Finally Leo am the first one 💃watuuuu🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️ nipewe likes nisikie venye nyinyi usikia pia,,,,, meanwhile the secrets of a happy marriage is still secret we expect too much and we end up disappointed,,,,,zero expectations 💯is the way up
When I met my hubby now I remember he asked my name n answered.."I am mama Ashley".. we talked tukaelewana n got married..our family is growing n we are happy.
This reminds me ile mbio wanaume hutoka whenever I mention I have a kid😂😂... The love I have for my kid, wueeh, can never let me lie or hide her....Saying I have a kid suddenly became a way of making men murife from my life😆
The way I laboured in the labour ward,the struggles I've been through with my daughter,the sleepless nights that cute smile that melts my heart and keep me going,I can't afford to deny my child.... I better loose everything and remain with that cute soul
My son becomes part of my introduction to any man who shows interest in me. I swear I the name of the living God I can't hide my son to any man no matter who you are!!!!! Proud mama Myles
Wenye tukiulizwa tunaitwa nani instead ya kusema majina zetu tunajiita Mama Fulani Hallelujah 🖐️ Proud of my son FIDEL mwenye hawezani na sisi asonge mbele alaaa
Makosa ni ya mama mzazi...help your daughters tell the truth from the beginning of any relationship; a man who loves will stay even if there is a child.
Big common sense tip: On the 1st date, before any of you invests their emotions with each other, reveal all the hard stuff in your lives. Let someone accept you with all your baggage. Kids should be the very first confession. Ukubaliwe ama ukataliwe. At least no one will get hurt then.
She seems like a nice , decent Lady . She should have just told that guy from the start because he was very genuine and loving to her . Am sure he would have accepted her with her child .
She can be forgiven but the damage it did to the man is being underestimated. She broke the trust this guy would be suspecting she has things going on. So it’s not as simple as taking her in, they need time to speak and open the closets and let loose all skeletons before they can reconcile. Don’t dare reconcile over mere forgiveness, sit and talk thoroughly
Proud mother of two little princess jessy and abby i swear i will never reject my kids bkoz of the word love strong ladies hoiyeeeeee 💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻 long live my mum 4 being supportive thru taking care of my gals
I TOOK MY WIFE AND HER DAUGHTER SHE HIDE FROM ME AFTER FINDING OUT. NOW WE LEAVE AS A FAMILY AND MY WIFE RESPECTS ME ALOT FOR THAT, SHE THOUGHT IF I KNEW IT IT CLD BE OVER BUT AS A MAN I UNDERSTOOD SHE WANTED TO PROTECT OUR LOVE "BUT NOT IN THE RIGHT WAY" MEN SOMETIMES BE UNDERSTANDING
I just love the way the lady i married came real with her past about her baby....apparently we've been together...happily inlove and all i could say is....honesty reigns in r/ship
What about the numbers of abortions in between? Let stivo sanitise her and you will be shocked. What i surely know is that only clean woman this days is your mother. This others have rotten pasts
@@ichooseviolence2532 Clean in which way cos apparently i know she was cool and understanding her and her past was all that i hed to do....thats deeply in heart yo.....so what exactly do you mean??
You are a saint me for some of us immediately a lady you are interested in discloses the presence of another man's DNA the relationship dissolves automatically immediately I know
One day, God will bless this lady.I know deep she loves her kid, but she has gone through heartbreaks.The kid will be a blessing as per her Name.somethings are hard to explain.
I'm mother of 16 yrs son im proud of him before you know my second name i introduce myself I'm moreen mother of 16 yrs son you better hate my son but not me never ever how💔💔 mwanaume mtaachana lakini mtoto wako atakuzika😭
Yani hiyo kitu imenichanganya mie kwanza hiyo nguvu ya kuficha mtoto inatoka wapy? daaah!! eti Dio unipendamie,mtoto ni muhimu sana kuliko hayo mapenzi..ambia mtu ukweli from beginning akikupenda pamoja na mtoi wako la sivyo akanyange kubwa kubwa...
I don't care if I have 10 kids nitakwambia first date. Kabla mafeelings hazijaanza from both of us. Your kids come first. Whoever loves your kids loves you. This guy seems a good one and hangemkataa huyu mwanamke hata na watoto 5
I really feel the lady,,she's a good person.... Sometimes, ladies never want to disclose the worst mistakes,,they've made in fear ,of loosing someone they really love...I hope ladies will learn from this,, don't be afraid,, to tell you're man you're worst story,,coz if he never let's you go in the worst times,or worst mistakes,, he is worthy of you're good time....I wish I knew this lady to encourage her...kama n wa kwake,,atarudi tu.....so she should be strong and of good courage.....
The love that I have for my champion I can never hide him from the planet...he's my purpose,my achievement name it all....I feel for this guy wasted his time , energy and resources
Woooiiiye ....lies are dangerous,🤔yaaaani mtu anapata mtu anamtakia care plus business na ur mum na bado u can't be honest? God bless me na mwanaume atakanye nipenda ivi ,sisi ladies wenye tuko faithful God atukumbuke tu at least atupee chance .
What you feared most now has happened, too painful. When I remember women are crying daily to conceive, it humbles me. Its by God's grace I am a mother of 2 kids,and I can't hide my kids for name of love. Some doors opened not because I qualify or I deserve, but only for my kids, My kids are priority, they are part of my introduction from day 1.
My husband and I have been married for 10yrs now,he never told me he had a kid who is now 14yrs untill last month when he broke the news to me.I was very hurt and asked myself lots of questions like " what else is he hiding from me" should I stay' How do I handle baby mama dramas? But I chose to accept cos no kid deserve growing without mapenzi ya baba.I chose to forgive and let peace reign.He believes am always a crazy woman but he was surprised how I handled it,right now it has drawn him so much close and with lots of respect .From next month we will be tracing my long lost teenage daughter.
Hiding your flesh and blood is so bad 😩😩💔 you could have opened up this guy seems to be understanding 😔😔wish he can find it in his heart to forgive you 🤔🤔
The rate at which people are watching this channel ,youtube can't believe. Big man stivo means we need more content, one video morning, another afternoon, then follow up at night.
I feel the mum betrayed this guy...neva ever try to hide a akid to aman who wants to marry a daughter,,for one mtoto utamficha hadi lini nd kuna tym atahitaji mzazi ikifika ni tamaduni ya kutoa mahari..sasa blessing pia ingefika place aolewe na apate mtoi pia...i feel this pain
I remember I was dated a guy I never told him that I was a mother for 3 yrs the guy wanted to marry me , later I came to tell him about the kid, the guy left me saying I was a layer Wich I expected, I come to realize my son my first priority..........
The wisdom of ladies.... " Mum usimwanbie hiyo ikue siri yetu.... i dont want to lose any of them..." The other gender, we don't condone lies, just dont build a relationship on lies then you shove your heart to a paradise thinking you're so wise
To be on the safer side... Kataa hii kitu kabisaaa... Nkipatana na wewe comrade ni heri ni aki na benefit of a doubt kuliko hii heartbreak... It doesn't make things better either way...
Being a lady, i always think of such sceneries en i try to put myself in such situations..The fact is, most of young women think of young single mum as 'brand new second hands' en its too difficult to come upfront with such labels since most men will want alot of compromise thinking you dont deserve. Secondly, most young mums dont want to introduce the kid to several 'daddies', i guess some take time to learn their partners and prove them worthy or not....All the same, for me my kid (s) will be number 1. I commit to them and not any other new blood.
But 3 years with a guy and you still want to say you haven't learned your guy!! If it was for 2, 3 months there you can be understood. But more than 1 year and not introducing your child to me, means you never cared how I will feel. You hear the lady saying, she was to tell him after wedding 🙄🙄 it means now know and utadu, u can't sent us away so just try to adopt to live with the pain as a man not healthy at all kabisa
I wish she was open enough about her kid. The man will choose to stay or leave. You can choose to hide your past life but not hide a kid from your spouse. See now she lost a good man🥺
yaani out of close to 200 couples interview by BMS only around 4 were clean. statisticaly 4/200 means that 99.98% of people in relationships cheat. Thats terrible statistics. KANAIROOOO.
Sometimes I don’t judge though hiding secrets to ur spouse is a bad thing.Each one of us has got that dark side of our own but you could have spoken the truth girl from the beginning,ur kid is a blessing from God❤if they’re to love you,they will together with your kid or kids.Let’s be truthful always 👌❤
@@BettieCharo_ reality to women is offensive and that's why society allows women to have babies outside marriage or sleep around with men who can't afford to take care of their children then wants another man to save her and his kids for the wrong choices u made..... That's Why women are willing to be single mothers than 2b married and single moms wako bitter ile mbayaa
Life my dear life ‼️ before ukufe you will see more hii nikionjo 🤣🤣🤣🤣 have you heard a situation where by your partner akona harusi na wewe hunabari???...😫
I WILL NEVER HI'DE MY DAUGHTER'S BECOUSE OF LOVE,,,,,, 1 HOPE 11yrs old,, 2 PURITY 8 yrs old,, 3VALENTINE 4 yrs old,,,, I' M PROUD OF MY KIDS,,, I'M PROUD TO BE YOUNG MOTHE THAT'S ALL😊
Waahh this one reminds me of Nucho master just the way he took a bike n left me my first introduction to man is always am a mum of one lovely boy so it either u take me or u leave just learn how to prioritize ur kids first if a man really loves u he will love u with ur everything anyway just my opinion
@ Mercy Ayekha,please don't wait until he propose or engage you. It might be too late.Remember the truth will always set you free.With that being said, you will be able to love again. ❤️
What hurts the most is when the person who cheated starts justifying their actions and doesn't even feel guilty. If you want to cheat on someone, just tell them that you don't have feelings for them no more, or just don't cheat at all.
But the girl wasn't cheating. Kila mtu ana Siri zake. Note that this man is a Muslim and Muslim and family are very strict. May be she was afraid she might loose the handsome Guy.
