I feel like conversations like this needs to have women involved, for men to understand their is nuff Gyal out here that can move like man and show/have no emotions
I don't think the grandmother's were more understanding of cheating it was more financial. The men back then were the bread winners they owned the home so there was more on the line then just the relationship. Nowadays women are independent and have their own if anything it's the man living with them so to move on ain't detrimental to her whole set up
Rai Rai it was the financial factor and the factor that men were more dominant in society , so being single could be considered that you are more promiscuous
It's cheating if you're doing something you wouldn't want your partner to see and/or if you're doing something that you wouldn't want to see your partner do.
A Zhivago cheating is if you sex with or plan to with someone else other than your partner (common knowledge) anything else is another form of deceit!! Let's not confuse the two
Lippy is funny when he speaks Jamaican 🇯🇲🇯🇲 but he half Jamaican/Trinidadian/Ghanaian 🇯🇲🇹🇹🇬🇭 African/Caribbean And Tricky is Ghanaian/Bajan 🇬🇭🇧🇧 hes half African half Caribbean aswell
This is my little running commentary on the episode. People don't declare what they want and expect from a relationship from the beginning, that's the start of the problem. Often also you don't intend to start a relationship you just fall into it so by then you already missed the opportunity to discuss certain things. It's one thing to say you are exclusive but it's another thing to say after 2 or 3 months you don't feel comfortable with your partner speaking to people of the opposite sex even if you are just 'friends'. Then there is a whole leap of baggage when you start talking about ex's and kids and stuff, what does your partner have a 'right' to know? This is why this podcast is sick, I started writing this at the beginning of the podcast and Tricky hit it bang on at 14:05 it's exactly what I'm saying. Except I would actually say if you spoke about it in the beginning some (not all obviously) women probably would be more understanding when it comes to things like female friends and even trusting you going away and stuff like that. Plus we are in a modern age, relationships aint what they used to be, Lippy said it earlier some people have fetish for certain races but are otherwise happy in their relationships. Some men are happy or at the least ok for their women to go and do their thing as long as they come back to them and similar for men with their women too. And that's not even getting into the actual swinging/cuckolding fetish which is a whole different thing. It's not easy but if people defined those rules as early as possible you may be surprised in what your partner may be willing or even be interested in (I have no idea btw not speaking from experience). 17:55 When the camera guy said the thing about women cheating with an alpha male, I disagree completely, however that could be about 'levels' and just how desirable your girl might be to a so called alpha male. Real talk not everyone's gal is some Beyonce looking women, doesn't mean she's not hot, but when anyone cheats first and foremost is opportunity and availability. Certainly if you've got one of them women as your girlfriend then that's always a possibility, but the vast majority of women (or men) just don't look that good and they idea of people only ever cheating with some alpha male of model looking girl is a myth. I think opportunity and availability are the most important factors. 22:55 Yea massaging the ego I fully agree, but I also fully agree with Lippy that it's the same for men and women. I'll come back to this comment later it's getting loooong!
Cheating is if you have sex with or plan to, with someone else other than your partner (common knowledge) anything else is another form of deceit!! Let's not confuse the two
Gyal run this ting to every one gyal she got 5 man to choose from obv man dem will try draw but it’s her choice to chose which man. An out of 5 two man defo might beat an the other 3 she wil use emotional or financial gain.
Lippy is actually 1000x smarter than tricky lol it’s mad but I never thought that when I first started watching. Now after a few videos, I could see Lippy is a lot more socially and emotionally intelligent. Never judge a book by its cover I guess lol mad.
Ahhha they put me up on game on the 'Yoooooooo' thing 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤦🏻♀️ However, other than that, I think they need a womens perspective in regards to the cheating subject 💯
If you're with someone you shouldn't even be talking to anyone else on that level. Loyalty is loyalty whether its wih your mates or your girl. Lippy is right about that back in the day you had to get a number and if the girl was into you then she would give you it. Nowadays girls want to get the follow count up and accept anyone.
Women run this cheating ting professionally men are more opportunists wid it. To ask what is cheating tho? That's like asking who's the best MC or rapper, too dynamic to have one concrete conclusion.
Love the show, but please Tricky put some breaks on my mouth, your spoiling the vibes and interrupting lippy and the other crew, your becoming annoying but I'm loving the show
