I enjoy being alone.. I do Yoga, gym.. I have a 9 hour work from home job, I spend time with pets, I don't even watch television.. life is beautiful and I am blessed.
@@ardramenon9797I don't know I am a right person to answer your question.. But I also working from home and fill my in between times by cooking, listening songs or thinking about my health - just thinking hmnn not started yet properly.. ❤
How can each and every video of Drishti can be so much informative and so much content loaded.... I can't even think to avoid any video of Drishti now.....
Meri problems drishti tak kaise chali jaati hai 😅😅 that's called connection . I still remember the first video I saw and then never missed. Dude, you have come too far.... That's what they say - you grow with your work gradually. That's the best feeling ever.
My takeaways are, 1. Dress Up for Yourself 2. Develop the Qualities you look upto in Your Friends or Life Partner (Try) 3. Fulfill the Promises you have to Yourself (Be Real)
I was staying with my friend and later she came into a relationship and she invited him to stay with us and he also started to living with us and this is where my journey of loneliness started because i am single and even not in a talking chatting phase . Though we three stay in the same house but i was all alone in my room i had no one to go for outing and my friend started behaving differently . I wanted to stay alone in rented house but i was scared at the same time cause i was kind of irresponsible and i have phasmophobia . I was suffocating there so, i decided to shift . Now , iam in my new room staying all alone , free from suffocation and toxic friends. Now iam happy that i took the best decision . Now i can do whatever i want and in my free time i just read books and do some DIY .
I watched your video 3 days ago and loved the idea of solo date. As I am a Bengali, we are enjoying Durga Puja right now. So I thought about a solo pandal hopping around my neighborhood. Today I did this. It felt great. It's so so much better than going out with my toxic friends. I am feeling really really happy. Thank you so much for making this video. Take lots of love ❤❤❤❤.
Yeah....I lost my dad in 2019 I lost my all friends ad they got married and eventually I loss my lonh term boyfriend because he was bored with me! Cousins are all settled and marriage and living their own happy life! And here I am all alone.... facing severe loneliness with immense amount of mental and psychological truma and unable to wake up from the bed!! Watching this video and crying. From being a fun loving outgoing person to a dead lonely soul! The pain of this journey only can be understood by those who have gone through this!!!! Btw thank you girl for real-talk❤❤
I have been on solo dates with myself. But just a word out there, if you see any solo daters around, let's say you see someone similar in a cafe, feel free to join in or share the table. You don't have to strike a conversation, just being there itself will make you and the other person feel like you belong❤❤❤
Isolation is a boon. Not many realise that. I always felt I don't belong to this world because my soul always craved genuine and real connections which I never had in family, friends, workplace etc. But believe me it takes some time to understand why you feel like that. Self improvement is very necessary in life and it definitely gets rewarded one day and at some point in your life, you understand all the reasons and get answers to all your questions. Then you also find a purpose in your life. Spirituality helps a lot in all that and makes you proud of who you are, and at the right time you meet your soul connections (relationships that make you feel happy satisfied and evolve you). Remember there's a reason why some people are like that.
Thank you Drishti,it really helped me out I am currently dealing with loneliness and I am a 14 yr old,to keep my self busy I started to read books,and I have also started writing a diary to share my thoughts and feelings. I follow you since a very long time and your videos really helped me❤
Me too I completed my 12th on March 2021 it's been more 3 years now and I am at my home most of the time becouse I am taking online class for my CA prep 😭
Loved watching this video because it's always liberating to watch and listen to messages of self-love again. It's special when someone shares their own experience. Thank you for making this video. Thank you for nudging me to love myself a little more today. More power to you.💖
How i deal with loneliness? 1)I write a diary. Where i appreciate myself and I'll write tasks that I need to perform. 2) I'll cook special dish for myself. And praise myself for the test. 3) I'll take care of my plants ☘️ 4)I'll do yoga that busts my energy.
M kya shuru se krti hu apni loneliness ko dur krne k liye 1. Hobby.. mene is time mandala sikha khud hi bnati hu second planting .. overall mujhe khud pta chla ki mujhe kya psnd h 2. Yes I wrote so many letters to myself to make me feel good and worthy .. ki Don't worry I am with myself 3. I make a proper routine for daily including exercise,self study ,affirmation and meditation journal etc.. kbhi kbhi kuch na kuch reh Jata h but it's ok 4. Talking to myself😬..it's weird but yes m Esa krti hu ... everything is okk but the thing is I know ki mein creative hu m pdhai m bhi achi hu still I am not successful and at this age I am feeling guilty in myself that I am not doing anything jbki mere sath ki girls are doing so much well. What should I do?
Your personal experiences and insights are incredibly valuable. Loneliness is something many people struggle with, and your advice on connecting with others, embracing solitude, and practicing self-compassion is truly helpful.
Thanks for this video.. I exactly feel the same and I feel sad that parents are not there to understand our loneliness. But these are great options for sure.
Few tips from my side I started travelling solo and made wonderful friends while staying in hostels . Start going to meet up and events in your city your social life will improve . Go for nature walk solo you will find peace and lot of other creatures as well .
Another tip from my side talk with god which ever god you pray for start sharing each and everything with him if you are not spiritual then don’t worry you people believe in energies right just share everything with universe and loneliness is also a part of life its not life choose wisely 😊
I think I have been in those situations and it feels extremely difficult for yourself to get back together. It was around 3-4 years back but now I am a person who can just travel alone, eat alone go anywhere wherever I want. But since now I am married to the most beautiful person. I think he don't need to carry the baggage of me being alone in some situations.I learnt it at the right time. So now life is peace. I am at peace even if he is around me or not I am double happy when he is around me but not sad or lonely when he is not.. I kind of tackle myself❤
Ya it's very relatable ! Loneliness hits very hard & sometimes it's very difficult to come out of that feeling.. But it's ok as it is a part of growing.. The video was very helpful ! Lots of ❤
I was scrolling through RU-vid and thought of watching this video! I was goin g through series of emotions, a roller coaster ride because of not having a single friend in my life, I was thinking am I the one with no friends at all or there are more human species and you proved me wrong, there are indeed more people like me with no friends! I think Universe wanted me to watch this video, It's not that easy to express this on RU-vid, takes a lot of courage! Kudos, keep up the good work, girl❤
@@trishilaverma Exactly! I was so uncomfortable initially, just the thought of being alone scared me, but then when I was backstabbed and betrayed multiple times by "snakes" in form of friends, I realized I don't neef these serpents, better to enjoy my own company rather then being bitten by snakes again and again!
Akele rehne k dar se bohot sare log toxic sadistic gaslight karne vale logoko lifelong jelte hai. Aur vo selfish ho kar hamara fayda uthate hai. Ese selfish logo k sath rehne se achha hai ekbar himmat kar k akele raho better feel honga. U r honest aap iske fayde nuksaan sab bata rahe ho. But relationship vale to juth ka happy face le k ghumte hai.(not all) but bohot sare ese log hai jo andar se relationship mai tut chuke hote hai. Bahr fake smile.
Hi drishti ma’m, I always love your RU-vid videos and I love how inspirational you are but I have a little suggestion for you, because your YT videos aren’t just spread round India but they’re going round the entire world I would advise for you to write English translation below while speaking in Hindi during your videos from now on that’s all. Lots of love from here ❤.
And Im noticing one thing she is taking with some one over a phone call every day.. and I don't know who is that person.. she just say my friend is on call so I won't be able to talk to you right now.... This thing hurts me 😢😢 so badly 💔💔 please tell someone what can I do in this moment and how to come out of this troma 😮😮
Thank You Drishti Didi You Have given me So many Reasons How to Fight Back to My Loneliness , Actually I am A student of 11th grade ...And was Fighting To this Loneliness, Thanks A lott Again !!
Also you forgot mentioning the most important role listening to good music can play in alleviating loneliness.🚶Walk in the nature, and if possible, adopting a female Indian dog from a dog shelter can do miracles. There are no more loyal, loving and adorable companions than dogs, far more genuine than humans.. 💓
I m lonely from 12 yrs n from 2 yrs i m in total isolation, no1 to talk, care, touch, no1 to meet, no friends, lost trust in any kind of relationship. Tried EVERYTHING to boost myself but now i m TOTALLY tired!!!
Actually I'm also going through something like this.. Like it's been a year and i improved so much .. But then this kinda thing also hit me that i have so many friends but i don't think they r giving me what I want and what is needed to me and to them, so I'm being with myself more.. Before writing I was feeling low.. But now I'm feeling relaxed.. Nowadays the internet is the best way to find geniuine people when no one in person 🥲. Like there r so many people in my life but I can't match with them... Here I can write 🫂💝and say thanku dhristi di for making this video sending u lots of love di 💜🤗
But jab bhi ye saari cheese krna shuru karti hu jaise achhe kapde phenna andr ek guilt hoti hai ki abhi tk paise kmana shuru nhi hue na hii koi career hai kaise mai achhe kapde phon sakti hu Mujhe normal kapdo mai hii reh kr mehnat krni chahiye taki baki life achhi ho ske phir bss circle chlra rehta hai
All your suggestions are great, but we as humans need to speak with other humans, have interactions with them. All the above things you suggested are done solo, which is ok for a short time but one can't enjoy life alone without meaningful conversations/interactions.
you are the person I was searching as my guide for lifeeeee! how you are giving so much helpful tips and understand it so well?? currently I am so much confused about my life i.e. my feeling and emotions basically and there is no one I can talk about ! your videos really helps,its like my big sister is guiding me for life! you are doing a really good job bro! your decision of being a content creator is great
This video is so relatable to me.... I feel the way you are mentioning the things I have actually started doing this in my life few months back..... And I love myself and I come to understand myself in all capabilities
The question here is at the end of the day do you want to stay lonely. Yes we can remove the toxic friends, the unrelatable relatives and even get comfortable in our own company. But honestly we as human crave the social interaction. So then apart from all this shouldn’t we develop skills to bring in people into our lives?
A small feedback didi, the texts you've put on the thumbnail saying "love letter" or "creative activity" are almost invisible due to the colour... it'd be better if u could choose a brighter colour for them..
Thank you Drishti and i felt that visual company from your words. I'd like to highlight that by exclusively using the English language, your message has the potential to reach a broader audience than you might anticipate.
I can empathize with your perspective. I believe that in my quest to find happiness through others rather than within myself, I ended up losing some of my friends just due to my loneliness. But, now I understood the need for change and self-discovery. Thank you for sharing your thoughts.
A big thanks to you for making a video on this topic. I am on the same journey right now and the fact that you have overcome it and grown so beautiful give’s so much strength to people like us! 🌸
Thanks a lot...it's my first time commenting on a video....to be honest, this morning only I was crying because I was feeling too lonely.....and this video came up Thanks a lot .
Just sifted to hostel for my education. This is the first time I am all alone by myself and now I am realizing that I don't even know how to spend time with myself and all of these things are hitting me now. Thank you so much for this video drishti got a lot of clarity through this video. I felt like my elder sister was speaking.
My tips of loneliness & I love it 1 . dancing 2.looking forward the sky 3. Cooking 4. Drawing 5.singing a song 6.yoga 7.making fun jokes with my self 8.writing a diary 9.selfie time Mujhe pta hai koi believe nhi kre ga itna sara but me inme se kuch na kuch krtihu yr 2,3 months se😂❤
I'm currently feeling so lonely and can't help myself at all ..i thought I'm the only girl on this universe but as I'm watching you saying this in audience I'm going to help myself .. thank you❤ ❤❤❤
I was thinking about it and couldn't agree more to all the ways you presented to get out of this mindset . I personally opted many of the ways earlier and it really boosted me .. the one which is left is going on solo dates and I will definitely go out and will have new experiences with learnings ..by the whole process I will be moving ahead and getting towards my peace ✌️ Thankyou ma'am for your wonderful insights ❤
Hy Drishti Recently watched the Glamup series & trust me it was the bestest series on your channel, pls do again something like this, lots of love to you❤
Dressing up really helps to boost mood but many times people ask for whom you are dressed up which makes me think why can't one choose to do things for own self
I dance in front of the mirror and gain confidence ; I realize this will pass and I should not dwell upon the feeling for two long...I wash dishes as my therapy ...sounds stupid stuffs but yeah!!!!
I'm in a relationship for past 1.9yr nd main bohot uske uper depend ho gayi thi... slowly he started ignore me.... very bad....main literally uski call Messages ke liye usse Jake puchti thi .then mujhe laga ki main ab khud akela rehna sikh lungi....then i started doing household works ...main basss busy rehna chahti hu.... problems hoti hain but koshish jari hain❤
Lover letter point make me Lough and as well best trick to apply because by this technique we talk with ourself which is very powerful healling medicine ❤
Thank you Ma'am for this crucial video. Your videos are really helping me to improve myself in life. My take aways are pursuing my hobby whenever I feel lonely and fulfilling my promises honestly to get strength. May God always bless you Ma'am.
See, when you're lonely, you feel gloomy, you're in a bad company. Once you're in solitude, you are very confident (yet no over-confidence), you're on top of the world, you're in the best company. Last but not the least, you are self- awared, not like those 95% people who know least or nothing about them, even so, a whole biography of others.😊☺️🤗🤩So, stay happy, stay safe and keep the sportsman spirit alive!🎉
Hi ..actually .. issues with me Lil different I m kind of introvert who talk only when this is relevant.... And mostly quite but open with limited people... But my batch mates are very extrovert.... And just bcoz of my nature of being quite they take this as ego ... And sometimes don't invite me for outing..and all the things... And these things hit me ... And in question myself is this my fault? Bcoz I was this way from my childhood... I talk with relevant people only who really having relevant talks ... So can you suggest me something please...
This is such a genuine video . I feel we all are somewhere lonely deep down and zindagi khud ke sath hi bitani hai ultimately. Thank you for such genuine advice . Love and hugs
Itne sari Videos dekhen ke bad bhi mujhe bohot enxiety and Loneliness feel ho rha hu... And actually I know some where what is reason behind it coz these days I have a crush on a girl in my office but I don't dare to express my feelings infects she is also not aware of this scenario but I'm thinking of her every single moment in life and I'm being depressed and feeling so awkward 😢😢 I don't know what to do now.. if I tell her I don't know how she is going to feel but I also don't want to lose friendship with her.. but my question is to my self.. ese kab TK chalega...
if you have to fight with loneliness than it's better to accept that your not so special, you are also one a normal human being who needs social interaction in order to be sane and there is nothing wrong with that, there are very few people who can live "alone" from overcoming there natural instinct of social interaction, if you can't see turning your loneliness into aloneness than better try to build a meaningful relationship, again you said come out from the victim mentality... it's just an opinion don't take it to personal...
Dear Drishti sharma I just wanted to tell you, your videos are so knowledgeable thank you so much for sharing ur tips it helps alot please never stop making these types of videos, always stay happy. Love from Pakistan💕💕
Although I love going to walk and theatre in solitude, the takeaway was writing a Love Letter and scheduling e-mail for myself... Also I am planning a solo trip very soon 🤍
In I'm my village so I don't Create connection to villege people...but if I going to City or stay to city..so i can Make good connection with people...can you guys giving suggest me how i overcome this type situation...!
Paise ho to loneliness nahi lagta zyada varna bohot lagta hai. India mai to zyadatar logo ko chahiye apni privacy but ek ghar mai sabko apna seperate bedroom bhi nahi milta bohot kam log hai jo ye luxury problem tak pohche ho vese. But thank god u r independent akele jana allowed nahi hota bohot sare ghar mai ladkiyoko.
this video tells more about situations and feelings or sit down talking videos where i relate to her with no friends point and went to cafe alone point । 😢😅
How coincidental this is. I just clicked your how to improve your dressing sense video and you told about repeating clothes and now I came here and you are with that same top. I love repeating and having a sustainable fashion sense.
I think this is everyones story. Not all have the guts to express it.. Through this video i understood that its important to tske care of yourself, heal yourself and give that importance which we never did. Mnay thanks Drishti for this video.😊
So true I feel very lonely because I am doing my graduation online so I don't have any friends and my cousin are very busy in there life so I feel very alone but now I decided to be independent by going on solo dates and give time for myself and take care of my self. Thank you so much for this video ❤ it help me alot❤❤
went to cafe alone , initially you feel good but later by seeing your surroundings they were in groups or a couple that hit hard its true and i can relate to this point too
Basically i have good relation with my mom i spend most of time with her and also have good friends but my besties are far from me somewhere i do feel lonely but i listen music to chear myself up i also love drawing and painting i try to keep my self busy to have any negative thinking and it actually works i always talk to myself 😅😅seems like mad but i do i try to be more lively
