7:15 okay, to stop all of this from happening op shouldve just fucking called her hr rep, managers, supervisors, etc, and said everything that was happening, and detail the sister's threat with the assurance it was completely false (obviously with documentation). The company would defend op's career and op could call CPS without fear... then the entire assault, charges against mom and sis, all of it wouldve been dodged and things wouldve skipped right to the custody battle
Ik she didn’t do the best things, but you have to understand this woman is already bipolar and has to take meds for it, so she was definitely not in the right state of mind to be making these logical decisions especially because she was having a breakdown.
She was a severely abused, neglected, and mentally unwell individual. She was in no place to be making these logical decisions against people who, for her entire life (especially her most formative years), taught her that she was _powerless_ against them. It was only _after_ that meeting with her bosses that her mind fully began to grasp that these demons were, in fact, defeatable, and that she had more than one good reason to fight. Victims don't make logical decisions. They're trained not to for fear of their _lives._
Same thoughts. I'm only 13 mins in and I've thought twice now, just email direct manager and HR and let them know she's got a crazy sister who is threatening to make false claims if she doesn't watch her children. If her company doesn't believe her, or fires her for the bs, then that's not a company she should be working for anyway.
You can really see the years of abuse on op's decision she has become such a pushover because of it, but im glad she found her spine and fought for her nephew.
So many people are mad at her for not recording or calling her job from the first threat, but this is exactly why she didn't! From her most formative years, she's effectively been trained to "cower before the authority, or suffer the consequences" That's probably also why she never bothered with her social life while at home and chose to study instead, since people can be lied to and manipulated, but books can't.
The only good thing sister did in her entire life was giving birth to those boys, they sound so innocent and good , honestly a surprise that they grew up to be so good with that 304 mother .
Shes a victim of @buse, and has been since her most formative years. Being a victim myself, you don't tend to make the most rational or logical decisions, especially against people who have _trained_ you to "cower, or suffer." That's why for victims to escape, they often need help from more level headed and logical people (The BF in this case, who gave her the idea to record the threats), so that they have fog free minds and can see the bigger picture, sometimes long before the victim can.
I don't get why she's worried about the boyfriend thing I'm pretty sure if you just get on the phone and say' yeah my sister went nuts and I have to take my nephew's from CPS right now it might be a little bit before I can meet you guys' they would be fine with it, normal people understand things happen
Yeah, but it's probably also a symptom of the @buse she's suffered. She's been taught to kneel and cower, or suffer the wrath of the authority. With these being parental figures she's never met, it stands to reason she felt they would be at all similar to her parents. It could also be that the court date allowed her to visit her BF for a few days, then fly right back for it, and CPS was either investigating during that trip, or waiting for the case results to conclude their investigation. Either way, there's a lot of factors to consider. The elephant in the room being a lot of @buse and n3glect from her most formative years to now. Victims do not think clearly or logically during their @buse. Asking them to is essentially the same as asking a pig to fly.
@@BluffMello I'm glad I was able to help you! I love psychology, it's one of my obsessions, and I'm always happy to help someone understand odd behaviors/decisions and their psychological motivations -(Sorry if this sounds off or rude, I have autism and can't word things well)-
The OP is finally free from her sister's toxic negativity and manipulation and is reunited with her nephews plus be there for them when they need her the most and the OP can walk away from her family and be done with it.
… my “dad told me he was happy for me and that’s as the nicest thing that my parents had every told me” um I’m sorry whoever this is you deserve better
i feel that the boyfriend from australia just sugar coated you! if i was him i would have told you dont worry im on going there! and take the first plane to were ever you are
The mother blatantly bought whole-heartedly into the lie that "good looking people should have life on easy mode" and this entire story shows that. The fact that the sister really thought that she would get away with what she did. The worst part is that the mother really thinks that her eldest daughter being a "sugar daddy's 304" is better than a daughter who did so much and made so much of her life. Also, the fact that the nephews actually are being neglected/abused proves a lot. Her having others assault the OP absolutely proof that both the eldest daughter and the mother should be locked up for the rest of their lives. The "sugar daddy" also will be tainted forever, because the last thing a man like that wants is to be linked to a sociopath. *_It was a HUGE mistake her kidnapping her own kids, as it completely going to destroy the illusion of her "hot mess status" and that is a good thing!_* Resisting the arrest and assaulting cops just made it worse. What amazes me is that any CPS investigation would be that "unresolved", and with all of that evidence it never should have. I am glad the OP went to the lengths she could. The fact the mother turned on her "favorite daughter" just to stay out of prison is really the cherry on the top of the cake. The shame of it is that she (the OP) was _the only person in that entire "family" fit to have custody!!!_ I am very happy for her and the two boys.. but that is a testament to how toxic entitled females can get. But then.. what a poetic fate for the "golden child".. from a Sugar Daddy's 304 to life in prison. It doesn't get better than that.
oh man,, that ending,, 😢😢😢 im honestly speechless,, i knew you'd come back for us one day,, 😢😢😢 im gonna cry for days about this,, no child should ever experience the cruelties they did and im glad you used your similar experience for good instead of revenge,, thank you for that😢😢😢❤❤❤
This is honestly the best ending off all these Reddit stories I’ve seen and I watch a lot this story almost made me cry and I was crying on the inside that someone had to go through all of this and I could never be happier for her that she won
Yeah, and the buff Russian guy is unscathed as usual smh. He should sentenced to a life time in prison too for literally throwing a human being into the air.
Which prison is your sister exactly in? And what is the law with the least amount of prison sentence for breaking in that area? And what are some vulnerable parts of your sister's body? Just curious.
Ur under arrest for *inhale Child abandonment Coercion Blackmail Kidnapping Assault Child abuse Child neglect Trespassing Public intoxication (maybe if she is on drugs) And assault of a police officer Breaking and entering *exhale Mother: Police: ur under arrest for Child neglect Helping a fugitive Kidnapping Assault Trespassing Breaking and entering Extra:favoritism Being a big betch Damn that’s a lot of crimes😂
I can’t believe that there was a whole ass Hero’s Journey in this story. Man that was satisfying but I also wish for the best for the 2 nephews and op in this story.
I feel completely bad for her and her nephews and everything but why the heck did they skinny-dip at a hidden waterfall I completely understand the story. It is completely heartbreaking and sad, but did she mention that
This could’ve all been avoided if OP recorded the second call with the sister, called CPS and the police as soon as possible and it would’ve all skipped right to the legal battle
Even if she did, false accusations can still put a negative outlook on you and instead of figuring things out, some companies will fire employees over it if they see it as reasonable cause
12:35 I hate this because you really think some random person will call a workplace claim something about them and the workplace will actually believe it plus by the story I would be suprised if the sister actually knew the number simply because she has a empty brain that can only store a gig of storage
People when you get a job if you have toxic family. The first thing you should do after being hired as tell your boss, if anybody calls telling you anything about me. You need to verify the information. Because I have toxic family. Who will call and b******* period the first thing I did after divorcing my ex. Was that I wasn't told all my bosses after getting the job. Hey I have a restraining order for anybody calls. And they said I did something and they don't have proof I didn't believe it. Period it has to be on camera or else it didn't happen.
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