My husband is an INTJ and I just about about fell out of my chair from laughing with the eye contact sketch, they really like to stare into your soul lol
As an INTJ guy I am still clueless what's the correct way for eye contact. Sometimes if I am shy I won't look at the person at all and other times just tear into their souls.
@@peacefulgrotesque1510 yep and the laser eyes generally mean death. if i give my kids the laser eyes they will start apologizing and then run from the room.
The number of people I've made cry on the inside/outside or made themselves realize their stupidity is quite a bit. I've learned to back off and breath deeply and hold my tongue as I gained wisdom when I got older though. Still working on patience really hard.
@@eggsnspamou are real intj then (entp me having same problem sometimes with high ego people and after finally met with real intj 🤟 i just knew before mbti cz of my ne)
So funny! The best quote from my favorite INTJ is: "if that hurts your feelings, then your feelings are too fragile" Doesn't seem like there are many INTJs out there
I know, right? Whenever I go out, I try to look at people and figure them out, observe, listen and I rarely can see or find person behaving similar way to me. This "death stare" or "staring into your soul" is something I always had and it's just part of me, I rarely see people with intense stare like that or those that are good on their own. Restaurant, cinema, bar, walking through city, shopping center. There are none. I mean, I am not being there too often as well but I started going out more frequently to "counter my fears" or go out of my comfort zone (sweet home) and still, no familiar people :C
I believe INTJs in general are less than 2% of the population (INTJ females are, I think, 0.8% of the population). INTJs and INFJs are two of the rarest types.
INTJ's are the second rarest type (INFJ is first) in the 2.1%. As an INTJ, I would know. I currently have many case-studies I'm trying to run on different sets of different types and finding a fellow INTJ has been a herculean effort.
My INTJ wife made a new waitress cry when she went back in the kitchen and asked if they needed a hand since the bread had not arrived and her blood sugar had about 3 minutes before it crashed. She ended up inviting the little girl to have a seat and explained ' low blood sugar' she even gave the girl and awkward hug🤣 This was her first day.On the way out my wife said," you just got to talk to people, I think that went really well."
As an INTJ who gets low blood sugar, that's realistic, and as the young ones say 'a mood'. If your INTJ wife gave the waitress an awkward hug, you know they cared about them, and also wanted bread! A cautionary tale: A hangry, low-blood sugar suffering INTJ. Moral of the story: Don't let us let our blood sugar get low.(Honestly, we'll forget to eat) We'll execute a full autopilot, low-energy, murder scheme to get bread sticks at that point.
are you sure she's an INTJ? i have backup plans for my backup plans and that includes ordering the bread and a refill on the bread at the same time as well as an appetizer and having a snack in my pocket.
To be honest… as an INTJ… I might have a backup snack or something…. But since I really want my bread I would use the excuse anyway… However…. This story reminds me more of my ESTJ mother… and… I personally do not have the social energy to invade the kitchen space at lunch time or dinner time. So like you I would start waving for every busser and waiter who passes for a while… or get my ENFP husband to do it.
My brother is an INTJ so watching this is hysterical to me. A bunch of them are spot on for him or things I have actually heard him say before. We get along really well. I'm an INFJ.
My eleven year old brother is INTJ and he is already starting to ask me very deep questions and facts. I am INFJ and find my brother very facinating so I ask him to tell me more.
Im an infj with an intj brother and there are few people that i hate more in this life who havent committed some kind of crime against children. He fucking creeps me out and shows 0 remorse for any emotional pain he inflicts on others, yet he supposedly is not a sociopath. Hes made me instinctively hate intjs and i can instantly detect them. I admire his intelligence but i also hate it because he just reminds me of all the evil industry ceos who have no soul and just want to hoarde massive amounts of wealth for 0 reason.
As an INTJ, a good friend came to me for advice on her troubled marriage. I said, “What do I know? Floss regularly and drink plenty of water and ask (insert other friend’s name) what she thinks.”
0:24 this INTJ guy I knew from tutorial class legit slammed his hand on the table after typing away angrily at his laptop and working on something important and this skit reminded me of that lmao -INFJ
As an INTJ I know I have that crazy side in me to smash things when I am frustrated. I have kept that in check to not do in front of others. But alone I still go nuts.
Although this was absolutely hilarious, I think something I've realized, is that time (40+ years) changes the iNTJ quite a bit. While I certainly have my plans within plans, contingency and all sorts of future thinking like our type normally has, I find that (and I've been told) that I've become really patient, I never demand/impose anyone be ABC way, and I enjoy using my sarcastic wit & observations of the human condition to make those around me laugh their butts off. I may be serious with my goals and plans, but outside that (career/work?) scope I'm like a 10 year old goofball, which sometimes surprises people. My wife ( INFP 20+ years) values Authenticity a lot, and finds some of the INTJ stereotypes laughably way off. INTJ aren't always evil, we just look intense when we're thinging .. which .. happens often.. so.... yeah 😂😂 ** To Clarify - my iNFP Wife is 1 year younger than I, and we're both in our mid 40's
Its good to know that. Its nice to know not all intjs are evil and that time can soften them. I constantly worry about my intj brother. I am completely convinced that hes going to be nothing but a wife abuser (but only ever psychologically, never physically which can make it more dangerous). Ive only ever known highly unhealthy intjs
@@ANIMAL.LOVERS.DONT.EAT.ANIMALS Being evil has nothing to do with MBTI. It’s obvious not all people from the same type are evil or good. It’s stupid to think all people from the same type are evil.
that meltdown, so accurate :) i cannot attest for the other INTJs, but anger is the dominant emotion that I can spot/recognize in myself and also the hardest to ignore/control.
going from mildly annoyed to property destruction with no in-between is legit, the only thing that stops me is lacking the funds to replace whatever i break
INTJ are popular introverted. For some reasons, people are curious abt them, despite the fact that they dont want any of the attention. If u dont believe me, you can double check in anime 😊
That’s so true. I don’t get why people like being around me, having a resting bitch face and analyzing everything „calmly“. They mistake my endless thinking with being calm
Im an INTJ... my mate of 41 years was an INTJ...when he moved in with me he came with boxes of freeze dried survival food that filled my attic...for the day the earth froze...or flooded.. I cant remember which it was. Richard Heinlein was his all time favorite author , he had more conspiracy theories and a rational explanation for each, than probanly any man on earth. When he passed away a year ago we had a freezer full of food, a 12 ft wall topped by elertrical wire ala a state prison....for a cattle ranch strong enough to kill a 300 lb bull because it ran such a short space... steel doors...we have crash bars like the White House on our front solid metal gate...of course it has four separate locks and bars that go i to the steel rod reinfocred solid concrete slots. We have a male unneutered Rottweiler on the upper terrace and two dogo Guatemalatecos (pit bull,,boxer, Dalmation crossbreed) on the first level ...security cameras of course... the eleltrified razor wire is meant for a large ranch...when he called to he sure it was enough voltage the tech specialist asked what is was used for. When my mate answered the guy said " sir this was meant for animals ....my mate said "yeah I know, that is what they are.. anyone who would want to break into my house"..."and it ISNT illegal HERE! Yes it IS legal ", we live in Guatemala. " He had over 30 keys... our house has 4 separated safety zones inside like an ambassador's house... with iron bars or steel doors.We also have a dry strorage room for food...It is goIng to take the rest of my life to use up all this food esp since I have met an ISTP man who is vegan....I have the freezer full of beef, bacon (20 lbs of it) and dead chicken parts too numerous to count....needless to say, my mate didnt change much in 41 years and I loved every second of life with him. And yes, he was perfectly sane ...Im a retired professor of clinical psychology and since I too an am intj Id classify him as PERHAPS just a tad overly cautious.
Hahaha! These were hilarious! 😂 I'm an INTJ myself, and it was really interesting to see some of the stereotypical aspects acted out. Side Note: I actually very rarely play monopoly, bc I'm garbage at it and often lose board games to my brother. So I take a more sadistic approach. My goal is *not* to win as quickly and efficiently as possible...but to cause suffering. 😈 When he has finally won, but does not get the gratification of victory...who's the real loser? 😆
1:52 I feel like INTJ's are so comfortable with being abrasive because we aren't as affected by emotions or we have little emotional impact from what others say to us. It's hard for us to relate to what we consider emotional fragility.
Omg!!! The eye contact one is scary accurate! I'm always nervous about it while conversating, which I don't do often. I thought I might have some kind of spectrum issue. I had no idea this was an intj thing!
The monopoly one is so true. Reminds me of playing You Name It with my mom and our card group (which is just me, my mom, my friend, and her mom who is also my mom's friend). I wouldn't say they hate playing with me because I wouldn't be invited if they did, and it's not like I ALWAYS win... but I did win the first time they taught me the game. And the first time I played poker. And the first time I played Catan... My personal disclaimer should just be: Teach me a strategy game at your own risk.
Yeah, I win a lot when game is based on some sort of strategy. This is why my father persists to play games of chance with me. Not that he is intellectually inferior but I guess he is competitive and hates losing.
I score at only slightly more than 50% T, so I constantly wobble between INTJ and INFJ and it's exhausting. They are very different and both think that the other one is an idiot 😂
I have two F sisters so I’ve had to learn to not be so direct with the way I talk to people. I think this has been good for me in a lot of ways because, even if I don’t empathize or understand what someone is going through, I can acknowledge that it is serious to them and offer my support and a listening ear. It is hard for me not to analyze what they say and give them my advice though. Sometimes that’s not what’s needed. I also tend to try to explain F traits to other Ts even though it often doesn’t make sense to me, either. I try 😂
Definitely relating to you on this. I have a very INTJ approach to these situations, trying to understand where Fs are coming from. I now try to respond according to their category’s traits and have done much better with relationships. 😅
Omg that's so relatable. ''Perhaps if they hadn't been so accurate you wouldn't have been so hurt by them'' The more intense you respond to my words, the higher the chance im probably right lol. And yet so many people seem to goddamn stupid to get this concept. INTJ's just sound so intimidating and intelligent and whatnot. But really we're the biggest clumsy goofballs when you actually know us.
You sound like an absolutely narcissistic cunt. You're not a "clumsy goofball" in anyones eyes but your own. Hurting peoples feelings and then thinking theyre stupid for not giving you a positive reaction? You really think thats ok? The childishness doesn't make you more likeable. It makes you look like a dude whos using immaturity as a defense so you dont have to take accountability. Im glad it doesnt upset you that i would never want to be within a thousand feet of you, because i dont really wish you suffering or anything but damn do i feel like youre a dangerous unaccountable entitled parasite of mental health that should definitely be kept away from others.
"I wish I had a do not disturb sign for my life..." aaaand RBF to the rescue! This is delightfully accurate. Especially the part about suggesting other people re-evaluate their life choices. And disciplining their children in public.
I’m a 68 year old INTJ the job interview question I ACTUALLY answered it by telling the interviewer I would be in his job lol I was 23 at the time. Seemed like a good answer lol I laughed so hard soooo nice to know I’m not the only one. I’m ok with not really fitting in anywhere I have had great time being me!
i have literally slapped hands for messing with the radio or heater/ac in my car i definitely relate to most of these especially the sun draining my energy, lol
@@lp3198 I was in IT Service Desk and the manager wanted to know which direction I was heading career wise and it seemed that the required answer was "I want to go into infrastructure or App support" but I was like, well you're gonna go somewhere i.e. Director of IT, so it seemed logical to state that I would be happy to run the Service Desk...after he was promoted...still not sure why that was wrong.
I actually thought I made this video myself, but got it confused with my other video on how to be a successful hermit and never have to speak with anyone ever again. To be honest, I can't remember....
This was really funny. I identify with everything that happened in this video. And actually.. it is a 20 year plan. 30 would be a waste of time. - INTJ
Aku sering melakukan tes, dan hasilnya kebanyakan adalah INTJ yeah,, dan sekarang aku merasa semakin mirip dengan sifat INTJ. Pada dasarnya seseorang harus membuat janji terlebih dahulu dengan ku. Karna semua jadwalku terencana (walau aku bisa saja mengubahnya dan menghabiskan waktu untuk menikmati keadaan sendiri) Dan fyi aku anak sekolah menengah atas.
omg - i actually said "there are dumb questions - dont ask me any" when I was professor at a dental school, yep, I thought I was just being direct with them. interesting............
Ok, 😂, so tell me why this East African woman (me) feels like you have a script of my entire life and you just decided to make it a parody 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I LOVE YOUR VIDEOS! You are HILARIOUS and FREAKISHLY ON POINT! ❤ 🙏🏾 ❤
I like the last one. It seems the line between philosopher and conspiracy theorist is thinner than you might expect. But really, both are looking for hidden truths and patters, so.
How I confirmed that I am an INTJ... I reacted the EXACT SAME WAY Frank James did when reacting to his video on INTJs reacting to their representations. Like, "5G isn't going to kill us all! Oh wait..."
As an INTJ I can confirm this is sooooooooooo accurate. That was totally me as a HS teacher. ---- He's already hot but it goes off the charts when he does INTJ. Am I the only one who thinks this?
As an INTJ, I decided to look at a compilation from my boy Frank and yes, every ounce of this is very accurate for me, including my Te being taken the wrong way, A LOT and the fact that I can’t ask someone out…unless it’s written and pre-planned what I’m gonna say on paper. 😂
I believe my INTJ traits come strong when I am working. Since I have a child I tried to be more compassionate at home, but yeah I'm still an INTJ I guess 😂
While playing Monopoly on the computer, I realised it could be won in a totally new way. I don't have to win it but make the other player lose. Every property I bought I would mortgage it and them sell it mortgaged for a price that allowed me to get my money back but made the other player have to unmortgaged it. It translated into a deficit situation for the other player. If you keep this long enough, the player will have no money and all his properties mortgaged. It would go bankrupt and that means you win. I'm INTJ by the way.
like when Data played that strategy game against a natural genius winner of it and beat him by playing for stalemate until the opponent crumpled from frustration
It’s so weird that even though I’m pretty sure I’m an INTJ (all the tests showed it, letters, cognitive functions and descriptions fit) almost all his INTJ skits are not really relatable for me and I actually relate to INFP or INFJ a lot more often. Maybe I’m just not a stereotypical INTJ
Yeah, taking the test is not as accurate, due to the human nature of subconsciously leaning towards what we want to be, a little more, then what we are. So analyzing the personalities to determine where you fall at on each of the cognitive functions, also noting you can overlap with others, is mord effective.
@@amburbyler7721 I agree that tests can often be inaccurate, but I understand the cognitive functions quite well and I can clearly see all functions of INTJ in how I think and act. I don’t relate to the cold, mysterious, intimidating INTJ image in these skits, but when I watch more theoretical videos I can relate to most of them.
I have absolutely smashed a misbehaving DVD player like 0:22 If you have done your due diligence, tried everything, and it still refuses to work... that thing has to go.
The melt down in laptop is so accurate, i punched my laptop and broke it. And I literally have internal monologues like the therapist intj. 💀 and calling out your parents, i cant
Also did the calling out of a parent and teachers as an INTJ kid many times. Once told my mother once out in public, (I was 11/12 Years old) when she got a frizzy 80's perm that it was horrible (Well, she did ask truthfully how it looked) and said that it looked like she had a poodle on her head.🤣💀
