Forget the Work-Life Balance. Tailor your Life! | Prof. Dr. Daniela Elsner | TEDxFS

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The famous work-life balance is just an illusion, everyone wants it, hardly anyone has it.” Daniela Elsner suggests an alternative concept for combining our different tasks and roles in life, the “Tailor your Life Principle". As a university professor, executive coach, psychotherapist, book author and ex-single mother of three, she is considered an authentic expert on work-life balance, resilience and career-family compatibility. In her talk she shares her personal and scientific knowledge on how successful people get “it all” under one roof. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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@mistanija 3 года назад

This tedtalk is pure brilliance! It deconstructs the myth of a multi-systemic life but rather takes a holistic approach. Such approach should be furthered to promote societal reforms in the area of politics, economics & culture (e.g., taxes, budgeting) and define a pathway for thinking and living in the 21st century, and let people unfold their full potential, rendering personal leader- and ownership at all levels possible!

@marthawunnam2946 Год назад

This is one of the best advice I have had in my life. I noticed quite early that I wasn't good at multitasking. I often insisted that I am a 'onething at a time person' but everyone else around me kept encouraging me to learn how to multitask. I am glad that you have affirmed what I always knew deep down. Thank you so much.

@monikasadkowska9252 3 года назад

Great. I felt such a relief! Keeping a "work-life balance" was actually exhausting for me (!).

@shohruzaakbarova4427 3 года назад

Thank you all useful advice

@javierbello8952 3 года назад

Life is about taking own decitions, permanently, therefore, THANK YOU for reminding this for all us, cause it is very easy forget about this true

@ardinaningrum7038 3 года назад

This is very related to our life..thanks

@vasudevbethamcherla3001 3 года назад

I see some of the suggestions actually working currently in my life. It's an important video. Thank you!

@reversedpyramid 3 года назад

Very fitting to reality, with solutions. Great!

@jasminehoang453 3 года назад

Thank you

@hexatorus5452 Год назад

Excellent. So Smart.

@explorerendeavour3009 3 года назад

Do whatever you like and able to may be the best.✊👍

@ednaajtujal3917 Год назад

Very profitable.

@softsophisticate Год назад

I love the patchwork idea. I already know my "Roles" a la Steven Covey's time management method. These are my Big Patches. eg Wife, Family Member, HomeMaker, Work, Volunteer, Play, Self Care. Each Big Patch contains smaller patches within them. eg: Play = Holidays, Days Out, Hobbies. I like the idea of standing back and taking a look at a distance at my patchwork quilt for the year or my life. I guess this is time blocking. I gave up multi tasking years ago and agree with focusing on what you choose to do next. Much more satisfying.

@elemgaleletana3419 10 месяцев назад

thank you 🎉

@geneg3776 Год назад

Consistent balance is always difficult and will always be more one-sided at times because you need to account for the external environment and things that happen beyond your control.

@lakshaysinghal6167 3 года назад

her puberty kids watching this: -_-

@vratisingh5896 3 года назад

Yayy, finally I am the first one to comment on video. 😍

@taytayshaniqua.8686 3 года назад

I’m second!

@israaafeef9462 3 года назад

👏👏👏

@RyomaGG 3 года назад

There's some really terrible examples used here. Making a contrast between unemployed people and the enjoyment of work is just shocking. Work life balance means nothing to someone unemployed, they don't work! And also the question of who decides what is considered work and what is not (or maybe what is both). Surprise, it's the person who's life it is that gets to decide that.

@angelevstatiev8522 Год назад

Здравей скъпа приятелко колега много говориш

@khoavo1433 3 года назад

Fourth!!!

@mab3900 3 года назад

This kind of talk is toxic because it set us all for very high expectations. Working doesn't equal happiness for a lot of people. When you are just an employee, you can't just do as you pleased. If I could work less I would but money is the problem. My personal life matger more to me. A lot of people don't live a life we fully enjoy and it's not just excuses. Very biased talk. (And her family life probably suffer lots)

@pinfeather1571 2 года назад

The point is that excuses are very natural and nothing to be ashamed of - but something to think about and change, if you want to be more happy. There is a connection between taking responsibilty and getting what you want ...

@Isaiah_writes_360 3 года назад

Such a biased video ☹️ employees have to make decisions and be responsible for work life balance. But Bosses give orders and expect employees to forget work life balance But they play golf 🏌️‍♂️ and have awesome Work Life Balance. If bosses can’t handle multiple task on their what is the need and purpose to expect from employees? 🤷‍♂️

@lailymamdhuhah2353 3 года назад

If you happy with your life, that's no problem. Right??

@Isaiah_writes_360 3 года назад

@@lailymamdhuhah2353 working more is not the problem 🤷‍♂️ working with no strategy, working others work, adds times drains energy causes dissatisfaction. That’s the problem here.

@lailymamdhuhah2353 3 года назад

yeah...that's called life, being multitasking is hard. But you can do it right!! I appreciate and give applause for you. Proud for you 👍

@Isaiah_writes_360 3 года назад

@@lailymamdhuhah2353 yeah I can do it. I’m thinking of being a boss to get employees to multi task. Hehe 😁

@mab3900 3 года назад

I agreewith you so much. Only a boss would say what she is saying