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Just like Ustadh Omar said. If we don't want to forgive people because of the hurt they have put you through, at least try and forgive for the sake of Allah(swt). May Allah(swt) make us of the forgiving and put mercy in our hearts. Ameen. Deen 'ul Islam is Humanity.
Izy Youssef what if you can forgive the person, but you can’t forget about what they did you and you can’t go back to having the same relationship you used to have with them?
@@sabeensadaf1795 very good question lemme help you with for eg you just broke with ur business partner and he had hurt yuh a lot, later down the line he had asked your forgiveness and Alhamdulillah u forgave him but he later ask you to be his business partner again if ur not ok with it it's perfectly fine, ALLAH SWT had made our religion so easy to practice. You can just say to the person that yuh accept his apology but can't work in business with him cos you don't want to go through another heart break. It absolutely fine mate no bitterness in it ur just playing safe. Hope I had given a satisfactory answer
I know so many ppl who wronged me and i want to forgive all of them even when they are not sorry, but i want to do it for myself, for Allah's pleasure. But i find it very hard, plz everyone pray for me that Allah gives me courage to forgive them all!
Mehak: The real muslims shall go to kiss the Russian meteorite from 2015 - for it's bigger than the (meteorite stone) in kabba....... Forgiveness in islam, only by kissing black stones...
I was so sad so disappointed from friends that act with me bad without doing anything from them,I said to my self this is coz of my personality ,I should be cruel I’ll hurt them back like they did,But I couldn’t..so I can’t say now I really forgive them but I’m start doing that ..coz I believe that we all are humans that’s not perfect creatures.. Allah plus u with a lot of agr and rewards (الله يجمعك مع نبيه محمد والصالحين)
When I first started watching these videos, i watched them for this reassurance that at least I was doing the bare minimum with my weak faith, in this beautiful month but Subhanallah these short videos with the ayat of the Quran open up an ocean of meaning and beauty, Alhamdulillah. Jazakallah brother, may Allah grant you the best of both worlds, Ameen
saadiafazal: You have no faith... You shall go to kiss the Russian meteorite from 2015 - for it's bigger than the (meteorite stone) in kabba....... Forgiveness in islam only by kissing the black stones...
This was so important because we live in a culture where people find it cool to be as bad as your enemy ! They say it makes you real ..But they don't know ! what peace ALLAH kept in forgiveness ✨
This is another level of kindness. Something bad happened to me yesterday and i cant even forget about it yet. May Allah put my mind at ease and peace.
If you give away your lunch do you not suffer hunger? If you forgive a debt, do you not suffer the loss? If you forgive an injury, do you not accept the pain? In Christ we see the heart of the invisible God who forgives our sin and takes upon Himself our hunger, pain, loss, and death.
@@lightfreedomyt "we do not suffer" ---- Please clarify how one gives, pardons, and forgives without suffering. A man neglects to bring his own lunch. In charity, you give him your lunch. You thus remove his hunger and take that hunger to yourself. This is what love does. God is Love. Christ is God made manifest. Love does not erase the consequences of evil, but overcomes evil with good. The reward for goodness is in becoming a good person. "Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they will be filled" (Matthew 5)
This month I have been struggling with many things and every single time I see one of these videos the title is a piece of advice that I had really been needing. Thank you for that
It's very helpful! thanks a lot. I used to keep hatred and anger in me to those who had hurt me and it's very hard for me to forget. I may have forgiven them in the past but for some reason the pain keeps coming back. I hope Allah will help me in cleansing my heart.
This is going to help me so much in the present and future inshaAllah, I would like a minute and say thank you to sheikh Omar Sulaiman and Bayinna Institute for their hard work. May Allah bless you and make you all amongst those who will stand up on the day of judgement.
+Bayyinah Institute Assalam-u-alaikum, Jazzak Allah Khair, for sharing such a beautiful video. I have a question. if we are forgiving people who have done evil to us, does this include magicians as well? As they do shirk, are we suppose to forgive them or not?
Why is it that sometimes its only us suffering through soo much pain and depression. Even when its the other person who has hurt and broken us..... And yet they are fine.. And Unaffected, happy in life?
Because we focus too much on them. To the point that we forget that that exact test or event that we experienced are 100% planned by Allah script by script and he 100% intended it to be for us. My advice is, pray to Allah so He can open their heart so they realized their mistakes. Its really really hard I know, but leaving it to Allah is the best solution
I used to be a person who could NEVER forgive people for hurting me. I’d hold on it for years until recently. I started forgiving people for the sake of Allah(swt) and reminding myself that if people hurt or oppress me, they have to answer to Allah on the day of judgment. Alhamdulillah I feel so much more content and at peace.
This is indeed a huge topic, forgiveness, that most of us struggle with. I know it's one of, if not the most, significant issue I struggle with daily. In a matter of minutes you've been able shed light in such a way that's made my struggle easier Alhamdulillah. Jazak Allah Khairun. Like Ayesha stated, every day the titles of these topics and the content all touch upon something I need to address, Alhamdulillah. May Allah (swt) bless you all.
If you give away your lunch do you not suffer hunger? If you forgive a debt, do you not suffer the loss? If you forgive an injury, do you not accept the pain? In Christ we see the heart of the invisible God who forgives our sin and takes upon Himself our hunger, pain, loss, and death.
Such a beautiful message this has opened my heart to be even more forgiving and closer to Allahs mercy such an amazing man may Allah bless him with jannah. Such an inspirational story if you want Allahs forgivness then you must forgive others.
"And the retribution for an evil act is an evil one like it,but whoever pardons and makes reconciliation - his reward is from ALLAH. Indeed, HE does not like wrongdoers." Surah As-Shura,verse 40. Ameen,ameen ya Rabbil alamin.
Thank you for talking about the important topic of the value of forgiveness for those who do not seek forgiveness and the rewards Allah has in store for those who do so. Jazak Allah Khairan ya sheikh
If you give away your lunch do you not suffer hunger? If you forgive a debt, do you not suffer the loss? If you forgive an injury, do you not accept the pain? In Christ we see the heart of the invisible God who forgives our sin and takes upon Himself our hunger, pain, loss, and death.
That was just so good.. I'm seriously going to download these videos, really wanna learn to be able to actually forgive and forget.. It's something that's just really tough to pull out. May Allah give us all the ability to easily forgive and forget those who have hurt us, Aamiin.
Subhan Allah. Thank you. I was struggling to find how I can forgive someone who terribly wronged me and my father and didn’t even asked for forgiveness. This really inspires me to do the right this. May Allah always guide us to do the right thing.
Pleasee continue this series even after ramadan. Its reallyyyy an amazing series masha Allah. May Allah immensely reward everyone's efforts who are all involved in putting up this incredible series, especially Sheikh Omer & the whole team.of bayyinah..آمين
I wish every person on this Earth could watch this and understand it. Subhan Allah Jazak Allahu Khairan for sharing this beautiful story and reminder from the word of our Lord. Alhamdulillah
Assalamu alaikum warahamathullahi wabarakathuhu I live in USA with my loving husband. In my husband’s family no body likes me because I’m from a normal family married to their son/bro (my mom and dad are separated ) I was raised by a single mom. I always respect and be kind to them but they don’t respect me or my family. I always get hurt regarding this. May Almighty Allah give me the courage to forget and forgive. Please include me in your duas. Aameen
Subhana Allah .. a man's heart is so presious to be filled and occupied with hate and envey ... letting go is the key to have a pure clean like the snow heart .. may Allah bless you for your words and grant us wisdowm and clean whited hearts
Many scripts of the old testament sound like this. 75 books they took out from the old testament. The old testament readings and the Quran are very interesting reads. Bless you.
🤍Shukran Brother Omar for your humbleness and wisdom may Allah grant us all with a loving merciful heart so we can be given the best gifts of Allah in Jannah 🤍
I've been through alot in this life most of them hurt me from third world country i wish they pay the price in this life I wish the day judgment day mighty god judge them harshly is hard to forgive
My brother fought with me...so I searched such kind of video...and now I have forgiven him.. Alhamdulillah in that bad incident too Allah provided me with opportunity
This is the month of Ramadan.In the past many people hurt me, rebuke me, criticize me, I know one who often time rebuke me for enjoyment just for nothing.But in that time i never seek revenge.They insulted me about my parents.That gives me so much pain.Everyday that gives me so much pain.Sometime i seemed i was a coward.Watching this video give me lot of hope.And i forgive all of the people who hurts me and insulted me. Allah will forgive them.
The Messenger of Allah ﷺ was seated in a gathering with the Sahabah when he looked towards the entrance and said, “A man of Paradise is coming.” At that instance someone who seemed to be very ordinary entered the mosque where they were seated. A Sahabi was curious as to why the Prophet .‘ said this, so he followed the man to his house. This Sahabi told the man that he was a traveler and stayed as a guest. For three days the Sahabi saw nothing unusual, so he finally told the man what the Prophet had said and asked him what was so special. The man thought for a long time and said, “There might be one thing - before going to sleep every night I forgive everyone and sleep with a clean heart."
Sheikh Omar please come to zanzibar ..u are welcome, we love to have u here teach us more about islam and we wish to have institutes for woman... who want to learn more and some day we can be like u ..stand for our din.
Don’t infest your heart with hate or grudges because of bad acts upon you..instead say Alhamdulillah, say may Allah bless you, cry all you have to then smile because Allah is with you. Allah will deliver you all unknown answers before you if you truly are honest. When you hurt because of some bad act done upon you, turn around and make someone happy. Allah will care for your heart and soul, trust that Allah will put all and everyone in their place soon enough. Live in peace because we only have this life once on this earth. Forgive not because you are told to but because it’s in your heart. 💖💖💖🦕🦕🦕
is forgiving the same is leaving it to Allah bc Allah knows best, and even if it hurts you you let it go, and move on instead of holding a grudge....could that also come under forgiveness
You can do that also. Because i know there are things that really really hard to accept and forgive. So, the best you can do at that moment if you dont have strong compassion towards that person..just leave them to Allah.
Notes from this video 🔴 the verse we are talking about Surah shura verse 40 :The reward of an evil deed is its equivalent. But whoever pardons and seeks reconciliation, then their reward is with Allah. He certainly does not like the wrongdoers. 🔴The man we are discussing about Imam ahmad ibn u hambal 🔴The story Imam ahmad was tortured so badly in his life (he was in prison) torturer attempted to kill him , all of his skin was taken out from his back.But he spent last years of his life in peace as he was taken out of that torture. And the entire Muslim world sided with him. But he would forgive every person from prison who would come to him ,cry, and ask for forgiveness from him. So one day his son asked that what about those ppl who died and did not ask for forgiveness from you? To which he replied : "listen oh my son ,Allah s.w.t said "The reward of an evil deed is its equivalent. But ""whoever pardons and seeks reconciliation, then their reward is with Allah."" He certainly does not like the wrongdoers. " He said that when i came across thiss ayyah when i studied it i came across a narrration from am hassan al bassi . He narrates that when the day of judgment comes all of the creation would be on thier knees .Allah s.w.t will say "dont stand up unless i owe you some ajar " and no one will stand exeept for those who used to forgive and pardon in this world . So imaam ahmad said that i wanna be one of those who will stand up when everybody would be on thier knees . So i have forgiven all those ppl that have died. He said that whats upon a man is to make sure that Allah s.w.t will not punish a person on the day of judgement on behalf of him . 🔴Lesson We should forgive ppl who have done bad to us and even if they are not sorry . Not bcz of them but bcz we want to be closer to Allah s.w.t. we want to stand up when everybody would be on thier knees . subhanallah! Imagine,what a great pleasure would it be. (If u r reading this plz prau for my family and me . We are struggling financially and some other problems . Pray that may Allah give us ease and pray for the mental health of my brother and my future along with my siblings. Jazakillah khair may Allah guide you and me both. ALLAHAFIZZ)
I know I am late - but please sheikh, make a video on the steps of HOW to forgive. I really want to forgive everyone and have a clean heart/conscious, so that I can meet our Lord without the burden - I don't want anyone to be punished because of me or what I have felt. Please.
Since you said you really want to forgive..it basically means that you're open to any beneficial ways to forgive them (even it really hurts your feeling and ego). Like what Sheikh told us, Allah will treat you the way you treat others. So one of ways is to 100% give the right to forgive to Allah.
How do you forgive someone though? Make doa for those who used to torment us? Is that one of the signs we forgave them? This is a really good tale, thank you!
By keep reminding ourselves that Allah will treat us the way we treat people. If its really hard to forgive, then leave it to Allah and let Him be the judge. But the best will be to have compassion and forgive them ( not because they earned it) but because Allah ask us to do so. And theres nothing except big reward for those who struggle to do deeds for the sake of HIM
Does anyone know the reference of the hadith that Omar Suleiman is speaking about in this video? The one by Imam Hasan Al Basri? I am trying to check it's authenticity.
Muslims do not forget easily because their brains are accustomed to memorizing the Quran. But they are happy to return all problems to the most merciful God. That's the way they forgive.
The Prophet ﷺ said: "The best deed before Allah is to pardon a person who has wronged you, to show affection for relatives who have broken ties with you, and to act generously towards a person who has deprived you". Thereafter he recited the following holy verses: "Turn to forgiveness and enjoin good and turn aside from ignorant"
Assalamu alaykum, I hope everyone and their family is doing fine. I just wanted to ask, how do I know that I have truly forgiven someone? Or should I say, what does it mean to truly forgive someone? I have told myself that I already forgave people but every once in a while when I am reminded of what happened in the past I still remember what they did to me and I feel hurt that sometimes even tears fall in my eyes remembering, and that actually confuses me, makes me think that I have not yet forgiven them. I truly want to let go of it already because more than anyone I am the one suffering because a part of me feels guilty of still remembering and feeling hurt because of what happened in the past. I just want to set myself free.
I want to know that if I have forgiven a person, am I expected to maintain the same relationship I once had with that person? Should I let things go back to the way they were or does forgiveness mean 'no hard feelings but I don't want you in my life anymore'?
Forgive doesnt mean your forget...learn from mistake. Open new chapter. If you think its better to not meet with them to prevent similar things happen again, Then go for it. But remember, dont cut the tie and always pray the best for them. Allah controls peoples heart
Is there a certain dua I can say to forgive and forget? I still love The person that hurt me but everytime I look at them all I remember is the hurt and pain. I really want to move past this and just truly forgive and forget. How can I do this??? I’m so desperate
Please watch the video but these are notes so you can keep referring to it in the future Forgive and forget Imam Ahmed bin Hanbal was tortured through his life and at the end of his life people who used to beating him till his skin feel off from his back, backbite and do other things - used to come and seek forgiveness ends - and he would forgive every single one of them - even the ones that died and didn’t seek forgiveness His son asked why do you forgive them - Allaah said “whoever forgives and pardons than his reward is upon Allaah swt” On judgment day everyone will be on their knees and Allaah swt will say - no one shall stand except those who used to forgive and pardon people - Imam said I want to be those whom Allaah chooses to stand up whilst others are on their knees “I don’t want anyone to get punished because of me “ - Imam said a person should be like that - develop a heart fo gold - avoid bitterness and resentment You shouldn’t want Allaah to punish anyone ok your behalf - you want to be that person who stands up when Allaah swt wants to give that special reward May Allaah swt give us a big heart and may he make us among those who easily forgive and forget - even when they don’t seek pardon from us - not because they deserve it but because we want the mercy of Allaah swt AMEEN 🤲🏻
It's one thing to forgive those that genuinely regret the wrong things they do to you. But what if they are not sorry. What if they don't care about your forgiveness. The worst part is, they DENY doing any wrong things to me. Do those kind even deserve forgiveness? If someone is abrasive with me because that's just how they are in general, because that's just their nature, I can forgive that. But if they are only rude to me for no reason but nice to everyone else, that I cannot forgive.
Will Allah take our revenge from someone who has hurt us so bad? If we've left all on Allah... Because some people don't deserve forgivness... Sometimes havent even realzied or even asked for it. Then what to do?
If he hasn't asked for your forgiveness, Allah will give you his good deeds in the hereafter. There is a saheeh hadith where the prophet pbuh said to his companions "do you know who is the loser?" The companions said "the one who is poor" the prophet then responded and said "no the loser is the one who comes on the day of judgement with a mountain of good deeds but then will eventually lose all of it as the people he had wronged take them. After he is judged, he will have no more good deeds and there will still be people waiting to get their rights from him by taking more good deeds. Then, the sins of the remaining people he wronged will be given to him and he will enter hell" (I paraphrased that hadith so dont think the prophet said it in those exact words).
I have a question. What if I’ve hurt someone from the past and bring it up to me now then I asked forgiveness but still reject and then die tomorrow. Is there a chance I won’t be able to enter jannah?
Rehan Patel I want to know is it necessary to forget after forgiving someone? Because if we forget then we are allowing the same thing to happen in future.
