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I have lost ALOT of friends.. I don't know why people prefer friends to "save face" and not tell them the truth? I guess in a way I could sugarcoat stuff, but I'd rather tell it straight to their face. And because of that I hv lost a lot of friends.. Maybe I am the problem? But at the end of the day.. People who don't value you.. No need to waste Ur time. It's the art of growing up.. Real friends r hard to find.. Keep the ones who accept you not just for the good.. But for the bad too❤️
YES I’ve lost so many friends from being so introverted like I’ve had my friends block me and delete me everywhere because maintaining friendships is so difficult when you like your own company and especially when it comes to hanging out, I don’t have the energy for it, I have nothing against them, I love them, but sometimes I don’t wanna talk or hangout for a good 2 weeks and it’s nothing personal. it sucks :(
Omg thank you for this comment. I relate so much. I was contemplating whether it was an introvert thing or not... like I love my own company. I’m good by myself. I love my friends too but I don’t feel the need to communicate with anyone sometimes. Most of my friends don’t really understand it tho.
17:49 M&P: [being all serious] ashley: there was a time when i got cut off completely from a friend M&P: OHHUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU!!!!!!!!!!!! WADJU DOOOO?!?!?!? diane: [laughs histerically]
“there are 7 days in a week there’s time for everything” - Peniel it says a lot about him, like he’s an idol and he still thinks that if someone wants he/she could still make time for everything
Its really not that easy. Just cause he can make time for things doesn’t mean everyone can. Don’t judge people. You don’t at all know their situation. I am very impulsive so most of the things i want and need to be done I can’t get done because of my disorder. Don’t be so narrow minded.
Agreed. He's always like the brodge between the three, and there are times when he's like the one who concluded the topic and giving advice about that topic. I really love that bout him
Im introvert but when Im with someone who’s more introverted than me, then i’ll suddenly become a lil bit more extrovert to u know, not killing the atmosphere and make it awkward. BUT when im around extrovert person, i’ll let them do all the talk and i’ll just listen and go along with them😂
Your comment reminds me of 'Mermaid' which is a song by Cube Entertainment rap line including Peniel, of course. .and yeah, I agree with you..but idk why my screen is showing a different color, not green but cyan...
Its amazing how this podcasts gets real not just because of their topics but also how they think and talk. Like BM forgetting what he was about to say, their stories, and how they react about what the other person was talking about hahahah. Like it makes me realize that dude these people who are so cool and does amazing stuff also experiences sht like normal people do. I mean I know that theyre just people like us but I unconsciously think differently. Im sorry. I hope to get more of these so I kinda know what to expect when I grow up alittle more #GETREAL
Laughed so hard when BM and Peniel were doing the Regular Show "oooooh" and "aaaah" when Ashley was telling her story of a friend cutting her off. 🤣 I love this trio.
I've probably had the worst day of my life today (tested positive for covid19) but I saw that this got posted and i honestly already feel better (emotionally haha) Thank you for always making me smile. :) (EDIT: thank you so much for the kind words and well wishes 🥺)
I love how the guys always encouraging Ashley to be Savage and Spill things she's actually seems sweet but not very fake with people but she seems easily hurt by others I couldn't be her close friend I'm too protective I'd be punching people everyday 😂 I've had many male friends since I was little it would be very easy to be friends with BM and Penile they remind me of guys I grew up with
I had to cut my friend off this year even though we were a good friends for almost six years . She was a hypocrite and she talked to me only if she needed me . I really don't like those kinds of people and it's makes me sad to think back of all the moments we shared together but I never regretted my decision ever.
Don’t you always get something out of friendships and relationships tho? I’m not saying that the purpose of relationships are to “use” others but I think we always get something out of it whether we want something from someone or just truly enjoy their presence. You’re still receiving joy from someone.
@@NoNo-zw2bz I don't know who you're saying this to but But to answer your question yes you can joy and like the feeling of them when they are around but it's different when they only talk to you when they something or when it's convenient for them but when you know need them they are nowhere to be found and that's the part that sucks, that was kinda the situation I was in so this my perspective
Same. I had to do the same this year and I've never been happier in a long time. We'd been best friends for a long time but I had to do it for my own sanity.
I honestly wanna see them talk about race and dating and stuff would be fun🙆🏾♀️btw LOOVVVEEEDD this episode, the way Peniel talks, his views on life and the way he lives it just makes him more attractive than he already is oh my gosh like can I be his friend😭
Depends on the guy, of course, but from my experience, most of the guy friends I've had were "extra," haha. They can be more hype and dramatic than girls, and it's hysterical.
I love how much Korean American idols stand for eachother and are such great friends too🤧🤧. I feel like all the Divers + Sammy from The Rose are just so real and I feel much closer to them than a lot of other Kpop artists. I love you guys so much❤❤❤
The fact that BM and Peneil are ALWAYS ready to throw hands over Ashley makes my heart warm. Like, they are probably the big brothers she never wanted but they are the ones she is stuck with now
When I was in highschool my mom's illness got worst. I also was babysitting. Often my friends wanted me to hang but I declined. As a result, alot of those friendships drifted apart, the second half of my senior year. A part of me was mad because they didn't understand the responsibility I had as a caretaker. However, I also understand because there were times I could have done better. Anyways, it's been yearsss and we're all adults now. My mother passed away a few years ago so those memories i had with her are more significant than any friendship. But I'm thankful to still have my best friends (going on 10+ years).
The realest of friendships don't need contact or communication everyday. If friends make time to spend with you knowing they are busy they tend to be real. You make time for the things and people you really want.
Why does Ashley look like she was about to cry when Peniel and BM were talking about that bad vibes guy? :( Her face looks so sad after she kinda shifted to asking BM if he did not have to cut off a friend like that?
It's really okay to cuf off some (toxic) friends from your life it's like choosing peace of mind over some craps. And sometime people calls you fake friend for not being able to be there when they need you but dude you can't be there for them ALL THE TIME. You have your own life to live, you have work and stuff. You don't breathe for your friends.
Trueee!!! But that's the thing, sometimes we get scared of losing more friends .. they would say bad things about you to other people to make it seem like you are the toxic/problematic one. Ughhhh
@@mariechinks Omg yess!! there's this group of girls would go around telling lies to whole school about me. I don't care much cause after that my life is happy so yeaah. I just smile and wave
As a person who studied pre-med for two years and is now studying for entrance exams for medical universities like bro fr i have no time to hang out tho i want to so like stuff like this makes me day. Like even a random text is like so nice cause yk they still care tho you can't really hit them up.
Bm's, ashley's and peniel's vibes are so positive and just uplifting, their podcasts are always so interesting and gets you hooked and they give such good advices?? I love it
as a btob fan for 4years, i never see this side of peniel hahahaha he more likely quiet and sweet when with btob but on dive studio he's like savage and sassy sksksksksks
I wanna be their friends so bad!!! I need Ashley to be like an older sister friend. Yk like the ones that know cute guys and introduce you to them and the ones who look out for you and you can talk to. I neeeeed 😭😭😭
Pandemic brought me here, you 3 podcasts are addicted, i keep scrolling down into another you 3 episodes specially.. maybe too real, and look at u guys so comfortable with ur self… keep doing this!!!!!!! I dont know btob, kard, or ashley before this, but now i am googling you guys.. wkwkwkwk..
the title scared me as i'm going into adulthood... and i'm a super awkward person (i had a terribly hard time making friends). I'm terrified but these are amazing to hear since i'm actually learning from them
