Froukje Veenstra over coming out: 'Ik vond meisjes altijd al leuk' | Pride Talk: We are Family 

blond girl: " When I was op example wachting a television show and I saw 2 women I was for example like "oooh exciting" " Froukje: "Yeah same here! I did let the barbies kiss" blond girl: "Yeah same" (music we are family starts playing) First question: "How did your coming out went and why did you tackle it this way?" Answer: "I did it by making a cover, it was on 3FM (here she says a name but I can't understand what she says) I translated it and I made kind of my own story from it" blond girl: "So dumb, I did not notice it, I just thought wow well you rhymed that well, even though the original song is English" Froukje: "Yeah a lot people did not notice it, yeah I found that chill, I was like do what you want with it even if you don't really listen to the lyrics then you wouldn't even see that I am bisexual but that's also because it took a long time that I knew that for sure and because I wasn't really scared that I would get negative reactions because of it and I didn't feel bad about it, I didn't feel like I should make a item of it in mu environment but yeah that was a moment for me that i felt like yeah, now mom and dad are gonna hear that for the first time. " question: "but did you really talk with them about it? yeah now they do of course" answer: "Well I didn't talk about it but they have said that it wouldn't matter if I'd date a woman, that would be completely okay" Froukje asks: "Well how went your coming out? I'm really curious about that because I don't know that" answer: "I didn't really have a coming out, everyone knows that I've spoken with boys and girls and that I've always been open to that, I didn't talk with mom and dad about it, I've also never had a relationship with a woman or something but I think that they're so open-minded that if I'd date a woman, it wouldn't be weird or something" Froukje: "I can remember you told me about it" blond girl: "when was that?" Froukje: " We'll we always rode to school together on our bicycles, and then you told me that" blond girl: "that's kind of funny because I always called you when I was younger, that was really mean, "yeah I think you are lesbian because you never have crushes on boys" " Froukje: "well that's actually not true" blond girl: That was actually because I thought that I was a lesbian and as a young child that I thought "oh creepy/new/weird or something" " Froukje: "that's actually pretty bad because it sounds like it would be an insult or something" blond girl: "yeah when I was a little child it felt like it would be weird of me and that's why I told you that you might were a lesbian, but I've learned that all women vary in that that all women are actually also attracted to women" Froukje: "yeah I also hear that in my environment" blond girl: "and that that's actually accepted then" Froukje: "yes" The blond girl asks: "why didn't you tell that your bisexual too, after my coming out?" Froukje: "Yeah that was when you were on the biscycle, I remember that very well and I've also had the same feelings or at least I thought, maybe I also have that, not that I was super active in that like I was laying awake, but I had always liked girls and boys and I always was with boy's but I've had tge feeling for a long time, also because I didn't know that for sure and because I was always with boys, that it wasn't really something from me and also because we come from a environment where that's fully accepted that it wouldn't be my place to be like "oh look I'm bisexual" also it isn't a choice like "oh I said I liked girls and oh I have a cush on a boy now that isn't okay" but you fall in love with you fall in love with and that held me back from it like "oh I should know for sure that That's the group I belong to" even though I actually don't see it as a group were I belong to, it's just my sexuality" blond girl: "yeah it was never such a burden too me" Froukje: "yeah it is no burden" blond girl: "I do know that when I was op example wachting a television show and I saw 2 women I was for example like "oooh exciting" " Froukje: "Yeah same here! I did let the barbies kiss" blond girl: "Yeah same" *both laughing* blond girl: "Yeah not the man Barbie" Froukje: "yeah the man barbie he was boring" blond girl: "yeah always those 2 women Barbie's" Froukje: "yes, funny you did the same" Froukje asks: " which prejudices did you face as a bisexual woman?" blond girl: "that when people do fully identify as a homosexual person, that they say "yeah you say that your bisexual but do you know that for sure or is it more like you're saying "look I'm really open and that you yeah" I think it shouldn't be that black and white (There's a lot more, in the interview I'm in the middle now I'll soon write farther and I hope it's readable)

@@idk-bn7hx Bedankt voor alles even though you didn't translate the full conversation, I got the idea. truly appreciate it :D

@@idk-bn7hx God bless you for your kindness.

I gained a lesbian heart for it to melt...

I never thought of myself as remotely bisexual but I reassure you, she has the same effect on me. Plus, I'm 27 so that's actually super creepy.

Ja ze heeft een vriend! (Helaas😂)

@@femmefotografie shit

Zo is dat, Joost!

How much more do you unterstand know? Ik leer ook nederlands

blond girl: " When I was op example wachting a television show and I saw 2 women I was for example like "oooh exciting" " Froukje: "Yeah same here! I did let the barbies kiss" blond girl: "Yeah same" (music we are family starts playing) First question: "How did your coming out went and why did you tackle it this way?" Answer: "I did it by making a cover, it was on 3FM (here she says a name but I can't understand what she says) I translated it and I made kind of my own story from it" blond girl: "So dumb, I did not notice it, I just thought wow well you rhymed that well, even though the original song is English" Froukje: "Yeah a lot people did not notice it, yeah I found that chill, I was like do what you want with it even if you don't really listen to the lyrics then you wouldn't even see that I am bisexual but that's also because it took a long time that I knew that for sure and because I wasn't really scared that I would get negative reactions because of it and I didn't feel bad about it, I didn't feel like I should make a item of it in mu environment but yeah that was a moment for me that i felt like yeah, now mom and dad are gonna hear that for the first time. " question: "but did you really talk with them about it? yeah now they do of course" answer: "Well I didn't talk about it but they have said that it wouldn't matter if I'd date a woman, that would be completely okay" Froukje asks: "Well how went your coming out? I'm really curious about that because I don't know that" answer: "I didn't really have a coming out, everyone knows that I've spoken with boys and girls and that I've always been open to that, I didn't talk with mom and dad about it, I've also never had a relationship with a woman or something but I think that they're so open-minded that if I'd date a woman, it wouldn't be weird or something" Froukje: "I can remember you told me about it" blond girl: "when was that?" Froukje: " We'll we always rode to school together on our bicycles, and then you told me that" blond girl: "that's kind of funny because I always called you when I was younger, that was really mean, "yeah I think you are lesbian because you never have crushes on boys" " Froukje: "well that's actually not true" blond girl: That was actually because I thought that I was a lesbian and as a young child that I thought "oh creepy/new/weird or something" " Froukje: "that's actually pretty bad because it sounds like it would be an insult or something" blond girl: "yeah when I was a little child it felt like it would be weird of me and that's why I told you that you might were a lesbian, but I've learned that all women vary in that that all women are actually also attracted to women" Froukje: "yeah I also hear that in my environment" blond girl: "and that that's actually accepted then" Froukje: "yes" The blond girl asks: "why didn't you tell that your bisexual too, after my coming out?" Froukje: "Yeah that was when you were on the biscycle, I remember that very well and I've also had the same feelings or at least I thought, maybe I also have that, not that I was super active in that like I was laying awake, but I had always liked girls and boys and I always was with boy's but I've had tge feeling for a long time, also because I didn't know that for sure and because I was always with boys, that it wasn't really something from me and also because we come from a environment where that's fully accepted that it wouldn't be my place to be like "oh look I'm bisexual" also it isn't a choice like "oh I said I liked girls and oh I have a cush on a boy now that isn't okay" but you fall in love with you fall in love with and that held me back from it like "oh I should know for sure that That's the group I belong to" even though I actually don't see it as a group were I belong to, it's just my sexuality" blond girl: "yeah it was never such a burden too me" Froukje: "yeah it is no burden" blond girl: "I do know that when I was op example wachting a television show and I saw 2 women I was for example like "oooh exciting" " Froukje: "Yeah same here! I did let the barbies kiss" blond girl: "Yeah same" *both laughing* blond girl: "Yeah not the man Barbie" Froukje: "yeah the man barbie he was boring" blond girl: "yeah always those 2 women Barbie's" Froukje: "yes, funny you did the same" Froukje asks: " which prejudices did you face as a bisexual woman?" blond girl: "that when people do fully identify as a homosexual person, that they say "yeah you say that your bisexual but do you know that for sure or is it more like you're saying "look I'm really open and that you yeah" I think it shouldn't be that black and white (There's a lot more, in the interview I'm in the middle now I'll soon write farther and I hope it's readable)

@@samal-scharkauy268 blond girl: " When I was op example wachting a television show and I saw 2 women I was for example like "oooh exciting" " Froukje: "Yeah same here! I did let the barbies kiss" blond girl: "Yeah same" (music we are family starts playing) First question: "How did your coming out went and why did you tackle it this way?" Answer: "I did it by making a cover, it was on 3FM (here she says a name but I can't understand what she says) I translated it and I made kind of my own story from it" blond girl: "So dumb, I did not notice it, I just thought wow well you rhymed that well, even though the original song is English" Froukje: "Yeah a lot people did not notice it, yeah I found that chill, I was like do what you want with it even if you don't really listen to the lyrics then you wouldn't even see that I am bisexual but that's also because it took a long time that I knew that for sure and because I wasn't really scared that I would get negative reactions because of it and I didn't feel bad about it, I didn't feel like I should make a item of it in mu environment but yeah that was a moment for me that i felt like yeah, now mom and dad are gonna hear that for the first time. " question: "but did you really talk with them about it? yeah now they do of course" answer: "Well I didn't talk about it but they have said that it wouldn't matter if I'd date a woman, that would be completely okay" Froukje asks: "Well how went your coming out? I'm really curious about that because I don't know that" answer: "I didn't really have a coming out, everyone knows that I've spoken with boys and girls and that I've always been open to that, I didn't talk with mom and dad about it, I've also never had a relationship with a woman or something but I think that they're so open-minded that if I'd date a woman, it wouldn't be weird or something" Froukje: "I can remember you told me about it" blond girl: "when was that?" Froukje: " We'll we always rode to school together on our bicycles, and then you told me that" blond girl: "that's kind of funny because I always called you when I was younger, that was really mean, "yeah I think you are lesbian because you never have crushes on boys" " Froukje: "well that's actually not true" blond girl: That was actually because I thought that I was a lesbian and as a young child that I thought "oh creepy/new/weird or something" " Froukje: "that's actually pretty bad because it sounds like it would be an insult or something" blond girl: "yeah when I was a little child it felt like it would be weird of me and that's why I told you that you might were a lesbian, but I've learned that all women vary in that that all women are actually also attracted to women" Froukje: "yeah I also hear that in my environment" blond girl: "and that that's actually accepted then" Froukje: "yes" The blond girl asks: "why didn't you tell that your bisexual too, after my coming out?" Froukje: "Yeah that was when you were on the biscycle, I remember that very well and I've also had the same feelings or at least I thought, maybe I also have that, not that I was super active in that like I was laying awake, but I had always liked girls and boys and I always was with boy's but I've had tge feeling for a long time, also because I didn't know that for sure and because I was always with boys, that it wasn't really something from me and also because we come from a environment where that's fully accepted that it wouldn't be my place to be like "oh look I'm bisexual" also it isn't a choice like "oh I said I liked girls and oh I have a cush on a boy now that isn't okay" but you fall in love with you fall in love with and that held me back from it like "oh I should know for sure that That's the group I belong to" even though I actually don't see it as a group were I belong to, it's just my sexuality" blond girl: "yeah it was never such a burden too me" Froukje: "yeah it is no burden" blond girl: "I do know that when I was op example wachting a television show and I saw 2 women I was for example like "oooh exciting" " Froukje: "Yeah same here! I did let the barbies kiss" blond girl: "Yeah same" *both laughing* blond girl: "Yeah not the man Barbie" Froukje: "yeah the man barbie he was boring" blond girl: "yeah always those 2 women Barbie's" Froukje: "yes, funny you did the same" Froukje asks: " which prejudices did you face as a bisexual woman?" blond girl: "that when people do fully identify as a homosexual person, that they say "yeah you say that your bisexual but do you know that for sure or is it more like you're saying "look I'm really open and that you yeah" I think it shouldn't be that black and white (There's a lot more, in the interview I'm in the middle now I'll soon write farther and I hope it's readable)

@@idk-bn7hx Thank you so much for all this ;-)

@@peiw.5768 Awhhhhh no problem, I'm sorry that it I stopped so suddenly, soon I'll be writing the rest of it, I don't know when but I will do that for sure, sorry that it takes so long!

I am Dutch, I can translate it a bit for you if you want too! ^^

@@idk-bn7hx I would love that, but only if you can and want! Thanks a lot :) Btw, I am from Brazil

@@feliperibeiro3026 I can, but not in detail that's a little hard for me and I wanna do it! I'll be starting now ^^

blond girl: " When I was op example wachting a television show and I saw 2 women I was for example like "oooh exciting" " Froukje: "Yeah same here! I did let the barbies kiss" blond girl: "Yeah same" (music we are family starts playing) First question: "How did your coming out went and why did you tackle it this way?" Answer: "I did it by making a cover, it was on 3FM (here she says a name but I can't understand what she says) I translated it and I made kind of my own story from it" blond girl: "So dumb, I did not notice it, I just thought wow well you rhymed that well, even though the original song is English" Froukje: "Yeah a lot people did not notice it, yeah I found that chill, I was like do what you want with it even if you don't really listen to the lyrics then you wouldn't even see that I am bisexual but that's also because it took a long time that I knew that for sure and because I wasn't really scared that I would get negative reactions because of it and I didn't feel bad about it, I didn't feel like I should make a item of it in mu environment but yeah that was a moment for me that i felt like yeah, now mom and dad are gonna hear that for the first time. " question: "but did you really talk with them about it? yeah now they do of course" answer: "Well I didn't talk about it but they have said that it wouldn't matter if I'd date a woman, that would be completely okay" Froukje asks: "Well how went your coming out? I'm really curious about that because I don't know that" answer: "I didn't really have a coming out, everyone knows that I've spoken with boys and girls and that I've always been open to that, I didn't talk with mom and dad about it, I've also never had a relationship with a woman or something but I think that they're so open-minded that if I'd date a woman, it wouldn't be weird or something" Froukje: "I can remember you told me about it" blond girl: "when was that?" Froukje: " We'll we always rode to school together on our bicycles, and then you told me that" blond girl: "that's kind of funny because I always called you when I was younger, that was really mean, "yeah I think you are lesbian because you never have crushes on boys" " Froukje: "well that's actually not true" blond girl: That was actually because I thought that I was a lesbian and as a young child that I thought "oh creepy/new/weird or something" " Froukje: "that's actually pretty bad because it sounds like it would be an insult or something" blond girl: "yeah when I was a little child it felt like it would be weird of me and that's why I told you that you might were a lesbian, but I've learned that all women vary in that that all women are actually also attracted to women" Froukje: "yeah I also hear that in my environment" blond girl: "and that that's actually accepted then" Froukje: "yes" The blond girl asks: "why didn't you tell that your bisexual too, after my coming out?" Froukje: "Yeah that was when you were on the biscycle, I remember that very well and I've also had the same feelings or at least I thought, maybe I also have that, not that I was super active in that like I was laying awake, but I had always liked girls and boys and I always was with boy's but I've had tge feeling for a long time, also because I didn't know that for sure and because I was always with boys, that it wasn't really something from me and also because we come from a environment where that's fully accepted that it wouldn't be my place to be like "oh look I'm bisexual" also it isn't a choice like "oh I said I liked girls and oh I have a cush on a boy now that isn't okay" but you fall in love with you fall in love with and that held me back from it like "oh I should know for sure that That's the group I belong to" even though I actually don't see it as a group were I belong to, it's just my sexuality" blond girl: "yeah it was never such a burden too me" Froukje: "yeah it is no burden" blond girl: "I do know that when I was op example wachting a television show and I saw 2 women I was for example like "oooh exciting" " Froukje: "Yeah same here! I did let the barbies kiss" blond girl: "Yeah same" *both laughing* blond girl: "Yeah not the man Barbie" Froukje: "yeah the man barbie he was boring" blond girl: "yeah always those 2 women Barbie's" Froukje: "yes, funny you did the same" Froukje asks: " which prejudices did you face as a bisexual woman?" blond girl: "that when people do fully identify as a homosexual person, that they say "yeah you say that your bisexual but do you know that for sure or is it more like you're saying "look I'm really open and that you yeah" I think it shouldn't be that black and white (There is A LOT more but I'm sorry I'll be doing it in 2 parts I'm on the middle now) I hope that it's readable ^^

@@idk-bn7hx Wow thank you so much! I don't even know how to thank you, I imagine the effort you put into it, and I am loving to read it all, I am going to read while I watch the video on my cellphone because I must see her haha And it's perfectly readable! And no problem if you don't continue, I already apreciate a lot what you've done!

blond girl: " When I was op example wachting a television show and I saw 2 women I was for example like "oooh exciting" " Froukje: "Yeah same here! I did let the barbies kiss" blond girl: "Yeah same" (music we are family starts playing) First question: "How did your coming out went and why did you tackle it this way?" Answer: "I did it by making a cover, it was on 3FM (here she says a name but I can't understand what she says) I translated it and I made kind of my own story from it" blond girl: "So dumb, I did not notice it, I just thought wow well you rhymed that well, even though the original song is English" Froukje: "Yeah a lot people did not notice it, yeah I found that chill, I was like do what you want with it even if you don't really listen to the lyrics then you wouldn't even see that I am bisexual but that's also because it took a long time that I knew that for sure and because I wasn't really scared that I would get negative reactions because of it and I didn't feel bad about it, I didn't feel like I should make a item of it in mu environment but yeah that was a moment for me that i felt like yeah, now mom and dad are gonna hear that for the first time. " question: "but did you really talk with them about it? yeah now they do of course" answer: "Well I didn't talk about it but they have said that it wouldn't matter if I'd date a woman, that would be completely okay" Froukje asks: "Well how went your coming out? I'm really curious about that because I don't know that" answer: "I didn't really have a coming out, everyone knows that I've spoken with boys and girls and that I've always been open to that, I didn't talk with mom and dad about it, I've also never had a relationship with a woman or something but I think that they're so open-minded that if I'd date a woman, it wouldn't be weird or something" Froukje: "I can remember you told me about it" blond girl: "when was that?" Froukje: " We'll we always rode to school together on our bicycles, and then you told me that" blond girl: "that's kind of funny because I always called you when I was younger, that was really mean, "yeah I think you are lesbian because you never have crushes on boys" " Froukje: "well that's actually not true" blond girl: That was actually because I thought that I was a lesbian and as a young child that I thought "oh creepy/new/weird or something" " Froukje: "that's actually pretty bad because it sounds like it would be an insult or something" blond girl: "yeah when I was a little child it felt like it would be weird of me and that's why I told you that you might were a lesbian, but I've learned that all women vary in that that all women are actually also attracted to women" Froukje: "yeah I also hear that in my environment" blond girl: "and that that's actually accepted then" Froukje: "yes" The blond girl asks: "why didn't you tell that your bisexual too, after my coming out?" Froukje: "Yeah that was when you were on the biscycle, I remember that very well and I've also had the same feelings or at least I thought, maybe I also have that, not that I was super active in that like I was laying awake, but I had always liked girls and boys and I always was with boy's but I've had tge feeling for a long time, also because I didn't know that for sure and because I was always with boys, that it wasn't really something from me and also because we come from a environment where that's fully accepted that it wouldn't be my place to be like "oh look I'm bisexual" also it isn't a choice like "oh I said I liked girls and oh I have a cush on a boy now that isn't okay" but you fall in love with you fall in love with and that held me back from it like "oh I should know for sure that That's the group I belong to" even though I actually don't see it as a group were I belong to, it's just my sexuality" blond girl: "yeah it was never such a burden too me" Froukje: "yeah it is no burden" blond girl: "I do know that when I was op example wachting a television show and I saw 2 women I was for example like "oooh exciting" " Froukje: "Yeah same here! I did let the barbies kiss" blond girl: "Yeah same" *both laughing* blond girl: "Yeah not the man Barbie" Froukje: "yeah the man barbie he was boring" blond girl: "yeah always those 2 women Barbie's" Froukje: "yes, funny you did the same" Froukje asks: " which prejudices did you face as a bisexual woman?" blond girl: "that when people do fully identify as a homosexual person, that they say "yeah you say that your bisexual but do you know that for sure or is it more like you're saying "look I'm really open and that you yeah" I think it shouldn't be that black and white (There's a lot more, in the interview I'm in the middle now I'll soon write farther and I hope it's readable)