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My son as a little boy loved everything pink. Pink dummies, pink teddies, pink toys. (I did actually draw the line at a pair of very sparkly, pretty pink ballerina shoes. Lol) Now he is over six feet tall, very manly, has a very physically demanding job and also has had a beautiful girlfriend for a few years. My point is... I never once thought for one minute my son was gay. He was a little boy who liked the colour pink...
@@alegriart Thank you and that's exactly true. Children and teenagers may have sexual feelings towards either sex but they're not sure how to deal with these things. Give them time to develope themselves in a natural world.
Exactly! Just like my little girl as 3 liked to play with cars but now at 9 she’s very girly... It never passed through my mind to contemplate changing her.
Good on you! Its a colour! And was actually for royal boy babies until one princess wanted to raise the status of het girls and she radically dressed them in pink - it caught on! My sons love pink.. And black and green and red etc.. They have had long hair and once a son said "i want to be a girl" i calmly asked why.. He said they get to wear colourful clothing! So from then on i got him colourful boys clothing. He's a lizard catching, dusty rumble tumble boy through and through.
tip of the iceberg this is a good comment!! boys and girls can like whatever kinds of toys and clothes and colors they want and this doesn't define their identity. if your kid likes "girl toys" don't discourage or encourage it, rather just let him make his own choices (as you did!!) it would be a different situation if the child described having dysphoria to you (aka saying they want to be a girl/want a girl body.) identity is very different from interests. plenty girls like pink and plenty don't. the same goes for trans kids. don't push a child to question their identity just because they like a certain kind of toys, allow a child to live freely and wait until they tell you what they are experiencing. it may just be a case like you, where your son was happy being a man and enjoyed these stereotypically "feminine" toys. all love to you and your son!!!
I let my daughter watch a lot of videos with cute hamsters. Now she keeps telling me she's a hamster. I figure she will grow out of it. The well known drag kid was watching Rue Paul's Drag Race with his mother around age 3. There's I am Jazz. Today's media could really confuse kids, and lead them to ask for life altering drugs, they don't need.
I never thought I was a boy but I was a Tomboy who wore flower dresses! Even now in my 30s I go between wearing more masculine stuff and more feminine things. I like what I like. As a child I loved toy cars and Barbies. I am a woman and never felt any different. Being a woman is not a feeling. Liking things against your gender stereotype is fine.
my son is two and a half , he likes cars and building games as well as a dolls and sometimes dresses, I guess he finds them pretty, because dresses are indeed pretty and colorful. Since he's two and a half years old he has no idea of what "boy" and "girl" "means" , sometimes he says that I'm a girl and I correct him "I"m your dad, I'm a man, your mum is a woman" . sometimes he says "I girl" I correct him , sometimes he says "I boy " and I tell him he's right , I'm okay with him playing with whatever he wants. I read that those "gender clinics" doctors are using these kind of normal phases of innocence and ignorance to push transition from age 2 !!! That's just crazy. What the hell is happening?
@Lydcs no, there is no proof that one day you wake up and think you are the opposite sex, there are peers that pressure, parents who wanted a girl but got a boy and is pressuring their boy to play and dress like a girl, it's called abuse!
Exactly, they claim to want to break gender stereo types, but actually create them by differentiating what makes a girl a girl and a boy a boy 🤦🏽♀️ I domt understand raising a baby gender neutral either , by avoiding pink and blue, theyre just confirming that blue is for boys and pink is for girls
Going hard on kids with drugs. Is literally the worst abuse the world has ever seen. It doesn't matter if it's speed to make them sit still or messing up their biology with hormones. Remember when "just say no" was a thing? Remember when people were alarmed that governments sterilized people?
I’ve been transitioning for 5 years now, and this is my final year living as “Oliver”. After I graduate college, I’m going to return to my natural sex, which is female. I’ve been on testosterone for almost 4 years and had a double mastectomy in 2018. I’ve done quite a number on my body, but I cannot continue to live this lie.
I pray for your peace. I found peace in Jesus. He loves you more than you ever can imagine. They that call upon the name of the Lord Jesus shall be saved
Im proud of you we need to accept who we are since no matter what we do we cant change our sex. Removing one's genetalia doesnt mean he or she becomes the opposite sex
All the best! If you have trouble transitioning back vocally, like some other young detransitioners do, I’d suggest looking into advice for voice actors and audiobook narrators for voicing across gender. I dug into sounding male/female a lot when I started narration work and learned so many little things that can make a huge difference.
Thank you for sharing. If my parents & my pediatrician had sat me down when I was around 7 - 9 years old and told me that I had the option of becoming a boy instead of a girl, that would have been the happiest day of my life so far. I loved sports and playing with bugs and building little toy inventions. I got along with boys easier than girls. Being a boy would have made so many aspects of my young life easier. Then when I turned 13, I grew out of it. I started liking girl things (while still enjoying playing with bugs and boy toys) and I embraced being a girl. I'm now a straight 34 year-old woman who loves dressing up and riding my motorcycle and cooking and carpentry. If I'd been put on a path to transitioning to male as a child, it would have ruined my life.
There is a lot of people here talking sense about this subject. There must be millions of women who were tomboys as girls and had they been given a chance to become a boy would have leapt at the idea. God knows I certainly would have!! But then puberty kicks in, you grow up, feel less inclined to want to be a boy, and realise that you actually want to be in a proper, complementary, man + woman relationship. As originally intended when we were created.
My doppelganger! Hated dolls, liked building things. Girls were annoying. Had so much more in common with boys. Wore baggy clothes to hide being a girl. Hated the female social status growing up. Thank God no one mistook me for transgender! I'm fine being a 43 year old woman. Married for 24 years to a great guy. Love street and dirt motorcycles. Teaching my toddler daughter to ride love my amazing life and learned how to be comfortable being me. I still prefer hanging around guys. Women/ girls drive me nuts!
@@LoveDayandAge You know what... You're right. But we're just as confused as a society. And their "confusion" is nothing more than a manifestation of our collective confusion. It's just good to see people, like the ones on this panel, who are showing love to them.. Love by pointing out their issues. Much better than those who just attack these people.
The people promoting this aren't always trans-identifying themselves. They just have an internally inconsistent ideology and are too ignorant to realize that, except those who do. Unfortunately they are a minority.
Actual doctors don't agree to surgeries unless the person in question has shown years of commitment to the idea. Sure there are sketchy and shitty doctors but thats needless to say. Also. Good doctors don't agree to the hormones until the child is fully aware etc. But even then. Those aren't as detrimental as people would like you to believe. Of course there are shitty people. On both sides.
No they can't.. hrt usually isn't given until the trans person is at least 16 or 18 (depending on the country) and generally they have a LOT of therapy before then.
85% of children who feel they are the opposite sex will no longer feel this way once they go through puberty. What happens when we stop puberty in these children because of a messed up medical community?
We turn them into even more fragile humans who grow into adults that cannot even work basic jobs. My employer hires them all the time, and none ever make it more than a couple weeks because working in a grocery store is too difficult for them. Even with all the catering that is done for them. They all bring up politics on their first day, and start big arguments on break about trans rights and hate for anyone who disagrees with them. We even had one who had already put in her 2 week notice then throw a tantrum on her last day saying she was quitting because a catholic expressed his beliefs and it meant he attacked her. He was just sick and tired of her spreading her views every day so he finally shared his too, respectfully. They are all drama queens.
85% of children who feel they are the opposite sex will no longer feel this way once they go through puberty and so thats why they invented puberty blockers :)
I HATED wearing the sun dresses my mom used to make me wear when I was a kid and I loved to hunt, fish, play sports, climb the tree in my front yard and read books up there and all the boys in the neighborhood were scared I would kick their ass, but I am a GIRL! I have never thought I was anything else just because I liked to do all the stuff the boys did. When I hit puberty all all the boys went from being scared of me to flirting with me which...I would still kick their ass for. It made me independent and strong and its what my husband found attractive about me after the initial physical attraction most of us feel, he liked my independent and strong nature.
Brandy B same here! I’d always been a tomboy but knew I was a woman. I’d never desired or felt very feminine til I met my fiancé. He was such a strong kind true manly man and he just brought out the feminine in me though I’m still rough and tough at times lol.
I married a tomboy 20 years ago and we're still very happy. Granted, our eldest kid does have some strong gender dysphoria, which is partly based on a deep fear that presenting as female will leave them open to abuse- they were abducted and molested at 4 (by a young woman the downstairs neighbor was madam-pimping as a prostitute and drug runner).
Brandy B I love your comments. You crack me up!! Thank you. I needed that after watching this very tragic video. You did stop kicking asses, right? lol
I'm a straight man that played with Barbies and other dolls as a child in the early 90's, mainly with my sisters. Hearing about all these instances of what in my estimation amount to child abuse makes me extremely thankful that I was raised when I was and by parents that didn't push this agenda. Children are easily manipulated, so I too may have been coerced to believe that I was in the "wrong" body under different circumstances. As it is, I never questioned my gender and grew up comfortably in the body I was born in. This, I believe, is a much healthier outcome, and what we should strive for as a society instead of filling children's heads full of the idea that their body is "wrong".
I'm a straight happily married woman who hated playing dolls and wearing dresses or makeup or what-not. I ran around other times pretending to be a horse. Thankfully back then you were just dubbed a Tomboy and mostly left alone, though I did get forced to wear dresses and skirts frequently. -- In India they defined a 3rd gender, which allows people to non-conform to societal expectations on gender roles without needing to alter their bodies.
Michael Miller - My brother played with our dolls, too, when we were kids. They said that it was healthy, and showed a sensitivity that was endearing. Fast forward 40 years. He's married to a beautiful, brilliant and successful woman, they are millionaires and have three awesome and successful children.
Imagine a world where young people can get hormones pills and gender surgery as well as a vasectomy but me a grown woman can’t get my tubes tied because I don’t have kids and don’t want any. Let that sink in
Tell them you want your tubes tied because you’re a man and suddenly they sit up and pay more attention. Because women, especially sane women who know damn well they’re women, don’t matter at all.
@5,ooo LightYears Away but its true!! I know a woman who had two kids, and many abortions bc she didn't want more. She had to wait until she was 30 (I think) years old before they would tie her tubes. Even at 30 she had to lie saying she's not pregnant or they wouldn't have done it. Afterwards, she had a final abortion. How very sad she had to go through all those abortions bc they would not comply with her request that her tubes be tied!!!
Yes that’s the first thing I think of when I watch some of these parents. It’s really disturbing they don’t care about the kid and their gender they just care about getting the attention for themselves it’s really sickening. And it’s not that I care about what an adult wants to be I don’t do whatever you want but I think we should really look at the situation and it would be easy for people to see that that’s what’s going on in the majority of these cases
It's scary to think that if I was born today, society would have probably pressured me to transition from female to male because I was a tomboy and didn't act girly growing up.
Me, too! I climbed trees, hung out with boys riding bikes around the neighborhood, wore boy clothes, hated dresses, didn't wear make up. But that changed in 10th grade. And I never wanted to be a boy.
Katharine Hepburn today would have been told that she should transgender into a man because she didn't really like wearing dresses she loved wearing slacks and sweaters and loved being out in her garden and the reason she got along with Spencer Tracey but she'd go with him do things with him unlike most women who didn't like to be out fishing etc. Lauren Bacall with Bogert same thing if you like the man you're with you'll go fishing with him. I was a Tom girl as my dad's fishing partner love to be outside, riding my horses working in the garden, I could come in and my Mama go oh my God would did you do because I'll be covered in mud. I was a girl I loved to dress up, but I wore jeans all they do time. I don't think I wore dresses to school more than maybe 10, 15 times. This world is crazy, this honestly has been a money grab for the doctors and psychiatrists and psychologists are messrd up themselves. They're required to have therapy, and usually they've gone into the field, because they had something wrong. They had to get therapy, and then they decided to give therapy to others.
I grew up in the 1950’s, wanting to be a boy. I wasn’t a tomboy though. I loved feminine dresses and hairstyles. When I was 10, Daddy asked me why I wanted to be a man? My reply, I am sure, soothed his heart. I wanted to be a man because men had authority and I wanted authority like men have. I had no idea the feminists were fighting for that same thing. I am so grateful I was not transgendered! That must be awful for a child.! Daddy just explained that I should see myself has having authority, and pay no attention to my older brother and sister when they teased me. I took his advice. It was excellent advice. I thank God for my father
I was a trans kid growing up in a strict Christian house it wasn't easy and transitioning was not an option. I looked like the opposite gender, I behaved like one and was often confused by strangers as being the gender I desired. I loved that. I wanted to transition I was not happy with my changing body as a teen. I was embarrassed, ashamed. I was suicidal and had depression with basically no functionality. Then when I was about 25-26 years old everything changed. I somehow embraced my birth gender and lived a happy life ever since. I am very happy that I didn't get to transmission because that's permanent and I have still a long life ahead of me. It was a hard childhood and I wish I had proper therapy and support, but I am very glad that transition was not an option as a teen. I would have definitely pursued it. And I think now it would have been a great regret now. I think young people need more education and we shouldn't say that transitioning is the only right thing to do. Kids need a lot of support to find themselves.
Interesting. What thoughts did you have initially about wanting to be the opposite gender ? How old were you, when you started having these thoughts ? I often wonder if, say a young girl who likes things considered socially as "masculine" (say, she's more interested in boxing, or hunting), would even ask herself the question "am I the wrong gender", if we didn't put labels on boxing, or hunting as being masculine. If advertisers didn't have cars marketed to women, or cars marketed to men. If both girls and boys could just do whatever they wanted, without ever having to question, "am I being too manly/ girly ?" Because, modern society advances the notion, constantly, that altering one's gender is a solution to a huge range of mental health issues. Issue that affect both girls and boys, issues that are common in adolescence. Frontal lobotomies were once seen as a cure-all, for lots of mental illnesses. Irreversible damage was done. Irreversible damage is being done to people now, and in ten years, we will see, huge health impacts from people taking up to 16 medications daily, from surgeries, and so on. I cannot fathom how this is acceptable. Shouldn't we have, at the very least, at least a year of "devils advocacy", before a person can undergo surgery - so the person and their parents, must be exposed to scientific, and rational, arguments as to why gender alteration can be harmful.
Oh wow, you are an inspiration to others who are thinking of surgery. I hope your story and others like it will help other confused youth find self love and self acceptance without dangerous medical interventions…
@@CanineArtsCenter All thanks to my parents who wouldn't even talk surgery. At the time I hated them for it, now I couldn't be more grateful. I understand them now and my biggest regret is my youthful hate toward them.
Thanks so much for sharing your story! Hearing an individual's truth is so much more helpful to others than hearing propaganda from members of the media who haven't been through these things, themselves, or from groups where people often feel pressured to have group-think, instead of individuality. Take care! 🙂
In 2011, I went back to college at age 50 and earned a Bachelors of Science in Psychology. One of my last lectures was in Development of Personality were my Bachelors of Arts professor categorically stated that gender was socialized. As the only BS major and fully formed adult capable of questioning authority in the class, I asked for her scientific sources and her answer was “We don’t need science to prove that gender is socialized. It is evident.” These professors should be required to have extensive scientific training as the actual scientific results say that she is full of shit.
@@DallasCityGurl there is only male and female. Little children may not understand what the words mean. Good grief, apparently many adults don't seem to understand what the words mean.
@@arielview6601 OH your christian, then, I guess you don't read the whole bible, because it also says some people are neither male or female. So you phrase there is only male or female is against the bible. The B I B L E that is the book for me!!!!
When you take away religion people will come up with something else. The desire for meaning and belonging, to create a narrative for oneself is so great people would believe in nonsense than nothing at all.
When I was 6 I loved playing dress up in dresses and playing with dolls. When I turned 8 I loved playing with guns and soldiers. Kids are interested in so many things for many different reasons and it should not be conflated with gender dysphoria
@@keyboardfluttershy5294 yes there are instances like that but what the OP describing isnt that not every guy who wants to play dress up has gender dysphoria
@@keyboardfluttershy5294 The mental illness is lack of self acceptance. Society teaches you are defective if you don't behave a certain way or your body isn't a certain way. Accepting what IS....a person who maybe had many lives as a woman now in a man's body.....a soul who wanted to explore being a man rather than a women in his next lifetime.
Me too. It carried into highschool. I was even confused. This was on 05. If I had come terms any later or been born any later, I may have gotten snatched up in that.
It's so scary. My daughter almost got sucked into this. She was being told at school by her teachers and peers that she was too masculine to be a girl. She had talked to a behavioral therapist about this and I was not made aware. After weeks of her acting so strange, I had to read her journals to figure out what was going on. The next step could have been hrt behind my back or something. She was ten. They were telling her not to tell me! I moved so fast. Now outside of the school that was pushing this she's back to her normal tomboy self and is fine. Imagine that.
Basic child abuse ! Nothing should be hidden from the parents except from very specific situation where the parent might be a direct threat to the child ! "Therapy" should not be hidden! That's very sad that you had to leave but you did the right thing to save your child.
My daughter, in her thirties, got caught up in this and has had both breasts removed plus other surgery. That the school was doing this behind your back clearly shows the respect they had for you as a parent and that is NONE. You need to get your child out of the public education system. If you pay, or sign for a loan, for your child to go to a liberal arts college you are a fool.
The term “slippery slope” certainly applies here. People are.allowing undeveloped minds to make life-altering decisions without the wisdom of life experience.
so true!! And, no doubt, the communists who have hated this country and its people, for multiple decades, and fervently crave the idea of taking it down, are raucously applauding this!!! You can bet on it!!
@Greg Edmunds, This is exactly how I feel about it! I mean, come ON! The therapists and surgeons and all the others what "authority" and influence who promote trans mania are clearly psychopathic. Ruthless and greedy, they don't care for the damage they do, they just want money and power and prestige. It's evil. As for the PARENTS who do this to their children, I sense that it's munchausen by proxy syndrome in a lot of cases, and for the rest it's a product of minds susceptible to brainwashing, herd mentality.
I think it is a good idea for most people to become more educated and aware regarding the topic, however I would defer to medical professionals any treatments required or chosen by the patients themselves. People who are genuinely transgendered are not all that many in the overall population. Those so affected live a tortured life until they can achieve a reasonable balance that will allow them mental peace within themselves. Properly trained and experienced therapists are well equipped to allow patients the extremely important sounding board to vent their emotions, frustrations and to help them achieve the balance I described above. Additionally, it is important to take note that actually and genuine patients first realize they are different within the first five years of life when they perceive their physical bodies do not make sense to them. That is instinct talking from a surprisingly early age. It is best to wait as long as possible to make certain the dilemma is long lasting and profound. Any clinician will tell you that such patients are simply not treated sufficiently by conventional talk therapy. In those cases, only transition works. While even them it is difficult, at least if they take their time and go through the proper steps. chances are they can be helped immediately. In terms of calling a dedicated surgeon a butcher. That comment is beneath contempt. No competent surgeon of any stature would operate on a TG person without completing a myriad of psychological safeguards, and this involves a real-life test that can take up to a year.
I’m not trans but Ur so ignorant that u can’t understand a scientifically proven mental issue. It’s like having fucking cancer and me not having cancer but you do, and me not thinking that it exists because I don’t have it, or haven’t Experienced it.
@̐ I hope that you are aware that being disrespectful to ppl is not allowed in ANY OF THE TRANSLATIONS OF THE BIBLE and stfu and try to to look on the side that trans ppl are right to understand that you are maybe wrong
Except it's even worse because many of the effects of prolonged hormonal treatment itself are irreversible - to say nothing of the physical surgeries. Anorexics who received liposuction could at least regain a healthy weight once the underlying anorexia was resolved. So, no - it's not the same - it's even more unethical than that.
nope because anorexia is a debilitating illness that wreaks havoc on the body and mind and leads to eventual death from malnutrition whereas trans people can still live fulfilling normal lives if they are genuinely transgender and are on hormones. There is regular blood work done to make sure your hormones are in the goal range and everything else about your blood is OK. The problem is when people who aren’t actually trans are pushed into transitioning or decide on a whim to get hormone treatment without first being evaluated by a professional. Edit: just to be clear I do not support children undergoing hormone treatment I’m talking about adults who can make decisions for themselves
@@naimafatimi4189 idk how about you do the same shit society is doing to children and see for yourself until you realize ya dun goofed. and as toxic as my comment is, oh well
@Naima Fatimi it's been several years ago since I read it, so I don't recall a lot of what they said. Just the big points. I believe it was headed by a transgender doctor. Some were done on circumcision accidents. Some were twins where they transitioned one and not the other. The conclusions were what I mostly recall. It did not improve the lives of these patients. Depression remained. Notably about 2 years of euphoria. Followed by return of their original depression. Most had underlying psychiatric disorders before any treatments were started and they felt treatment of that should have been done instead of surgical or chemical treatments. The patients were not able to have normal sexual relations or sensations. Even children that weren't told that this had been done 'felt' something was wrong. Like I said it's been several years since I read it. I'm sure it's buried somewhere because it doesn't support the current agenda. JH had closed the program shortly before this rush for everyone to do it. But of course quickly rejoined the rush.
When I was a kid, I used to say I'm a boy and even asked everyone to call me by a male name. My family went along with it but never purported it to be evidence that I'm a boy trapped in a girls body. They didn't chuck all my dresses in the bin, they didn't think I was in need of medical attention. They just took it as me wanting to emulate my male cousins (I was the only female child in our family at the time), and played along. And... I grew out of it. I shudder to think what would have happened had my parents brought into trans activism.
@@guyskillen I would have killed myself. I didn't even like being called a tomboy. I was a girl who had motorcycles because grandpa had money, I understood that.
TRANSPHOBIC!! That’s what everyone gets mislabelled as if they don’t agree 100% or if you have serious questions and concerns about the consequences! Children suffer for it... well done society.
My brother was trans, he hung himself last February (I found him hanging in his apartment), he was never happy with himself, or how he looked. He always had a next step "well if I just had my boobs I'd be happy" then it was his teeth, etc etc. I tried to help him so much but he just couldn't handle the world. I miss him so much.
Honestly, I think adding in hormones is the problem. Does anyone remember when other countries wouldn't buy meat from America because it was laced with growth hormone that had detrimental effects on the body over time? We need to stop playing with the human body, it's truly a delicate machine and we're ruining it. Let kids be kids. Let teens be curious, normal hormonal teens. If they still feel that way as adults, that's their decision and people should support them. I don't understand when everyone suddenly decided that kids are mentally developed enough to make these life altering decisions without fully understanding what they're going through.
@@criso6681 I've been drinking a lot of milk since I was a child and grew up just fine. Please refrain from making such statements unless you yourself have written a medical paper or can support it with actual facts.
@@44.caliberbrainsurgery63 who are you the RU-vid police? Cows milk responsible for endometriosis, PCOS, fibroids, ovarian cysts, breast cancer, prostate cancer, asthma ,,acne, oesteo arthritis and a host of other illnesses. I've read a TON of research papers so you keep drinking baby cows milk and I'll stay away from that poison.
You are Gen,der confusing yourselves. If you don't know what an ingredient is, you probably shouldn't be eating it. You are biochemically altering your minds, making you and your children gen,der confused. Aspartame (made from E-coli bacteria fe-,ces) change.org/p/fda-ban-artificial-sweetener-aspartame-in-diet-food-and-all-drink-and-diet-drink-in-the-usa/u/22733006 ,
Former mtf here. Ive seen the light. Questioning your gender is a normal part of being human. *Lifelong* hormonal intervention with possible surgery IS NOT. I am a boy and i wear earrings. I'm a feminine man and ok with it now. The gender ROLLS are the biggest problem. Some people are trans, yes, but this has gotten OUT OF HAND.
i agree this has gotten out of hand, but statements like "the science is complete junk" is junk itself. 53 yr old MtF here. Would have been wonderful to be able to skip being "male" at an earlier age. Listening to peers and folks like Hacsi Horvath was just an exercise in running out the clock on my life and i resent them for it. To suggest that no thought or consideration is given before medical intervention is available is a lie. It might be not be enough to satisfy Hacsi Horvath, but that doesn't mean hormones or hormone blockers are handed out like Skittles. Nearly 20 years ago it took me about a year of therapy and full time living before they were prescribed....and i had been dressing like a woman in public since i was 22 or 23. I like to see opposing view points, but nearly all detransitioners i'm seeing are FtM. I can agree that the motivation for girls to transition might be the desire to remove themselves from male attention. but labeling all transgenders as being invalid is harmful and not accurate.
Good for you. I'm a man going through this situation, coming to the same conclusions. I'm learning to accept myself as a very feminine man, even if society and other macho guys do not. I like who I am...it's ok to be a man. Trying to imagine myself going through all this to be accepted sound more pain than it's worth. Best of luck
Don't ask that! They'll call you a sympathizer for being intelligent and thinking for yourself. Of course, if you continue asking questions and you'll discover just about everything they say serves their goals, not God. Best I can figure, they WANT children to hurt. They WANT suicidal behavior. Most of all they WANT everyone to hide and just go away so they don't have to be uncomfortable.
I climbed trees, pine trees, because I thought it was fun and I had lots of energy as a kid. :U Then I stopped when I realized bugs crawled all over said trees. D:
I transitioned to male in my 20's, after having been struggling with accepting my body since childhood. I found out about trans at age 15, and started taking testosterone at 21 and had mastectomy at 25. Then I detransitioned at 29, last year. I still like the changes I got from the hormones, although I quit taking them, and I miss my breasts. So I won't reverse everything, but I'm fine with being a woman now even though I don't look much like one anymore. I thought I was trans because I had dysphoria. But in reality it was an escape mechanism from my past traumas and misogyny. I'm still traumatised but going through my rough past and processing it has made most of my dysphoria go away, and embrace my womanhood. I no longer want to be a man. My parents never tried to make me be trans, they don't even believe it's a thing. They've always been fine with LGB though. Although I didn't figure out I'm a lesbian until my detransition, and a lot of my trauma comes from that I forced myself to be with men, and was sexually assaulted by some of them, which hurt me a lot. I still have a lot of internalised homophobia to deal with. But I was never a stereotypical lesbian, as a kid and growing up, I've always leaned more feminine and was a weird goth kid. My straight mom is far more masc than I've ever been, and we've always been close. It was my body that I hated, not feminine things. In fact, being masculine always made me feel even worse. Now I love my body, despite, and because of, everything it's been through. It's a harsh situation to be in, but I'm sure I'll make it. I think there will be more detransitioners in the future. Transition is way too often held up as the only solution to what's considered gender dysphoria nowadays, instead of as a last resort. Feeding people the idea that if they don't transition they will kill themselves and there's no other option, is very dangerous. Cause I thought it was my only hope to survive, but now I'll never have a normal life because of it. Knowing I could have saved my life in other, much less devastating ways, kinda sucks. And now my gender therapist, that I had to go back to to get my legal and medical stuff changed back, doesn't want to write me off as not trans cause she doesn't wanna accept that I no longer prescribe to gender ideology. Saying "I'm a woman cause I've a uterus" apparently doesn't go over well in that kind of office... She wants to write me off as "non-binary" even though I don't even believe in that stuff! Just because I don't fit her idea of what a "cis" woman can be. I dunno but I think that's wrong.
Ryptoll It’s because your gender therapist doesn’t want to admit that they have cases where they gave the wrong advice and so “non binary” is a middle ground she is pushing on to you in order to not be completely wrong in her methods. Anyways I’m glad to hear you’re recovering and love your body.
@@dishonest-corset4942 It could be that, but I think the issue is that she has a completely different mindset/ideology around gender than I do, and she's ignorant about what I mean, either willfully or not. But also I don't think they have any label for someone who basically takes a "nonbinary" path in terms of gender expression, but doesn't connect that to how they see themselves as male or female. They focus so much on the body in regards to gender identity, where as I think I'm a woman regardless of how I want to look physically, because I'm bio female. I focus on just being me and loving my body. Then however the fuck other people see me (or "misgender" me) is not so much of my concern anymore. My body is not for other people's approval, which my therapist didn't seem to understand. However she did tell me, after the session, that she literally cannot diagnose my "gender" cause it really is only about making sure it gets right this time for me, and that above all else it's about what I want. But they're also utterly terrified of screwing me up a second time. And they're terrified of me suing them for having fucked up my body. So they're more than just a little on their toes about how they treat me. So I (want to) think it's just a misunderstanding cause of having different perspectives. I bet they don't get many detransitioning radfem's explaining their view on gender in such great, and very personal, detail. Although I never told them I'm radfem, just explained my view on how I see my gender situation which just so happens to align with that. And as you may or may not know, the radfem view on gender pretty much clashes with the transgender view. So that was a damn challenge to try to convey in a non-political way with that therapist! But it did go through my head that they might be trying to make me still consider myself some, any, kind of trans by coercing me (unsuccessfully though!) to take on the "nonbinary" label, so that it won't be a serious "regret case" cause that's bad reputation for them. I was persistent and refused to let them label me anything against my will though, but after the appointment I had to leave it up to them to figure it out. But if they fuck it up, I'll claw their eyes out... metaphorically.
Ryptoll I’m aware of the radfem view. My issues with it is some trans activists pushing myths about sex and sexuality. E.G promoting the myth of a male and female brain to support their view that gender identity is innate. Many gays and lesbians experience gender confusion and grow out of it. But in todays climate they would be at risk of being diagnosed and transitioned into “heterosexuals.” I agree with you that this should be a last resort and not the first option. Emotionally blackmailing parents that their children will definitely kill themselves if they don’t let them transition it’s dangerous and illogical appeals to emotion. I also hate it when people compare it to sexual orientation... you don’t have to remove healthy parts of your body in order to be gay, lesbian or bisexual so it’s a flawed comparison. People have legitimate reasons to be concerned about the methods of gender clinics since they are mistakenly leading people to consent to irreversible procedures.
When I was a child it was Aspergers and ADHD and giving your kids Ritalin that was all the rage. I had a histrionic, alcoholic mother who loved the attention she got over my diagnosis of both and she would exaggerate everything to medical professionals. She used to lie about things so the pediatrician would up my dose and she would take my Ritalin herself as well as giving it to me. She loved telling everyone who would listen about this diagnosis I had because she thought it made her appear special. She also didn't like the fact that I was a little girl and a very girly girl who loved dolls and prams and everything pink and was not interested in anything stereotypically masculine at all. She made me have my hair short and she made me wear unisex clothing although I was very unhappy about this and wanted to wear dresses and have long hair. She probably would have tried to convince doctors that I wanted to be a boy if I were born later. I can imagine there are medical professionals, teachers and parents doing this to children today. The thought of it is horrifying.
@@nosmartyr it's not just parents, it's medical and social work professionals who are actually leading the situation and they often encourage this behavior from parents. There are definitely parents with manchausens but they are a small minority. I think all the medical and social care professionals knew also what was going on with my mother, they just joined in and seemed to take pleasure in controlling me. The authorities are often just as abusive as abusive parents. I could sit here all day and tell you everything that happened to me because of teachers, social workers ect. The system isn't there to do good unfortunately. On top of this they target and conspire against innocent parents. I know people who have had their children removed over essentially nothing. It's absurd.
@@Billybloop You're right. Its one of those if you know you know situations where that knowledge is earned first hand by nightmarish trauma. I kept telling my mom my paternal father was molesting me and she believed i was having psychotic delusions instead so she & they put in an asylum 4 months and pumped me full of drugs that gave me life long side effects and brain damage. Antipsychotics are just a clean and neat chemical lobotomy. People hungry for control take up positions where they can get it and then they're basically just the hands of the devil.
@@nosmartyr the worst thing is when people don't believe you and believe in the authorities. I am always cynical when dealing with the authorities now.
We’re all bigots or nazis or whatever label they come up with next, none of them mean anything anymore, anyways. Guess these people have never heard about the boy who cried wolf!
Hormone blockers are nothing permanent, if they child needs time to figure things out with a therapist then let that be, then if the therapist diagnoses the child with Dysphoria, they can take hormones, there's not wrong with preventing pain, I'm a trans teenager, I'm 16 and mtf, testosterone is making my body change in a way that I don't like, I feel trapped and I can't stop this, even if I take estrogen my voice will be permanently lowered, there is nothing wrong in preventing kids enormous amounts of pain.
@@chloevitagliano9565 they clearly havent heard of what the trevor project suicide statistics look like for us trans females or the brain scan tests that were done regarding transgender brain anatomy couple that with the fact that a minor to go on hormones needs parental consent which even then you need a signed form from a gender therapist saying yes you have dysphoria hormones are not easy to get im 18 mtf pre estrogen and just starting gender therapy
Janet White exactly!!! Children are desperate for attention, and if you say you might be trans, you get lots of attention from parents, teachers, and other kids. When you start seeing groups of friends deciding they are all trans, it’s pretty obvious it’s a social contagion!
@@thekatephillips Same thing happens when teenaged girls get pregnant. They start getting all that attention....and then the baby comes and it's not so much fun anymore
Children, especially adolescents, tend to seek out ways to distinguish themselves from the crowd, as well-- it's part of the development of the self. Claiming to be "trans" is a fast-track to attaining attention, approval, AND individuality --- an irresistible combination for some kids.
I was a "tom boy" I am so glad I grew up in the 80s or I would be a freaking boy today. This is so scary. Plus there is money in it and doctors can be harassed if they don't go along it.
I was just saying the same thing! I grew up in the 80's as well. I played in the mud, never wore girl clothes and road dirtbikes and 4 wheelers. I would certainly be a boy today if I grew up in these times. I would never have gotten to be a mother. I am just a girl that hung out with her dad and brother's. I am not transgender.
Transgenderism happens in utero. The brain and body develop separately, and the brain is triggered to take on a male or female structure by the presence or absence of a surge of testosterone. TG is the result of a misfire, resulting in a male-structured brain in a female body, or vice versa. This can be verified on MRI. So it makes perfect sense that TG patients would start showing symptoms around the time they begin to understand concepts of self and gender. I'd say body/genitals define your sex, and your brain defines your gender.
I wouldn't give my 12 year old girl the key to my car or to operate heavy machinery so why on Earth would I allow them to make a decision over a sex change when they aren't mature enough to have reached the conclusion? I miss the times when adults were adults and kids were kids. You listen to children, treat them with respect and let them find their own path through life, as long as they aren't harming anyone. If they turn out to be hetero, gay or trans thats wonderful. You can't ask them to decide the sex they want to be immediately and when they are so immature. Its scary that these operations are legal before adulthood anywhere - it says more about the parent than the child.
I was driving tractors on the farm when I was 10 years old, the only requirement was you have to be able to reach the pedals, and stear properly! I participated in roundups long before that! I am not confused about what is a bull, a cow AND A STEER!
Completely agree. I had to go through my child's pediatrician and therapist to tell the school not to participate or engage with my child's self diagnosis and name change. Schools are encouraging this. It's dangerous for children.
"I can't hardly imagine what doctors must be thinking..." Maybe, "Hmmm, should i buy a Ferrari or a Lamborghini with what i'm going to make of this kid's parents."
Justine Cooper Schools are supporting these lies and damaging children! Public education is brain washing students, rather than giving first rate educations! You nailed the truth regarding doctors. This insanity should end! 🎤🎻🎶 love NJ 🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸
I'm a medical professional. I've had collegues who refused to perform gender affirmation surgery. They almost got sued and got death threats. Doctors aren't independent anymore, we can only act out what activist groups pressure us to do. If you wan't to stop this, go to the root of the problem: marxist universities.
Parents need to stop jumping to conclusions if their boy wants to play with dolls or their girl wants to play with trucks. My mother grew up with 4 brothers and was a self proclaimed tomboy. Never did my grandparents encourage her to be the other sex. She grew up, got married and raised 7 children of her own. 6 boys and 1 girl. My sister had the same experience as my mother. Now married with 2 boys. The point is any child growing up may enjoy aspects of the opposite sex because that is what the see and are accustom to but that does not mean when the grow up they will yearn to be that sex. No child under the age of 18 should ever be put own drugs to facilitate a change in their sex. A human brain isn’t even fully developed until about 25. What the heck does a kid know about themselves at 2-18? It’s madness to make a determination about their life that young. Wouldn’t you, as a parent, prefer your child to grow up as the sex they were born? Give them a chance and let things play out before such drastic decisions are made. Don’t let some self described expert tell you otherwise. After all it’s not called the “practice of medicine” for no reason. They DON’T have all the answers. It would make far more sense to error on the side of caution so you don’t screw up an otherwise normal child.
I remember being horrified that children were given Ritalin now it's hormones to change sex this is insane but everyone accepted the drugging of children by parents, the medical profession and encouraged and condoned by the state be afraid be very afraid
Jean I understand your great concern about drugs and it should be done very cautiously. I have a different story. My son was diagnosed with attention deficit disorder. Took a long time to learn to read, was bouncing off the walls so to speak. Solid C and D student. We finally agreed to try medication and the change in his schooling was remarkable. He went from never reading to reading a book a week. Became an A B student, graduated from college (he stopped using meds in college) and is now a scientist at a major pharmaceutical company. I understand the hesitation, I was too, but sometimes the stuff works.
@@georgeharvey3062 hi George I'm pleased to hear your son had a positive result from medication, but things seem to be getting completely out of control I mean since when has genital mutilation been a good idea ? crazy times
Every adult who went through this transition whilst being a child but realise that they simply didn't understand what was really happening should be able to sue their parents and those clinics involved for inflicting mental and physical harm onto them.
Chloe Cole has filed a lawsuit in CA against her doctors, surgeons and Kaiser Permanente Medical Group. She has a few interviews on RU-vid. She had undisgnosed autism and was instead given puberty blockers at 11, T at 12 and a double mastectomy at 15 that is still giving her serious complications. She's getting joint and bone pain from the puberty blockers and her mastectomy scars are leaking an unidentified fluid 3 years later. Her doctors wouldn't help her detransition.
I agree and people shouldn't be put on blockers until diagnosed but there are genuine cases that are diagnosed. If somebody wants to be called a male or female at the age of 8 then discuss it with them. Don't put them on blockers or hormones until 18
@@taehyunsfairy1843 And you are stupid. It is not complicated. Medical theories have been used in the past to justify all sort of this from saying women don't have orgasms to women determine the sex of the child. I won't even mention the racial beliefs. My point is that just because doctors say it is complicated, it doesn't make it true.
THIS has given me a headache...trying to wrap my brain around it all. WHAT does a baby 3yrs.old even freaking KNOW about sexuality?? This is so wrong on so many levels...Dear Lord Jesus please come back SOON.
@@marleneholloway7775 Being trans has absolutely nothing to do with being sexually attracted to anyone it's about whether you identify as male or female
alexandra itzhaki you mean population replacement ..they don’t have a problem with open borders and Immigration of people have a history of having huge families and the highest growth of populations. To change western societies and civilizations to a more controlled less free population..
It would not work for that - not enough people doing it, and in the wrong countries - it's almost entirely people in rich countries with low birth rates anyway ;-)
Yes, but it's more than that. It's a leftist ideal and the Left is made up of "progressives" . A progressive is basically a communist who has to try to hide that fact, but it's just too apparent, obvious. You must be tolerant of all their BS but they have no tolerance for the rest of us. Jackbooted thugs.
@@bigsid54 YEAH ...RIGHT ..SURE ... AND YOUR AN " EXPERT" !!? HAHAHAHAHAHAHA 🤣😂 😁!! YOU GOT A HANDLE ON "ALL" THAT RIGHT GENIUS 👌!? YOU SHOULD BE PRESIDENT !!! LORD HELP US THEN !!! IT JUST A " SHOW " , AS YOU SO "INTELLIGENTLY" POINT OUT !!! (NOTHING TO SEE HERE ). THANK THE LORD ..WE " DON'T" HAVE TO PUT UP WITH "THAT" KIND OF REASONING !!!
I'm an atheist, but I hate when the left complains of parents sending their children to church and teaching them about god while they promote drag queen story hour, it makes me sick.
@@thehauntedtree The main thing is that a lot of the story times are more than just the fact that it’s a guy in a dress. The books are often politically radical and the adults are often grooming kids... It’s just not good all around.
I'd hate to be a kid these days all the pressure global warming gender etc etc let kids be kids your an adult for a long time I played football climbed trees played with cars dolls everything and did ballet too I was a tomboy sometimes it's called growing up
@@taniaaustin8641 Exactly I was tomboy too, and did a lot of the same thing,s, caught frogs, rode my bike all of the neighborhood, played kickball, played touch football in the streets, learned the basics on a car engine check the oil things like that. Kids today are growing up with enough on their plate it’s seems a lot harder being a kid these days then it was when we were kids growing up.
Because children is an easy target, and they are the future. So they go targeting kids as young as possible, and when you disagree suddenly you are transphobic, or violating human rights, or discriminating against LGBTQ.
@@marwatson7408 Gender has absolutely nothing to do with your hobbies or interests ! It has to do with your perception of self . You could google „gender dysphoria / euphoria „ for more insight on this.
I'm 64... my mother forced my dresses, curls, gloves and poofy everything.... I resented every minute of it. I wanted to climb trees, get dirty, play hardball.... I turned out just fine ! Mother of two and still getting dirty ! Happy as hell with who I am.
Its child abuse, as it was the sexual liberation of child sexuality in the 70-ties www.spiegel.de/international/zeitgeist/the-sexual-revolution-and-children-how-the-left-took-things-too-far-a-702679.html
I love the comment about "a girl wanting to climb a tree". My wife loved climbing trees when she was a young girl, and I can tell you with 100% certainty that there is nothing wrong with her gender identity, and she feels that she is very much an authentic feminine woman.
I think it's very very very interesting that loooads of people that start getting confused about their gender have that thought of transgenderism from outside, a tv show, the news, social media, nowadays from school and kindergarden and also more and more from their friends. It's almost as if... if the idea of transgenderism wasnt pushed so much people wouldnt even ever get the idea to completely medically change their sex and fuck up their lives. Odd. Very odd.
@@Mqstodon "trans" kids parents are permanently changing their bodies with blockers and surgery to "look" like a different sex but a young girl changing/enhancing her body is frowned upon... this doesn't make sense to you??
@Zoe K. my exact point! But people don't have the same reaction you just had about confused children of the same age or younger on hormone blockers or changing their "gender" and bodies.
@Zoe K. 13 year old girls don't have to want to be boys to be unhappy with their bodies and want to change them but it's not acceptable in society so why would we let a 9 year old girl go on hormone blockers so she won't grow breasts which is more dangerous and irreversible.
I'm still a tomboy! But I love my heels, glam, makeup, camping, and sports at the same time. We can do both! Just the same there are men who have feminine traits who are totally straight. My boyfriend is one of those types and we balance each other so perfectly. Funny thing is we both thought the other were gay then one day we were out and he asked me if I ever considered dating men. I said, "Dude I'm straight what are you talking about and I don't like blind dates because it's weird. ". He said, " I'm not talking about a blind date. ". I said, " So.... What are you talking about?". Then he said, " I've always wanted to ask you out on a date but I didn't want to offend you. ". Then I was like," WTF YOU'RE STRAIGHT!!!!!!!!...... ". We had the biggest crushes on each other for some time and assuming things was such a waste of time. We then had a shot and laughed everytime we made eye contact. And there you have it. Best man in the world! Funny thing is through us being together we both found that we are outwardly confusing to people but in a home setting it's the total reverse. Weird but that is our dynamic.
What you're talking about is not gender dysphoria or a dislike of your body or genitalia. You're talking about androgyny. What's going on now is androgynous teens are cross dressing and wearing makeup and this is more accepted. And there is a push to give young children puberty blockers to prevent sexual development in their biological sex if they consider themselves trans. But there is a trend to do this younger and younger which is crazy. No one should get life altering surgeries until they are legal adults and after they have years of therapy AS ADULTS. And cross dress out in the real world. Not in college. Those are tests that test the person's resolve. Stats show that 60% of youths claiming trans status change their minds. It's fasionable to be trans right now. Just as it was to be bisexual at one point. One thing about hormonal therapy, most of it can be reversed. But sexual reassignment surgery can't truly be. That shouldn't be rushed into by overzealous parents or therapists or very young teens or adults.
@@shirleykitchens5878 There's a trend to rush children into hormone therapy to prevent puberty in order to ready them for sexual transition because they claim to be transgender as little children. Some 2 percent of children may actually be transgender. Parents should support them until they are past 18, get them into supportive therapy, have them try cross dressing, then move them into hormone therapy. By the time they're 22 or so, they will have lived as the opposite sex for a few years and may decide if they want or don't want sexual reassignment surgery. This surgery is very painful and complicated and expensive and requires a long time for recovery esp female to male. Its not something to rush into.
Should not be done on minors.The problem is that once reassigned, that person will never be able to have children. So young people need to approach this with extreme caution. Because a REAL normal family won't be possible, again.
Bold of you to assume that they don't give therapy for the former, too. I don't agree with putting children on HRT, since a lot of them don't really understand their emotions, and it can lead to changes that will last forever. However, that's not a reason to downplay an issue like this.
Trojinta - your right my comment was merely a sound bite and as such will never be nuanced as a real life situation ; maybe a ‘better’ allusion would be ~ If a man with mental capacity presents at hospital with body dysmorphia, claiming his healthy arm doesn’t belong to him and demands the doctors remove it (yes this has happened) , that person will be given therapy, BUT the offending limb will NEVER be removed; if a pre-pubescent boy with little life experience says “I think I’m a girl, this penis doesn’t belong to me” the doctors will give them therapy and could ultimately remove the offending limb! Personally I’m past careing either way, I just like consistency .
@Lisa B Have you read some John Taylor Gatto, perchance? I too would close them. A more accurate term for the public schools is Government schools. The history of the schools in America came directly from the totalitarian Prussian Empire, and their guiding value was to produce OBEDIENT soldiers and workers. I salute your understanding.
I'm not a Mom, but if I had kids, they would be homeschooled. Public schools are not what they used to be. They have become indoctrination centers that push dangerous lifestyles on innocent children. I live in California in the San Joaquin Valley, and back when Arnold Schwarzenegger was California governor, he signed a bill into law that required all California public schools to indoctrinate students from Kindergarten through the 12th grade into accepting LGBTQ+ lifestyles and even thinking that it might be for them. Since then, it has spread like wildfire, and public schools all over the country are doing this. It's so scary! Now we are seeing evidence of all this, because look at what society has become! If something isn't done soon, we are all in for a scary future! Rescue your children now!
Too many "options" in today's culture.....kids are overwhelmed and don't know what to think. This is true about everything and unfortunately increasing daily.
I have a sister who grew up responding to the question "what do you want to be when you grow up?" A boy she would tell anyone she is now a 30 year old gay woman and no one wants to hear her opinion because she actually grew to be happy to be a woman. Thank God we had a mother who loved her enough to say you are perfect the way you are. And in doing that she gave my sister the permission to be who she really is a gay woman!!!!!!
I know someone whose 4 year old has been a puppy for the past month. Going by these doctors she should start crate training him. Fortunately, Mom has some common sense.
There is a kid in the high school in our town who identifies are a furry. His parents asked the high school to put a litter box in the bathroom, and he wears a tail to school. Yes this actually happened.
When I was in nursery, I used to rush to the costume box at break time and wear this red and white polka dot dress, I was the prettiest little girl in school, my teachers and parents said absolutely nothing about it. Around 2 weeks later, I got bored of the dress, and instead rushed for the pirate costume, I was the most fearsome pirate in all of the seas... Point being, children like to dress up and pretend to be something they're not. They enjoy using their imagination and manufacturing stories for themselves, it invokes creativity. I'm still a man, and straight as an arrow. The thought of myself (or other little boys for that matter) playing dress up in this day and age scares the living shit out of me.
rog3rrr I know right! This is only going to cause people to enforce even MORE gender stereotypes types on kids... like u better not step out of gender-lines or you’ll be surgically altered to “look” like the “opposite” gender and be sterile and on serious medication the rest of your life that gives u cancer. Yup. Great. Good move society. Institutionalized gender conformity or child abuse. Bravo, lefties.
After watching a few seasons of "I Am Jazz," I'm convinced that the parents who do this to their children have Munchausen By Proxy. The mother on that show was hell bent on getting her son started on and through the transition process. What is obvious from her actions on the show is that she LOVES the attention she gets from being Jazz's mom and she gets off on being a victim of society. And she can barely conceal her elbow swinging as she tries to wrestle camera time from Jazz. Somehow we as a society have let this slip through the cracks because we're afraid of being called intolerant or bigoted or whatever.
I watched that show three times and thought that immediately. That mother has some serious issues and is just riding on the coattails of Jazz. I may go back to studying law so I can be there in 10-15 years when all these kids who transitioned before 18 with their parents permission sue them for abuse.
Jazz is not happy, he hasn't been able to start at Harvard as planned, he can't sit properly and is evidently in extreme pain and discomfort after being castrated, he is dependent upon his mother to put a dildo in the hole for hours every day to dilate it because he has no motivat6to do so having had no puberty and therefore no sexual development... it's horrific what his homophobic father and munchie mother have done to him. If left alone, he would have been a gay man.
@@ThatPunkBrent She has had repeated genital surgery and never went through puberty and so has no sexual feelings, her transition has been anything but a success.
If the law insisted all children must choose a partner for life and be married by 13 years, society would be outraged, there would be huge protests in the streets and nasty arguments on chat show. Everyone would be angry, that we would be condemning our children to lives of unhappiness, as they couldn't possibly know their own hearts and minds at 13 years. Yet we are not only content.....no, happy with this, we encourage it we applaud it. What on earth is wrong with the average person. My brother always says the masses are just dumb prols, who will believe anything..........sadly he appears to be correct
Yeah, sadly he's correct. I think most people are rather intelligent, but emotional tactics are used to make them avoid the truth. Hell, I live trans people and have some friends who are trans. But they all made the decision when they were adults, which is a huge difference.
On the behalf of trans people, we do not encourage medical transition as a child. No child can make decisions like that at such an age. People forget that it is perfectly okay to be a tomboy or a girly boy.
I thank my lucky stars I grew up in the 80's and 90's. I hated dresses, fought boys played, on co-ed sports teams, loved football and wanted to be a boxer. My family thought for sure I was a lesbian. Nope! Lol
My family was so open minded my interests being more common with boys didn't even make them question my sexuality & I am a lesbian! I am incredably greatful they never questioned my gender or put any limitations on me.
"As in the days of Noah" thank you . I keep saying that but people don't want to see the truth. It looks like Moses days also when he went up the mountain to receive the 10 commandment and came back down and it was chaos. We live in a world where it's so confusing. GOD bless you all.
Exactly. Amen. Biblical prophecy fulfilling before our eyes. I praise God that Jesus saved me and gave me spiritual eyes to see the lies and confusion and understand the satanic lies I've been force fed all my life.
Agreed. I truly believe that, in 10-20 years, we'll see a massive wave of these "transgender kids" coming forward and suing the shit out of their parents and doctors because they realized how much was stolen from them. I only hope that karma bites those doctors and parents HARD when it finally happens.
I've been saying this for years. Who will they sue though? It's the parents who encourage and take their children to gender clinics and encourage this sick behaviour. When the parents die, who will they sue?? There should be a legal document by the government for the parents to sign. That way parents should be held accountable for this..
Agree, however it could be potentially a temporary solution for extreme cases of young children and teens that are recurrentently attempting suicide or mutilation of genitalia, or body in general. This extreme situations might require extreme action, but for it to be imposed on every single case of gender dysphoria as a rule is insane and child abuse for sure.
I do agree. Having watched a video posted online where a 6yr old boy transitioned into a girl. No one picked up on the child’s back story. He had been the centre of his parents undivided attention until the birth of his a baby sister. Who was born severely disabled and required 24/7 care by the parents which was understandable . The young child therefore associated attention with being a girl to young to look further into the change of his life. Subconsciously or consciously. No one had sat down with this child to talk listen and explain the complete change in this child’s life had nothing to do with gender but medical needs. The child transitioned with all the associated medical intervention. Maybe only one story but how many others cases are out there? Caused by death, divorce, abuse, expectation, separation and beliefs of the parent/s and adults centre of their life but not realising it.
@George Askeladd Because a specific sperm and a specific egg out of literally hundreds of millions of both managed to combine and survive implantation and intrauterine development long enough for you to survive outside the womb. The mere fact that you, specifically you, exist is nothing short of miraculous. Don't get confused. Not knowing who you are is one thing. What you are is determined by your DNA. You are male or female unless you're intersexed. Nothing done to alter the outside changes that.
@@julianjulian8806 it's not that you were born in the wrong body, it's that you have a feeling that doesn't align up with reality and is therefore false.
@@estellexlx gender is not the same as biological sexe. It's not something determined by the genital anatomy but by the brain. I have a gender that doesn't align with my body, that's all. And I can't really change my gender, tho I tried to. That's impossible. That's more than a feeling. It's a lot of suicidal thoughts, fears, disgust... It affect everyday of my life so I it's not a feeling that "doesn"t align up with reality"
One day our descendents will look back at us in disbelief and disgust when this barbaric practice is mentioned in history books, as we now look back in horror at dichotomies, trepanning, insulin shock therapy, mercury treatment, electroconvulsive therapy, bloodletting, eugenics, and other barbaric medical practices. May that day come sooner than later.
David Andersen : Hope it will mention in history book that includes : ( the work from radical progressive liberal) For Freedom Of Speech: Kindly criticise if I am wrong. Check out : Alpha lady Ms Posie Parker (UK) on transgender issues. Woman for women and children.
This is madness! When I was a child I was 100% tomboy...I even looked more like a little boy than a girl! But in my day of growing up this insanity was unheard of! I eventually started liking boys and liking girl stuff and somewhat grew out of my tomboy ways...grew up with the freedom to be who I am. Today I have a husband and three lovely children. Had I been told I could choose my sex I would now be a suicidal freak of nature which is what alot of these kids have to look forward to! I can't believe the amount of sickness going on in society today! God help this planet!!!!!
Tam Vondayne what if one of your kids our trans and hiding it because of your point of view? what if one of them no longer trust you because of this what if they have plans that once thier 18 to run away and never look back because of your hate? you may say they would never be that way but even if they are over 18 have repressed it leading them to become deadly to them selfs because of your vocal hatred?
My heart breaks for these kids! Instead of responsible adults telling them its OK to feel uncomfortable in their bodies...that its OK to learn about their sexuality and gender and give them TIME and support...they are giving them options they shouldn't have...making doctors and pharma rich!!
@@estellexlx dawg im being honest here which one of my points are you even trying to fight do you want your kid to kill themselfs because if so girlboss!
@M Robbani Ilham i would if they wanted just because i give birth to a child dosent mean i can control there every action that and nature fucks up sometimes
Yup! EVERY actor and A list actors are trans!! Not kidding! It's so shocking and hard to get your head around this satanic cult! These people are sick.
Trendy but mad. Using the pronoun “they” instead of “he” or “she” is not grammatically correct and will create confusion. Is the parent thinking their one child is two children? I would question the sanity of the parents.
I'm 41, I wear dresses, do my nails, wear make up, jewelry, the whole nine. I bake and cook, I craft, I love cleaning and organizing, but I love camping, I love the outdoors, I love zip lining, hiking and survival skills, so does what people like really have anything to do with their sex?! I don't think so, however, I do think that if someone is exploring their world and identify later on in life as something they are not then that's when they should meet with doctors and therapists to determine their next step, but that should be done after the individual has the medical power themself to go through transitioning. I do not think that parents should be allowing their 12 year olds to transition. Transitioning is irreversible. Things don't go back to normal after taking the medicines. It is a decision that should not be made quickly or on a whim.
Thank you for speaking the truth in a world gone mad. My daughter made her little brother wear a dress of hers so she'd play with him. It was in the 80s and seemed cute and harmless to me at the time. Thank God he didn't internalize that. He's a normal, healthy, handsome, successful, heterosexual young man.
Barry Ross Honestly with the current issues going on that is very much a concern for me. Granted I've got a few years before worrying about children but nevertheless when I get around to that I am going to homeschool my kids, just because public school has caused so much for me. And I live in a good home, I'm not bullied, basically I have it pretty nice, but I still get more than stressed, depressed, and overwhelmed with school and the people within it. And I hear about the issues in school, and peoples arguments that attempt to make you feel bad for your stance, so in order to avoid that for my own kids, I'll make it where they have some time to be innocent and just kids before they have to hear about all the darker and more mature parts of the world. Just because it causes so much stress.
No everyone is able to homeschool their child. Even if you do homeschool your child, that is one child, the rest of them are left in school to be brain washed. We should stand up for all children, we need to invest in our future.
My now 10 year daughter used to tell me repeatedly that she was a boy when she about 3/4. We never took her seriously as being rational parents we understood that the arrival of her brother after 4 girls was highly celebrated as he was the first boy in over 30 years to be born in our family. What I am getting at is we understood that because of the huge fanfare due to a boy arriving she thought that being a boy was something special and she wanted some of that attention. We just made sure to tell her how special she was for being a girl and the brilliance of woman. She hasn't mentioned it for years and is very comfortable with being a girl. You have to allow children time to develop and really look at what is going on at the time in the family before jumping to conclusions that the child is in the wrong body - something I do not believe is possible.
@@turnipbitch4832 if I'm misinformed... why are over half of the children in my family have a gender issue! Over half. When I first learned of one of my cousin's child... I was accepting. But over the course of the last six months... one after another.. the kids keep rolling out of some magical confusion closet like a factory. Now... Something's NOT right. OVER half of the family kids. These aren't family members that talk to each other nor Facebook each other. Blood relationship isn't the issue. Plus I know outside the family children with gender dysphoria. I now know this is a serious issue. Of the small amount of children I know, I could accept one. But not the alarming numbers that are growing.
I'm trans (and not happy) and I think people are looking at FtMs all wrong. I want to look into the rates of PCOS and the excess male hormones as a byproduct in teenagers. It's well documented now PCOS is becoming increasingly common and I'm 100% sure I had it at a very young age. My hormones were messed up ontop of being a teenager. When that guy says it's trauma or desire to be a man that's not going to change any trans-persons mind, I actually do believe though if you told my younger self that I had undiagonsed PCOS and that was the reason I was fat, ugly and didn't fit into the female world, I would have understood.
I am gay and as an insecure and a bullied child my feminine side showed itself more. In this day and age and with less enlightened parents I guess they would have put me in transition. My God am I glad that I was born in 1969......
Its funny they get mad when people confuse sexuality and gender identity, but still insist we all stay under the same umbrella. Yes there are lots of gay people who do not buy into the current gender theory. And remember the activist types don't really represent all of the people from that specific group. I bet most gay people aren't even members of a LGBT... organization. We are all individuals first with difference of opinions.
YEAAA I ALWAYS SO HAPPY TO SEE ANOTHER INTELLIGENT HUMAN BEING SPEAKING TRUTH!! THANK GOD !! TAKE OUT ALL THE LEFTY'S AND THROW THEM IN THE DUMP !!! YEAAA !! WONDERFUL 😊😊😁 !!
So let me get this straight. Anyone under the age of 18 is considered to be too immature to really understand what sex is about and at that age they can't possibly make an "informed decision" about participating in any form of sex or even simply touching certain parts of someone else's body. Even a female and a male who are 17 years and 10-11 months old are strictly forbidden by law to engage in any type of sexual relations because at that age, still under 18, their minds supposedly still haven't yet matured enough to really know for sure if that's right or wrong. So it's forbidden by law for the reason that later in life after they've turned 18, possibly 2-3 months later, that person won't suddenly realize they made a horrible mistake possibly causing them all sorts of problems as they look back and wish they'd only waited a little longer till they really knew what they were doing. That's the law in 13 states including California. Even if the child comes to them at 16-17 and says mom & dad I know for certain that I'm ready to have sex and I know I'll never regret it in any way, the law still forbids the parent to give their consent for the child to engage in sexual relations if they're not married. BUT if the parent decides that the child shouldn't even be allowed to go through natural puberty when they're supposed to then that's ok for them to make THAT decision. And it's furthermore allowed for them to make the decision of changing the child's sexual identity and having them undergo irreversible sterility surgery. Because at that age a minor is certainly mature enough to know for sure if they want to be sterile forever and if they want to be the opposite sex forever without ever having any regrets. Right?
True story: as a child, I was a bit of a tomboy & played mostly with male cousins. I remember getting really upset when I learned that they pee standing up! I actually shouted at all the moms who were sitting around chatting while the kids played “why don’t I get to pee standing up?!?!” because i was annoyed at having to interrupt my fun to go inside to use the bathroom when the boys just had to go behind a bush. Thankfully, in those days I wasn’t whisked off for gender reassignment.
You just made me remember I tried peeing standing up a few times in the bathroom as a kid because I grew up with my male cousin being my only playmate from birth to 7 or 8. Probably so many of us tried it.
Standing ovation for this man. Thank God I didn't end up in one of those clinics. Because back in the days I was a real tomboy hanging out with my brother and his male friends and playing with boys toys. That doesn't mean I want to be a boy. The 80's when kids used to be kids and do kids stuff. Today the minds of the youth are being destroyed by the media and their sick agenda.
The movie "Some Like It Hot" was not a movie about transgenderism. It was a comedy about 2 two men trying to hide their identities as male to avoid being murdered by gangsters. Individuals who dress in the other sex from themselves is not always about actually being the opposite sex from what they may be physically and emotionally. Such has been done over the years to hide one's identity for some reason or the other. What is happening today is really almost beyond comprehension.
"Some Like It Hot" is one of the great comedy films of Hollywood. It had nothing to do with this issue and the Director never thought of it as being a transgender issue. Two men dressed up as women to avoid being detected as men to save their lives. There is no there, there.@@thedativecase9733
Obviously, but this film was one of many that made people think about cross-dressing. When men think too much about cross-dressing, they may develop autogynephilia. After that, it's off to the races.
@@HH-xyz123The movie "Some Like it Hot" with Marilyn Monroe, Tony Curtis and Jack Lemmon was about 2 men dressing (in parts of the film) up as women to elude gangster's out to kill them as they had been witness to a crime. They needed to hide their identity. Billy Wilder is probably turning over in his grave that I am even having to explain this. The movie was not about cross-dressing. Such actions have been done over the centuries when someone wanted to hide their real identities to generally save their lives. What is happening today is a horse of a totally different color and meaning.
I didn't find my femininity until my 20s, i hated dresses and skirts and now i wear them regularly. Part of the confusion I experienced was because of sexual abuse as a child, which dramatically altered my worldview and self esteem. The teen years can be so extreme and volatile to a soul trying to find their place in the world, experiencing changing body and harmones, as well as sorting through genetic traits we may or may not like that we have. Bottom line is there is so much more to Identity than just sexuality and it can't be fully comprehended until well into adulthood or without good doses of wisdom and truth.
A young boy says he feels like a girl soon this day in age it’s just acted with hormones. I wanna know how the hell does this boy knows how a girl feels, he can guess...doesn’t the human body still development till around the age of 25??
@@hardwood1274 propaganda. How is it possible that every single "survivor" of the work camps have grotesque tales to tell about Dr Mengele, he was a busy boy, wasn't he.
@Lisa Lotek REALLY !! Don't be a fool !! You know squat !! No matter what the Nazi era , wasn't the VERY worst ..just one of , MANY !! "CATHOLIC, SO CALLED" CHURCH DID SOME PRETTY NASTY FOUL STUFF !! LIKE THE VERY DEVIL HIMSELF WAS IN CHARGE !!! ANYTHING CHANGE !!??? NO , I DON'T THINK SO !! HAHAHAHA HAHAHAHA HEHEHEHE WOOOO WEEEE 🤣☠️💀😱👻👹👹💀💀☠️😵
I wanted to be a boy at a young age. When role playing with friends, i was always the boy. I tried p'ing standing up several times (lol)!!! I was also molested by step-brother. I climbed trees. Had all boy cousins, so very rough play. My nickname from my father was Fred. Fast forward to 18 y/o I'm fully, definitely a girl and LOVE it! I too am so very glad I did not grow up in the time of this sick liberal movement.
Jodieis Blessed Please stop blaming the liberals. It has nothing to do with liberal politics. It’s a combination of many social logical factors. Read up on the issues and stop blaming the Liberals for everything. I’m as liberal as you can get and I think we are in a very bad mess
Thank you for bravely standing up and speaking out on behalf of children who need a sane person in their life when the adults around them are not. As a girl growing up I was a tomboy, as an adult I am such a girly girl. I so enjoy dresses, pink, etc but I still so enjoy throwing a ball, zip lining, motorcycles, etc. At 61 I so enjoy being a female who can experience and participate in many different things. I call it being well rounded!!! God does not make mistakes, only people do. We live in a society where people are confused and losing their identity. We need to look to God knowing He loves all of us and embrace His truth regarding our lives.
