I hate having visitors in my house. If i want to see someone i will, just don't come to my house i hate my space being invaded. I lie and tell people I'm out when I'm not. I don't answer the door to anyone!
Michelle that's me!!!! My kids are so sociable and bring their friends home which freaks me out. I cry afterwards cause it makes me so anxious. I dread them asking for their friends over for sleepovers. So l know how you feel.
@@jeanenglish4234 i used to dread my kids asking for their friends to come for tea etc. I have friends that I've known for years that have never been in my house. I don't really like family visiting either but obviously they do albeit not often.
Planning a conversation before actually having it is somthing i do all the time. Like even before going to the doctors i plan out everything i say, and it never goes that way.
Chloe Dickenson Hi, I hope you don’t mind me replying to your comment. I used to suffer really bad with anxiety & would avoid plans with all cost. I still have my “off days” but what I will suggest Is one day just go for It, push yourself out of your comfort zone & you might actually surprise yourself ❤️
Wow. You should be proud of yourself boo .. I wish I would of waited to find my mr right first instead of wasting it in my early teens with a boy that was a complete plank lol 😂
Fliss Gregory please please watch Marissa peers “I am enough” videos on here she is an amazing Therapist and I swear I felt like you only a few months ago and after listening to her and trying to change my mind set I feel 1000% better. You are good enough you’re more than good enough don’t ever think otherwise!
I am the same I was like that from been about 12 . But it's a lot worse now I haven't left my house in four years I haven't been to any shops or out for coffee ect. I also haven't seen family in five years
@@xoalishaxo7600 no I live with my hubby but if I am honest I see him for about five minutes a day if that I just can't deal with anybody been in my safe place thank you so much for asking because people like you bring a little sunshine to my life 😍
My confession I feel the odd one out of my friends because they're all quite skinny and I'm a bit bigger than them and feel self conscious sometimes when were together.
Doesn't matter what your size is, you need to rock your body. Get clothes that compliment your curves and be your best self! There's no rule to say only skinny people can be beautiful
I do the exact same thing with people and plans. I have social anxiety and depression and as much as I want friends, it is exhausting to have them! LOL
exactly the same... & if I do find my self in a social situation I get super scared & become very sarcastic & rude without realising! I have a very rare type of social dysphoria (it's called TSDD aka trorma social dysphoria disorder)
My confession: Every time i go to the bathroom i have to open the shower curtain before going to the toilet coz i feel like someone is stood behind it watching me 😂🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
My confession: I’m currently in psychotherapy. I have been for almost 5 months for PTSD. Scary admitting this . I’m getting better. I realized that if you’re mentally not okay, the sooner you get help, the better. I’m on a journey 🌙 but I’m so so much better 😆
Don’t remember how or why I found your channel but I’m so glad I did, been watching you for a while now and you’re so down to earth I love it. Let me know if you want an anti social buddy
Legit thought u were spilling the beans phew it was just normal weird stuff we all do 😂😂 I always practise what I will say on the phone before ringing the doctor, dentists, insurances etc il even write it down cus I get so tongue tied n muddled up lool.
Love this ! I'm 47 and I sleep with a big stuffed dog every night. I think it's just a comfort thing. It calms me down and helps me fall asleep faster on night when I'm not having a severe insomnia night.
I can relate so much to this! Especially to the pretend not to see someone or hope they cancel.. And yet other people just see it as ignorance because it’s so so hard to explain!
Confession; I find it hard to love myself because of the size I am I’m constantly battling with my weight and it makes me very sad You’re so brave letting this out 😊💖
My confession :.I'm 13 and I sit on a bench on my own in all wether listening to my music and if the bench is to wet for me to sit on due to the rain I ether stand next to it or go sit in the toilets for 45 minutes :/xx
My confession: I plan what I’m gonna say to someone if we are sorting out an argument or something also if I’m meeting up with someone who i am not mega close to then I think of things to talk about before I meet up with them xxoxoxoxo😂😂😂❤️❤️❤️❤️
I don’t do plans now well very rarely!! Home is my safety. I suffer with fibromyalgia I do a lot of this. Well done though babes, honesty is always best! I’m a ghosty on you’re channel but I watch them all! Well done ❤️❤️❤️
Hi...to a fibro friend...I also have this horrendous and crippling thing!! You think your all alone.. when obviously your not I always cancel plans due to being in so much pain 🙄 and massively fatigued... I've had it for 15 years.. hope your having A good day..and glad we can relate!!🤣🤣
My confession is i hate my body. I use to be a size 10-12 now i can barely fit into an 18 and i hate it I've tried to do everything to lose weight but nothing works
Demi every one has there secrets and it takes alot to be honest your beautiful and special because you have such an amazing personality and I love you to pieces you shouldn't have to tell people your secrets your an amazing xx
My confession is that it takes me a huge amount of confidence to answer a phone call. I used to hate talking to people in person and would rather text or call but now, I can’t stand phone calls. I don’t know what it is, I’m very very shy in general and I struggle to talk to people, but phone calls are another level
Telling my mum i have done my music practice when she was gardening and i was acctually bing watching uu😂🙄🤣❤️🤤😍 lovveee uu and we all do stuff but u shouldnt regret it cause thats how we Learn ❤️❤️
Oh im defo the same with the phone situation but my phone is ALWAYS on silent but if ever it wasnt id just pretend im havin a converstaion with someone and if the phone rings look at it answer it and just be like 'oh what happened there? Did you get cut off? ' haha ❤❤ love watchin your videos
My confession- I have undiagnosed social anxiety and I had to quit my weekend job because I would make myself sick and have panic attacks before work as I hated going out so much. Apart from at school I hardly ever make plans with anyone because I get so nervous before it and I worry that it will just be awkward. But I’m making plans a lot more often to force myself to be more sociable so things are looking up 🥰
I absolutely loved watching this Demi it’s so good to hear that we all have are things and that we are not all as weird as we thought we may have been lol lol 😂 keep up the bloody great work girl 😛🥰
My confession: I can get so nervous and anxious about things I will stay in my bed for days sometimes weeks I also don’t wash my hair unless I have to why else was dry shampoo invented lol ❤️❤️
My confessions that I used to be extremely self conscious and I absolutely hated myself, suffered with intense anxiety and felt like nobody liked me. Now I’m all for body positivity, I’m a lot more sociable and confident and I absolutely love my life now 💕
I HAVE to use 5 squares of toilet paper or if necessary then I use multiples of 5 . I think the world will end if I use the wrong number of toilet squares. This is something I have never confessed to anyone ever before. I feel so much better. Thank you. X
I admire your honesty to hundreds of people, your so funny. . My confession is if im baking I pretend in my head im doing a utube tutorial. I chat away, come out with little quips and funny antidotes n think im bloody hilarious/ a professional baker!
Your basicially my twin. I thought it was just me who's such a homebody. My best friend of 20 years.... usually comes over occasionally and I cannot wait for her to leave. I love her to death but I just am such a non social able person... but people usually think I'm so outgoing lol.
U need to be sociable I'm 15 and my brother who is 18 he has anxiety now and depression he even started self harming I felt so bad for him cause I do it too the ambulance had to come the other night because he was threatening to kill him self I'm 15 and I had to see that it was horrible u don't wanna end up like me brother u need to get out of your comfort zone
From reading some of the comments It just proves, we all have our hang ups, flaws & quirks but at the end of the day we are only human. It just goes to show NOBODY Is perfect behind closed doors. It’s quite uplifting to see how similar so many of us are ❤️
You poor little soul. I can relate to most of this and I know you said you don't suffer from social anxiety but I do think you should maybe go to the docs. If it had been one or two things I think it would be fine but there is a lot of symptoms there pointing to anxiety. I can handle situations I can control and I'm familiar with but put me in ones that aren't I go to pieces and do everything to avoid having to engage with them. I did that this morning on my way to work, taking a longer route to walk to work. People think I'm a hugely confident person. I'm not. Please go and talk to someone who can help you relax and put coping mechanisms in place. Love and hugs xxx
Also sometimes I'm walking down the street and talking or singing to myself and then I spot someone and I quickly get out my phone and pretend I'm talking to someone xx
I do so many things like this too.....my confession is....if I'm talking to someone and I'm not really interested in what they're saying, I'll go blah blah blah blah in my head while they're talking.
My confession is I have depression & anxiety just suffered my third miscarriage in a row and don’t like going out alone. I dodge people in the street I’d rather be home with my family than out x
I hate washing my hair too and go mad with the dry shampoo lol. I also hate going out alone with my kids. I feel anxious and vulnerable and I feel guilty for my kids but I try go places close to home unless I’m with my hubby x
I suffer with social anxiety it takes a lot for me to meet up with friends & family I really struggle........if they cancel or change the date I’m relieved. I slways have my headphones in with the end in my pocket not plugged in........I have been like this for 5-6 yrs now so I totally sympathise xx
I tried really hard to become more social in the past. I used to think "what's wrong with me?" Bc I don't have many friends, I don't hangout a lot, ect, I'm 27 now. I realized a few years ago that im a loner but im okay with it! I love being alone and only having a few friends. Idk I guess it's just me, I don't really get much hanging out with ppl my own age.
I'm exactly the same with making plans like that literally about one friend i make an effort to see otherwise just stop even making making plans all together!
Confession I am crap at housework I get overwhelmed by the whole thing and I feel anxious when I’m around people when out I feel like if I talk to them they won’t like me . X
Your still perfect everyone has their secrets but not a lot of people are as brave as you and tell thousands and thousands of people, love you hun. x 💗😚
Oh my gosh I feel the same about washing my hair. It's so tedious, the longggg effort to dry and style. I've gone like 5 days before to avoid lol! So glad I'm not alone.
Bravo Demi you have openly said what 99.99% of all feel. Sometimes we are happy just to faff around in our jammies and do our own thing. That is being Normal and Human. Love love watching you, you are a Star ⭐️🌟✨💫⭐️💫🌟✨💫⭐️🌟✨💫⭐️🌟✨💫⭐️🌟✨💫⭐️🌟✨⭐️✨xxxxxxxxxxxx
Confession: I’m trying to be a youtuber it is my dream but my anxiety is holding me back. Also my accent holds me back but I discovered demi who has the same accent as me who is really helping me be more confident about it! You go girl
I so needed this video today!! I've been self doubting at the fact I'm so content just being in my own space and secretly also hoping people cancel their plans so I don't have to go out 🤣🤣🤣 my confession is I nap to avoid situations 🤦🏻♀️🤣
My confessions- I constantly feel I am not good enough - school is really stressing me out to the point where I have had 2 panic attacks today already - my anxiety is really bad and I have not talked to anyone about it!
Oh my god sameeee! I hate having to go out when I make plans, I've never gone out with my work colleagues and I've worked there over 2 years, it's become a bit of joke now that I never go out...oh well, I'd rather chill at home babes I pretend to be on the phone like everyday🙈as soon as I leave the house I put my phone on aeroplane mode and on silent and off I go with my imaginary friend on the phone😂
Love the honesty in this video! Good on you Demi 👍🏻 I’m the same with social plans and the whole ‘rather be on your own thing’ because I suffer with cystic acne. Although my other half goes to the Falklands for 4 months soon so I might actually have to talk to other human beings 😂
Wow... I thought I was the only one who hates leaving my house and hates people turning up unannounced...! I have told soo many lies to cancel plans with people!! Anxiety is such a debilitating condition, and it's so misunderstood. As awful as it is to read all these comments and see that there are so many other people suffering with anxiety and depression, my confession = it made me feel a bit better that I'm not the only one...!! Sorry guys!!! Demi, I've just come across you on RU-vid, and I'm loving how honest and down to earth you are! 💋 xx
My confession: no matter how hard I try to show I’m doing my best towards my daughter someone always has to moan and complain about it. Makes me feel worthless. It’s caused me to have anxiety and feel like I’m nothing and it’s not good enough
my confession is that I find it impossible to make friends at uni because i feel like i’ve skipped the whole party stage and am just more mature in the sense that im ready to be 5 years ahead right now like with a job and family etc so just have so much less in common than most people and it gets so so lonely. im also really insecure which makes it even worse 😩
I'm 16 and my weight is 6.5 and I hate it so much people think that it's nice and that but really they don't see how hard it is to find clothes my size and how ill being like that makes me 😣❤❤
Confession: I have the most RIDICULOUS phobia (sorry to anyone who might have it who I just offended but I’d love to know if anyone else has it) and I was ashamed and embarrassed to tell my boyfriend in case he thought I was pathetic. I have a phobia of bridges and tunnels. Everytime I see one or have to go through or under one it just puts me into full panic mode. It’s not really the feeling of being claustrophobic (though I kinda am) it’s just the look of them. I was travelling back to my boyfriends and we had to go under a HUGE one. I’ve seen pictures of it and it’s just my worst nightmare. Its like something out of a horror film and believe it or not I’ve had nightmares about it. I had a huge panic attack on a train full of people :))) Once, we had to take a shortcut and go over a bridge over a motorway and THAT was bad enough combined with my fear of heights and we had no idea what was on the other side and it was just the biggest tunnel you’ve ever seen. We hadn’t known each other long before that and I felt so embarrassed I just started crying and shaking and I felt bad because we had to go a long way. It’s ruining my life. I can’t go ANYWHERE without my anxiety taking over :( it just feels like I’m scared of everything. There’s a difference between being scared of something and that something being your phobia and bridges and tunnels are DEFINITELY my phobia.
Sometimes when I think about things I don’t want to think about I’ll just start singing “NOOO” or something random like that. Especially if it’s an embarrassing memory.
