Forgiving Others Is NOT An Option! - Powerful Story Of Bilal & Abu Dharr 

Masha'Allah indeed i enjoy the power in his voice...

Ameen

Brother the sahabi abu dharr he is telling about is he Abu dharr ghifari ?

weppi91 agreed!

Many times Prophet Muhammad SAW would deliver his sermons as if an army was approaching. His voice would be raised so loud, people in the marketplaces would hear him, his face would go red.

do our prophet Muhammad S: talk like that loud or Prophet S: used to surrounded this loud voice? If our messages is to spread sunnah so we must follow everything. Jazak Allahukhairan

No ! Do not bow at the feet of the Brother. He is a human, bow before God ! But yes, he did say important things, may Allah bless him for that !

Hasna Mahmood me too me too

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You're allowed to

أَطِيعُوا اللهَ وَأَطِيْعُ الرَّسُوْل،،،جو نبي پاک صل الله عَلِيه وسلَّم ديں وہ لےلو،جس سےمنع فرمایا،اس سےباز رہو،،

Najma Abrar جزاك الله خير في دنيا و الآخرة، امين

You don't need to forgive. A believer is not stung twice from the same hole. Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) bought up this statement to make us know that a believer should not be easily fooled, manipulated, abuse and held with contempt. He/she should learn to stand up for truth and justice balanced with mercy. Your forgiveness should not lead to further humiliation. It is not Islamic to encourage and accept oppression. It is sinful to do so. So, if the narcissistic abuse has been going for a particular time, you have to retaliate and seek the justice of Allah. The stupid narcissist can care less. All they shout is forgiveness for them. Will the narcissist forgive you, not likely. They are wicked and self centered. Even, if it is your mother who is a narcissist, don't think she loves. Never be fooled. My family is filled with narcissist. The narcissist are the lowest of the low. Seriously, be merciful to people but do not be a people pleaser who can't care for their rights and Allah's rights first before others.

Get divorced and move away as far as you can. Narcissistic individuals will be willing to drive you insane. They are not worth tolerating. You can give them dawah but be on your guard when dealing with them. Please, save yourself and your deen. I have been a victim of this people, they are terrible. An abusive marriage is a marriage that requires divorce very fast.

Yusuf Ibn Yusuf it’s exactly as you say. He’s painted me as the bad person and my family do not believe me. Things got too much in 2018 and my dad said a divorce would be a big humiliation to him. So here I am still in this marriage. And when I look at my beautiful daughter I wonder if it’s fair to separate her from her dad in the many days that I break in pieces, so every time I have to convince myself that she doesn’t deserve that. She loves and adores her father at 3 years old. I know that I’m doing more damage to myself spiritually/ mentally and physically. I know that Allah has given me the choice to walk away, but I stay and I can only blame myself.

May Allah make ease for you sister!!

But if he is physically torturing you you need to stop him. You need to think about your future. Guide him with reference from Qur'an and hadith, sweetly. If he understands that's good, In Sha Allah. Allah forbids if he doesn't, tell him openly that you are not happy with this marriage and that you are thinking of leaving him, if he doesn't change for good!

its so incredible

Use a capital A to refer to Allah Jazak Allah khair !

Ameen !

pray for them...i know it sound weird & its absolutely not easy to do that but the moment you are able to pray for them your heart will be free ... :)

Forgive him not because he deserves your forgiveness... Forgive him because YOU deserve peace...my dear brother 🤗😪

I am in the same situation too.

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Asad lion you do because you know it is what Allah would want you to do there's no point in keeping petty grievances with people

assalaamualkkum brother just remeber the time of the Prophet sallallahu aliyhi wa sallam how were they hurt an tortured again and again by the enemies but when time came on the conquest of Makkah they were all forgiven.

Asad lion So Allah will forgive you again and again.

Asad lion Allah is the most merciful and we should try to acquire the qualities of him. And that's how we can/should be most merciful as much as possible.

how do you think Allah forgives you over and over again.

if he does not repent and ask forgiveness, you don't have to forgive

Forgiving someone is very hard especially when they have impacted your life so much. But if Allah can forgive us for all the sins we commit daily then we can forgive others for his sake by the mercy he has placed in our hearts. Forgive him for Allah's sake it will only benefit you. The past is in the the past. Whatever happened, happened you cant change it. Its hard but you have to move on, if you don't it is only going to harm you and not him.

Salaam, I am a very ignorant person regarding our Deen and just a learner. But still couldn't resist writing a reply here as I can totally relate your situation brother. I have someone in my life whom I try to forgive every single day and think that maybe I have been able to forgive him. But the moment I hear any of his new success story or social media show off of him enjoying life to the fullest without a single drop of guilt, I realize how badly I actually failed to forgive him. If I could forgive him in real, then none of these would matter to me. So yes, it's a day to day struggle for me and everyday I utter to Allah and myself that I have forgiven him. I do this only because I want Allah's mercy, that's all. I have tons of my own sins and the only way I can get rid of those is by forgiving every single one who has ever hurt me or caused me to become this sinner. Brother, let me tell you one thing. If you're a semi-narcissistic and revengful person like me, you'll understand what I am trying to tell you. Forgiving them will only benefit us as I strongly believe that Allah is the most just entity and He'll never do injustice to anyone to show mercy to someone else. So, if we can really forgive them, Allah will be pleased and forgive us as He promised. But although we forgive them, Allah will have His own judgment for them and will make them pay for all their terrible deeds. Hope you get it what I am trying to say. Our forgiveness doesn't mean Allah's forgiveness. Allah is just and He'll definitely take account of every single deeds! We're just lucky here to get a chance of getting special mercy from Allah as we've been wronged. It's just a bonus and if we're smart enough, we must utilize this huge opportunity... I'm trying my best to win this jackpot everyday but failing utterly due to my jealous,egotistical and revengful nature I guess. But I am fighting hard to get rid of these sickness of my heart and trying every single day to forgive just to win the jackpot of gaining Allah's mercy. Please keep me in your prayers so that I can finally be able to forgive them which has nothing to do with them at all but only with me and my Lord. I hope it'll help you a bit in trying to start the effort to forgive that terrible person. May Allah grant us the strength and iman to be able to forgive all the horrendous creatures. Ameen.

Assalamo alaikom brother, i just want to tell you that this world is nothing for Allah and that's why evil people can have there way, so never think that Allah is doing him good and you bad, cause if you see it from another dimension he is digging his own grave, and you should feel sorry for him, i know you are incapable of harboring such feelings, what i advise you is keep getting close to Allah, and keep trying to do good and it will come eventually, so don't take it to heart and focus on yourself, and ignore anything that came from him, and if you can, take him out of your life and distance yourself, i hope that i didn't misguide you with my opinion and i wish for you and myself and all struggling muslims Hidaya "guidance". Assalamo alaikom wa rahmato Allah taala wa barakatoh

AndriodBot still you forgive because even once your forgiveness might turn him towards righteousness

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He had the right to dislike Abu Dhar's bad action. He took the issue to the Prophet (SAWS) for a solution. He did the right thing, he didn't commit any sins.

Senanur Duran I have the same question in my mind bro, I'd really appreciate it if someone can answer this question

+Sami Raja true 😔... may Allah help us

Assalaamualikum wa rahmatullah i hope in shaa Allah it will help. muslimmatters.org/2014/07/25/are-you-hurt-iforgive/

+Ali Khan thank you so much I really needed that may Allah forgive all your sins.... Amin ☺

ameen and yours and of all Ummah

Aurra Firelilly I didn’t understood

Aurra Firelilly you can ask through waseelah ...many people will tell you don't ask through waseelah plz ignore them. Especially wahaabi .... these wahaabi dnt even consider Muslim .. there is so many places in Qur'an where even the prophet's asked through waseelah O you who believe! Do your duty to Allah and fear Him. And seek the Waseela (means of approach to Him), and strive hard in His Cause (as much as you can), so that you may be successful. (Quran, 5:35)

Enes Basar Mohammed Hoblos.