Here’s the wild thing- I’m not even tatted at all but I don’t find it to be too crazy. As long as they aren’t getting insanely personal tattoos like names or faces…. Who cares? A four leaf clover is so basic it’s basically like getting a flash tattoo. I wouldn’t regret my life decisions over it.
sometimes with flash tattoos you end up w matching tatts anyway, if it's repeatable flash and someone has chosen the same design as you. there's a girl from my city that I've never met with the same frog flash tattoo as me and I think that's adorable!
Yah I completely agree, like names and faces are just a bit much. But if I ever have a tattoo I’m interested and the person I’m talking to does as well. I think it’s cute to go in and get what you both want together.
Yeah, well, I'd still rather drink some tea with that person and maybe go for a walk to actually get to know them. Instead of just getting a tattoo that means nothing to me except pain.
@@nikfiendluvr666dude I’ve been at an event and randomly met 2 girls at the exact same time who didn’t know each other at all that had the EXACT same tattoo in the EXACT same location, nearly identical sizes Everyone was freaking out lol
I’d definitely do it but with the understanding that it’s just a fun experience and not necessarily expecting it to lead to anything more. I got one of my tattoos when I was super drunk at 2am in Thailand. Seven years later, I still think the tattoo is so cute but the memory of getting it done is even better 💕
I was 18 and completely ignorant to the flaming red flag that was a boy taking me on a tattoo first date, within a year I had dropped out of high school, lost two jobs, gotten pregnant and he had beaten the ever loving fluff out of me. Thank the tattoo gods that we didn’t get names or matching tattoos. As a 30 year old woman if I could talk to that young girl I’d say B*TCH RUUUUUUN! You can make money taking extra hours at work to pay for your tattoos! 🖤✨
I like your comment, but do you blame all the bad things that happened on that first tattoo? ( I suppose it depends WHAT it was and WHERE too. Anyway, I hope you're doing better now.)🖤
My husband and I got matching ring tattoos 9 months before we even got married. I had nightmares about it for years. We are 10 years in now. My first tattoo (20) years ago was with two friends. One I am still close with another I can't stand. I don't think matching tattoos are anything but that...matching.💕
I had a voucher for a free tattoo from my friends dad. I met a girl on tinder and on our second date I decided to give it to her. It’s been five years and we’re getting married now lol. Sad plot twist: little did I know that would be my only opportunity to get tattooed by him because he died in a tragic motorcycle accident a year later:( RIP Gary💙
Is it much different than getting repeatable flash? I have some repeatable flash tattoos knowing there are people out there with the same image on their skin. I'm not really that bothered
Got both guesses right cus I think it's not right to really assume that the first click you have with a person will feel the same way long term. I'm still on the side of getting something to remind you of the person or even something you also know you will like if the relationship doesn't work out.
I got my husband’s name tattooed in an area that isn’t visible for our 15 year anniversary, and my husband got my name on his forearm and it was his very first and only tattoo, the following anniversary. We are celebrating our 25th anniversary this year and are gonna get our tattoos refreshed and adding more design to them. ❤
I think a matching tattoo is stretching it, but both just getting a tattoo together on a first date is cool. There is way less pressure and you have a fun memory to look back on whenever you see the tattoo.
I just recently found your channel and I’ve been watching ALL the videos lol love your content, I’m wanting to get into tattooing this year and so glad i found you! Sending you love 🫶🏻🌿
I think getting a matching tattoo with a stranger. More so, i think its good to do something on a first date that connects you both to eachother in a way that you are not so easily forgotten. Idk if that makes sense, but the dating world is really empty and meaningless these days. You go to lunch with someone and maybe nothing is exciting enough to even remember that person. And eating is something you do everyday. If you get a tattoo with a stranger, something strong connects you too them. Although, i think a substantial convo getting to know the person first would be better. Or like, if you went to do something crazy with them like an amusement park, bungee jumping lmao, a concert, a rally. Etc. you won't be forgetting that person.
Actually, the first story sounds fun if it wasn't about tatts but about some time together. Random, unexpected, even better if it's about something you'd have never done yourself. That's how I like my free time
I think getting names is very silly, but that's just me 🤷♀️ there are some exes I'd rather forget, lol. I'd actually be far more likely to get a matching tat with a stranger than a first date. At least with a stranger there isn't as high of a potential for later emotional baggage. But hey, I'm not gonna yuck other people's yum - if it seems fun and isn't harmful, go for it 💕
My partner and I have gotten tattoos together but not matching at all. He and I both have different plans for the art going on our bodies, but we got tattoos together twice. It was a great bonding experience. I’d never get a matching tattoo with anyone, I had one planned with someone for years and the friendship has fizzled out
My ex-boyfriend was a total con artist and we were together for almost 2 years. I’m in New Jersey and he flew all the way down to Texas to meet some girl he met on an app called boo. They ended up getting matching flash tattoos of ghosts because they met on boo. 🤦🏽♀️ the girl got suspicious after he left because she saw what a fucking weirdo he was and somehow tracked me down so now she has a tattoo with some con artist.
My bf and I went on a tattoo date once and it was super fun! They don’t match and we have been satin for a while when we went so it’s more just a fun story of a first tattoo!
No one pointing out that last couple who got each other's initial... on their ring fingers? I love the idea of having to get a random 4 letter word as a knuckle tattoo so you stop thinking about, idk, Marius every time you look down and see the M and start thinking about LIME or ROME or WOMP or something.
When i think doing Matching tattoos its going need more then one meaning to me i want it because i love it for more then just want to match it , something that works also without it
I have a matching tattoo with my husband, but it wasn't from our first date lol. That being said, while I'm not going on any dates, I would totally get a tattoo with a stranger in certain circumstances just for the fun experience and memory
I don't think this is more for the memory and less for the person. If you breakup you still have a cool story, I think people would get a kick out of it if you say "oh yeah, this is the tattoo I got with a stranger". I don't really see a problem with it.
are people fr MATCHING THEM? i would do a tattoo date... if i like had FULL control over what my tattoo is so it's a joint event but not a forever match
I knew my bestie for over 10 years before we got matching tattoos… our friendship ended like a year after lololol still love my tattoo & the memories tho c:
I have a story about an involuntary matching tattoo that wasn't. I told my gf at the time about a design I wanted to make. We broke up and when I met her again a few years later she had my design and my placement tattooed. Now of course I can't do it because she's my ex and that's weird af.
We're still trying to find cool ideas for matching tattoos with my husband and we're together 13 years. I have matching tattoos with my two sisters, a different one with each 💕
At least they're not getting each other's names or anything personal. It's just random tattoos, so if it doesn't work out, it's just a reminder of a fun time. I wouldn't do it, just because I put so much thought in mine and I can't be impulsive when it comes to that. Lol
I got them right sadly. And I have matching tattoes with 3 ppl now. One is with my husband, we did it after several years of being a couple, representing our shared hobby :) The other is with my tattoo artist, she designed both of the tats, did mine, and her boss did hers. They are super cool on their own as well side by side. One of my fav to this day. And my last is bittersweet since I got it recently, on my last date with my friend, right before I moved to the other side of the continent. I have no idea when will we meet again 🥺 I am less impulsive than some years ago. As I have reserved skin areas for bigger projects, probably I would not get a tattoo on a first date, but not bc I don’t want ‘committment’, but because I have other plans.
I don't see the problem with regretting them down the line, at least if the're not names/faces, but I see much more of a problem with putting pressure on the relationschip/dating since a tattoo bascially means "this has to work out or you'll ruin the meaning of the tattoo".
You really should start to encourage people to subsrcribe and like your videos to boost the channel. It's completely wild that you have 1 million views on multiple videos but not even 100k subsribers. 💕
So one afternoon my husband said let’s get each other’s name tattooed on our arms. I said ok. I stayed home while he went ( because the styles were gonna be a surprise). Then he came home and said, now your turn. I said fuck no! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. Never did get it done. Yes, still married and yes, he’s still pissed 😂😂😂😂.
My mom got her 1st boyfriend's name tattooed on her thigh when she was a teenager. 🤷🏼♂️ They only dated a few months, but they were close friends for decades up until he died of cancer a few years ago... But even if they weren't, she could've always gotten a cover-up. Lmao
Tbh I would do it if the energy was matching. The meaning of my tattoos I got with my ex was of course love but more in a sense that I have a lot of love to give out in general. Towards things, people etc. So getting one like that would be an extension of the same sentiment. Not a love declaration
It's kind of like those people that go and do other endorphin inducing things on first dates. (Just realized that could be dirty XD still works I guess) I honestly feel like it would be fun, as long as they aren't matching XD The four leaf clover outline or a word (not the persons name, unless they both had the same name or one of their relatives did *thinking of the funny Martha scene in Batman vs Superman*) is basically just a regular flash design though. It would be fun to go to a flash sale with someone and get something small. Although I guess you'd still have that memory of that person attached to it? I dunno.
I have a matching tattoo with my first serious bf i had when i was 17 and he was 22 so of course he sucks and we aren't together anymore and of course i want to get it covered up but it doesn't bother me or mean anything to me anymore.
My sister & her friend got matching tattoos. Toxic friends. Like Ross & Rachel but for friends. Final straw was ig the friend was prego with her 2nd kid but was still drinking, my sister said she shouldn’t. She lost the baby. Then weeks or months later my sister was pregnant. Prior was just petty drama. And when I befriended her friends, whenever they argued and I talked to them about it both my mom & sister got mad at me. All petty 💩.
i’ve been with my partner for five years and we’re getting married this year. i’m still gonna wait for our five year wedding anniversary before i get a pinup tattoo of her on my leg. i’m all for meaningless tattoos i just think it’s irresponsible to preemptively give meaning to a tattoo with a stranger
Are we not going to talk about the tattoo apprentice Blueberry girl and the scandal that she and her boyfriend (from the same tattoo shop) are in now???
is it spontaneous or impulsive though? and how can people afford that?? i mean they're often small but if you go to a good artist that is still expensive
Random thought: you communicate very clearly. If you are not already, you should become a doctor. I feel like you would communicate with patients well. (Sorry if that was today random, but I listen to you videos while I work and I always think you are a good communicator lol).
