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For Anyone Who Is 29 Years Old 

Chanelle Garcia
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29 is a beautiful number and a great age. It's time that we set the story straight on what it's like to be 29 and all the good things ahead.
Watch this if you're tired of hearing all the things you need to worry about or stress about or start thinking about. Don't let other people tell you how this year (or your life) should go. This video is also for anyone who has to deal with other people putting pressure on them to have their life look a certain way by a certain age (which, let's be real the pressure begins at age 1).
You are incredible! You are where you are. That's good enough.
p.s. I need some bucket list ideas so watch the whole video
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@lukescheller7216
@lukescheller7216 2 года назад
Sick video! I'm 29 - no kids - no house - no marriage - no degree - a few marketable skills but no specialization - no professional goal - BUT - at the beginning of 2021 I quit alcohol, marijuana, cigarettes, pills, powder, adult content, video games, partying - at least I have that. The only thing left missing in my life is the career....!!
@johnmandrake8829
@johnmandrake8829 2 года назад
oh wow you have what many don't and don't even their whole lives. A high level of freedom
@lukescheller7216
@lukescheller7216 2 года назад
@@johnmandrake8829 that's a very optimistic way of looking at it. I feel like a failure who's miles behind everyone else.
@johnmandrake8829
@johnmandrake8829 2 года назад
@@lukescheller7216 haha I think you're lacking perspective. What you're free from those people you consider miles ahead of you, many of them are entrapped such that are in chronic depression or commit suicide. How many people who seemingly had all the world at their feet were trapped in their minds. Its pointless without peace. Meaningless without freedom.
@contrarian9999
@contrarian9999 2 года назад
Think about it this way: there are people with the career, kids, house and marriage who at your age are still plagued by those addictions and didmt have the discipline to clean up their lives. You're a blank slate with the potential to do whatever you want with your life.
@lukescheller7216
@lukescheller7216 2 года назад
@@contrarian9999 I like that way of looking at it. I try to count my blessings every day. Giving up alcohol took me a single attempt, once the booze left the adult content left. Before I gave up drinking I struggled for YEARS trying to find a way to give up the adult content and nothing worked. Now I'm a few hundred days without it, and nearly 11 months sober. At this point in my life, all I want is a career I'm willing to stick with. I want to be one of those guys who's been at a company for 35is years. My personal life is all figured out, I have plenty of hobbies and I like working on myself. The career's been plaguing my existence because it seems that most people simply find something to stick with. Either way, I'm going to do my best to stop comparing myself to the idealization of someone else's life. You're all right that the grass isn't always greener. Perhaps I should be grateful that my life's EXTREMELY simple....
@justlookingandobservingpeo521
@justlookingandobservingpeo521 2 года назад
30 is like your 20s but with money.
@dalailamaz09
@dalailamaz09 2 года назад
In this economy???
@Luemm3l
@Luemm3l 2 года назад
where do you got this money you are speaking of? I just try to get by lol... pretty much like the other commenter, IDK what I am doing with mz life.
@gotinogaden
@gotinogaden 2 года назад
Sometimes it isn't.
@MarcMolk
@MarcMolk 2 года назад
For a man. For a woman it's "danger zone" ! Real danger zone !
@suraangel6956
@suraangel6956 2 года назад
@@MarcMolk Elaborate?
@abigailthomas6076
@abigailthomas6076 2 года назад
Im 24, single, unemployed and just started University again. I feel old when i attend classes with 19yr olds. However I see growing old as a privilege and im excited to so what is in store. Idk what im doing with my life. I hope it all comes together in the end.
@chanellegarcia
@chanellegarcia 2 года назад
It always works out in the end ❤️ Growing old truly is a privilege and I'm so proud of you for going to University! That sounds like such an exciting adventure and I can't wait to hear what comes of it.
@abigailthomas6076
@abigailthomas6076 2 года назад
@@inspirequeens its hard to me to focus and not compare myself with the lives of my friends or presons i went to school eith as well. Im im not alone too.
@necropolis1303
@necropolis1303 2 года назад
I'm in the same situation
@timmyjoseph3972
@timmyjoseph3972 Год назад
Yeah I pray to have my own partner
@takeovermusic874
@takeovermusic874 10 месяцев назад
I mean your only a few years older than them like 5 years 24 isn’t really old to be in college sure it’s a little late but it’s well within the age range of college most people finish at 22 but there’s 40 year olds in college hell even 50
@sonderexpeditions
@sonderexpeditions 2 года назад
Great mindset. I've seen regrets of people in their 40s+ and they regret thinking turning 30 was old. They look back and see they were "babies".
@chanellegarcia
@chanellegarcia 2 года назад
Age is just a number! It's all about how we perceive it :]
@contrarian9999
@contrarian9999 2 года назад
@@FA9082 Delusional beliefs . . . Like straight men being able to like male genitalia?
@sonderexpeditions
@sonderexpeditions 2 года назад
@@FA9082 delusion? 🤦🏾‍♀️ this is what happens when people spend more time on the internet than the real world. I've seen nothing but the opposite living in 3 American cities. Expand your horizons. Also, it's much worse for men after age 38. I suggest you read the pew research study on "a profile of single Americans ". Only 28% of single women over 40 desire a relationship vs 74% of over 40 single men. Same with the Dataclysm study, after age 38 women their same age stop finding them most attractive and seek younger men. Aging hurts both men and women. Focus on building your character instead of watching RU-vid videos and "the wall" won't hit too hard. Edit: he deleted his original long comment saying women at 29 have lost "75% of their value (are 'old' and 'delusional') and become undateable at age 35". Don't listen to this stuff.
@chanellegarcia
@chanellegarcia 2 года назад
@@sonderexpeditions yesss 👑
@chanellegarcia
@chanellegarcia 2 года назад
@@FA9082 Hi there, I'm not sure why you decided to wake up today and spread negativity but here we are. Thank you for your opinions (and just to emphasize, opinions not truth). I'm not sure what's going on with your life but I hope you find something better to do with your time than choose to put people down.
@PrimaryFocus
@PrimaryFocus 3 года назад
Yes!!! The “30 panic” drives me crazy. Don’t let them get to you 😜
@chanellegarcia
@chanellegarcia 3 года назад
It should be more like the "30 celebration"! Only good things to come ;]
@leegaleaglenombo9430
@leegaleaglenombo9430 2 года назад
Thank you
@bigbuckdown3375
@bigbuckdown3375 Год назад
_That panic happened at 25 as well the "mid-life crisis"_
@muna4631
@muna4631 2 года назад
Needed to hear this, turned 29 in July and despite feeling like 30 is around the corner, I still feel so young.
@chanellegarcia
@chanellegarcia 2 года назад
29 is a beautiful and young age! I can't wait for us to celebrate our 30s soon 💖
@leegaleaglenombo9430
@leegaleaglenombo9430 2 года назад
Same
@mohdazrizanazrizan2805
@mohdazrizanazrizan2805 2 года назад
Same😊
@timmyjoseph3972
@timmyjoseph3972 Год назад
Hi am 29 as well
@snowlover26
@snowlover26 Год назад
happy birthday 🦀
@lusiano2397
@lusiano2397 3 месяца назад
I'm 29 and crying everyday for the lost opportunities, but videos like this make me feel a little better. Thanks for your kind words Aubrey Plaza
@rebelrachel1629
@rebelrachel1629 Год назад
I’m 29, still single, still living at home with my parents and still partying it up because that’s where I feel safe in this big tough world. And I’m certain lots of people my age have got the lifestyle I have too. It’s never too late to have a good time 🎉
@loloppololp9304
@loloppololp9304 5 месяцев назад
I'm 28. Went back to college. Live alone. Pay all my bills. Work part time. Don't really party anymore. The obnoxious kids in my school think I'm so weird and old and immature for being in college at 28 😂 I do EVERYTHING a grown up does 😂😂😂
@Shalinisrinath
@Shalinisrinath 2 месяца назад
@@loloppololp9304goes to show how we only need our validation.
@Gabster1990
@Gabster1990 2 года назад
My friend's and family make me feel bad about being single at 30. "Wow, you seem content about being single". I'm like wow, I didn't know I supposed to be a sad mess because I don't have a partner. Im not saying I'm closed off from dating and love but life doesn't have its guarantees. My last relationship ended just before the pandemic because I was the only one giving it 100%. I'm going to work hard and have as much fun as I can while being single. Y'all be fine.
@itoldyounottotouchit3336
@itoldyounottotouchit3336 2 года назад
I'm a 21 year old guy and pretty glad to be consuming this early. And even learning things through the perspective of someone older.
@MeryKeit
@MeryKeit 2 года назад
I’m laughing so hard right now, because yeh, I’ve turn 29 in October, had a full on mental breakdown and a sleepless night because of a sudden realization that next year I’m saying bye-bye to my 20s and I haven’t achieved anything yet, BUT, yesterday I went to a doctor, because I wanted to get my some things tested, and the doctor was like nah, girl, you’re too young for something to be wrong with your health like that, come back when you’re 45 or something 😂💀 …didn’t like that doctor, but the way she treated me was like a school girl again…at that moment I kinda thought to myself that if I were older she’d treat me better lol
@chanellegarcia
@chanellegarcia 2 года назад
29 is a very young age and you still have so much time to figure out what you want to do ❤️ And don't worry, you're definitely not alone in that feeling, it seems like we're all still trying to figure out what to do no matter how old we are haha
@lordescanor8232
@lordescanor8232 2 года назад
@@chanellegarcia dont make it up... your prime time go gone for ever
@mohdazrizanazrizan2805
@mohdazrizanazrizan2805 2 года назад
@@chanellegarcia yaa..thats true👍
@darlafanning9770
@darlafanning9770 2 года назад
@@chanellegarcia you're amazing thank you 😭
@bunly6435
@bunly6435 Год назад
@@chanellegarcia wow, perfectly said
@audere497
@audere497 2 года назад
I'm watching this at 29 years old and I couldn't agree with you more! It's nice to know there's someone else out there who feels the same. Thank you for sharing! Trust and Patience are definitely the words for this year 😊
@chanellegarcia
@chanellegarcia 2 года назад
we're in this together 😊
@mohdazrizanazrizan2805
@mohdazrizanazrizan2805 2 года назад
We are same to😊
@SuryaSurendran37
@SuryaSurendran37 2 года назад
I m 29. Married. No kids. No job. Was wondering why I exist? This video gave me hope that not just me there are people like me and one day things will get better. I believe that God came to me in your form to make me positive about life. Love you❤
@chanellegarcia
@chanellegarcia 2 года назад
We are in this together! I know it can be pretty overwhelming and hard sometimes but there are SO many people like us so I hope you know that you're not alone ❤️ I like to think that God is saving the best for last and you never know what goodness he has in store for you in the next few months...sending you love and support from California!
@kiryobed
@kiryobed 2 года назад
I can totally relate to this . I just turned 29 few weeks ago and I was kind of feeling down cos I have not achieved all I thought 29 year old should have ,, no job, no relationship and feeling like I'm not serious. Thanks for this video and I just subscribed.
@timmyjoseph3972
@timmyjoseph3972 Год назад
Great
@ezequielgarcia5871
@ezequielgarcia5871 2 года назад
Hello Chanelle! I’m 29 as well! It’s true what you said that society makes it seem that we should have it all figured out specially when about to hit 30. I used to beat myself up for not having it all together. I think that there is no exact age in which we should have everything figured out because life is full of surprises. Just subscribed by the way :)
@chanellegarcia
@chanellegarcia 2 года назад
Thank you Ezequiel! There really are no "shoulds" in life. We're all just humans trying to figure out the craziness of life ❤️
@loke1376
@loke1376 2 года назад
Get out your feelings man
@contrarian9999
@contrarian9999 2 года назад
@@FA9082 Hmm . . . Annually dropping off of testosterone, resultant loss of muscle mass and fat gain particularly around the stomach, hairy ears and noses, ED, wrinkles and sperm quality decline in your late 30s leading to higher risk pregnancies . . . Nope, your prime is in your 20s. All the money in the word cant buy you sex appeal, just sex from goldiggers who probably have to fantasize about younger men just to be able to hop into bed with you. You're the delusional on here friend.
@contrarian9999
@contrarian9999 2 года назад
@@FA9082 Lol those aren't lies - they're YOUR biological realities as a male. Age does a number on both men and women. The only one who seems miserable and unfulfilled here is you, and I find it so amusing when men like you come to videos like this to trash talk women who did nothing to deserve it. You think women are incubators who only have value for 15 years of their lives like they're not real people. I'm willing to bet that you've never experienced anything close to a healthy, genuine relationship. Sad actually.
@gypsysoul8565
@gypsysoul8565 2 года назад
I'm turning 29 this november...i always had bad relation with idea of my present age..i always thought my younger years were more amazing..yet i never enjoyed my age at present but looking back i always thought i should have enjoyed..because i was younger then..but this year i'm learning to accept my present age and enjoy it because it's beautiful and you'll never b this old again in your life and be thankful for coming this far and seeing this beautiful year and years to come ...🥰
@chanellegarcia
@chanellegarcia 2 года назад
I love that mindset and intention! I definitely agree that it's important to celebrate the present moment and celebrate your age every year 😊 Every year is special and precious in it's own way.
@gypsysoul8565
@gypsysoul8565 2 года назад
@@chanellegarcia Thank you❤
@sonderexpeditions
@sonderexpeditions 2 года назад
I think you should set a reading list goal before 30. Lots of good books to read.
@chanellegarcia
@chanellegarcia 2 года назад
I love that idea! Let me know if you have any favorites you'd recommend.
@BitcxinGxd777
@BitcxinGxd777 2 месяца назад
just turned 29, l . So you must be 32. Stay Blessed Take Care 💯
@FaiisinHereYes
@FaiisinHereYes Месяц назад
I just turned 29 last week! If getting a tattoo has been hanging around in the back of your head and you still haven't gotten it, omg. What are you doing. GO GET EM. But make sure you're gonna be proud of it for years to come 😁 deffo proud of mine cause I designed them myself, and yes THEY ARE AS COOL AS I THOUGHT IT'D MAKE ME FEEL. If you're also wondering about getting a style change, do it as well. What's the worst thing that could happen out of it. At least you've tried it out while you're young.
@DhanPool
@DhanPool 9 месяцев назад
I turned 29 today! I'm excited for what 29 brings! I'm in a place in my life where I know what I want to and that's being a content creator! I love portraying the mr. Dhanpool character on social media where I reference pop culture constantly while being relatable!
@MohamedAnwar.
@MohamedAnwar. 8 месяцев назад
That's great. turned 19 , you are older than me 10 years, tell me what's ahead of me ?
@DhanPool
@DhanPool 8 месяцев назад
@@MohamedAnwar. honestly, just life! Enjoy it because we're not guaranteed tmrw.
@Florida561
@Florida561 8 месяцев назад
Just turned 29 a month ago
@Florida561
@Florida561 8 месяцев назад
@@MohamedAnwar.never give up bro your gonna have ruff days but remember your alive
@clinicadoviajante
@clinicadoviajante 2 года назад
Oh god Im turning 30, two days from now and I needed to hear this
@chanellegarcia
@chanellegarcia 2 года назад
happy early birthday 🥳 and cheers to your 30s! From what I've heard, it's even better than your 20s 😉
@angiesweeklytalk8928
@angiesweeklytalk8928 2 года назад
Happy birthday!
@KidElectrik
@KidElectrik 3 года назад
Youre a gem. Happy belated. I'm 29 myself. And don't you ever lose that spirit you have in you. You made me smile. Stay in touch !
@chanellegarcia
@chanellegarcia 3 года назад
thank you GC! that means alot to me. And yay for being 29 too! It's definitely something to be celebrated :]
@KidElectrik
@KidElectrik 3 года назад
@@chanellegarcia for sure ! I'm in New York City. Where on Earth are you?
@lanegerwatoski6081
@lanegerwatoski6081 11 месяцев назад
What wonderful, wise words. Take your time, be patient. You're doing all the right things. I hope God blesses you, and all the great women out there with what you want when it comes to dating and family
@chanellegarcia
@chanellegarcia 11 месяцев назад
thank you for listening and for the kind words ❤️
@Jubarnm
@Jubarnm Год назад
Lovely video! I’m turning 29 today and felling just like you said, I’m happy for what I have accomplished and hope the next years will be as rewarding 😊
@timmyjoseph3972
@timmyjoseph3972 Год назад
That's great
@naomiceetv
@naomiceetv 2 года назад
Im 19 and this came up on my page but I’m glad I saw this I’ll keep it in mind thank youuuu ❤️
@timmyjoseph3972
@timmyjoseph3972 Год назад
Yeah
@Lanae8199
@Lanae8199 2 года назад
I feel this way at 40. I drove down the coast of California on the PCH when I turned 30. It was one of the best drives of my life.
@chriskeithley
@chriskeithley 2 года назад
Dreading turning 29 in a month and a half and you put my mind at ease, subscribed!
@ruchikachauhan9697
@ruchikachauhan9697 2 года назад
I’m in my late 30s went back to uni to map a career change . Married no kids (by choice) . The shoulds never end. I got a full scholarship to study and my family and extended family said to me ‘what about kids?’ When will you have them? It’s getting too late? I sometimes wonder why can’t there be more reasons to celebrate diversity in how women choose to live. Why do I have to follow a linear path of career, marriage, kids ? I did things in my 20s and 30’s that were expected . I excelled in studies , found a job in an investment bank (that suffocated the life out of me) , bought a home , aspired to climb that corporate ladder, married and realised shit this is not what I want to do. Life is not linear nor is success. I quit that job and I’m learning to measure success with metrics that are meaningful to me. When you’re in a system for long it messes with your mind. You start measuring your success with what is the norm. It takes some unlearning and coming home to yourself. I’m still work in progress! I hope you had a good birthday. I remember turning 30 and thought geez I might wake up as a completely different person. Didn’t happen 😂
@chanellegarcia
@chanellegarcia Год назад
I've done so much unlearning over the last few years. It's so true that life doesn't follow a linear path!
@manny7662
@manny7662 10 месяцев назад
Hello Garcia. I'm actually looking forward to my 30s as a 28 year old guy. My 20s were horrible so far. I traveled very little as I stayed in my hometown and barely talked to women much less come out of my shell to express myself.
@withlovedesirie
@withlovedesirie 2 года назад
thank you for this video. I turn 29 in a few months and I've always looked at my age, getting older as a bad thing. I have no boyfriend, no kids, no house lol. I live at home and started a business 2 years ago and just working on that and I don't feel far along. Learning to be patient with myself.
@withlovedesirie
@withlovedesirie Год назад
Update I now have a husband and a baby ! Things change fast 😂
@Nbafan2000
@Nbafan2000 Год назад
Love this vid. Really made my day being 29 today 😌
@learningliberia489
@learningliberia489 2 месяца назад
People should understand we live in different places and from a different background. Some countries has low income so, to achieve alot in that age range can be difficult. Relax and breathe. Keep working and stay happy. Age shouldn't makes you feel sad. Just live ❤
@MrIlgenis
@MrIlgenis 2 года назад
I'm 29 years old and no one wishes me happy birthdays anymore. No one really does.
@FGj-xj7rd
@FGj-xj7rd 2 года назад
Happy birthday.
@YungJedi100
@YungJedi100 Год назад
Happy birthday
@chanellegarcia
@chanellegarcia Год назад
I'm sorry this is late but happy belated birthday 🎉
@lacasadelmango8712
@lacasadelmango8712 3 года назад
things only get better in your 30s :)
@chanellegarcia
@chanellegarcia 3 года назад
I am VERY excited for my 30s :]
@reyasilver2691
@reyasilver2691 2 года назад
So true Channelle! Great advice, and your attitude towards life is beautiful
@chanellegarcia
@chanellegarcia 2 года назад
Thank you Reya for the kind words and support!
@neddanajand3191
@neddanajand3191 3 года назад
Such great advice, patience and trust are key!!
@sarasparks1992
@sarasparks1992 2 года назад
Really helpful and reassuring, I am 29 now and feel a bit of a quarter life crisis...thank you
@MoreOfSiren
@MoreOfSiren 2 года назад
Thank you SO much for making this video.
@chanellegarcia
@chanellegarcia 2 года назад
thank you for watching ❤️
@Sona77.
@Sona77. Год назад
I’m 29 but I feel I have achieved so much so far. I have a masters degree, working, and making good money. I can’t force things that aren’t meant to be. I used to stress about not having a bf, but being single is really not that bad.
@yaseenjaffer2864
@yaseenjaffer2864 Год назад
👍🏽
@DuelyusSeazer
@DuelyusSeazer Год назад
So after achieving your goals, you're living a masculine life. If that was your goal, well done
@timmyjoseph3972
@timmyjoseph3972 Год назад
That's great
@LolLololol-m1i
@LolLololol-m1i 9 месяцев назад
This is same as me. I just turned 29 - have a Masters degree, own my apartment and have a well paying job. I don't want to rush into a relationship Because society told me too. I also got emotional midnight before my birthday but I have things to be grateful for ❤
@Sona77.
@Sona77. 9 месяцев назад
@@LolLololol-m1i that’s amazing!
@Jay-dk6hf
@Jay-dk6hf Год назад
Literally the only video on youtube addressing this, glad I found it. I'm starting a videogame company and I've never been more excited to set the new standard for 30, by just starting small and making my life about gratitude and letting the wins come as they may, Great video :)
@chanellegarcia
@chanellegarcia Год назад
congrats on your company! And starting small is a big step that many people never take so that's definitely something to be proud of.
@apolloniusbeitsman5444
@apolloniusbeitsman5444 2 года назад
Thanks for your beautiful message.
@chanellegarcia
@chanellegarcia 2 года назад
thank you for listening!
@atinacruz4673
@atinacruz4673 2 года назад
Turned 29 in September! Broke up with my partner this year, single, a teacher and still trying to find myself 😁
@chanellegarcia
@chanellegarcia 2 года назад
Happy late bday! And I'm right there with you 😉 I also went through a breakup earlier this year and am trying to figure out what to do. But we got this!
@arkay3804
@arkay3804 2 года назад
It is not to easy to find oneself like they say. It takes time but we will eventually get there. :)
@Angell_Lee
@Angell_Lee 2 года назад
You are BEAUTIFUL! Bucket list ideas before 30: Travel a place you always really wanted to go, even if it's by yourself. Just make sure it's safe and check out activities and tour you can do by viator and TripAdvisor. All the best love xo
@chanellegarcia
@chanellegarcia 2 года назад
Thank you Angel! I've traveled solo to New Zealand for a month before but I need to find another place :]
@Angell_Lee
@Angell_Lee 2 года назад
@@chanellegarcia ❤️❤️❤️
@Ebenezum13
@Ebenezum13 Год назад
1. Lift weights, 2. Do cold showers and baths, 3. read books, 4. get rid of toxic people, 5. explain your family that you dont care about “no family yet” bullshit … 6. You dont like your job ? Change it … Enjoy being young … dont spend your time as young person, feeling anxiety and stress just because social imagination, how your life should look like …
@elenkapo
@elenkapo 2 года назад
turned 29 today and your video definitely helped with my mindset. Thank you xoxo
@chanellegarcia
@chanellegarcia 2 года назад
Happy birthday! I feel lucky to be a part of your special day and I hope today was all that you wanted it to be 😊
@elenkapo
@elenkapo 2 года назад
@@chanellegarcia Thank you sooo much 😊
@mamabear3610
@mamabear3610 2 года назад
Happy Birthday in arrears ⭐🔥. How's been 29 going?
@timmyjoseph3972
@timmyjoseph3972 Год назад
Nice 👍
@jesusmorenojr6833
@jesusmorenojr6833 2 года назад
I am 29 and asking similar questions . Thanks for the videos 😊!
@tylerwasabi
@tylerwasabi 2 года назад
I’ll be 29 in March. I can’t wait. I don’t know why but I think I’m going to “peak” at 35. Like, I feel like I’m going to feel like a grown woman 🤣
@hummingbird4335
@hummingbird4335 2 года назад
Awww, great attitude 👏🏾
@javiercisternasnajle
@javiercisternasnajle Год назад
Nope 35 peak is for men, don't be delusional
@tylerwasabi
@tylerwasabi Год назад
@@javiercisternasnajle I said ME , not women. I’m talking solely about myself. I know 35 year old men and they are most definitely not peaking. Go enjoy your life
@chanellegarcia
@chanellegarcia Год назад
I'm sure your best years are yet to come 😊
@josielynn4198
@josielynn4198 3 месяца назад
It’s honestly so important to talk about this stuff because I think all of people especially in present day modern age go through this and it really isn’t talked about that much 😭 I know my first few months of being 29 I was breaking down for sure bc my life is just not what I thought it would be at this point
@ARealCupcake
@ARealCupcake 9 месяцев назад
Due to my mental health I feel like I've wasted a whole lot of my life. I'll be 29 in January. I just recently got a job I'm actually happy at and genuinely feel as though I can keep and for the actual first time I'm living on my own and not with my parents and it honestly feels so surreal to me. I do wish I had been able to do this all years ago, but I'm happy I'm finally able to do it now. Not to mention, most people I've known do say all that your best life doesn't actually really happen until your 30s so maybe this is what they were talking about.
@2users828
@2users828 2 месяца назад
Same here, wasted most of my life because of severe depression, I wish the best for you! ❤
@queenbutterfly4888
@queenbutterfly4888 Год назад
30 is so young.. I feel like I just had my 30th bday party now I’m almost 40… don’t look at age just live your life and take vitamins
@redbull456ful
@redbull456ful Месяц назад
well unfortunately the average life expectancy is 76 so 38 is technically middle aged
@highsol222
@highsol222 2 года назад
I'm also 29 years young and I love it! 😇
@neddanajand3191
@neddanajand3191 3 года назад
Thriving queen!!! One thing to add to your bucket list is driving around small yellow cars in SF!!!!
@MilAngeloChrist-lr4kp
@MilAngeloChrist-lr4kp 6 месяцев назад
I'm 29 going 30 this coming april and I have a degree Bachelor of Science in Business Administration Majoring Operation Management. Single, Never Married, has a stable allowance daily and monthly, Still studying especially the Holy Bible... I hope and long that there is still store for me in the future...
@2users828
@2users828 2 месяца назад
God bless you! ❤
@ladylietabile8988
@ladylietabile8988 Год назад
Patience and trust ❤️ i love it! Today I'm turning 29, thank you for your words. 😘
@miltontorres2534
@miltontorres2534 2 года назад
I'm 27 with a bachelor's In computer science and also a stock trader I've been around alot of money. I also have had my downs in life like my long term relationship that was toxic . At 27 I was deciding to stay with someone I didn't know would even work out on top of that I fostered her nieces because her sister was a drug addict . On top of that issue I was an immigrant in the daca program. The point is life will knock you down countless times. If I could write down my whole life I would. But like dory said "just keep swimming ".
@michael.2188
@michael.2188 2 года назад
You should post more videos about being 29. I'm turning 29 and I'm being so dramatic about it.
@michael.2188
@michael.2188 2 года назад
Holla from New york
@AmandaAwakens
@AmandaAwakens 2 года назад
New subscriber who is also a RU-vidr and 29! You are gorgeous. Thank you so much for this. I have finally accepted that I am not ancient lol and am looking forward to the years ahead. When you create that bucket list I would love for you to post it so we can join you on the journey! Also in the grand scheme of the universe we are all still “children” regardless of age, right? Sending love and light your way girly. ❤️💕
@timmyjoseph3972
@timmyjoseph3972 Год назад
Nice
@chanellegarcia
@chanellegarcia Год назад
our best years are yet to come 😊
@EsteLado559
@EsteLado559 8 месяцев назад
About to turn 30 this march, its been a long road its truly amazing how many people view turning 30 as something bad, however i believe you are hust getting started.
@officerandy1107
@officerandy1107 Год назад
You have done a fantastic job by creating this video. This has come as a relief for all of us who are experiencing a panic at the threshold age of 29. Hope to see more wonderful and interesting content from you.
@chanellegarcia
@chanellegarcia Год назад
thank you for listening!
@AngusStewart01
@AngusStewart01 2 года назад
I’m 22 and even tho I’m married this is how I feel. I am where I am at right now . I can relate .
@immature1744
@immature1744 2 года назад
Same
@bryflyguytry
@bryflyguytry Год назад
Love the optimism. Keep the faith and exploit your passions.
@Tameker6
@Tameker6 Год назад
Just turned 29 10 days ago and trying to get my ish together. Some of my family members are stressing me out
@chanellegarcia
@chanellegarcia Год назад
happy belated birthday 🥳 don't worry about your family. You have so many more incredible years and milestones ahead of you!
@r0ckinADbaby
@r0ckinADbaby 2 года назад
Watching this video and reading the comments makes me feel better about being 29.. Sometimes being on RU-vid/IG/Tik tok makes me feel disconnected since everyone is way younger. It’s dumb to say but it’s like oh shit I’m not the only one who’s 29, there’s millions out there 😅
@RealityRecovery
@RealityRecovery 11 месяцев назад
Exactly
@misterfahmi1993
@misterfahmi1993 2 года назад
I turned 29 back in May and I can say that it’s the year where I don’t really have panic of turning 30 next year. I realized that when I lay back and just seize the day without anyone or anything pressuring you then you wouldn’t have to worry for such things. I’m not financially stable, I’m single (don’t believe in marriage) and I’m just living like I was 21 you’re right! And I don’t know if it was just me but somehow I feel like I’m still 21 this year..like I have the tendencies to go have drinks, go to concerts and stuff
@coffeepandacat
@coffeepandacat Год назад
Turning 27 in a few weeks 🤦‍♀️ Still working a dumb wage job and in school. Thinking I want to become an accountant. Right now I am focusing on self care and finding my style!!! I have always wanted to have a cute style. Currently figuring out what works lol
@BigTroubleD
@BigTroubleD 2 года назад
OMG I’m turning 29 in a month and I’ve been worrying about this. I have been having such a shitty 2020-2021 on top of getting older. Thanks for this video.
@lemonvate9860
@lemonvate9860 2 года назад
It’s you and I 😂😂😂 though am turning 27 next year but 2020-2021 has been a really bad year
@chanellegarcia
@chanellegarcia Год назад
this is belated but I hope you had a really great 29th birthday 😊
@TelzAll
@TelzAll Год назад
I'm gonna be 29 in June and I feel a bit sad because so much time was wasted being depressed and mad about old pains and now that I'm all past that I feel greatful that my 30s I'll be mentally stable but I'm unemployed, I feel stuck and now finishing my masters while kids 21 and 21 are in my classes.. Lol I hate it here.
@chanellegarcia
@chanellegarcia Год назад
Finishing your masters is such an incredible accomplishment. A saying that's really helped me in tough times is reminding myself that I was doing the best I could with all I knew at that time. Don't worry or compare yourself to others around you. Focus on you. You have so many great milestones ahead of you and I'm wishing you all the best ❤️
@AECommonThread2137
@AECommonThread2137 3 месяца назад
I think Buddha did some of his major transformation at age 29. Not that any of the years prior or after wasnt as significant. I am 29 now, a male, and not even upset about aging anymore. I had my "crisis" at 26 and felt like i went through existential revelations that an overwhelming sum of people dont often process until theyre in their 70s or so. Nothing special about me at all, but just sharing my peace i have made with it.
@Siacourage
@Siacourage 2 года назад
Chanelle Garcia: "I just turned 29 six days ago" Kevin Samuels: "Danger zone!"
@FikirLyrics
@FikirLyrics 2 года назад
it realy is , the problem is you will not know it after it is too late,
@hazzuq
@hazzuq 2 месяца назад
I'm still lost about buckets list. If you guys don't mind. Share one. I'm happy to read your bucket list ❤ 👇comment your bucket list ❤
@Jay-ef2ii
@Jay-ef2ii Год назад
Love is hard to find. Chemistry at times is not there in the candidates that you meet at the workplace. You should pray for a boyfriend using the rosary. Please, don't look down at my message. The women below in terms of posting will most likely end up alone but at least they have their jobs and salary, but you on the other hand can make a difference, and that difference is about you praying the Rosary. You are White Hispanic, same here, and you can change your destiny if you attend church and pray. Go for it! Use your Catholic roots. Put them to use, kid. Best to you. May Christ God bring you the love of your life---. 12-11-2022. USA.
@nox6948
@nox6948 3 месяца назад
Recently turned 29. Was looking forward to it for years
@raiswarnim9431
@raiswarnim9431 2 года назад
I just turned 29 today and i feel good still so much to learn
@prisma3776
@prisma3776 2 года назад
0:33 "people become reflective FOR You." true
@sogniella
@sogniella Год назад
I don’t want to settle down … but want kids… it’s such a war in my head
@bobbysayasane3413
@bobbysayasane3413 2 года назад
I think youtube algorithm brought cause I just turned 29 a couple weeks ago... weird. Anyways, your encouragement gives me hope and something to think about. Thanks sis!
@chanellegarcia
@chanellegarcia 2 года назад
Happy delayed birthday Bobby! And cheers to a beautiful year ahead of you :]
@setme4ree
@setme4ree Год назад
I look so old for 29 yall look young.
@cheikhdiop7223
@cheikhdiop7223 6 месяцев назад
Just turnt 29 March 5th today ; so grateful
@ChampGrabs
@ChampGrabs 6 месяцев назад
I'm 28, thank you for this
@uswaha
@uswaha 2 года назад
Wonderful message . Thank you girl xx
@richardchiren2425
@richardchiren2425 2 года назад
Omg we need a 29 club!
@karthikm1847
@karthikm1847 11 месяцев назад
Useful information because I recently turned 29yrs old.
@kumariwijedasa6637
@kumariwijedasa6637 2 года назад
Your advice made my day. I am 28. I was frustrated about life. Why things doesn't happen the way I want. Your message inspired me a lot. Good job. Keep it up your positivity👏👏👏👏👏. You are so beautiful. BTW subscribed your channel!!!! 💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖
@chanellegarcia
@chanellegarcia 2 года назад
That means so much Kumari! Thank you for the kind words and for subscribing 🥳 It definitely can be hard when life doesn't turn out the way we thought it would BUT it could be because there's actually something better that's coming your way. Cheers to your late 20s and figuring out what you want!
@kumariwijedasa6637
@kumariwijedasa6637 2 года назад
@@chanellegarcia Thank You so much for your kind replies 💖💖💖💖💖💖. No matter how challenging the life is, I am always trying to keep up the positivity. We can improve our positivity by engaging in spiritual and aesthetic activities. For the time being I do singing, meditation, praying, Cooking, Listening to music, reading books and painting as well. I am not good at dancing but trying my best to have good dance moves 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. Trying to have a fun perspective on life as well ☺☺☺☺. Thank You so much for uplifting us Garcia. You are an awesome girl 😍😍😍😍. Wishing you an awesome future filled with success and happiness!!!!💐💐💐💐💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞Good job girl keep it up!!! 👏👏👏👏👏👏
@thisisfofy8498
@thisisfofy8498 3 дня назад
thank you all 29 now and am so lost in life 😂
@veronicarodriguez-yo7mg
@veronicarodriguez-yo7mg 9 месяцев назад
God bless you !Thank you 💗
@chanellegarcia
@chanellegarcia 9 месяцев назад
thank you for watching!
@Badboyifier
@Badboyifier 9 месяцев назад
im 30, and your 31 :D .. i guess were still young lol
@agnesokpeh2055
@agnesokpeh2055 2 месяца назад
I’m glad I watched this video. I turned 29 last month. It’s very relatable and comforting. What did you end up doing on your bucket list?
@Florida561
@Florida561 8 месяцев назад
I just turned 29 a month ago and One thing i learned from my 20s is do everything you set your mind to or you will have regrets
@miankabir7534
@miankabir7534 2 года назад
Hey I’m your 100th subscriber 😇 YOO!!!
@chanellegarcia
@chanellegarcia 2 года назад
eek thank you Mian! I'll definitely remember you 🙌
@dekoynovahpretty
@dekoynovahpretty 2 года назад
Omg I needed that so much my family in Dubai and in NC rn wow
@KZWavy
@KZWavy 2 года назад
This is facts!
@satines6045
@satines6045 2 года назад
Im 34 almost 35 and I'm panicking, mostly wanting to go back in time and change things, and panicking that I wasted my life and now is over, and that now I don't have that plump face anymore, even though I always had stronger jaw and skiner face... so yeah it's crazy
@chat1799
@chat1799 2 года назад
Dont worry this is not that hard to fix. You can save some money, do hyaluronic acid injection and....Voila! Little bit younger again
@satines6045
@satines6045 2 года назад
@@chat1799 Thank you but I am not gonna do any plastic surgery or anything like that, I am not a fan of those things. Of course I am not against it for people who want that.
@chanellegarcia
@chanellegarcia 2 года назад
Hi Satine - thank you for sharing and being vulnerable about your own journey ❤️ I know the world and the media may say that being 34/35 makes you "old" and that you missed out on your best years but that isn't true. You are like a fine glass of wine -- only getting better with age 😉 An affirmation that helps me is "You are where you are and that is enough." Trust that life is happening in the way that it should and know that you can still do great things!
@ruchikachauhan9697
@ruchikachauhan9697 2 года назад
I’m in my late 30s and I feel I have so much to contribute. I feel I have latent potential that I need to grow into. While I take care of my physical body I also tell myself that I’m more than my youth. What helps me is always striving to learn and grow as a person. I invest in my education, my mind and my spiritual self. There’s so much to learn in this world and there are more possibilities than we can ever imagine. All we need is a tribe of people that support us , challenge us and push us forward when we are fearful. Wishing you the very best . 35 is nothing in the larger scheme of things.
@n.kutalia
@n.kutalia 4 месяца назад
Algorithm is algorithm-ing. I'm turning 29 in less than a week. Thanks for your thoughts!
@bedroomtalks
@bedroomtalks 2 года назад
Absolute Gem!
@annlaingchristiancounsellor
@annlaingchristiancounsellor 2 года назад
Yeeeees!❤
@SheckleRFan715
@SheckleRFan715 Год назад
i turned 29 last july and thats why im here
@shimerrill967
@shimerrill967 3 месяца назад
I’ll be 29 this year.. i got myself out of a toxic engagement 4 weeks ago and.. I’m trying to find out where to go from there
@SarahPaceSings
@SarahPaceSings 2 года назад
Thank you for the video. I just turned 29 and I'm panicking
@andersonreid6845
@andersonreid6845 2 года назад
Wow 29 is so young,
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