The OP had every right to do what she did. "Alex" and "Peach" did bad, but the mother actually sabotaged her own daughter's marriage out of "revenge for 'ruining her life'..." when she was the one who had an affair is beyond disgusting. "Peach" and "Alex", just like the mother, are trying to gaslight in order to justify their behavior.
I hate when people blame the victim for the suicide attempts of other people…like why you mad at op?? Edit: also those half siblings are awful for trying to guilt her into babysitting and I cant believe the egg donor actually bit and attacked her own daughter?? Crazy family for sure
Those half siblings are weird. Even if you are poly, the whole community drives home "informed consent." Otherwise, you're just a horny sleazeball - which they undoubtedly know. Trying to make the whole situation OP's fault for not going along with something she had never discussed with her fiance is amazing. Somehow, they grew up with everyone else and managed to have a completely different set of morality AND no knowledge of the morality of the people around them. OP grew up in a pit of narcissists.
Only time someone else is to blame for selfharm is when they bully someone so so bad. But op did none wrong. Op just told the truth. Its their own fault for being so shitty
Exactly. One thing I learned from experience is to stop feeling automatically empathetic towards all ppl who self harm. It's easy to get to me since I've always been depressed and suicidal as well, so whenever someone confesses that they're also depressed and they self harm, I automatically become protective of them; however and unfortunately, not everyone who does this is actually deserving because some of them do this to shift blame to those they've hurt or emotionally manipulate someone else. It's vile and it has started making me doubt ppl and their intentions even more.
I can’t stand when people blame the victim for things like this. It’s not OP’s fault that others made terrible decisions. And those half-siblings trying to guilt her into babysitting? Absolutely ridiculous!
I am not sure which is worse. The mother who cheated before being ok with helping a cheater though she claimed to regret it, or the half-siblings in the open relationship who know OP did not swing that way but was ok with forcing their views on OP.
OP needs a new group of friends. The fact her friend group split when the people who done great harm to OP tried to commit suicide, just because OP doesn't want to speak about her ex & his side chick.
Oh, the people who claim to be polyamorous are lying to you. It's not okay to cheat on your partner, whether you're polyamorous or whether you are monogamous and those rules are exactly the same forcing somebody into polyamory in order to justify your cheating is not okay in any polyamorous circles
Op said at the beginning that both of her half siblings are in polyamorous relationships, which on its own is totally fine if everyone is consenting. Op’s siblings are just terrible people in general
Wow! She really talked fast! It reminded me of a divorce attorney from new york that my ex hired to try to drag me through the mud. It worked for a bit, as I ended up paying for child support for 3 step daughters and alimony for about 6 months. But in the end, she lost after the judge got pissed that she was trying to drag things out for as long as she could. Plus, despite evidence and witnesses to the contrary, her fake crocodile tears during testimony were the last straw for the judge. As an illustration of what an asshole bitch she was, she stated that she feared for her life in my presence, so I was strip searched by the deputies before every hearing. Yeah, I thought about revenge, but even though her daughters deserved a much better egg donor, it is all that they had. I’ve stayed in their lives, and now I’m dad, grandpa, and great grandpa. I get invited to all family gatherings and their egg donor doesn’t.
got to love the aunt. the mom was crazy why blame the kid when they didn't ask to be born. if you are fing around use protection if then take responsibility for your actions
I would never hide an affair. I do not care if it was a friend/family member who was being cheated on or cheating themselves. I would be open with the person being cheated on.
Ok, let me offer a suggestion. Don't have an affair in the first place? Being honest about it after the fact still means you had an affair which hurts everyone involved.
@@jersefrenzer1265 I agree. Don't bloody cheat. Although I would not help hide an affair, IDC who the cheater is, the one being cheated on will be told even if I hate them.
Next time someone try selfharm to got attention or to gulid trip you, just tell them to cut straight to their neck, cut deep, for better results, instead of some Pinterest arms scratch.
I dont ever condone people murdering people but in some cases *cough cough* it doesnt seem so crazy 😂😂 jk kinda but no fr this family is psychotic and they all need help from OP getting healing to the mom getting locked up, and the siblings getting karma.
Your story is incredibly moving and emotional. I truly empathize with what you're going through and admire your strength in sharing this. How did you manage to stay calm and handle the situation when you discovered the affair and confronted your family and fiancé?
"The 2 people who betrayed you in the worst way possible just tried to unalive themselves. What do you have to say for yourself?" "Were they successful?" "No" "Oh well. Tell them to try harder next time."
I am so sorry to hear this. If it is a true story i really really hope you are doing fine. I know op will not read this but i really wish you could. You deserve better friends. Even after knowing everything siding with the cheaters is outrageous hope they will get their karma as well.I know one thing for sure that something great is waiting for you. You have gone though one hell of a experience i pray that you get to meet a wonderful person who will truly love you. ❤
I strongly suspect this is fiction because if the mom really shattered a window to break into the house and then attacked OP, she wouldn't be looking at a restraining order, she would be looking at arrest for breaking and entering and then assault.
Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. The culture we are living in says all those kinds of things are fine. Adultery, cheating, all that is fine. Then when it happens to us we explode. Well, duh. People aren't meant to live that way, and we all know it.
100% "Alex" is gonna gaslight OP that "it wasn't that much of the deal" or "it was a mistake" or some shit like that if he had a chance ro talk to OP Also the egg donor blaming OP in HER affair it's just ridiculous
sorry you had to go through all that but look Presto's charges on your mother get a restraining order never mind Alex or peaches and your step sister having the audacity to ask you to watch her kids so her her husband and her boyfriend can go on the trip you were too kind you might love those kids but they're not even related to you!!but hey telling her to go f off hey that was a good start and to never contact you again the brother hey whatever happens to him let it happen!!keep in touch with Tony because he's the only other injured person in this whole mess!!thank God for your aunt and your cousinand your grandparents and go on to live your best life no more contact with the rest of those hateful people!!
Blaming the victim after her wrongdoers self harm is hilariously disgusting. They are using their own lives hostage to cause further harm. It is obscenely vile and anyone who takes their side is trash.
I'm Maddie, my sister Patricia slept with my boyfriend and got pregnant Then she asked me for child support and said Vuitton is my boyfriend and this is his child so I have to be responsible...
holy shit its the first time i hear a story where a simple screenshot goes nuclear. its like she was carrying around pure weapons grade plutonium and she dropped it at the best fkgn time possible.
When I first started listening to you I immediately hit the thumbs down 👎 button. You were going so fast I could barely understand you, so I thought I would just try different things to understand you, first I hit the captions, that helped a little bit but they were still going too fast then I finally realized. I went to settings and adjusted the speed settings, first I hit 50% and that slowed it down but it was a little too much. Then I went back to settings and hit the 75% and it was perfect. I was able to listen to the whole whole video so I went back to the beginning and listened again and it made a lot more sense. So I was able to go back to change my thumbs down 👎 to a thumbs up 👍. I am so sorry for the pain and suffering that this has caused you and even if this is a fictional story it still turned out well in the end.
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