I was unable to attend my grandmother's funeral, but from what I was told by relatives who were there, she was barely recognizable in the casket because of the heavy makeup they used on her. My grandmother seldom wore any makeup during her life (that I had known her) except for her and my grandfather's 50th wedding anniversary celebration, and then, it was just a touch of rouge and a bit of lipstick.
In 2023 we paid $1,200 for my mil to be cremated. They did everything. They handled the paperwork and the arrangements. We picked her up 2 weeks later and put her in a really nice urn.
In FL because my mom died without any plans or money, the state paid for her cremation. Then for my mother in law it was like $650. The funeral home treated us just like any other grieving family. They were really amazing with my mom actually. A few weeks after her memorial we got a large envelope in the mail from them. It had booklet with a full color copy of the obituary page and printed out all of the messages left online. It also had a bookmark, leaflet from the memorial and a condolence card. It was really beautiful.
The third and last case is shameful, the defendant says she was the favourite daughter and yet doesn't want to pay out anything towards the funeral, even though she got money from the policy. Once again money is the source of all evil...
Death does make ppl act crazy. When my great grandma passed when i was a little girl, like 5 years old, my grandma (who was the oldest girl) asked my mom to do the obituary. My great uncles agreed. But one of my great aunts didnt like the idea and came into a room where we were, accusing my mom of trying to take over. my mom explained to her that she was appointed by her mom and uncles, but she didn'twant to cause problems. My great aunt had a 🔫 wrapped in a towel and was walking towards my mom and tried to pew pew her in the stomach (she was pregnant with my little sister)! my moms brother tackled her and took the gun away. I remember it like it was yesterday and im 44 years old! Thank God my uncle was there at the time
1st case - I'd like a dollar for each time she said, "You know..." The more I hear about what has happened at other people's loved ones' funerals, the more I appreciate that I was born into my family!!! We may have problems with each other - like most families do - but we can at least act civilly while making important decisions such as these. Even including step siblings! 2nd case - We had a brother who lived in another state & couldn't make it for hospital stays before another brother passed. But, you can bet your last dollar that he got just as much as the rest of us! We don't count the cost of sitting with the dying. It's a privilege because we love them!
If the plaintiff lost hair in the fight, why wasn't it part of the lawsuit? It didn't look like it had been pulled out. It looked cut. I've had my hair pulled so hard it separated my scalp from my skull, and what was torn out from the roots did not grow back. Her hair looks to be growing there where she says it was pulled out. On the second case, I'm just glad that when my father passed, my siblings and I knew exactly what his wishes were for the distribution of property. There was no fighting or squabbling over anything. He had burial insurance and a VA pension that took care of everything.
Son is disgusting. He goes away for years and all he cares about its money. Cousin was there while his mom was sick. Where was he? I'm disgusted he's getting any money from this.
I agree to some extent but I differ in your disgust in him getting money. His mother designated him as the beneficiary because o that’s what she wanted.
He was working in another state halfway across the country is where he was and couldn't get to see her as much as he may have wanted to. I'm disgusted at your disgust!
So what, kids live away from parents and vice versa! That does not mean they are entitled to their inheritance. Trustee is NOT the same as a beneficiary! You have to be listed as both trustee and beneficiary! If you are o ly listed as trustee, you are the over seer of the disbursement of the estate to the legal heirs only!
When I was prego with my daughter, my dad died. Had lots of complications through pregnancy but had a happy baby girl at end. During recovery my aunt had me sign papers to help with my dads asset. I never received anything from him and was told he had nothing. It's been 32 years and we don't have much to do with those people anymore...
Betsy could care less y’all better be concerned about what the Lord Jesus Christ thinks and them are demons in your house! Apologize to your aunt and uncle; repent!
The girl thinking her grandma had spirit talking to her or whatever. Needs to read her Bible and realize that such things do not happen. The dad does not talk
Maybe she thinks the bite on her arm needs such a thick bandage, but when I had a bite taken out of my arm, a gauze pad with some tape was sufficient for it.
I got bit by a dog on my first finger and they splinted my freaking arm all the way past my elbow. I was blown away also slightly thinking they did it to make me look stupid
My mom has no money and I won’t inherit anything when my dad dies (his 3rd wife and her kids are his favs). I accepted those facts and I’m OK with it. In fact, knowing I have no inheritance or SO has caused me to work harder to invest for my future. Now, I have to fend off all the Nigerian princes who want to know if I ate today! 😂😂😂
Secomd case, just because she was there does not mean she was entitled to the money! A trustee is just in charge of dispersing the finds to the beneficiaries!!if she was NOT clearly defined as the beneficiary as well as the trustee, then she is NOT the beneficiary!
The Bible says “The dead know not anything the living do” so this young lady’s grandmother is not bothering her. Satan is seeking to deceive her. Nor do our loved ones go to heaven upon death. They will remain in the grave until Jesus returns. Please study your bibles so you won’t be deceived.
I’ve seen this before but, shame on people that won’t let the dead rest . When people are in a casket they aren’t gonna look the same cause make up going to make them look younger. My grandma (92) and brother (47) passed away they both looked younger Fixed up in a casket and I was thinking my brother didn’t look like himself cause I never saw his hair fixed like that …
These instances are truly disheartening and somewhat disillusioning. Families who have shared years together suddenly find themselves torn apart when faced with funerals and expenses. I've consistently remarked on this in every instance; there are often unseen complexities stemming from underlying issues that propel them into legal battles. More often than not, these problems had already taken root long before they escalated into legal matters. Litigants frequently emphasize, 'We've been family for 30 years,' highlighting the duration of their connection, yet within those years, unresolved conflicts serve as the primary catalyst for their courtroom confrontation. Each case echoes a recurring theme: families grappling with financial strain, which serves as a testament to their struggle in addressing deeper familial issues. Money, regardless of the length of familial ties, tends to be the force that ruptures familial bonds. It's disheartening to witness the unresolved issues surrounding the core of these cases, sometimes unrelated to the legal matter at hand.
2nd case that dude was delulu lol!! She put her brother as beneficiary on her life insurance policy and her cousin as trustee and she was the beneficiary over her bank account, then she really didn't trust her son to handle her affairs correctly! That and that haircut lol, tells you a lot about the son! And he must not have ever seen someone with cancer when they pass... they look like a different person.
I kinda get the man that thinks it's not him mom in casket cause my mamaw suffered for 3 months dieing with cancer and she was unrecognizable at the end..he just can't be at piece to let go, like he regrets doing something
There's no excuse for not being there for someone that was a good parents. I don't care about anyone mental health. I had emotional breakdowns in the hospital while taking care of my dying mother. i still stuck it out the same way she had been there for me all my life. People have become so self absorbed.
@@LIVEINPEACE2023 did you not read my response? I do have mental health issues. I broke down so many times while my mom was sick. I even wished at that time that i would die with her. But being there for her was more important. I even had a day that i showed up after drinking cause i needed something to numb the pain and fear. I'm sorry but theres no excuse for abandoning family (if they've been good family. )
@@kittyb275 : There is an excuse, and it's a good one. If the family member lives and works in another state where it costs money and time to travel and be there, then that is about the best and only excuse. When our parents died, my sister was living and working in Nevada, and they died in Nebraska, but my brother and I knew and understood that she couldn't be here with them in their last days. We did communicate as much as we could by phone.
So she saying her mom was in her right mind so I’m wondering why was she trying to say that she wasn’t in her right mind see that was just all about the money I’m convinced! For the love of money is the ROOT of all EVIL!
My aunt was completely unrecognizable in her coffin. I get his grief, but he's geasping at straws That said "trustee" doesnt mean the money is hers... Edit: so he had a right to be upset because she was saying trustee and he knew that wasn't right.
Have a family meeting BEFORE, attending any business establishment (dealing with funeral arrangements). Start with a prayer, while joining hands. This strife, illustrates this family state of disagreement within each other. It's a continual state of dysfunction.(The first case).
In the second case, why is the judge being so rude about him thinking the woman in the casket isn't his mother, the judge says 'so you think they murdered someone?' WHAT? no they mixed up two women and the one that was supposed to be cremated was put in his mother's casket and his mother was cremated beforehand by accident. I bet the mother didn't know that 'in trust for' didn't mean 'trustee' so the defendant got lucky...
A sickly elderly person once dead don’t look anything like when they were alive. My dad was ill for a while and once he died, my sister who live far away couldn’t recognized her.
