Without consent. Without consent. Without selfreflection on his lack of bond with his stepbaby. Run. Run. Run. Run. Run. Run. Run. Run. You and your baby must get away now. GO
Exactly, step parents are more likely to "delete" unrelated children out of jealousy, and that's a major red flag. Her first question should be "why do you want a kid with me if you don't like my child now?" And leave regardless of his answer.
came here just to say this! The lunacy on display on his part is almost outdone by the negligence to her son that she put on display. I would NEVER leave my baby around someone who said they were angry at and/or hated them, let alone for something they literally CANNOT CONTROL! Complete insanity.
I feel like op is his first victim. After this, he may hide and start again, but this time he learned to pretend nice and loving longer, to cut his victim from their family and friends firstly, to manipulate better, to use stronger pills... Now i'm scared for the next one he date. He failed once, he'll win next time.😢😢😢
See ladies, I believe this is what we call "attempted baby trapping." He only wanted that kid to tie her down and always have her with him one way or another.
@@Ilove_Skzoos right?! When it got to the box cutter part my arms tightened so much 😖 the thought of something being cut out of you like that is just disturbed. And the fact he thought it was ok/a sane thing to do is wild
@@QueenMizuat that part I could literally feel my arm tightening...🤮 this whole story was so uncomfortable, especially since he thought it was fine because he "researched" how to take it out, which most likely just means he saw a 5 minute RU-vid video of how to cut skin. Also from the sounds of it, he's doing it horribly. (not sterile, a blunt blade, severely undertrained, etc.) This is a huge break of trust, and an even bigger risk, what would he have done if he pulled it off, but she got an infection? Try to explain he cut her implant out? Nope, he'd make up some bs excuse.
I wouldn't forgive him after he said that he has no connection to your child and that it makes him angry just to look at him and then he tried to cut your arm open with a box cutter take your stuff and go before he hurts you or your kid
The convo was done when he expressed his feelings about my son. He'd not be a fiance after that and call the police when he tried removing the birth control. Creep!
What was his plan? Like even if she didn’t wake up when he was trying to cut it out and somehow she slept through him cutting it out she would still wake up the next morning with a cut in her arm, and she would probably figure out the birth control was missing while messing with the wound. Plus it would be suspicious how intentional a sudden wound like that would be since if she never woke up it would seem like it just happened out of nowhere. Did he think that she would suddenly be ecstatic to have a child? Did he just think that if he got rid of the birth control then she would just agree and not even question the sudden wound and missing birth control.
I fear that he might have tried to SA her while she was asleep after taking the implant, to get her pregnant ASAP and baby-trap her? As to impose his own beliefs upon hers and there was nothing left to do. He just saw tutorials on how to remove it and went ahead with a box cutter (that might not even be clean, to begin with), he wasn't thinking at all.
why is OP even considering staying with the BF? .. you did "see his side" .. you were going to let the birth control run its course and have a child with BF then. he was the one who chose to perform amateur surgery in order to get his way
@@BrotherBozemanyes and it's lucky they aren't he's gotten to the point where he's the fiance I'm glad he wasn't able to get her to marry him before he tried that stunt
I have a feeling that this guy is a Narcsisst and her family has already realized he's bad news and he was still in the live bombing phase. Or two he's already dropped a bunch of little red flags and she didn't think they were serious at the time. Either way I'm glad she got out and I'm hoping that the restraining order will show his roll a bit. Also ladies if he says his ex was crazy but she successfully got a restraining order. You need to take a step back. Do some mire serious looking into and soul searching because 99% of the time you have to have something very very serious to get a restraining order.
Yeah, so… anyone out there …. If he’s willing to take a box cuter to you to change something this time, what about next time? What if one of the kids has something he doesn’t like, will he take a box cutter to him?
I feel so bad for this girl who rlly loved this man and she is so confused and im scared that this man will hurt other girls also great job to her family for helping her and protecting her
You can tell buy the fact he gets made looking at his stepson he is gonna favor the youngest or his child more then prioritizing both of them equally all kids deserve parents but not all adults deserve kids
I completely understand why a woman would just assume that she should just go to bed and try to work it out tomorrow. There’s the shock factor and the assumption that sleeping on it will make cooler heads prevail. Plus there’s the fact that the fiancé has probably been ratcheting up the pressure on her without her even being aware that things have been getting worse and that she needs to get out, and when she’s noticed that things are wrong, she has almost certainly just dismissed her own thoughts & feelings because her boyfriend has been making her question herself for so long that it wasn’t even something that she was actually aware of in the moment. This kind of thing is insidious.
omfg. I really hope she gets a restraining order and that she never has any further contact with him again, at least not where she is alone and vulnerable with him. This guy is a danger to her and her child.
I think they could’ve looked at the box cutter at it touched her skin and would probably have her dna/ skin cells (idk how that works) to show how it was touched to her skin
One thing that I will never understand about people that get legit issues as adults, like schizophrenia, or like a brain tumor that makes them aggressive and want to do bad things is how they don’t realize something is wrong. Idk if it’s just their brain that makes them think everything is normal, but I feel like if I was all the sudden thinking or doing something horrible like cutting into my fiancé (also she would literally find out the next day anyway even if she didn’t wake up and get back on birth control at the very least, and they you would have caused pain, risked infection, also could have easily hit a vein/artery and made her bleed out, so how would you not realize something is wrong with you and go talk to a doctor. I feel I would know okay I’ve never had these thoughts and this is not something that is okay to do, I really need to talk to someone.
I feel bad for the kid he saw that guy is his dad and he will likely never see him again. Yes, he’ll eventually forget about it but it could Subconsciously affect him as he grows up or emotionally affect him when he’s older, even if he doesn’t remember it
Yeah idk. If this happened to me with the man I love I understand her going to stay with her mom and even breaking it off. But idk if I could just ignore then and not talk to them at all. I would have met with him somewhere very public the next day and talked about his behavior and tell him that I no longer feel safe with him and that he isn’t the man I thought. 8 months goes by so fast. He could have literally just waited 8 months. I would have told him I want him to see a doctor and if it turned out something like people suggested was going on I would have tried to help him through it. I would just need to know if he had been hiding his true self from me or if something else was going on. I feel like going no contact is good in situations or straight up abuse that been going on for a while. But something like this if he was having a mental break shutting him out would just make it worse and make him more dangerous. If I love someone I’m going to try and help them and get to the root of the problem. I wouldn’t let me child around them or be alone with them but I also wouldn’t try to anger him even more before knowing for sure what’s going on with him. Him wanting to cut that out isn’t at all normal behavior and if he had always been very level headed and then all the sudden saw nothing wrong with that I would know either something isn’t right or he was always faking how he acted before.
Another horrible story where the “perfect” love partner (almost always a man) suddenly relieves his true self & almost end the other person’s life… And yet everyone of these stories makes me so sad for the a*used partner, essentially when children are involved too 😭💔 I’m just happy that they actually survived & then also being able to write these stories, completely bodily ok (mentally & emotionally are much more difficult… I can’t even imagine how they feel afterwards, but their courage & the strong will to both be able to continue to live & fight & also being able to share their stories with us that are reading/listening ❤️❤️❤️ The AI-voice didn’t seem to be able to say the correct name of her sleeping med? Since I also have had very severe (& several different parts of) insomnia for about 25 years now, I really would want to know which medication she uses? Can anyone kindly help me? I’d really appreciate that ❤️
@@daniellemitchell3118I don't think it's sympathy, I think they mean going through it as in possibly going into a psychotic state and brain is doing something very very very very very extremely wrong that it shouldn't be. (Either that or they're saying he's getting possessed)
The OP needs BC, needs drugs for sleeping, stays with another guy without the benefit of marriage. The OP is all kinds of dependent and is shocked by her bad decision making skills regarding the ex after her ex. The BF is a bad guy and it’s a guarantee that the signs were always there and the OP just needed her sleeping pills and BC. It’s all about choices and people need to choose wisely.
Yes she doesn't have a father in her life. Her brothers aren't messed up they are doing a great job protecting her. And for all we know her father has passed.
Did we listen to the same story? You are defended a potential abuser who wanted to use a knife to get what they want from their partner. This does not have anything to do with her family or parentage.
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