“If you can’t stand up to your mother then maybe you aren’t ready to be a mother yourself,” I don’t understand how that’s a “low blow” when it’s factual. Girl expects to have kids yet can’t even set boundaries with her own family… make it make sense. Her slapping OP was/is unacceptable. She acting like he said, “that’s why god made you unable to have kids,” or something like that, lmao.
Completely agree. Setting boundaries is essential, especially with family. OP’s wife needs to stand up to her mother for the sake of their relationship.
I think it's a low blow because it's factual, and there's no way for her to really come back at him for it. It's a low blow because low blows are devastating. And yeah, the slap was absolute bull. That's straight up spousal abuse. One more point against her being a decent parent.
What OP said about Evelyn not being ready to be a mother is simply the truth. It's interesting that she was upset when OP said it but her mom said so much worst and she still defended her.
@@merykhan97 I agree with you. I mean I understand that it's difficult to deal with a toxic parent, but at some point, you gotta ask yourself, "Am I getting anything positive from this relationship?" And I know it's easy for us outsiders to say, but I just don't see why someone would want a person in their lives who completely drains them.
@@PrincessQ-fj9ly the worst bit for me is she ALMOST had it, for at least one minute, when she stood up to her mother during wedding preparations with the ex thing. Altho she did it only after OP said smth, it was a start, but she took two steps forward and one step back after that
It's really disheartening how OP was blamed and mistreated by his mother-in-law, and how his wife, Evelyn, didn't stand up for him. The turning point where he found support in Emma, married her, and now expecting twins is quite a twist. Life truly does have unexpected ways of working out!
Or it can be just them reflexing on what happened. Like a mix of regret and confusion to why their relationship didn’t work. Some people might just stay in denial ( and have people influence them, like this MIL ) or others will actually realize how their behavior was wrong, sometimes by having another perspective ( like ex-wife seeing OP happy with someone else ) We can takes those stories of spoilt kids who realize their are spoilt only after a certain event. Sometimes all it takes is another perspective, opinion or situation
@kilamkam the Japanese “what?!” had me in stitches. I’m learning Japanese and it’s always fun to understand certain things that would have gone over my head in the past haha great comment!
@@tomhiddleston8848Lmao I love the language but I couldn't keep up studying it, as I had no one to speak it with.. But yea from my studying and years worth of anime, I understand a good bit....
This is such a good AI story. Almost made me not notice the gossipy sister who spawned out of nowhere when Evelyn was supposed to be Karen's only daughter
And why would the cousin perfectly included in previous updates prior to them getting together. Sprinkling foreshadowing of getting with the cousin years before lmao
She makes meals for him😂. Regardless of if you are having issues with your spouse, thats a no no. I mean, my sister can't go to meet my husband to cook for him and to take care if him. It's not like she's a cook 😂 AI generated
OMG.. I was thinking this almost seems like a fiction and that there would be another pov that would paint OP as the villian but this makes more sense😅
@@typical14yearoldboy80 what's the stupid thing? to be clear, I don't make fun of the poor daughter bc it's not her fault she struggles to conceive, life is ahead of her and she have other choices like adoption or IVF... The only problem is her mother instead of helping her daughter she blames op then blames her daughter for working like its the main reason for the issue. So unless the mother dies or have a change of heart or the daughter leaves her for good, there's no children in the picture
so the big thing is, if a female is on birth control then it is harder to just get pregnant once you come off of it. So wife decided it was ok for OP to be shamed. Sad thing is wife destroyed her marriage by listening to her mother. that mother is a piece of work.
I think it's pretty clear that all the qualities that make Evelyn a right fit for corporate work are exactly why she is not the kind of person who needs to be a wife or a mother. And as far as Karen goes, the only reason that she's putting all the blame on OP is that she doesn't want to acknowledge the Evelyn's fertility problems stem from her own genes, and by extension, her mother's.
It's so disheartening how OP was constantly undermined by his own wife and her family. The way Evelyn sided with her mother instead of standing by her husband just shows how deep the issues ran. It’s no wonder the marriage fell apart support should come from within the relationship, not be influenced by outsiders.
@@Brian-qt6su Technically AI but technically, lots of these "reddit story tts with shitty boring minecraft parkour gameplay" videos use AI to rephrase/paraphrase the stories and what AI they are using somehow can't be arsed to have consistency with naming and stuff.
I have a theory or more accurately a different perspective of evelyne’s behavior. All she did before confessing her test results is the behavior of someone who doesn’t want kids at all. I think by confessing to husband her results and not showing them directly she lied telling she is « infertile » while the results would have probably shown that she was totally fine. There is a possibility she takes pills to avoid pregnancy. Thus the situation was perfect for her, OP was more understanding of them not having kids while she deflected all the blame on OP. She had her cake and eat it too. *Edit:* 16:50 BINGO!
yea, it's an AI story. honestly like 99% of the stories on this channel are likely written by AI or someone as a creative writing story. unfortunately too many people listen in and think they are real
@@drifter139to be fair this story really could happen when an adult child let's their parent control or run over them when they're married/in a relationship.
Lol, yeah. First Evelyn is in corporate work and got passed on promotion. Then it was mentioned the cousin don't wanna enter family business. Meaning wife is in family business.
Part of being in a relationship is protecting your partner from toxic people and, more importantly, trusting your partner when they tell you someone in your life is toxic. This woman trusted her mother more than the man she supposedly loved. Emma stood with you, she truly loves you.
@@SenatiaA they're talking about the sister that was only mentioned once as the gossiper of the family. the reason I know this story is fake is because ex is said to be an only child
@@drifter139it said she was Karen’s only child, Evelyn obviously has a father who could have kids from a prior or later relationship that Evelyn considers a sister.
1) it’s an ai story (notice that Evelyn suddenly had a sister spawn out of nowhere despite her being an only child at the beginning) 2) Even if it weren’t, Karen was probably a made up name
@@dimsufferer9951 it said Karen’s only kid, Evelyn obviously has a father who has kids from a previous or later relationship who Evelyn considers a sister. Just because there’s no father mentioned does not mean Karen can reproduce asexually like some sort of reptile. 😂
It sucks that Evelyn made her fear of being left come true because OP did find someone who wanted kids. Her own fault though. Happy that OP found someone who wasn't still afraid of their mom in their late 30s 🤭
I would have sued the ex-mother-in-law for defamation the way she was spreading false rumors about him. Her daughter left him, she was the one who mentally abused her daughter. If I was Evelyn I would get the hell out of Dodge and go live someplace far away from her mother and go No Contact.
Definitely an AI story, but I'm kinda concerned how many of y'all are blaming Evelyn for being brainwashed and manipulated by her mom while her cousin is swooping in and playing hero to "op". Like, no, if this was real "op" shouldn't have to stay with someone who is being abused like that if they can't get the help they need, but damn y'all think she's just as bad as her abuser. I'm glad this is AI because some of y'all are cold.
I personally don't think Evelyn was infertile. I don't think she ever wanted kids, but was too afraid to say it to her mother or husband. Evelyn wanted a career, not a family. I'm glad Op found happiness in the end.
"I thought my life was falling apart, but it turned out it was only falling in place.", that's actually a great quote. Amazing what AI can do nowadays.. 😂
The moral of the story is that once you get with someone you want to spend the rest of your life with, you don't let anyone else don't matter who they are control the rest of it or else it will end up ruined by them and you'll end up regretting it later on.
I've seen this happen in many marriages. Whether it's the in-laws or parents. There's an overbearing Jezebel spirited parent or in-law. Unfortunately, when there's a Jezebel, there's an Ahab. Meaning a doormat. A person that tries to make peace and gives excuses. Then there's an Elisha that's assertive and altruistic. Like Elisha, this guy's having to fight her without support, and it's exhausting. His wife needed to be on his side. My wife and I have gone through some of the same problems with different results. We're both assertive and altruistic, but she's had times where she had others treat her like dirt. She's even volunteered me without talking to me. I told her, "Listen. You ever volunteer me again, i won't come." The other is you can't let people walk all over you. I love how unselfish you are, but be unselfish to people that love and appreciate you. If you don't, you'll lose my support. I would fight for you, but if you keep getting yourself in these situations, you're on your own. She eventually became strong, and understands me and stands with me.
I am just in awe.. I love how OPs's life turned out. I am sure he loved Evelyne with all his heart. Some partners are sweet enough to find their joy in their partners..and OP is one of them. I am happy he found Emma. And build their relationship on honesty and good communication 😍🥹💟
A partner with no spine is THE biggest red flag out there and in these kinds of stories people always miss it like it's nothing. The first vow in every culture and religion is to do with respecting one another regardless of situation. People with no spine won't be able to do it, as they don't stand up for anything, what makes you think they'll stand up for you.
It’s insane that Karen ranted about Evelyn having fertility issues because she was being “mistreated” by OP, only for OP to not have one, but two kids at once with Emma.
Non of this wouldn’t have happened if the mom wasn’t poisoning her daughter head like I don’t understand why parents have this mentality when it comes to there kids
I just imagined Emma as the true master manipulator in the background goading Karen into interfering in their marriage and swopping in after to further push the knife by giving what Evelyn couldn't, kids hahahaha. Seems like Emma really wanted to get back at Karen just hopefully she actually loves OP. That is if this story is actually true.
12:36 what he said is true I wouldn’t call it low I call it truth she doesn’t have the mindset it takes to be a mother or wife. you are letting an outsider family or not an outsider of your marriage dictate what you do disrespect your partner and make decisions for you a wife wouldn’t do that. and as for the mother part keeping this toxic person around your would be kids could do an untold amount of damage to them mentally and wen they grow up enough to understand the dynamic they’re seeing they could normalize it in they’re heads and think this is ok and potentially go through the same things in they’re own lives and relationships.
I hope he keeps sending pictures to Karen of his kids and wife with big smiles on their face and continuously thanking her for driving him to this happy life. It will drive Karen even crazier than she already is.
Dude is a doormat and very very sensitive, letting feelings control all his behaviors. Yeah sure openly date your STBXW COUSIN without the divorce being finalized yet. Surely that will smoothen the process.
If I was the guy when they broke up I'd have asked her, "Do YOU want the breakup or your mother does? Because it seems like everything in our marriage depends on your mother's approval".
Dude is a G , good guy , He impregnated her cousin with twins, to their face , yeh to their face, Most fertility issue are treatable if you make a comfortable living, And ironically Evelyn was the one trapping him wasted 8 years his life , be a independent woman with a boss babe mother, why even Marry someone if you don't want to raise a family with them, if you just want a roommate with sex , hookup some college hippis they will ever be young boys , you can play with them, But my man didn't even waited a year, made a twin with her cousin , who is ever younger in age , dam ,god bless both of you, and you twins ,
The mother successfully turned abused and mistreated daughter Evelyn as puppet. I do understand if my mom is that mental ill, but if I would marry somebody to have such bad family especially the mother in law who just keep splitting bad things, gaslighting others but not to her own self, I would step away for good as well.
What OP said that night that he screamed at his ex mother in law was very well deserved. Because she kept insulting him over something that wasn’t his fault as well as well as insinuating that he wasn’t good enough for his wife. And it was confirmed when after the truth came out she decided that it was a good idea to flip it around and blame OP for his wife’s fertility problems as well as launch a smear campaign against OP by lying about the reason that his wife left their house as well as accusing OP of cheating with his wife’s cousin. And OP’s ex wife was almost as bad if not just as bad as her mother. Because she let her mother get in her head with how her mother kept saying that a woman’s worth is tied to her capabilities to have children especially after the fact that she lied and concealed the truth about her paternity test to OP and kept trying to ignore or dodge the topic. Not to mention that there was the fact that at the family gathering that her mother kept insulting her husband she didn’t even try once to get her mother to stop or to drop the conversation. Instead she just kept looking away and ignoring every single insult or accusation that she hurled at OP. So she really shouldn’t have been surprised when OP decided that he had enough of her insults and criticism and decided to take a stand. And it was ridiculous afterwards when she blamed OP for speaking the truth with everything that he said to her mother when she didn’t do anything to step in and put a stop to it before things blew out of proportion. And then afterwards she left and went to her parents’ house which was the nail in the coffin because it showed just which relationship she prioritized more than the other because she let her mother convince her to divorce OP and said it was the best thing for her to do for the most ridiculous of reasons. To the ex wife’s credit she did put her foot down when her mother kept insulting the details of their wedding as well as when her mother kept spreading accusations of OP cheating on his ex with her cousin. But other than that the ex wife was horrible since she not only let everything her mother told her get to her head as well as let her mother control every aspect of her life but also she went as far as to keep the truth away from everyone because she didn’t want to face any criticism from her mother. If she was willing to not be honest and tell the truth about her problems with anyone especially OP then OP deserves to be in a relationship with someone who is better than his ex since he deserves to be in a relationship with someone who is always upfront and truthful about her problems.
Just from that title OP YTA. If u leave your partner and end up someone from with there close circle - sister, best friend, or in rhis case cousin, then there's no way that relationship was pure for the duration of your marriage. Yea, the wife was wrong but OP broke the bro-code which makes the bigger asshole.
Accusing OP of abusing his wife just after she hit him? I understand that women are often expected to be physically abusive to male partners, but did she claim that he’s the one who hit her in the face?
The part that pisses me off is this guy it's his house I wouldn't care if it was my wife's mother, she crossed the line with ME by doing all that crap out of kicked her out.
"we decided to take thing slowly between emma and I" bro, you stopped using protection and accepted the possibility of children after dating for six months and probably before your divorce was signed... where was the slow part x)
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