So, something that's really awesome about concerts where they play this song... Tobias, the main singer and brains behind the band, will reach out and sing to one person in the crowd. When the band had a smaller following they could touch and hold hands like in the music video. However, with the band growing in popularity and the larger venues that they have to use, the crowd is too large and too far away to safely touch but he still does the motions towards one person. It's called getting Cirice'ed
