Full Episode- Allen Vs. Vizueta: DrankSinatra 

she cheated first

what behaviour?.... she cheated first according to her.. like the judge said, its hard for men to get over cheating..

It’s ironic that when men are cheated on, that women must understand their difficulty in getting over it. But when men cheat, women must accept it as some type of cultural norm. 🤔

@@BSH67 Facts.

@@BSH67 At the end of the day, it boils down to choices, its nobody's relationship but yours..It high time both men and women started taking responsibilities for their actions and what they tolerate..

He is damn asshole. Leave that jerk and file child support. I wouldn't even want my child around him.

@@superblessed2956 even though she cheated first and started the cooking for the diner table?

Jose Grullon he ok the break. Stfu. He said it himself. Then he proceeded to cheat on her. He is a loser

That's the vibe I'm picking on.

Glad you all don’t believe men should have standards, explain in what ways way was he disrespectful. Man you guys are so brainwashed that you no longer believe men should have standards for how their mate should behave. I don’t believe in cheating or jealousy (including checking other people phone) regardless of gender, however he has the right not to deal with someone that has inappropriate relationships with coworkers, random people while they are on vacation, etc.

Tangible...... This type of living is stressful.

Danny Bee 😂😂😂yes! Agreed

❤❤💌💌💯🗣🗣

Stella Kumwenda Auntie? She’s momma. 🤫 don’t tell my momma. 😂😂😂

Stella Kumwenda you summed it all up. I’m sick of these new couples!

Leggs she is like a mom lol i wish i had someone like her in my life fr

Right! That's what happens when the king of drama (Tyler Perry) gets his hands on your show and it moves to the land of Love and Hop Hop...😔

the wife is cheating .. what controlling are you talking about ?

Very controlling!

She was cheating and will not admit it. That is the big difference I see. Every time it got close to the truth she deflected the conversation.

His control was prior to that. It is his behavior

Agreed, he kept interrupting everyone with his little comments, including the judge, huge ego.

I agree 100%

Ese Umujane are u Umujane sibling that works in Wrpc?

Don't cry my sister he never wanted to spend time with you he really dosen't care about you or the child.

Ese Umujane she cheated first so he better run

she did and he's letting her go the faster she can !!

Right

@mongul mayz Well I would say that I guess "nothing beats a try but a failure."

For that check

She loves him, and is very sorry about her behavior. Saying that, they should be split, for the baby's sake. I don't believe in breaks !

To get a divorce

Amen to that.

low blow sometimes breakups are a blessing

@@ivyg4075 you so damn right. Preach it sista

He deserve a fresh start as well with a woman he does not have to worry about having inappropriate relationships with other men. And before you get your man skirt hurt, women deserve the same from the men in their lives, she deserves not to have to worry if he was doing the same actions. Man, men in this country have forgotten that they have value too, good luck finding your way back to understanding the value of men also.

I always respect when a guy says this. That's why its facts!! She gotta go!

The man is calm and respectful WYM. Hoes defend Hoes.

Oh please ! He ENJOYED is time with 5 different women... what does that make him.

Global News Networks first of all if you’re calling me a hoe watch ya mouth he literally slept with like 5 different women he wasn’t respectful at all he was annoying how you gonna get mad at her when you did a million times worse you’re just as dumb as he is lmao

Global News Networks he was talking over her so many times he even admitted to not helping her with moving the baby’s stuff he was being petty he’s not calm and respectful you must be blind watch the video over

@@jayn.r2019 a man

She admitted it in court that she owns her mistakes(cheating), regrets them, and wants to move forward.

Quintinw... you must’ve taken a bathroom break, if you don’t think she cheated. She admitted to doing so.

Gotta see past her looks, because she pretty you hope she didn’t, However she did admit to it

Ok keep believing that ...

Quintinw either you’re stupid or you just missed the part that she did

.He feels emasculated. Men have very fragile egos. They can dish it out, but can't take it. Girl he is going to constantly throw it up in your face. His ego want allow him to move on. He will make you pay. He has a bad spirit.

@Chris, you are absolutely right! this is the definition of an abusive partner.

Pearl O WTF? She did the first cheating and HE’S abusive? Just like a new age feminazi, to blame the guy for the girl screwing him over, and stabbing him in the heart!!!!!!!! What he did AFTER that is completely irrelevant, as he was checked out of that relationship by that time, because he was extremely hurt by what she did--PERIOD!!!!!!! There is only one way to get him back, and she is way too self centered to do it. She would have to apologize very humbly and treat him like he’s the only man left on the face of the Earth, and SHOW him every day that he is her entire world! She’s way too selfish, self centered, and immature to do that, or even understand how bad she hurt him to do that, so, she’ll probably never get him back!

@@stephentimm4417 you really need a life. U sound just as mad as the way he looked this while episode. Abuse doesnt have to be physical. A blind could see hes toxic and has a bad spirit

Narcissist

@RealBlessed oddly enough I think you all are stronger in that sense. More of us should adopt the 1 strike rule y'all have. It would promote less toxic relationships, single parent households, and broken low self esteem women for sure.

Yep standards of faithfulness makes you have a fragile ego

@RealBlessed Was just about to say that. Once she has been penetrated, I'm done with her. My ego couldn't take it.

Walk on, young lady, away from that miserable, cold and mean man

Asabi Fatosin the guy has an unlucky female.... he looks like a serial killer.

Bullseye. You hit it right on the mark. Usually when men vacillate about staying in a relationship , there is usually someone else holding their interest.

And she had someone else twice during the relationship or did you have selective hearing?

Eddie Hill Who said that she didn’t step out of the relationship? The comment here addressed the fact that the husband wasn’t interested in repairing the relationship. We were simply opining that his refusal to work on the relationship might be due to his being in a new relationship.

🤣

She chose to move out, is she not responsible for her own choices?

The Urban Authority If you don’t hush, it was mutual. She had a baby, he could of at least helped. Some of y’all are really weak.

thtpeacechic he don’t owe her a damn thing for slinging pussy. He does need to watch out for his baby. But he don’t owe that walking DNA factory nothing. Where do you women get this shit when you start slinging pussy we owe you nothing. Damn nasty ass walking around with all that different DNA inside your body. That is filthy

@@robertray4428 It takes two people to have a child, don't put it all on her just because she's the woman.

Robert Ray ... Ooohhh you’re not smart I pray to don’t have children. Understand if your Child mother is NOT okay your child is in danger.

Rachel Callahan Periodt👋🏽

It's not that easy when a baby is involved and due to how she wants her child to be raised .

He sounds miserable

Very mean and stiff

If only I knew that back then.... Not married though.

It's funny how so many people say this when just 2 generations prior it was the norm . And millennials are actually more likely to wait for marriage than the ones screaming "you guys should wait." We know, we watched you all screw it up!

@@mayday1932 💯agreed

Sadly a women who wants kids waiting until her 30's to get married puts her in more of a rush than males who can produce sperm until they die. Lol Also, on average women are more mature in mid to late 20's and they'd have to marry older men. Lol.

I got married in my 20s we’ve been together for 8 years. This coming year will be 9 years. We have 1 son and we are happy. I think it depends on the people.

And her inappropriate relationships with men make her good how? Not sure if you are male or female but pretty sure you wouldn’t be cool with your spouse or significant other doing these thing unless you are open to having more people join the relationship for example open relationships or poly, which is cool. That’s not what he wants so he doesn’t have to accept her actions

So he take care how baby boy she go out and drink every weekend and lies but he bad. You dumb asf

Biased... Not relevant

Facts 💯

Hope nco4 exactly what I said.

He is incapable of that!!

If someone cheats on you once they'll do it again.

@@estebanfuentes8354 I get the sentiment, but that's not always true. But both parties have to be intentional in restoring the relationship. I don't recommend it in dating but in marriage, i think its worth trying to reconcile.

MissBee MakingYouThink all his fault huh he’ll naw she was being foul

Glad you all believe that then end up alone a bitter doing blogs on social media about how men ain’t s@$t

Hopefully she finds some simp who wants to save her and her baby.

That’s what I was thinking...

You tripping

Feral Chicken what was ratchet about this?

Nothing ratchet about this episode

Relationships are destroyed because of jealousy.

So right! 100%

Stocking Anarchy Right!

Preach!!

I figure you not in a relationship by saying you won't ever go through the phone ,my boyfriend practically convinced me that hes not doing nothing when im not around until i went through his phone seeing all the women hes been contacting planing to meet up

Looks? Wow some ppl are so basic

@@manbarco3230 dude its crazy. Ive seen so many text it makes me scary to just take a girl cheated. Like everything unfolded because she cheated. And the guy is the bad guy. Like i just dont get it. In my opinion all his actions are justified exept for the one of not helping her wit the child. But u cheat on ur spouse wtf u think u will get in return. Like how stupid ppl can be. Im telling you it will get to a point in society. That u can petition ur divorce for ur wife cheating. And wen u get to court and tell judge "my wife cheated" judges are going to straight up tell you SO WHAT? Whats the real problem lmaooo😂😂😂🤦‍♂️

Sure guys will accept her because she is cute, hope they ready the fine print. Beautiful and nice smile: side effect may cheat on you and has a strong tendency to be a alcoholic, cause heart ache, potential stds and paternity issues. But will cure your pretty girl on your arm quota. Sound like a great product now so how do I sign up to pay more that the asking price for this product?

Yep.. The comments say she said she cheated but she said she talked

Good for you mimi

@@EH-ik6rd thank you

Global News Networks Unforgiveness just makes a person bitter and angry. Forgiveness is a trait of the strong. It doesn’t matter what people do to you, there’s always room to forgive. What’s the point of holding a grudge? It gives you wrinkles.

FOXYPOT forgiveness is only for certain situations that’s not by choice anything else is a weak spirit If anyone cheat ain’t no forgiving that kuz it can come back to hunt u we live in a world that’s dark

Young Reezy1233 so then why not just leave the relationship? If her cheating was so unforgivable don’t stay in the relationship and just punish her for it ?? It’s pointless and toxic for the baby

FunkYONAPPZ that's y he not with her or even wanna be back with her on a serious note he said it himself he's done

Young Reezy1233 Forgiveness is a fruit of the spirit. Unforgiveness is the fruit of darkness, and it only affects the person of the weak spirit. The weak spirit can not overcome. It’s important to remember that we’re always dealing with humans, imperfect, learning, mistake-making humans. Forgiveness makes you lighter and keeps the bitterness away. But choosing to hold on to the weight of someone’s mistake only keeps you on a lower level. Why not rise above and strengthen your spiritual life? This world is so broken, why allow your spirit to be broken as well? Just my view. I’ve been hurt as well. I’m not gonna hold onto it. It doesn’t serve me at all.

Salute sister you see what she really is

I don’t believe everything that she say.

Yep usually happens around the cheating and alcoholic part of the relationship

@@EH-ik6rd bro big facts

So you are a cheater too

@@Acecentricsp05 lol well I would call myself a reapeat cheater, but I did just cheat on my dude amd he caught me!! Literally!!!

@@sekhmetbey6265 He shouldn't get over it, you should tell him that he deserves better and that you are not capable of being faithful.

@@Acecentricsp05 thanks for the advice but.... no thanks on that one!! 😏

@@sekhmetbey6265 If you can't be faithful why are you lying to him? You don't want to deal with his insecurities and him not being able to unsee what you have done repeatedly. Why don't you just be the bigger person and move on. Be honest with yourself he deserves better than you can offer. Stop using him.

Action = reaction. Basic math: get cheated on + alcoholic = miserable mate. Yep learned that before algebra class, pretty sure we learned that before graduation

Will be glad to see how you react when your lady is messing around with Co-workers and random dudes on vacation while you are footing the bill. Don’t complain just keep running those checks

@@EH-ik6rd to you I break up with her and move on with my life .

Unique@BandMan so would it be ok for someone to call you insecure, you have standards and he does too, doesn’t make him insecure

Trust is the key to a good relationship

True, also the blacks.

So guess she don’t need that money on the way out the door then, glad we cleared that up? Phew started to think someone who is better of does not need money from the other person to be better off.

I would never forgave that either. Cheating is not a forgiving matter. Is good that he stays like that as well, society needs to know what cheating does. I just think he should of called it completly off once he find out. But to his credit is a normal human thing to feel the need of hurting back the person that hurted you. Thats why i think he should of just completely end it.

He is cool

But he cheated.. Man are so insecure. Then not only did he cheat. He cheated with 5 woman .. So he is not smart. He could be mature about it and move on. But of course he is insecure and went after 5 women. Not smart at all.

Right

I love hearing that from a woman. I too don't believe in "breaks". It's just an excuse to cheat.

He clearly wasnt paying his child support, too. But she cant go on that basis and award it.

@@shaynaloveswiss1 relevance?

Mr. Negative The Negative Man when was the last time a man asked for monetary judgement for being kicked out unjustly or for a mutual decision?

@@thtpeacechic unjustly? She was not

She is an alcoholic and banging another guy. I would dump her on the spot. Either you are in or out. “If you need to mind your limits there is an issue”. That usually bleeds into other bad habits

She also isn't admitting to sleeping with him that's why he can't let it go , she won't admit it because she was cheating and the responsibility falls on her. That what women do, ask for forgiveness with out admission.

The Urban Authority yep.. and when the discussion got close to the truth she deflected the conversation. She was the one who was actually fostering and recruiting a new relationship. She cheated on him and would not admit it. On the other hand he admitted what he was doing. This points to her being a liar and manipulator. She is pissed because he dated but was honest. She cheated and will not own up.

Love to see your guy flirt with women everywhere, and have inappropriate relationships. Glad to hear that wouldn’t bother you

Did we watch the same video? She slept with the guy.

I miss the old officer called Joe.

Hahahahaha

Okurrr i can't

Lol

How is he wrong she cheated and he said fdb

True, they're both wrong.

It is both their fault, they put themselves into this mess.

Exactly

Thank god I read this comment. I thought i was the only who felt this way.

Correct, sad thing is these men on here to drinking the kool aid, and ladies reverse the gender and then it’s horrible and men are horrible

@@EH-ik6rd bro im glad i got to see the comments though. It only prove the social mindset and expectations of women even wen they are the ones who fuck it up. Why i will not get married. Simple because women in thus society are not held responsible for their actions.

I disagree. I already saw episode where the women were using her man, cheating on him, being childish and stuff and Lynn Toler told them to run and told those women the truth the same way she’s doing with him. She just asked him « can you forgive her? If you want to fix this relationship, you need to forgive her » he was the one who said first : I want to fix this. This is only when she asked « what do you expect her to do for the situation to improve? » that he said : i think there is nothing to be done. She gives her advice according to what people say.

She seems like one of those chicks that has men she's slept with all over the place

Dude he slept with 5 people.

Agreed ,plus she said she decided to pursue a relationship with that coworker in November after they actually really break up in end of October(not even a month after) which mean they were problably something going on way before .Maybe even while they were going couple conselling ,even Judge Lyne said that she was starting a relationship with that coworker while she was not a home

That’s what I say.