You blame everyone for your own anger-except yourself. I see your wife’s point. Why should your daughter be hurt because you’re a grown man who can’t control his own emotions? Yes, this is a big expense, but it also sounds as though you’ve lost your job before, and your wife has a plan. Maybe to meet with a divorce attorney.
Both sides are valid, but to me, it's not on you to decide what is and isn't allowed in your home, it's on you, your daughter and your wife. It's understandable you have a lot on your mind but seriously, you're ruining your marriage with the way you're forcing your problems and decisions on everyone around you. Honnestly.... I wouldn't be surprised if your wife decided to go for a divorce if your attitude keeps up, you may wanna apologize and speak to a therapist, for god sake, you're an adult, and you need to actually be the father and husband they need, not an anger issue filled teenager.
I think he was in the wrong because he’s a grown man who can’t controll his emotions so he gets fired from his job then sells his daughters horse even though she had money from her job to take care of the horse so he hurt his daughter because he can’t controll himself