Finding Safety and Security After Betrayal | Over 50 & Flourishing

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Today we're diving into the raw emotions of betrayal, trauma, and the path to healing. And I'm thrilled to have the wonderful Dr. Debi Silber, the heart behind PBT - Post Betrayal Transformation, here with us. Her passion for helping people regain trust in themselves and others is beyond inspiring. Join us as we explore practical ways to reclaim control over our lives after experiencing a breach of trust.
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@marieleemcgill5011 5 месяцев назад

I kept it from my daughter who was having her first baby that her father, my husband, well ex to be after 40 years of marriage was cheating , He Tried to deny it , wouldn’t talk about it. I didn’t tell anyone I went through two years of him denying it ,before I could find out the truth, and then leave .I got partial Alopecia from the stress . I wanted to be the strong one. I didn’t want anybody to know, so I ate my pain and gained a lot of weight and I’m having a lot of trouble losing it , but one thing I know is God was with me every step of the way or I would not have made it And I will not have hate, I will not have hate towards him.

@pinkva23 5 месяцев назад

RU-vid Alexandra Kay “Painted him Perfect.” This song sounds just like you and your situation. It’s so good. You will jam out in your car and cry! I have many times. Please listen!

@skoolie_life3261 4 месяца назад

My heart goes out to you. My father cheated on my mom after 35 years of marriage. She was with him from age 16. She only told me at first, and I was the only one who knew for a couple of months, at least. I’m sorry that you had to go through it alone. My mom is still not the same, and this happened in 2015, almost 10 years ago. She will be forever changed, but I have seen glimpses of her old self peek through over the years. However, there’s an underlying cynicism that I think will always be there. Sending love ❤

@BelindaM44 5 месяцев назад

This woman is talking about me. I’m really glad you did this podcast! Thank you both!

@DebiSilber 5 месяцев назад

Glad it resonated!

@krissywilson8660 5 месяцев назад

It took me 20 years to heal from the betrayals. Thank God I recovered! Family betrayals injure your soul more than anything else. My breakthrough came after I forgave the betrayers in my heart. Yes, when you forgive you’re healing yourself. God released my pain and anger. Only then could I move forward. That was 7 years ago. Excellent video.

@DebiSilber 5 месяцев назад

So glad you healed!

@JessicaJLandi 5 месяцев назад

I knew I would have to grieve/process all the feelings when I broke off a toxic friendship, and it's so interesting how I went through all the stages mentioned here and have come out on the other side with a vibrant, joyful, peaceful life with treasured friends who are healthy, mutually supportive and inspirational.

@DebiSilber 5 месяцев назад

Amazing!

@DeborahTSipes 5 месяцев назад

This is a very helpful video. The trauma of betrayal so well described, probably the most accurate description I’ve heard. I’m going into the 7th year since finding out, and I believe I’m in stage 3. I’d been slowly progressing, but feeling stuck and was just in prayer yesterday for God to please help heal my broken heart and to guide me into healing. This was very eye opening for me. Thank you both so much!🕊🤗❤️

@DebiSilber 5 месяцев назад

So glad it helped!

@alicekariuki2776 5 месяцев назад

It is the first time - I have written notes listening to a podcast. Valuable, valuable valuable.

@theresaforgione1967 5 месяцев назад

Same!

@dominiquesachsetv 5 месяцев назад

I LOVE THAT!! So glad this could help you. Thank you so much for being here ♥️

@DebiSilber 5 месяцев назад

So glad!

@sherryengel3956 5 месяцев назад

I have shared this with family. Thank you so very much. It was a help to myself as well going through divorce…then going from soccer mom/entrepreneur to certified traveling crane (International Union of Operating Engineers Local 103 Indianapolis Indiana)operator (as an empty nester) Dominque you have no idea how much you have helped me over the years with RU-vid videos and now the podcast!! ❤ By the way I’m loving Good Morning on Merit Street ❤

@sherryengel3956 5 месяцев назад

I apologize for adding the Good to the name of your morning show 😮. But still loving the show 😂❤

@c-p1976 5 месяцев назад

This is probalby the most helpful podcast I've ever watched. Thank you!

@DebiSilber 5 месяцев назад

So glad!

@LisaAnn-jv8fj 5 месяцев назад

I have been waiting forever….for somebody to broach this subject matter! Thank you!

@DebiSilber 5 месяцев назад

Hope it helped!

@susannne8458 5 месяцев назад

This is an incredible important issue in everybodies life. Who was not betrayed at and felt that shame and unworthyness. And because it is so shameful we do not talk about it. Dr. Debi Silver does. This is really courage, thank you !

@ClairvoyantCougar 5 месяцев назад

This is so accurate. Part of what is difficult as someone who has done and continuing to do the work is finding a partner who is in the same mindset. So many people are complacent with staying unhealed.

@Future-zx9ts 5 месяцев назад

I’m so glad you all discussed the difference between forgiveness and reconciliation (or rebuilding, as Dr. Debi calls it). I’ve seen so many people go through life refusing to forgive an offender, not realizing that they are continuing to dig themselves deeper and deeper into internal (and often external) despair, anger, unhappiness. It’s certainly no way to go through life, but the steps laid out in the podcast were very informative & helpful. I really appreciated what Dr. Debi had to say, and I’m sure it will give many people hope for a more joyful & positive future. Thank you both! 🙏❣️

@DebiSilber 5 месяцев назад

Glad it resonated!

@deborahbertolino9314 5 месяцев назад

This was an amazing interview. I have followed this woman on social media for a long time, but it makes a lot more sense to me now with you interviewing her and asking the right questions! Dominique, you are the best!

@sussannekeith5676 5 месяцев назад

Love this woman… it is so clear to me now how I have been repressing and staying stuck… fear is definitely an issue. We deserve better but we don’t see it.. until desperation sets in… thanks Dominique… you have no idea how much you help us ❤

@DebiSilber 5 месяцев назад

So glad you're seeing it more clearly. Now it's time to heal!

@NancyStinger-ll6wt 5 месяцев назад

When I realized there is no man that is worth ruining my health peace and joy over my healing began and now happily single ❤️

@leesh2684 5 месяцев назад

Me too.

@liana2136 5 месяцев назад

I believe being single is so underrated! Enjoy!! ❤

@NancyStinger-ll6wt 5 месяцев назад

@@liana2136 I agree and I do enjoy

@afoster3392 5 месяцев назад

Same here! ☀️

@jenniferkading3265 5 месяцев назад

Co dependency was not mentioned but this is what sticks so many people in stage 3

@angelashort7086 5 месяцев назад

I'm 25 years passed first betrayal. 13 years passed the second which led to divorce. I live in fear. I am not unhappy. I just don't feel safe to ever being in a relationship again.

@samc5877 5 месяцев назад

I hope you can move through the stages and open yourself up for love. You deserve it 💕

@DebiSilber 5 месяцев назад

That's not fair to you-you deserve to feel safe, loved, cherished, valued. That's what happens when you move through Stages 4 and 5.

@kathystclair9485 5 месяцев назад

I'm sure this was a very helpful conversation for so many. It makes any situations I have been in throughout life seem minor. I would like to add you both are beautiful women of courage. Dominique, your skin looks so very beautiful!

@becky8851 4 месяца назад

Thank you so much for finding this great woman and exposing us to her Dominque, your generosity in searching to provide info and support to this community is brilliant. It was a really useful conversation.

@rhondaduhe2038 5 месяцев назад

Best so far! Relatable to everyone.

@tinaallen8846 5 месяцев назад

Dominique & Dr Debi!!! WOW you both hit this outta the park!! Fantastic XO

@1960genius 5 месяцев назад

This was so beautiful and eye opening. Thank you Dominique for bringing this beautiful doctor on for us. And Dominique, you get more beautiful inside and out every day. ♥🤗

@tammorris6125 5 месяцев назад

Thank you for this pod cast,needed it.I do isolate myself and I don,t allow anyone into my life walls are higher and thicker than ever,I don't know if I will ever get to stage 5

@madelinekimbro2440 5 месяцев назад

We need to try. One step at a time. Blessings to you!

@tammorris6125 5 месяцев назад

@@madelinekimbro2440 I am trying,Ive actually taking better care of myself,getting out to walk more,eating better,and I'm liking myself again

@gloriayouchisonbrown7734 5 месяцев назад

Be good to yourself, if you made it this far, go all the way❤

@DebiSilber 5 месяцев назад

Yes you can...whenever you decide you're ready.

@mariejohnson1898 5 месяцев назад

Crazy great, always right on time! Thank you so much! ❤❤❤

@user-ei8rb7sj6c 4 месяца назад

Amazing parallel to feelings and symptoms after losing an adult child to alcoholism. I’ve had so many of the health issues mentioned and I’m almost positive there’s a direct correlation. I’ve looked for help by searching “complicated grief”, but nothing else has come close to the “aha” moments I’ve had while listening to this podcast. Thank you!

@maryfisherobrien2398 2 месяца назад

Dominique, I love the topics you bring, but this was spectacular! Such incredible, powerful, empowering information and education. Thank you for introducing us to her!

@ritagoedecke6574 5 месяцев назад

Thanks Dominique and Dr. Silber , loved this podcast! Thanks very much.

@angelhands7 4 месяца назад

Great job, with this discussion, Dominique and Dr. Silber! I was invested, in this discussion, from beginning 2 end 🧡

@lorilipton2149 5 месяцев назад

Fabulous, Fantastic, Woken Up !!! Wow, this was what I needed to hear Now!! Heading into stage 4 and finding myself slipping some days into stage 3, I finally rallied my 2 besties to help me get to stage 4 knowing I HAD TO HAVE THE PUSH because I am ready. Thank you, thank you for having this talk. Blessings to everyone, Lori

@Greg-h1y 5 месяцев назад

ALOHA DOMINIQUE LOOKING GORGEOUS AS EVER XOXOXO❤🔥🩷🙏🩷🙌🏽💚🏄🏼⭐️💚💎🌟🩷

@lynnemason2908 4 месяца назад

Excellent and so helpful. Thank you!

@susanmargaretryan 5 месяцев назад

You rock, Dominque. I hope you continue to get the support you deserve so you can continue to support the rest of us

@judytherrien4394 5 месяцев назад

Thank you again for an outstanding guest

@kcoburn126 5 месяцев назад

Thank you so much for this! This was so helpful and I can't wait to get the books.

@joycesloman8533 5 месяцев назад

OMG this one hit home. Thanks so much....Love from Canada

@CherylMarciano 5 месяцев назад

What a show. Wow wee. She is amazing. Going to find her podcast asap

@samtadat 5 месяцев назад

Incredible. Thank you for featuring this subject, Dominique.

@firstklasshealthandwellnes1077 5 месяцев назад

I did her program several years ago and it was the BEST and pretty much ONLY thing that gave me a holy smack in the face and said HERE'S WHAT'S GOING ON!! WHAT A WAKEUP CALL!!

@suzannem6300 5 месяцев назад

Stage 3 is en easy stage to live in. I realized I was living in that stage for about 2 years, then realized the only person truly hurting was myself. When I made that realization, I then chose to view myself more laterally, I learned to compartmentalize that part in my life. Soon, I began to notice myself saying "those emotions, do not serve me" or "I'm not bothered by the memories, but how I live my present will be healthy". Then I noticed, I had forgiven, and love my new stage in life. There comes a time in our pain when we've had enough and learn from within to turn away from it to find new happiness.

@joanne1468 5 месяцев назад

I don't always reply but this woman is as fantastic as she is astute! She nailed it!! Of all your guest she's the one who spoke to me the most. I hope you invite her back.

@melodireyes9687 5 месяцев назад

This was great! Thank you, Dominique. Another person who might interest you and this group is Amy Chan, who developed "The Breakup Bootcamp". She has a similar story of betrayal followed by peronal growth. She is someone I admire.

@ireneleedy1723 5 месяцев назад

Best video I ever watched. I know so many people in stage 3 including myself. Can’t wait to move on to stage 4

@DebiSilber 5 месяцев назад

Thank you and YES! Onto Stages 4 and 5.

@heatherwenzel6886 5 месяцев назад

Thank you for this!

@ginaalesha2 5 месяцев назад

Dominique, your podcasts keep getting better and better!❤

@janicebrito4801 5 месяцев назад

WOW!!! Enjoyed and learned so much!! I think I need the stages book! Great podcast Ladies!!!!💕

@jenniferkading3265 5 месяцев назад

So great! Really hits home . Great job! You’re flourishing!🎉

@jenniferkading3265 5 месяцев назад

Stuck in stage 3

@sharonbrinders1224 5 месяцев назад

So much value, great podcast. Thank you both of you.

@barblalonde3824 5 месяцев назад

WOW…..information overload. Such great news… affirmation….thank you for this! 👍🏼

@karenscookingkorner 5 месяцев назад

Sorry lost me at her remarrying her ex. Not relatable whatsoever for me….but thats just me 🤷‍♀️

@sharonkay2674 5 месяцев назад

I was shocked by her answer as well. It seemed to lessen her advice. However, I'll listen to the end.

@DebiSilber 5 месяцев назад

Never would have done it either if we both weren't in Stage 5.

@equatorialjourney4478 5 месяцев назад

Very unrelatable and too personalised . Most betrayals end bc one partner totally detaches emotionally, physically and spiritually & moves on ; builds a new life w new partner , new family ; is not interested in building meaningful bridges w ex; putting in heartfelt emotional effort to own their ‘ part ‘ in the demise of the marriage . I see this ‘ program’ providing a false hope to the wounded party & providing perhaps further heartache and false promises of a spiritual resolution . Sadly, it will also be viewed mostly by women, mothers, nurturers who ALREADY do most of dark night of the soul stuff while the betrayer has moved on to greener pastures never to waste time soul searching & owning their part . As tough as it is , the best advice Nicole Kidman’s psychologist father gave her when she was discarded by Tom Cruise ;…. “ Nic, it is what it is ; accept the reality and put it to bed “ . And that there is exactly what most women need to do bc their partners won’t view the carnage thru the same emotional prism . Mars & Venus situation .

@chereeburtner4659 5 месяцев назад

I'm 69 and in middle of being betrayed. I need to change my world but on social security and no extra funds to divorce and move on. What is the answer??

@barbj9785 5 месяцев назад

Was in the same situation. Borrowed money to divorce and got a good lawyer. Found out what I was entitled to and was able to pay back the person I borrowed from to obtain divorce. You could end up with a nice settlement. I hope that helps.

@DebiSilber 5 месяцев назад

You can still move through the 5 Stages from Betrayal to Breakthrough and heal from ALL of it.

@marcyfalconer1275 5 месяцев назад

Great conversation!! I feel forgiveness is #1. Thank you for your hard work.

@DebiSilber 5 месяцев назад

Thank you!

@florindacacicio592 5 месяцев назад

Thank you for this episode! I’m definitely stuck in stage 3 🙄

@DebiSilber 5 месяцев назад

Time to move to Stages 4 and 5!

@merry6117 5 месяцев назад

WOW WOW WOW

@angeliaspinkluggage 5 месяцев назад

excellent!!!!

@tsiff5293 5 месяцев назад

Thank you so much for this!!!

@paulakurpjuweit3381 5 месяцев назад

Thank you for bringing this healing topic to us, Dominique. Sadly, I’m stuck in stage 3, but this brings me some hope. 🤍

@DebiSilber 5 месяцев назад

So glad! Your new chapter begins in Stage 4.

@BestBrusselsGriffon 5 месяцев назад

Good content!

@LilBellabear 5 месяцев назад

Great topic! Great guest! But most of all, Dominique you are an AMAZING interviewer!

@DebiSilber 5 месяцев назад

Isn't she?!

@Carla-hz9sz 5 месяцев назад

Amazing! Something I needed to hear for some time. Especially about reinventing yourself at later stages in our lives. I look forward to reading both books. Thank you.

@bluewavesyellowbanana2710 5 месяцев назад

Gaslighting is so prevalent

@irsqpets 5 месяцев назад

Giving people free rent in our minds...

@NesKimStyle 5 месяцев назад

So amazing

@Dzanarika1 5 месяцев назад

It is life and all we can do about it, just talk.

@dianedoskoch9650 5 месяцев назад

I would love to start a support group for the commenters. We could all help each other. I earned a master's degree in an interpersonal communication which covers relationship abuse. Then I enter the phd program in higher education leadership and management in hopes of making more money to leave the relationship. I wish I had earned the PHD that Dr Debi went for! Actually, I still might.

@dianedoskoch9650 5 месяцев назад

sorry, voice texting

@dailyorangepill3338 5 месяцев назад

One door closes another one opens.

@eleonorarigovic7551 5 месяцев назад

Dominique i am in Australia. Hard time finding merit Street. Please help.

@Sunny-bw1mo 5 месяцев назад

We all have been betrayed? Just because most and you have had that experience, can’t generalize

@carolinekelly706 5 месяцев назад

Hello

@ggtwice 5 месяцев назад

Maybe ppl just suck sometimes!

@lisahankin1564 4 месяца назад

Love you .. too many pitches

@azgirl9787 5 месяцев назад

I pay for premium RU-vid to avoid commercials, yet here I am being annoyed by listening to commercials.

@Itsalreadydone-u3q 4 месяца назад

She is a different kind of person these days with no quality but just too pushy competing for more money. It is good when something has value . All these promos are something u can get if you sign up with the brands website directly. No need to pay her commission.

@missiris1234 3 месяца назад

The whole internet is full of commercials. I have just accepted it as it isn’t changing any time soon

@jennylane2498 5 месяцев назад

Sometimes it’s about forgiving yourself for putting yourself in a horrible situation

@DebiSilber 5 месяцев назад

Definitely

@pinkva23 5 месяцев назад

I am going to a Betrayal trauma retreat in May! It’s been 3 years since I found out about the first affair (he had multiple,) and 2 years since my ex husband left me and our 4 year old (at the time.) I thought that with this much time past it would have gotten easier (the betrayal trauma,) but I still cry at cheating articles or any show I watch where I can see the other woman’s pain. I’m excited to go to the retreat and hopefully heal a part of my soul. Thank you so much for this interview!

@SpecialK711 5 месяцев назад

Bless you for overcoming & getting the help needed to fully recover. 🙏🏼

@kaylamunter9426 5 месяцев назад

Probably the most important subject matter you have talked about on your channel! Betrayal from the one person you trust most in your life! It’s devastating ! Thank you Dominque.

@tonjataylor710 5 месяцев назад

Thank you for featuring this subject, Dominique. Dr. Silber is so correct in saying, 'death of the old' and 'birth of the new!' I experienced betrayal in my marriage and my husband and I forgave each other, we found God, and He healed us. Betrayal can be devastating, that is a fact, but learning to forgive and value the promises and vows we made to each other in marriage strengthened our relationship and the love we have for one another. My prayer is that God helps and heals those who have experienced betrayal through forgiveness, love, and renewal. There IS hope!!!♥️

@DebiSilber 5 месяцев назад

Yes!

@sheilatruesdale1536 5 месяцев назад

Hi Dominque this podcast was so very inspirational. So Many of us get stuck in a relationship where we are being betrayed. My ex husband betrayed me and did so much damage to me and our children. Thank goodness I found the strength to separate from him and through faith I was able to move on, although the going was tough. 😊😊

@BelindaM44 5 месяцев назад

I just went on to the doctor’s website. I’m going to do her program. I’ve been stuck for over 20 years after divorcing an abusive man. Thank you so much for this podcast, Dominique!❤🙏

@DebiSilber 5 месяцев назад

Great! The program to do would be our Reclaim program-looking forward to seeing you there!

@AMP34773 5 месяцев назад

@@DebiSilberis it possible to join the program also online? I'm living in Europe...

@theworldofjuniperthecat1307 5 месяцев назад

Bless you. Praying for you.

@odettebechard1808 5 месяцев назад

So do I , 20 years of resisting , it is time i quit that

@SpecialK711 5 месяцев назад

I know there are some serious betrayals being accounted for here (and I've had my share) but my mind was immediately taken back to the time when I learned there was no Santa. I was devastated. My sister & I were raised in an abusive home & Santa was our only hope each year. It impacted me so much that I vowed to never fabricate the whole Santa lie for my own children. We found alternative creative ways to impart gifts to them at Christmas that did not require upholding a lie & the kids are better for it.

@wendiw48 5 месяцев назад

So true - forgiveness is so not about the other person. I think an important point about forgiveness, is that is does not mean you ever have to invite that person back into your life, you just acknowledge we are all flawed and hurt happens.

@DebiSilber 5 месяцев назад

Exactly!

@christiesachde3156 5 месяцев назад

It was hurtful because the person knowingly elected to do what they did...they decided of their own volition to do it.

@karenfreyer3852 5 месяцев назад

Oh boy this hit home for me. I have been in stage 3 for 30 years. I need to get to work so I can open my heart up to love again. I no longer want to be alone. This was an excellent presentation to help give me the confidence I need to move forward in my life and more happiness. Sharing my life with another person would be a wonderful thing.

@DebiSilber 5 месяцев назад

30 years is WAY too long to be in Stage 3. You deserve to heal and move through Stages 4 and 5!

@carolsmith3467 5 месяцев назад

This has been such an incredible interview. Thank you so much ❤

@magdacordeiro5213 5 месяцев назад

So glad to hear this.. no one talks about it because it’s so embarrassing when it happens to you and yet nobody understands it…I went through this journey 10 years ago .. and interestingly enough… my husband and I are stronger than ever.. like my husband says.. he knows what a heart feels when it bleeds. Love the way you talk about it.. THANK YOU for your honesty 😊

@maggie2234 5 месяцев назад

what an IMPORTANT issue. and so little talked about. thank you SO MUCH !!! ❤❤❤

@sharonkay2674 5 месяцев назад

I believe too that not everyone wants to find "love" with a partner especially when one has already experienced it. Learning to love ourselves in itself is all we need to live a peaceful, joyful, meaningful, and fulfilling life. We can't or shouldn't depend on someone else to bring that to us. It's a lot of work being in a relationship or having a companion. Everything is compromise and double the work. Now that I'm older, I personally don't like living on someone else's clock. Many women spend their youth on raising children and taking care of the whole family, and household, thereby, putting off their dreams. Sadly, many dreams go by the wayside.

@MariDorot 5 месяцев назад

Wow. This is so accurate :-( She is so good. Will check her book/s out. Thankyou Dominique for getting Dr Debi on the show.

@DebiSilber 5 месяцев назад

Trust Again is about the 5 Stages, From Hardened to Healed is if after that, you find yourself stuck in Stage 3.

@jessicaholland3968 5 месяцев назад

Dominique, I would love for you to consider interviewing Lysa Turkurst. She is an author and speaker with a large following. Her story of betrayal and forgiveness and boundaries and how she journeyed back from betrayal is amazing. I really think you would appreciate her story. Hugs to you.

@mauritaedwards8917 5 месяцев назад

I absolutely needed to see this today. I went through a terrible divorce that left me a shell of myself. I hadn't ever been at such a low dark place in my life ever before. Thanks ❤

@DebiSilber 5 месяцев назад

Glad it helped!

@afoster3392 5 месяцев назад

Yesterday, 4/8, was the 6 year anniversary of my betrayal. My ex was a covert narcissist cheating with over 20 women when I found out. This is so timely! I am finally entering into stage 5. I also just turned 50 in March as well so lots of milestones! Thank you Dominic and Debi for this podcast! We are definitely not alone and can thrive post betrayal 🙏☀️❤️

@ZuzanaBaker-eq8rj 5 месяцев назад

This has been very powerful! Thank you.

@ruth6511 5 месяцев назад

Stuck since divorce 17 years ago. Survived, raised my kids and now here I am…lost.

@gloriayouchisonbrown7734 5 месяцев назад

Dominique, such a great podcast, things that a person suffering from Betrayal would not think of on their own,the Dr really unravels some great solutions.

@DebiSilber 5 месяцев назад

So glad it resonated.

@BreckWorshamOfficial 5 месяцев назад

After literally DECADES of being hurt and betrayed I finally said enough. I haven't even had DINNER with a man in 4 years. I'd rather be lonely than constantly lied to and hurt. At least all alone with just me I know I'm safe.

@judeebiggles540 5 месяцев назад

This was fabulous information!!

@user-jj3kt3ey5k 5 месяцев назад

I really enjoyed this podcast. So much valuable material discussed. However, I don't think it's fair to assume that the entire process needs to incorporate forgiveness on the part of the betrayed. Some traumatized folks need to learn how to live their lives given the ordeals they have experienced but forgiveness for some acts that I will not describe here that happen to children and other vulnerable beings are not forgivable and it is unfair to place this expectation of forgiveness on those mistreated as a necessary aspect of healing. That is too much pressure and almost validates in some sense what occurred. Please note that I am talking about extreme cases of abuse here. Forgiveness and acceptance are two very different things. P.S. I don't see any constructive criticisms in the comments; only comments that are in full agreement. Thank you though for bringing this subject to your forum.

@dropshotgirl1 5 месяцев назад

Words can’t describe how helpful this was for me! Been struggling with a huge betrayal and impending separation. Just amazing! She knows her stuff! All rings true!❤

@mariadesantis51938 5 месяцев назад

THIS!! By far, the best video yet!! EXCELLENT!!

@carolidzerda7177 5 месяцев назад

Absolutely insightful podcast... wow! I am truly grateful for this. Thank you Dominique and Dr. Silber ❤

@katliven 5 месяцев назад

This was very profound! Wondering if Robin McGraw would make an appearance? To talk about self care, family values and confidence ❤

@janelifrak426 5 месяцев назад

Wow. Wonderful wonderful positive perspective on human nature !!! Fortunately, my ex and were both betraying each other. We confronted and forgave other and moved on. We are still good friends. Had 3 children and I went out on a limb and told them the truth. I think it hurt terribly at the time but now THEY understand. Truth and forgiveness always WIN. Hugs

@raevalverde7757 5 месяцев назад

Thank you so much for sharing 🙏 I recently experienced a betrayal by my adult daughter and I realized I have been betrayed by every person I trusted in my life…my mom, my dad, my stepdad, my husband, my sister. I have been stuck in stage 3 my whole life, I’m 68 yrs. Old!😢

@annecox1161 5 месяцев назад

That one good podcast friend that ihad all my life betrayed me after my husband died 💔 the betrayed me so bad got rid of them all the and feel so happy ❤