@stephanie dasher - Thank you for encouraging us to watch the video in its entirety. Sometimes as a singleton I'm tempted to skip some relationship videos (especially if I'm in a funk and bummed about still being single) but then I have to remind myself that wisdom 💎 being shared about how to navigate the difficulties within relationships can be useful in ANY type of relationship - not just romantic. 👍🏾 Again, thank you 😀 and God bless you! 🙏🏾
I definitely could relate to this topic in my early years of marriage!🤣🤣, but now after 51 years of marriage we look at each other and start laughing 🤣🤣🤣🤣
It's a BLESSING that Tab and Chance have had some HIGH QUALITY individuals in their lives for DECADES that RESPECT & PROTECT their relationship! 🥰🙌🏾❤️🙏🏾
Chance was so shy or just not willing to share at the beginning of Tab and Chance ( years ago). But now we see the love and openness of your conversation. Thank you both for that . But more so Thank you Chance for allowing us to get a mans view of things. Love you guys
When Tab said “ and don’t ask me for my pen” I hollered 🗣🗣🗣😂😂😂. No hitting below the belt. When voices start to rise it’s time to step back and collect yourself. In addition to that Tab the couple makes up and family is still hot as fish grease now we got a bigger problem..
I can't be with someone who argues in public. I dated people in the past that tried to argue with me in public, and I walked off calmly like I didn't know them and they hush up quick when they realize they look like a plum fool. You are not about to have me looking like a ratchet out here... mess up your reputation, but I'm not going down with you.
@babydoll How you just summed me up w/o even knowing me. Bcz one thing about me, Imma safeguard my reputation and leave you lookin like a whole fool. And you bet not touch me while I'm walking away because u will activate the main ingredient in 'whoop @ss'.. Just leave me alone at that point..
I respect that. I've been on both sides. Not, in an intimate bf/gf type of relationship, but with family and friends. I have been the ghetto one at times. I've been the mature person at times. So, I get it.
It's so HARD for me to mask my feelings before going to an event. I can't drop it and smile. He can, but I can't. I'm like Chance, "When I'm mad, I'm mad." Stay away from me! I'm trying to grow out of it, but it's not working.
@@simzali4575 , same here 🙋🏽♀️! I can’t just “turn my mad 😡 off”! I wished it was simple for me but I can hold a grudge🤷🏽♀️. My husband can just shake it off & keep it movin. I’m praying 🙏🏾 that I can adjust my petty behavior in the near future.
@@maryluvsmusic9298 girl when my bf and I quarrel before leaving home when we get in the car I'm looking through the window the entire ride.....don't talk to me till I cool off lol
I caught that too!😂 I also don't understand why females don't like to apologize for their errors in the situation. Chance definitely couldn't argue or yell at her if she had just walked away. Sounds like she added to Chance's frustration so she should've apologized as well. I have never heard Tab apologize for anything and I've been watching for at least 4 years. Gotta start taking ownership sis. I love the both of yall
@@billionairegirl520 I disagree as the owner, his wife, and the mother of his kids, as well as her brand their brand. She has every right to attempt, pull him to the side, let him know look y’all doing the most chill out. Clearly he could not control his self and the moment she as his wife and partner is suppose. God forbid he got locked up or a fight happend. Tab should just sit in the audience and allow him while he is being out of control to embarrass them both more.
The whole living near family and going to them during a fight is SO true… I don’t think anyone has ever said why or how that is hurtful to a relationship by creating a wedge between your partner and yourself. I’ve been married going on 12 years and have lived near family in the early part of my marriage and eventually moved across country far away from everyone. You do have to just deal with each other instead of using family like a crutch during some big fights. Part of growing up and growing in your marriage is to learn to deal with your party during an argument. 😂
Tab was so slick "That's what Los told you in Vegas right?" Got'em😂😂😂 This is so relatable. My husband and I have been married 29 years and I could tell you some stories. Let's meet up and share. 😂😂😂
Thank you so much Tab and Chance for your authenticity. Y'all look so good. I was shopping for a customer and saw your display in Target yesterday. So happy for you. 😁
Looove this! Soooo REEAL! Hubby and I have been married 26 years and i can remember all of those moments of arguing in car or just before getting out to an event. So it’s sooo funny to see that y’all are open and real about it. My hubby is like Chance.. once he mad, he mad and don’t be wanting to go anymore 🤣🤣. But I think we’ve both learned over the years that life is too short to hold on to anything 💕. Appreciate you both! Much Love 💕
This was and is awesome 🤩!! It as exactly as your husband stated “you got to be willing to talk about marriage and marriage thangs! We all have arguments and disagreements with our significant other at times.
Hi Tab, I love you, your family, your businesses and your desire to change the world!!! Thank you for changing my life with your positive energy!! Love you!!
LOVING the colors and coordination‼️ The glasses are 🔥 and they match Chance's watch. Also 🔥. Yall gave what was supposed to be given😊 Simple yet fresh and so clean💛
Hello children, u r beautiful, and commited. Emotions are a part of all of us. But u two have lived thru many emotions together. When pride enters it wii cause destruction. That is when we must pull back. That is hard. We must pull back, because, it is destructive. Love and blessings to u. PS: SAVE IT FOR HOME AND PRIDE WONT BE THERE. JUST AN OPINION GUYS.
We have been married for 33 years, and when we argue before we go somewhere, we usually act like nothing happened. We make pick up the discussion when we come back. Sometimes you have to definitely move on, because life is short.
Chance and Tab that was beautiful and so true!!! We only have a short time to love each other and when someone is gone you think about all the arguments and unnecessary bickering.🤗💞
The car argument is the most 😂especially because he is driving and asking me about directions when the GPS says something different. When we arrive then we start laughing 😂
How funny, I have had an argument with husband at a church parking lot in the past. You guys are so real! Thank you. It happens but that's ok. Growth hurts but it's ok. Love hurts sometimes.
This conversation is so appreciated- I can so relate! Been with my husband since 2011 and married since 2015 and it’s so nice to be able to relate to you both!
Just brilliant! Thank you Tab and Chance! Another evening of valuable input. I don’t believe in public arguments and I definitely don’t put my private business on social media. Too many cooks in the kitchen… Thank you 🙏🏽
This happened to me when I was 20. I flew off the hinges! I was so mad I contemplated hitting my ex with my car 🥴. Thank God for growth and learned emotional intelligence.
Damn, this is a HOT TOPIC!! 🔥 love the communication between you two. But in order to communicate in such manner both parties have to be on the same accord! Tabitha, you remind me so much of me, I got to give you proof of your antics since people have amnesia or seem to not admit to their faults as well with my partner that wen too far. Ironically, I had an argument in Las Vegas 2021...😒 it has NOT been forgotten. Chance sounds like My Guy, "He doesn't remember things like that because he doesn't harbor."
Yes!!! I like the sound of disagreement and not argument, it sounds a lot better to me! Even though we are in this uncomfortable mode. It don't feel good, eventually we both have to grow up and listen to each other.
Y’all are two very strong people, who have very strong feelings and beliefs. There are definitely gonna be arguments, just make them strategic and don’t take it to far. Love y’all!! Keep up the good work 😊❤
I think this is so lovely that as a husband and wife of many years, they can calmly talk about having angered each other, having reacted in an insensitive way to the other partner and be able to be calm, diplomatic and respectful; it really is a testament to their maturity and their belief in God and their commitment to one another and their family. Beautiful.
Whats crazy is I remember sitting on Facebook watching THE FIRST episode of Friday's w Tab and Chance. I remember when the theme song was still a WORKING progress😆😆 Now we on the youtube!!!! Oh God we thank YOU! Amen
This was sooo Good.... Factsssss on the best advice being far away from Family was the Best because Family can make it worse so that's when you just have to deal with it with God and no outside people 🙌🏽
I love the advice b/c "that's your business" . Beautiful knowledge. I hope all that are married or desiring to be married will take this advice. 1Love Peace & Love
The fact that I can tell Tab was mad at him the entire episode is crazy lol she was telling us the real because in real time thats how she is feeling about him lol