Four Life Lessons I Wish I Knew Sooner ( I Always Learn the Hard Way!!)

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Four Life Lessons I Wish I Knew Sooner ( I Always Learn the Hard Way!!)
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@tomikotomihewitt657 18 дней назад

Here’s a quote I like, “Your lack of planning does not equal my emergency.”

@3TXSisters 17 дней назад

Oh, that's a good one!

@ceciliaperales8466 18 дней назад

Whenever I'm sitting there quiet , I'm always asked if something is wrong with me. 😂

@TLStitches 18 дней назад

Me too! Lol

@CentsibleLivingWithMoneyMom 18 дней назад

I want to know what you are thinking

@ceciliaperales8466 18 дней назад

@@CentsibleLivingWithMoneyMom most likely what I'm going to eat next. 🤣

@TLStitches 18 дней назад

@@CentsibleLivingWithMoneyMom usually I'm listening

@3TXSisters 17 дней назад

😄😄😄 Is it because you're quiet? They may mean it as an insult, lol.

@FrugalQueeninFrance 15 дней назад

It's so important to keep private matters private. We Brits call it, keeping ourselves to ourselves.

@CentsibleLivingWithMoneyMom 15 дней назад

So true

@SusanL-ds6lc 17 дней назад

These are all great. I'm happy you are thinking about things you can do to take better care of your own well being. We all learn and grow at our own pace. You are making the effort to increase your peace of mind :) That is so important! Keep up the good work :)

@CentsibleLivingWithMoneyMom 17 дней назад

You are so kind

@KerryJames-l6z 17 дней назад

Lessons I have learnt in my 56 years not oversharing with people two social media is fake three rely and trust on God

@psr1lady 17 дней назад

Thank you, Dawn! I needed this share from you today. It's exactly what I needed to help me stay focused in so many areas of my life right now! You are a blessing. ❤

@CentsibleLivingWithMoneyMom 17 дней назад

Glad it was helpful!

@BlackieBearz 18 дней назад

I think over-sharing is fine but as you know, there are dysfunctional people who get so enmeshed they read deep into what you say. Maybe even discuss it with others which at that point, you become a success. You matter to them, positive or negatively and that translates to financial success since they're watching your videos.. Thanks for your wonderful disposition, I look forward to your videos each day

@LindaHenk 17 дней назад

I refuse to participate in other peoples problems, dilemmas, or finances. I wish them well and move on.

@sandycalhoun9496 17 дней назад

I watched your video today + then realized I hadn't watched yesterday's video about your Kroger haul. Your videos are top on my list everyday to watch. Anyway.... watching various videos this year I've realized alot of people go to Aldi. Use to years ago when I had kids. Now its just 2 of us. I would like you to discuss positives of going to Aldis + see Sr. comments of what they buy there to save money as seniors.

@CentsibleLivingWithMoneyMom 17 дней назад

Thanks so much 😊

@3TXSisters 17 дней назад

That's a great idea!

@Joce123 18 дней назад

So many times when people tell me their complaints, it isn't like they really want a solution. I will spend my heart felt energy on trying to help them....but they don't follow through..waste of my energy

@CentsibleLivingWithMoneyMom 18 дней назад

I have done this

@cinderellalady9447 17 дней назад

Often people just want to be heard. If you offer them a solution and it doesn’t work out they can blame you. That’s why counsellors don’t give advice

@3TXSisters 17 дней назад

I have learned this to be true.

@KerryJames-l6z 17 дней назад

Stay in my own lane take care of my self

@CristinaEvans-w2m 17 дней назад

Ask yourself 3questions before you speak 1. Is it true. 2. Is it necessary 3. Is it kind. This has really helped me I hope it helps others ❤❤❤

@CentsibleLivingWithMoneyMom 17 дней назад

love it

@3TXSisters 17 дней назад

Is it kind? The best question, imho.

@RayTator 15 дней назад

Oh Lord I so get what you are saying Lynn (by accident I got off your channel oops I love your videos ❤️

@CentsibleLivingWithMoneyMom 15 дней назад

You 💗 are so sweet

@pamelalyon3264 18 дней назад

If you tell certain people personal things they give you unwanted advice, and may become judgmental, and think you're wrong or stubborn if you don't listen. I've learned to keep quiet.

@3TXSisters 17 дней назад

True!

@Stalwart-zy3oo 18 дней назад

1. Over-sharing 2. Not reacting and not-responding 3. Not everything is urgent 4. Staying in my own lane: don’t get involved Excellent! I tell people ‘your emergency is not my responsibility’. Yes, I am blunt about this. But I DO share positive options, if I am asked, to explain a different path to take. People with good verbal skills are still ‘processing’ situations that have happened. This is the ‘why’ of over-sharing. So another option: write it in a journal! By writing it, it goes into a page and others don’t see it. It’s another form of ‘processing’ situations that are over-whelming. An excellent topic! Stalwart

@CentsibleLivingWithMoneyMom 18 дней назад

Thank you much

@alaska3120 17 дней назад

Such a great suggestion! I’m going to try that

@3TXSisters 17 дней назад

Excellent advice!

@M_SC 16 дней назад

And you can literally say it out loud: to your cat/ to your phone, recording it. Hear it out loud/ Playing it back sometimes helps

@rbrooks918 17 дней назад

Yeah, I learned these things as I got older. Still, good advice.

@amyschaefer1140 18 дней назад

Im just learning how to say NO politely. I no longer feel I need to take care of everyone. It's exhausting. ❤

@CentsibleLivingWithMoneyMom 18 дней назад

Oh yeah

@bethbeckermeyer1732 17 дней назад

Silence is golden!

@CentsibleLivingWithMoneyMom 17 дней назад

oh yeah

@cinderellalady9447 17 дней назад

Yes, move in silence

@KerryJames-l6z 17 дней назад

As 56 I have learnt not to respond not react or take things personally if you have hurt me you have lost me coming back too late

@jaga6011 17 дней назад

Great topic Thank you for sharing

@larmstrong2302 18 дней назад

It's probably hard as a content creator to not overshare, but tabling the discussion for 24 hours sounds like it would help. I do notice that you keep your answers short and sweet, and that's probably good for you to do when not wanting to answer negatively. Good job MM! ❤😊

@CentsibleLivingWithMoneyMom 18 дней назад

Thank you

@3TXSisters 17 дней назад

True!

@annkrull9894 18 дней назад

Its called don't sweat the small stuff and never let them see you sweat. I hate the overuse of the word emergency. Few things are truly emergent.

@CentsibleLivingWithMoneyMom 18 дней назад

So true

@theripleyeffect5203 17 дней назад

"Putting off words like putting off a purchase." - Wise beyong your years, Money Mom! We love you too!❤

@CentsibleLivingWithMoneyMom 17 дней назад

You're the best!

@cinderellalady9447 17 дней назад

Excellent tip

@3TXSisters 17 дней назад

Very good!

@tammy9964 17 дней назад

Good video. I like the one, stay in your own lane. Like it. ❤

@3TXSisters 17 дней назад

Oh, my. I'm still guilty of this in certain circumstances. I've learned that people who confide in me often don't want solutions. They just want to vent. That's fine as long as I know you don't want my advice and I spend my time finding a solution to your problem. I'm slowly learning to just listen and not react. A harder lesson for me is to not overshare when answering a question. I want to answer honestly; however, I need to edit myself. Great video! Love to all, Linda 💕

@CentsibleLivingWithMoneyMom 17 дней назад

I can so relate

@tinalewis6782 17 дней назад

Oh boy, I’m with you on this! I tend to treat every work email as if it were a matter of life or death. It’s a struggle to breathe and take in the entire situation first. I’m learning! 😊

@CentsibleLivingWithMoneyMom 17 дней назад

same here

@Christine-gc1bs 17 дней назад

Every single part of this resonated with me. I am a verbal processor and I overshare. These are really helpful tips, thank you so much for sharing Dawn!

@CentsibleLivingWithMoneyMom 17 дней назад

Glad it was helpful!

@ForestFury101 18 дней назад

Yep. I have to check myself on these.

@giddythings 17 дней назад

Great vlog! Love you and really like that shirt, dear Dawn! 💜🥰

@CentsibleLivingWithMoneyMom 17 дней назад

Thank you!!

@kimmolis6198 17 дней назад

Oh boy this is me! Still learning at 61 😊

@CentsibleLivingWithMoneyMom 17 дней назад

same me

@SimplyKatieWalks 17 дней назад

My 56 yr old mantra is "when you say yes to someone, you say no to yourself"

@CentsibleLivingWithMoneyMom 17 дней назад

Good Point

@3TXSisters 17 дней назад

Oh, wow! That's great!

@Smooshes786 17 дней назад

I had to take a stepped approach to offering help immediately. I was raised to be a helper and not to ask for help. No, no, no. I changed my conversation from “what do you need me to help with?” To “If you think of something specific I can help with, let me know.” Most often, someone just wants to vent.

@CentsibleLivingWithMoneyMom 17 дней назад

very true

@3TXSisters 17 дней назад

You're right.

@pattycake8272 18 дней назад

My daughter takes 7 cats out to the yard to get their zoomies out. Well 1 or 2 goes rogue, she calls me and tells me about it, i cant do anything but I want to help but I'm stuck at work so I tell her to just stop calling me.

@cinderellalady9447 17 дней назад

Maybe try to show some empathy

@3TXSisters 17 дней назад

I had to laugh. That's such a kid thing, and you're looking at the phone wondering why she called. Just say, "I'm sorry, they'll come back when they're hungry."

@shirleyjones6081 17 дней назад

I could share it would be an entire book.

@Rusty2255-i6c 17 дней назад

Someone you shouted out is a scammer

@pom-momtina6254 17 дней назад

I can relate to everything you said. I'm a 'fixer', by nature, and when someone has a 'crisis', I USED to drop everything and go into 'fix-it' mode, until I realized that people are perfectly content to let YOU 'fix' their problems, and they'll bring more and more of them to you, rather than learn to be self-sufficient. In dropping whatever you're doing to help, THEY save time and energy, yet YOU get further behind, as well as taking on the stress and anxiety of their problems. I've worked REALLY hard to simplify my life and make it as stress-free as possible, and it's even moreso, now that I no longer feel the need to fix problems or situations that aren't mine to fix.

@CentsibleLivingWithMoneyMom 17 дней назад

I love this comment

@carolparker2392 17 дней назад

We care. Share

@lindacgrace2973 18 дней назад

Welcome to life as an adult with ADHD! People think that kids "grow out of" ADHD. Nope. You get better at managing it, but it's still there. You're doing a great job of managing your ADHD, which I greatly admire. Keep up the great work!

@ceciliaperales8466 18 дней назад

@@lindacgrace2973 I have ADHD and my Dr. told me that I would be the fastest old lady walking at the mall. I have so much energy at almost 67 , that I'm still boxing. 🥊

@CentsibleLivingWithMoneyMom 18 дней назад

I do not have ADHD

@maureenboland4189 17 дней назад

Linda, it may appear she does, but perhaps she hasn’t been diagnosed

@lindacgrace2973 17 дней назад

@@CentsibleLivingWithMoneyMom {coughs politely} You don't have diagnosed ADHD. There are several different varieties, for instance. The Inattentive Type is what most people think is ADHD - disorganized, spacey, forgetful, poor attention span. HOWEVER, there is the hyperactive type (like me). Let's see if any of this sounds familiar: Can't sit still, has trouble relaxing or "switching off" for relaxation, tends to view relaxation as activities, or something to do NOT as actual relaxation, which is nothing or very little to do. Overshares consistently, many times in ways that are socially unacceptable. Hyper-organized, uses organizing tools as a matter of course, the queen of boxes, bins, and labelling systems. Excellent at managing scheduling and calendars. Has very weak or no filters and takes on everyone else's problems as her own. Blurts out inappropriate thoughts (again, weak or absent 'filters'). Frequently accompanied by sleep disturbances (you are an extreme night-owl; I can't sleep past 5:00 am). Usually highly intelligent (statistically, people with ADHD are above average in intelligence), energetic, and helpful. If something's going wrong with the neighborhood, you can count on the ADHD hyperactive type to organize a committee, motivate people to participate and get something done. Does any of this sound familiar? You may not actually qualify for a formal diagnosis. You seem to be compensating quite well and your energy levels are serving you well, so I wouldn't even recommend getting a diagnosis. What for? You're doing fine. I only offer this observation to give you some insight, if you find that helpful. You're doing great, Dawn- keep up the good work!

@lindacgrace2973 17 дней назад

@@maureenboland4189 That's exactly what I wrote to Dawn! 😆 I outlined the symptoms hyperactive (rather than inattentive) type ADHD; many of which are identical to my symptoms. I also said that she's doing fine and her energy levels are serving her well, and advised against getting formal diagnosis. Why bother? She's doing great!

@M_SC 16 дней назад

I learned most of these very slowly as well. New things I’ve learned: No texting or commenting or phone calls before 2 units of caffeine or I will regret it. No one changes their personality. People can change their behaviour somewhat but not their core personality. I’d continue but it gets quite negative, lol.

@bria2596 15 дней назад

Me, too!

@KerryJames-l6z 17 дней назад

Last lesson I have stopped caring age 56 sorry

@CentsibleLivingWithMoneyMom 17 дней назад

No need to say you are sorry

@cinderellalady9447 17 дней назад

That’s unfortunate. I hope you have a change of heart

@coffeecupconversations 18 дней назад

I know someone who deliberately misinterprets my text messages. So when she does, I stop and refuse to text back. Then she often goes back, re-reads the text and says on her own, OH, THIS is what you meant. I avoid energy vampires!

@3TXSisters 17 дней назад

Yikes! I can see why you'd avoid her.

@SmilingBeaver-ou7nc 18 дней назад

I love the 24 hour rule idea, and I'm definitely going to try it. Have A Bless Day Everyone 💕

@CentsibleLivingWithMoneyMom 18 дней назад

Thanks much

@rickinmo6837 16 дней назад

❤❤❤❤❤❤

@thewitchyprepper8396 16 дней назад

Omgoodness I can relate to ALL of these! LOL!😅You're definitely not alone Money Mom and better to learn late than never! Here's to learning every day!💕

@CentsibleLivingWithMoneyMom 16 дней назад

Yes! Thank you!

@pattycake8272 18 дней назад

My boyfriend always brings up the couple that he's watching and I just simply tell him in a polite way "sweetie I don't care" i care about them as fellow human beings, but that couple over shares and i feel they really should not, its about their personal life. If im not going to go to bed worried if they are going to be happy or not tomorrow about their situation i really don't need to hear it. If you over shared something i would not go to anyone but in the comment section about it. Unless you got a cat and it did something cute, you bet im sharing that lol.