Finch & Violet - Before you go 

We maxed out the first one, so let's make another one! Hope you are all doing good and had an amazing summer!

"He was busy fixing me that he forgot to fix himself" that pains me a lot.

" You don't have to climb a mountain to stand on top of the world ". A quote I really like from this Movie .

In the cover of the book, it says "The story of a girl who learns to live from a boy who wants to die". Reread the book again today. Breaks my heart every single time. Fitting song.

He made her a better and happier person, he healed all the pain she went through by losing someone she loved so much just to put her through that pain all over again

This song really fits them ...how finch helped her get out of her shell but no one realised he needed help until it was too late

We don’t remember days, we remember moments ✨ Thank you Finch ❤️

*Lesson learned today* I'm a boy, and I went throught this, and this movie is the only movie I cried at, after Titanic, out of 100 movies. I rewatched this movie 3 times already and I just realise how many signs Finch showed that he was the real depressive, in this movie. "Because she smiled at me" - when he wrote on paper and puted it on wall, I wondered why did he wrote "Because". I realised now : "I'm not killing myself YET, because she smiled at me". That's heartbreaking. I just thought he just did some dramatic "scuba" in his bathroom. He tried to see how much can he resist underwater, then tried again in the lake. And how it really feels. When he scared Violet. At the end, his sister breaks his heart by calling his dad a shitty person who can't be changed and made him feel that he doesn't matter, cause Finch thought he was messy too, like his dad. He said to Violet "My sister is all I have". His sister breaking his heart was his awakeness.. When Violet said "I was here", and Finch told ther he would steal this quote for him, that was a sign. A sign he wouldn't be there much time. In the group consiliation when Amanda said she wanted to kill herself twice you can see his face. He looked amazed, he was going through same thing. The saddest part is, his friends didn't know it. They thought it was only a dark mood. Finch always hesitated to be called "weird" (when he watched Violet at the table at school), cause it was heartbreaking for him. In reality, Finch didn't trust them and didn't take them as friends as they thought. And many more. Amanda asking him "Aren't you tired of people talking about you?". Like, that sounded so mean somehow. When you're depressed, you can understand this as a "Go do it already. Why are you even trying. Aren't you tired?". *Love the people around you, no matter what. You know your people. Act when something is going on there, don't stop when they tell you. Love. Love them even if you're homies, besties, stop the gay shit or shamy things etc. Be there for everyone. Make them really think they're not alone*

This movie hit me in the most emotional way. I lost a friend to suicide a few days after watching this, then found a bookmark he had signed while we were in high school that said he “was here”. Then last week, I lost another friend the same exact way, and we are still finding his “I was Here” marks. Whether it be in the video games he played with my husband and other friends, or messages he sent. Both of them left such a big mark on this world... I just wish they would’ve realized that before they decided to leave it.

"If you cannot say the truth about yourself you cannot tell it about others" this movie was just gorgeous

Don’t u ever just listen to sad music because it makes u feel better?

I don't know why people always define love as sex. Love is so many things but sex is not one of them... Love is a spiritual connection.

Okay random stranger on the internet... My story time for whoever wants to listen. Back in 2018 I fell in love with a girl. She matched me evenly and I honestly thought we won't ever change or ever grew apart. ATBP was her favourite book of all time (Besides Harry Potter of course), and we both associated with a lot of characteristics from Violet and Finch. ATBP became our little secret. The part of us that made us unique. I still remember reading the book to her on the beach. She had already finished the book at that time, but the ending was still a mystery to me. I loved reading to her and she loved being read to. We wrote quotes on all the adventures we went on to having. It was our special place. With her being a lot like Violet at the time, and me being a lot like Finch and what he has to deal with throughout the story, we always feared that (Spoiler alert) we would end up like both of them at the end of the novel. That Violet will have her own sticky note without the Finch. Only thing is, in this story it was not Finch that decided to go. She did. Right before we broke up, I decided to take on a new challenge for her. To learn Before You Go on my guitar (Check out Gareth Evans' lessons for this one, trust me). I didn't finish the song in time though. After the breakup, it was the thing that kept me going. A reason to go on. I finished the song and sent it to her, with the hopes of it sparking something again, as she loved to listen to me play... It didn't A year and 3 months after she left me, I am still constantly reminded of her. Songs, quotes, notes she left on my computer. And then at very strange times I would get a RU-vid recommendation like this one. One where two of the most significant pieces of my past that held the most pain would come together and pop up on my recommendation screen out of nowhere. Btw, she didn't want to watch the movie, as it would spoil the visuals she created in her mind from the book. I thought it was a solid watch, but nowhere near to what Jennifer Niven depicted in her novel Thanks for reading. Sometimes I just want to vent a little :) Enjoy your life, strange companion

"we do not remember days, we remember moments" 💔

"Because she smiled at me"💛💛💛

today, i found this unexpectedly 5 years ago, i found all the bright places in a thrift bookstore, i bought it 4 years ago, i met the guy who i never thought would change my life forever 3 years ago, we became a couple 2 years ago, he committed suicide and died. 1 year ago, as i was decluttering my things, i saw this book and realized i never touched it after i bought it, so after weeks of thinking if i'm ready to read it, i finally did all the bright places is one of the story i would never forget. it will always have a place in my heart because I never related to a novel this much. It's like the book speaks our story-him and me. there's just so much similarities. here's some. 1. Finch was really tall. He was. 2. Finch had bipolar disorder. I have. 3. Finch runs. I walk. 4. They both like Virginia Woolf. I love Woolf. 5. Finch was smart. He was also. 6. Violet loves to write. I do too. 7. Finch was called freak. I was called weird. 8. Finch relax on bath tub. I- under shower. 9. Finch always had facts and trivia. He had facts and trivia too. 10. Finch painted his bedroom blue. I did too. 11. Finch had a long scar in his abdomen. He had one in his arm. 12. Finch had a safe place-in his closet. I-under my table. 13. Violet gave Finch a book as a birthday present. I gave him one too. 14. Finch almost always planned their trips. I did to. 15. Before Finch died, he and Violet we're together to celebrate his birthday. We were too before he died. 16. Finch went missing before he drowned himself in a lake. That's what i've been planning even before i knew this book. 17. Like Violet, I learned to live from a boy who wants to die and died.

The first time I watched this movie, I stayed up all night til dawn, crying and thinking of the pain they both went through. It really pains me to think that some of us (in reality) really go through those type of things. So if you know someone going through these hard times/pains, check on them, remind them of their importance in your life. Also, don't be too busy checking on others that you forgot to check on yourself, take care my dear, know that no matter what, someone somewhere loves you, and there's always a light at the end of the tunnel. To anyone who needs this: Hold on, continue to have faith and hope, life can get crazy but there's still a lot of amazing things out there for you 💚💚💚

To all those hurting. There's always someone who cares. You just have to let them in. :)

Thank you school, for -depression -anxiety -bullies -fake friends -heartbreaks -making my parents scream at me for my grades -making me feel like absolute trash when I get bad grades -absolutely ruining my life

"You are all the colors in one, at full brightness"- this quote touched my heart :)

there are bright places even in dark times. And if there isn't, you can be that bright place

not even 1 second into this video and im already crying my eyes out. i didnt notice how good this movie fit with this song.

"The world breaks everyone, and afterward some are strong at the brighter places"

This move is one of my absolute favourites. I see myself so much in Finch, wanting to help others and forgeting about taking care of myself. I watch this video from time to time to remind myself not to get lost in other peoples problems around me and to always look after myself aswell. This video summs up all the major feelings and memories i get from the film, and the music is also perfect. Incredible edit

Lyrics I fell by the wayside, like everyone else I hate you, I hate you, I hate you But I was just kidding myself Our every moment, I start to replace 'Cause now that they're gone All I hear are the words that I needed to say When you hurt under the surface Like troubled water running cold Well, time can heal but this won't So, before you go Was there something I could've said To make your heart beat better? If only I'd have known you had a storm to weather So, before you go Was there something I could've said To make it all stop hurting? It kills me how your mind can make you feel so worthless So, before you go Was never the right time, whenever you called Went little, by little, by little until there was nothing at all Our every moment, I start to replay But all I can think about is seeing that look on your face When you hurt under the surface Like troubled water running cold Well, time can heal but this won't So, before you go Was there something I could've said To make your heart beat better? If only I'd have known you had a storm to weather So, before you go Was there something I could've said To make it all stop hurting? It kills me how your mind can make you feel so worthless So, before you go Would we be better off by now If I'd let my walls come down? Maybe I guess we'll never know You know, you know Before you go Was there something I could've said To make your heart beat better? If only I'd have known you had a storm to weather So, before you go Was there something I could've said To make it all stop hurting? It kills me how your mind can make you feel so worthless So, before you go

I remember The day when I watched this masterpiece way back ... I can't explain in words though let me try . I shivered badly from head to toe... My body hardened due to that cold... I wanted to cry but didn't. Tears were not ready to stop falling from my eyes...😥😥😥He was dying from inside but taught her how to live the fullest. Aaaahhh.... The Pain , that pain pierced my heart like an iron nail . Still when I think about that , my heart start become heavy , my eyes squinted to prevent the tears again and again. Loved this movie seriously ❤️ I would like to recommend to watch this atleast once . You will be introduced with the beauty of love.

"You are the colors in one, at full brightness" "People don't like messy" "There are bright places, even in the darkest times"

I was heartbroken with what happened to Finch

This is the most beautiful song I have ever heard. The words of this song exactly describes the pain which I feel everyday.

I can't stop crying over how beautiful life is. These movies have something special

honestly, no other movie has made me cry harder than this.

"I feel we can't go through another of those terrible times" -Finch ❤️

The movie is sad but the novel is sadder. I just bawled my eyes out when I reached the chapter (you know which one). Made me depressed for a while.

"there are bright places, even in dark times, and if there isn't, *you can be that bright place* ."

Whenever I hear this song I feel like this belongs to Finch and Violet and now here it is. The song where it actually belongs. This is a beautiful compilation. And it's sad but it makes me feel alive and contended every time I hear it...

Exactly knew that he is going to be the next of his "father" behavior And then couldn't find any helpful method to heal himself Finally ended up himself drowned by the river I didn't say anything wrong of his choice, just remember that you all who going through the darkest times rn, there is always some people who truly care bout you and there is always ways of any problems, its okay to be not okay just dont give up Your life is precious, and you're meanful for people around you :)

Listening to this masterpiece makes my day better :)

My friend once said that this movie was boring and I almost choked her sHE HAD A LAME COMPREHENSION. THIS MOVIE IS SOOO GOOD AND ALSO PAINFUL. THE PLOT TWIST NEVER FAILED TO MAKE ME CRY EVERYTIME I WATCH IT. FINCH😭😭😭😭

“there is beauty in the most unexpected of places, and that there are bright places; even in dark times. and that if there isn’t - you can be that bright place, with infinite capacities.” < personally my favourite quote from the movie. as well as: i feel a thousand capacities spring up in me. i am arch, gay, languid, melancholy by turns. i am rooted, but i flow. - virginia woolf (the waves)

Fitch didn't really die, he just went to the other side of the river.

'If only I'd have known you had a storm to weather.' Makes me cry every time 😭😭❤️

Roses are dead Violets are dying Outside I’m smiling Inside I’m crying

How sad is this film… This video just made me cry, amazing song selection.

Smile. Is nothing but an expression. A tiny movement. Easily faked. Happy. Is something felt. A nonexistent shout to the void. Seen even with a frown. We may not see it, but sometimes, happiness is best found, in places you never thought it existed.

this is one of the best movies i ever waatched and it also broke me

The song, Finch and Violet and the comments made my heart melt off again and over again.

"you are all the colors in one, at full brightness"

i HAVE to cry it´s impossible not to.. great work i love it and the song fits in just perfectly

"Lovely is a lovely word that should be used more often." Just finsihed the book and crying lime anything

I fell by the wayside like everyone else I hate you, I hate you, I hate you, but I was just kidding myself Our every moment, I start to replace 'Cause now that they're gone, all I hear are the words that I needed to say When you hurt under the surface Like troubled water running cold Well, time can heal, but this won't So, before you go Was there something I could've said to make your heart beat better? If only I'd have known you had a storm to weather So, before you go Was there something I could've said to make it all stop hurting? It kills me how your mind can make you feel so worthless So, before you go Was never the right time, whenever you called Went little by little by little until there was nothing at all Our every moment, I start to replay But all I can think about is seeing that look on your face When you hurt under the surface Like troubled water running cold Well, some can heal, but this won't So, before you go Was there something I could've said to make your heart beat better? If only I'd have known you had a storm to weather So, before you go Was there something I could've said to make it all stop hurting? It kills me how your mind can make you feel so worthless So, before you go Would we be better off by now If I'd have let my walls come down? Maybe, I guess we'll never know You know, you know Before you go Was there something I could've said to make your heart beat better? If only I'd have known you had a storm to weather So, before you go Was there something I could've said to make it all stop hurting? It kills me how your mind can make you feel so worthless So, before you go

i once felt the same like theodore. feeling so suffocated inside but because someone did something, as little as smiling at me, i decided to stay. i read the book after i had emotionally healed and it destroyed me. it made me realise that there are people out there that would feel like violet even if it seemed like there wouldn’t be any.

I opened Netflix and the trailer of this movie started played. I found it interesting and decided to watch it. It was late and I had school work the next day (At-home school). I decided that I would watch a bit and complete the rest the next day. When I started I couldn't stop. I finished the movie that night and went to bed. The next morning while I was showering I started crying. I couldn't stop crying. It was like Finch's death just sank in. I'm crying while typing this right now. He did not deserve to do that way. I kept on crying in t hj e shower, wondering how many people out there have gone like this and how many more are still out there struggling to STAY AWAKE. Finch just wanted to stay awake. I am planning to study Pediatric medicine and surgery, but after seeing this movie, I am thinking of studying psychiatry medicine. I just want to help someone. I want to be able to help someone stay awake and focus. I dont want people to die like this.

"Was there something I could've said to make it all stop hurting?" It hurts

Thank you to the person who created this video this is a true master piece

Some day I ‘d love to sing along this song while driving.

Is there anyone else, who is also extremely in love with the way she dressed in all scenes. Those sweaters wow

I found this music video few months back...I didn't know about Finch & Violet but I always wanted to read All The Bright Places. Somehow, I didn't get an opportunity to or maybe I was too lazy to even read what the book was about. I've always had this habit of scrolling down the yt videos. So, when I found this music video and scrolled down the comment section I got to know this movie is based on ATBP. I instantly knew I had to watch it. The movie is beautiful. It makes us realise that we never know what the other person might be going through, that is exactly why we need to be kind to everyone around us. I often come back to this video because this hits different, the movie, the song, the clips, everything

This movie makes me really sad 😭😢 all day I realized that true love is hard to find. But happy especially when you already find it. And also hard to move on when it lost. 😢

I can relate to both characters especially Finch😢 The girl who learns to live from the boy who wants to die I'm in tears😭😭😭😭

If you liked the movie you really should consider reading the book. It is amazing and you will cry your eyes out

in each verse I see myself ... I see everything I went through, all the end points that I thought I would have in my life ...and now I see, I love to live I love to live because all this is so god ❤️

Haven't even watched the movie but it connects so well with the song that it hurts. Great video.

All the bright place’s “ he save her from the pain and he lost he’s self so sad , cried so much on this movie for real , this song was perfect !

I swear I'm crying a river oh my gosh thank you for this wholesome edit .

I know very little English, but something tells me that this song is more than beautiful. 💕 I love it. 💕

Ever time I feel like am losing control and everything that has to do with love ,such clips and the music behind makes me feel much better and come down

At the end of the day we're all dealing with something that either kills us or makes us stronger, strange how something beautiful could hurt and kill slowly as times goes by and it was that one thing that ignited you and made you happy to everyone fighting a fight not seen with the naked eyes but a fight with yourself and memories stay strong and don't give up keep going you're stronger than you can ever imagine

After watching the movie i thought of a plot twist: When they first talk at the lake he said that a legend says that a group of guys disappered here, plus we never know where is father is gone so what if : his father was one of the guys who dissapered to a parallel world and Finch also asked his sis about why his dad was the way he was so imagine if he reached the bottom and went to this parallel universe to ask his father, and now he is stuck there and he cant join back Violet. Sorry my english might not be perfect tho.

I watch this movie again and again and still crying and not bored

I love this song! If you're feeling sad, angry music will help you get through anything! Because music talk to us in a way only if your feeling something you ll understand.

he was busy fixing me that he forgot to fix himself

Deep down we all need someone stubborn enough to break through all our walls, to make us feel whole again

We don’t remember days, we remember moments ✨

This is yet another awesome song filled with emotion

this movie broke my heart into a million pieces.

I love how this song is so perfect for this movie

just didnt stopped crying for hours after the end . I was here (:

I can never forget this movie 😢 I cried like a baby . It was emotional and a pure masterpiece. August 2023 here ❤🎉

Hey this is my fav movie and ‘before you go’ is one of my fav song also.. thank you ❤️.You just made my day 🙏

So, before you go Was there something I could've said To make your heart beat better? If only I'd have known you had a storm to weather So, before you go Was there something I could've said To make it all stop hurting? It kills me how your mind can make you feel so worthless So, before you go Was never the right time, whenever you called Went little, by little, by little until there was nothing at all Our every moment, I start to replay But all I can think about is seeing that look on your face When you hurt under the surface Like troubled water running cold Well, time can heal but this won't So, before you go Was there something I could've said To make your heart beat better? If only I'd have known you had a storm to weather So, before you go Was there something I could've said To make it all stop hurting? It kills me how your mind can make you feel so worthless So, before you go Would we be better off by now If I'd let my walls come down? Maybe I guess we'll never know You know, you know Before you go Was there something I could've said To make your heart beat better? If only I'd have known you had a storm to weather So, before you go Was there something I could've said To make it all stop hurting? It kills me how your mind can make you feel so worthless So, before you go

These are some of the best songs I heard and he said the same about the movie I recommend it

i can rewatch this movie for ever and ever and cry every time

I never knew that there was a movie for the book. I read the book a while back and it really hit close to home for me. I cried a lot after the last chapter. It was kind of cathartic in a way for me. I'll definitely be checking out the movie soon. Probably one of the best and saddest book I've read in my life.

Sad to think that many of us are always good at fixing others but can't fix their own battles in life. If you're not good right now and didn't even know what to do in your life, just remember that you're breathing, means you have purpose in life, you don't need to fight your monsters on your own. Stay safe and be safe y'all.

It's funny how I've been struggling with depression and lately, RU-vid keeps recommending me TED talks and self-motivation speeches and now this. Is RU-vid trying to save my life? If so, how does it know...

I hope you find the Marco to your polo one day

I read this book as a reading assignment from school, at first it was kinda boring, but by the half I was so invested that when I finished it, I was bawling my eyes out. Although I get why the ending is THE ending, I hate it. I wanted both to find happiness, but only one of them even for close to it.

the movie is really great, it's exactly how i pictured it when i read the book. 10/10.

"when she only felt pain one time, buti feel it everytime." you never know what people are going through.

I cried so so much.. this is so sad 😭 but this proves that for each and every person, there is always that one guy or girl that loves you no matter what.

Sorry to disturb your scroll, we don't know each other but i wish you all the best in life and may all things work out in your favor❤️

"You're all the colors in one, at full brightness." HELP IM CRYING👁️💧👄💧👁️

This is a good film. He was battling him self but healed her his job was done. Love is such a power thing. Suicide is so taboo subject. The pain is real. This song hits the spot also

i love this. the song and this book/movie matches well❤️

This song is a perfect fit ..... Please people don't hurt in silence. Remember God sees you and he cares about you more than anyone ever will ❤️❤️, stay blessed 🙏🏾

I wish I hadn't seen this movie, it is one of the movies that broke me again and again but also made me realize if I am gone than what would the few people in my life be?

"Há beleza em lugares inesperados. É há lugares luminosos, mesmo em tempos sombrios."

*More than losing her sister, i think what he feared the most was losing himself.* *And he did.* EDIT: YOUR VIDEO HAS PUT THROUGH DIFFERENT EMOTIONS AGAIN I LOVE IT

it haven't even started playing and I'm already crying.

This fits perfectly for when Finch told violet to leave and then killed himself the next day and she was tryna find him 💔 That *killed* me, I was so upset 😭 *FINCH* and *VIOLET* meh ship 💔💔