@@user-zx6kv9vt5q얘기하는 방식이 중요한듯.. 난 저렇게 얘기 해주는게 좋아서 지금 3년차 연애중인데 맨날 불만인거 서로 진중하게 얘기함 항상 재밌는 일 있다가도 중간에 불편하면 잠깐 얘기좀 들어줄래? 하면서 공과사는 확실히 함 맨날 찡찡대면서 얘기하면 불편할수 있는데 이렇게 진지하게 얘기하니까 고칠건 고치게 되고 좋더라
Seonghyuk is such a nice dude, and I applaud him for that (since there's a rarity of nice guys around), but at the same time, I understand Sebin's concerns of him being nice to other girls. Still, I think a little confidence, in herself and in his loyalty, would be of GREAT help to their relationship. All I'm saying is, if my partner was nice enough to help out others, I wouldn't hold it against them because of an inferiority complex. That's how you make people be afraid to be nice.
I see what you mean and I can understand, but coming from a korean american, americans are far more laid back than koreans. In america they may think talking about these stuff is controlling or possessive, but this is a normal reaction that should be talked about with your spouse. Koreans get jealous very easily and she's actually not being very overreactive here. I know people should be nice to each other and wouldn't be a big deal if it was an honest reaction out of the girls that he was 'helping', but it wasnt. They were faking it and acting more concerned than needed because they wanted his attention (also called flirting). Even though humble guys may not see that, girls can, and she just wants to be careful of it.
@@unholytoastses9598 This reminds me of a video I watched long time ago about the korean girls that do "backhanded" compliment or something towards people that they hate/dislike. They would praise you but then insert an unnecessary comment like "you look pretty but it would be better if you lost weight" or "you do look good but you should wear another style that compliment your body shape". They just want to tell you're fat (most cases) but not directly
@@unholytoastses9598 if this is considered chill in korea then i think korean women need to change their way of thinking cuz this is too much. all he did was be nice.
