home. I pray that what happened to me should not happen to anyone. Thank you
I live in Mumbai and also worked in bollywood as AD for few years me and my friends have seen kangana and Aditya Pancholi few times at cinema halls n at fancy restaurants trust me kangana was dating him, most of Bollywood and those Mumbaikars who lives in Andheri knows this well kangana was dating him openly even when she knew that he was married they both were equally wrong but definitely something went wrong in their relationship so now kangana is blaming him for this and that😂 kangana has history of dating married men she even talks bad about hritik after they broke up😂 what she doesn't understand is that a married man is not going to leave his wife for her and when that happens kangana start shaming and blaming them publically 😂 I like her as actor but as human no because I know she lies a lot and very revange full type of person she is.
@@shida2772 so so so true, i think she has some mental health issues may be bipolar or dissociative. she creates a different world in her imagination. her sis rangoli is no different. if i look at things from kangana's POV its actually sad. its not wrong to seek love & attention but i feel just like her onscreen characters she might be actually be getting violent in real life when things wouldn't be going as per her wish. that whole shekhar suman son's case with kangana was so freaky. and the way she started the whole a** licking a certain PM & blaming farmers & everyone else against a particular party's policies is just 😮💨😮💨😮💨
Maybe because she once said in interview that she don't want to do movies after her marriage something like that because she wants to enjoy her married life
After watching all your videos..i doubt is there any single actor who is normal... Edited: the no of likes I got is kinda crazy I wish I would have got that much subscribers ...hahah lol
SSR, kangana and many more newcomers who dare to oppose such wrong people face repercussions, look what happened with SSR. And kangana she literally gave good films like Tejas , manikarnika bt bollywood declared it flop , and what's a hit ? Stupid films of Salman khan!! Why are people bashing actresses like Kangana who know how take their stand??
@@Irl78 Dont u know Kangana's history ??She is no saint, she did all nasty things ranging from dating already married men to indulging in drugggggssss...
this video literallly brought my thoughts to words i am still very disgusted by the fact men above the age of 50-60 choose to work with actresses almost their daughter's age...its sickening and purely predatory and the fact it has been going on since the beginning, due to which this unnatural behaviour has became a norm in the industry itself, i feel sorry for the actresses
Thankyou spill bee for this video (about this topic) This happens in the modeling industry too... I'm a ex model and a fashion designer I also face this shit.
The actress is Lakshmi who acted in the hindi movie Julie. She was hugly popular in south movies... Her own daughter ran away from her home due to her step father's abuse, lakshmi never supported her own daughter
The reason why Kangana is the way she is today because of experiencing extreme amount of trauma in bollywood. The things she saw there is not something that normal people see. The way women were treated there in the worst ways and covered up. She was a different person before things happened to her. Suzzane khan came from a family whos father had done something to zeenat aman while suzzanes mom was clapping. Suzzane and her sisters attacked kangana like anything. Mahesh bhatt has a son who also was involved in some things. Karan, Mahesh, kapoors and akhtars all of the bolly directors bonded over unethical things and a hatred towards one particular community of people. Kangana saw the entire thing.
Also Mahesh Bhatt slapped kangana n abused her in front of the film unit n her own daughter Pooja just because kangana rejected his movie dhokha! I can't imagine the kind of trauma n suffering of kangana that's why she hit where it hurts the nepotism favouritism..more power to Queen kangana 🤍 she's self made lady superstar.
@@Butterflies-i3t plz fuck off with your biases and the Palestine flag as your account picture exactly explains your hatred for the actress afterall she speaks for the Hindus.
@@Love-vr3qx Raped a 14 year old. Constantly cheats on his wife. Suspect of murder (Jiah Khan). Battery and abuse towards neighbour and other people. Groomed Kangana. Has connections with the underworld. Threatened Anil Kapoor for his role in Trimurthi.
I think they are like that cause most of them go unpunished, pancholi’s son literally was involved in the ******* case still is acting in films….which people go and watch.
The problem is the younger ones are looking upon the older ones as the person that will guide them further but the older ones are knowing exploiting the younger ones such disgusting persons they are 😑
Kangana Has always showed the true face of Bollywood actors...But No one beilived or Supported her...Atleast people must listen to these people with seriousness......No victim In such cases Male or Female knows that what they Are facing is wrong..and even if they come to know don't know how to go ahead with protecting themselves and punishing the criminal for their self esteem. I thing Every film Industry Person if comes across such people and is alone or even has any kind of support...They must do what kangana Ranuat Had done to protect herself from Aditya Pancholi and Hritik Roshan family drama ..just Leave their company and escape.Find a safe place away from such people,do police complaint and after u have gained ur mind peace back fight back.
@@PreranaDey-o7z the Ajay Devgan one was a pety rumour that never happened and she got involved with Hrithik who apparently had his relationship with his wife in tatters they both were said to be married for name sakes while dating other people, Suzanne's name was linked with Arjun rampal too once.
But i think Raj Kapoor was the biggest groomer he always had an eye on young girls from dimple Kapadia to mandakni and even dev anand from zeenamt aman to Tina munim , I don’t think so Rajesh khanna did any wrong marrying dimple because in early 70s it was common have that age gap
Also ritesh Deshmukh started dating Genelia when he was 25 and Genelia was 16 💀 Edit: y'all also some 12 year olds are shipping a TV serial caste "barrister Babu" idk their names but the girl is 13 and the guy is like 25 or smthn idk why the heck people are shipping em in real life it's so disturbing
@@sarikajoshi7156 He was son of CM of Maharashtra. The age gap, power dynamic is too much to ignore. Genelia practically got groomed by much older and richer, more powerful man
Actually, you are absolutely right .I also watched Barrister babu, and it was my favorite show till now because of its learning lessons, but the way people are commenting and thinking about them is so disgusting, and I am not able to imagine how can people talk like this to such small girl she is just a kid ..........makers casted them because of the plot of the show but what happened with people 's mind what are they thinking? ........ is so bad .........people nothing to do with lessons and learning everyone is so busy in romanticism of everything .
Srk used to stalk gauri in school. She was a teenager and he was not cause they both have 5 yr age gap. Srk himself said that "gauri brother threatened him too but he didn't took it seriously".
He also controlled Gauri a lot and dictated her what to wear or do. Gauri herself said he was disgustingly possessive and controlling about her. I am amused he pretends to be women's empowerment now.
Shahrukh on outside portrays himself as someone hes not. His real self is hidden from most people. But the people who hang out with him often have seen him for who he is. Hes the opposite of all the good character he portrays. If he didnt pretend to be this good guy who respects women then he wouldnt be so successful amongst his female population.
Even Morgan freeman was said to be having an affair with his step granddaughter. It turned out ugIy in the end. And Ranbir too in an interview said it was love at first sight with alia during their interview for brahmastra's promotion but in recent interview with nikhil kamath he cleared that he met alia when he was 21 and she was 9! I can't see myself in romantic relationship with someone I've seen as a kid not even a teenager but a kid when I was an adult.
Amitabh ne bhi same krne ki koshish ki thi shayad kyo ki jab Amrita singh ( saif ali khan ki wife ) industry me aai thi vo hit movie de chuki thi, but vo Danny Dengzongpa k sath thi or dance kr rhit hi, Bolte hai Amitabh Bachchan ne Amrita singh ki mother se bola tha, ki agar esko badi actress bana h, to es se bole es se log se dur rhe mere sath rhe, Or ye bhi ki Amitabh Bachchan ne Amrita singh ko jabardasti kisss bhi kiya tha party me sabk samne, Aaj old age me jo bhi ho apne time me Amitabh Bachchan bhi bahut kuch krte honge me Or Jaya Bachchan ka jo anger issue h vo mujhe sirf age ya attitude nahi lagta Vo apne pati ki es si harkte bhi lagti h
@@lakshrampal2970 Haan usne Aks, Boom, Cheeni Kum, Nishabd etc jaisi films ki jismein young ladkiyo ke saath uske vulgar scenes the. Kabhi Alvida Na Kehna mein bhi tharki baap ka role kiya.
This is also happens in cabin crew course.. They didn’t even inform about this .. after 8-9 months when the grooming part starts students are helpless to do anything because their parents already paid huge amount to the courses .. This is very disgusting
I am Proud of you spill be 😊❤ Aap Bollywood ke dark side ko achhe se expose kar rahe ho taki , Taki koi bhi teenager Blindly Celebrities ya kisi ko follow na kare......You are doing amazing work for society 👍
Shahrukh on outside portrays himself as someone hes not. His real self is hidden from most people. But the people who hang out with him often have seen him for who he is. Hes the opposite of all the good character he portrays. If he didnt pretend to be this good guy who respects women then he wouldnt be so successful amongst his female population.
Bollywood n tv you see below 18 girls becoming lead or couple roles ...it should not happen 40 years plus man play partner role with 18 yrs old girl...they can easily manipulate these young age girls
It's disappointing to see how some older Bollywood directors and established figures constantly seek out much younger actresses. It creates an unfair power dynamic and sends a negative message about the industry's obsession with youth. Instead of focusing on talent and professionalism, it seems like personal interests often take priority. It's time for more professionalism and respect for all actors, regardless of age.
Thank you for saying it out loud. I was talking to my mom today that all these interviews old actresses are giving is such evident example of grooming.
I am glad you talked about grooming. It is common in UK. It has become common in India also. Older person targets young one, especially some vulnerable or ambitious young kid, promises them success, favours in education, career, then slowly they give them gifts, attention, praise, form contact with them, relationship with them, and then begin to ask youngsters to give them sexual favours, try drugs, drinks, intoxicants, watch porn, party till late night, have group sex, orgies, dress slutty or marry much older men or women or give sexual favours or drink, party, sleep together to get ahead in life. That ruins many clueless youth who do not realise they are being used. Their innocence, gullibility, pliability are being exploited. By the time they realise they have been manipulated, blackmailed, abused, used, thrown, it is too late. Kangana, Dimple and many more were victims of same grooming.
Unfortunately people blame girls. But the problem is that these girls are very young and innocent and always taught to be nice to others. These girls somewhere end up blaming themselves.
Bt fir bhi logo ka kahna ha jis thali me khaya usi me chhed kiya ....mtlb ye kahawat yaha fit bhi nhi baithti ....khaya to apne paiso ka hai usne ....or khul ke tab bola jab uske pass vo power ayi bolne ki ...logo me itni comensense nhi ha ki ...log tbhi lad skte ha jab unke pass power ho ....pehle kuch bolti to gayab ho jaati
@@dikshasharma7156 is hisab se to Priyanka kangana se bhi darpok Hui haina? Same cheez Priyanka ke sath Hui but usne stand nai liya khud ke liye...Or rahi baat power aane ki to obviously tu bhi kisi powerful insaan ke saamne muu uthakar jai chala jyga 🤣
But his wife ayesha also groomed young man almost 5-6 yrs elder than tiger her own son...his name was Shail khan the style actor she had an affair with him and disturbed his life fully now he ran to Germany and living life peacefully...
These powerful people in the industry truly know how to exploit young artists. This also happens in the west. Angelina Jolie has talked about this. The entertainment industry is one of the worst fields for both men and women
Mujhe Grooming naam ka concept aaj pata chala. Pehle laga ki grooming shayad training hai lekin baad mein laga that it is a really ugly process of sugar daddy and all. Feeling bad for Sujatha ji, just feeling that how much I have to go through in the film industry, as I am an aspiring director.😰
Grooming have several meanings. I hope you don't mistake when someone says they have groomed their pet or when someone says ,i pay great attention when it comes to my grooming 😂
@@yaasmiinn I knew the meaning of Grooming, I have heard about it in Best Of Luck Nikki show when I was 9 yrs old, where I knew that there are grooming classes for kids to learn manners and etiquettes. I have expected that grooming from this video but it showed a dark side of it.
From the old bollywood, everyone talk about how Dharmendra use Meena kumari 's fame to establish in bollywood, but recently one veteran writer disclose that actually meena kumari abused dharmendra physically, emotionally and when want to out of this she emotionally blackmailed him, Other story is jeenat aman, devanand openly admitted that he want to propose jeenat ji, but when raj kapoor comes in picture he changed his mind but that time or in his whole life he was married how can he thought about it, zeenat second relationship is much more painful with Sanjay khan (Hrithik ex father in law) he physically abused her even her eyes disability is result of his physical torture which he did openly and his wife encouraged him that time.
@@tanvitripathi3997male can definitely be victim and can't even share because they will be mocked for it "ladki se maar khata hai" types even in popular media make sexual assaults aur their physical assault is used comedic elements
Jab bhi esa kuch hota h, tab ya to wife ko apne husband k baare me sab pata hota h, Ya wife mili hui hoti h, apne husband k help krti h taki vo sath rhe
Thanks a lot for this eye opening video. Aishwarya is a good friend and she told me this in 2018 that her step father abused her and her mother was a mute spectator and she had to leave the home 🏠because of this abusive step father.
M soo shocked to hear tat actress Laxmi who is such a senior artist, very strong lady who raises her voice for the good dint support her own daughter n let this young actress go through soo much.. can't believe..she's my favrt but NW I doubt😢
Di kangana khalistan pe boli sikkh nd muslim comments padhi slap kand me bahut hate comment mila himmat wali hai Bat rha uske kuch v bolne ka to Bahut sare leader kuch n kuch hate speech dete
Everyone is the same. Be that Actors or Actresses. Look at Sushant Singh Rajput. What happened with him. Everyone knows how is Kangna Ranaut. Though some directors are also wrong. 🙏
They are talking about predators in their late 30’s and 40’s and victims with age of 15 or around 17 . 25 is still so young for a man I don’t see any problem with a guy at such young age falling in love with a 17 year old girl . They looks like sweet childhood couple.
I think you should make a video on why people don't call out outsider for their bad acting I mean there are many outsiders who can't act but they don't get as much trolling as starkids even though they are equally bad example manushi disha jaquiline katrina tara
This is so true ,I heard one dialogue from movie The dirty picture where journalist said "kya kre mard ko mahan banane ke liye aurat ko badnam Krna hi padta hai "and that line perfectly suits here ,this evil minded people are always protected by Media and women has to suffer 😢😢😢😢😢😢
Also its a fact that Mahesh Bhatt slapped n abused kangana infront of film unit n her own daughter pooja bhatt just because she rejected his movie dhokha! Had it not been outsider that molester Mahesh Bhatt would have not thought to do such act. Thats the difference of being insider n outsider..one hand you love your daughters like a princess and other hand molest abuse slap a outsiders n treat them like a dirt this is sickining I'm happy kangana raised that nepotism favouritism debate in industry where she faced a gruesome face of industry..i believe in karma n what mahesh bhatt n co done to poor outsiders their progeny have to face the brunt like her own daughter married to biggest casanova n skirt chaser n her whole life would spent pampering n pleasing him thats karma..more power to Queen kangana shine on 🙌
This is not grooming culture, grooming teach you how to be smart, good speaker etc, but this kind of vulgar things in film industry is just another form of casting couch or male's lust & obsession for young girls
Thanks for pointing these out that as soon as any actor or director reaches a stable stardom, they misuse it or just exploit their fans , thinking that normal crowd is a fool. It's high time ee should just consider actors as someone who does a job and not a star cause for beinh a star they should have atleast a decent human quality like respecting the people who made them a star
Thank you for these kind of videos because since very long time every industries some how glorify very problematic things because no one dare to question them. In movies and real life they promote the things which are normally considered as unethical.
