Dee as a trans fan I can tell you that it's not transphobic if you don't want to date someone who is trans. You're 100% ok with having a genital preference. The only issue would be if you were disrespecting trans people which you are not so don't worry you're good. If you were super rude like " hell nah I wouldn't date a trans person! that sh*t's disgusting ewww wtf" then that would be hella rude. You are being respectful and saying that you have a genital preference and that if you date a man you would want them to have a functional regular penis. That's valid and ok so yeah no worries! 💕
I agree so much! As a lesbian, there’s trans women who think it’s transphobic if cis lesbian doesn’t want them. It’s not at all. Trans people should find someone who likes them for them. And not go after people who don’t love them.
I once got into an argument because I said that it’s not transphobic to not be attracted to transgender people. You can support trans people but not be attracted to them. Someone who was part of the conversation started comparing it to racism and I just stopped talking because they were just saying anything at that point
As long as you don’t misgender them in the process, it’s totally fine. But a lot of the reason people say it’s transphobic because of the way people verbalize their reasoning.
Really because the ignorance is coming from ya'll. What she said was *"There are plenty of masculine men that wanna do butt stuff, but I don't want to do butt stuff."* And the twerking thing she said was a reply to a comment about (it's literally the first thing she says before she talks about it). You guys are so quick to call someone ignorant, but Have you ever wondered that maybe your the ignorant one.
@@fanfantasia2553 and he’s ignorant too for saying that. I don’t discriminate sweetheart. But let’s not act like she wouldn’t have said it regardless cause a lot of women say the same thing unprovoked.
It's funny how people try to guilt other people about who interests them sexually (or who doesn't). Sexuality is like food -- you like what you like and you don't like what you don't like. There are some things that you don't really even have to try to know that you're not into -- just like some foods. I don't like beets but I don't judge people who like them; at the same time, I'm not going to explain myself or not liking them.
It's also funny how people negatively go after people who are minding their own business; dating whomever and eating whatever they want. When people are incredibly invasive and what have an issue with what you consume or who you are attracted to lbr. Complete strangers that go that go: "ewwwww, you like that?!?!" There are more of those people than anything.
Just because someone’s bisexual doesn’t mean they twerk or do something stereotypical to their sexuality. Though it is perfectly fine to not want to date a bisexual man, it’s kinda annoying to say bisexual men do this or that when people are individuals. Everyone is different. (Not you Dee, I’m talking about the lady in the video)
When Kita responded to the video about dating bisexual men she said that’s she didn’t want to see her man twerking in the club because the guy who made the video talking about it said that “is it because I can twerk better than you” you you just didn’t watch the full video. It’s missing a few parts.
It's funny how people get upset if someone doesn't want to date a trans or bisexual person. But wasn't the entire LGBTQ movement about having a CHOICE in who you wanted to date?
Exactly i 100% agree with the trans thing but i don’t understand why somebody wouldnt want to date a bisexual person? But yeah everyone is free to date whoever they wanna date
No. It's about the awareness that any sexuality can co-exist with each other; that spectrums of identifications exist; and how to raise awareness regarding DISCRIMINATION and being EXILED; ... and you're using the word "CHOICE" oddly.
@@emilyyy6220 If you understand the trans thing how don't you understand the bi thing? Because you're bi yourself? It's literally about having a preference. What don't you understood about somebody only wanting a straight person? How is that hard to comprehend? Everybody's sexuality isn't the same.
I wasn’t expecting the last part of dees explanation of what she wants that actually works lol 😂 I’m was crying 😭 at want their genitals to be god made 😂
No, not wanting to date a trans person does not make you transphobic. It’s just something you’re not attracted to. It’s no different from a gay man not wanting to date a transgender man or a masculine lesbian not wanting to date another masculine lesbian. It’s simply someone or something you are not attracted to and it absolutely fine. People are so quick to be offended now a days.
Francesca is a italian name ( not sure) but it is writen Franceska and it is pronounced different in english then in europe so it cant be ch like chest
Yeah that tiktok is dumb. All of the names they mentioned are not from American English, so it doesn't makes sense to judge them based on American English rules.
Why am I getting n the road listening to Dee rant and I think I’m getting pulled over by the cops but it’s just sirens in the background if the video at 11:35
Listen not dating a trans person is just a preference if you think its transphobic thats like saying because you dont prefer to date withe men ur racist like wht??
