Laban now it’s time to care for yourself. None of your relatives are sick or disabled. Build your life young man, you have one life to lead. You do Not owe anyone anything. Help your family when you can but you cannot carry all their burdens. As for the church the church has other members. Your stepdad ain’t gonna change, he will not love you so stop trying. All da best.
@@labanmaina9706 ukimaliza kulipa loan chukua ingine ubuy plot matuu ama kwenye zinauzwa cheap, jenga ata single room huko you get a wife muishi huko. Those your parents and siblings they will come kukutafta siku moja, don't help them anymore if it's not a matter of ugonjwa,build yourself now
Hauko peke yako, Tuko wengi. Mzazi wangu huniskia duvia. Wengine nyuma yangu huskizwa sukari. Mamangu aliolewa na mimba yangu. Kutoka hapo, chuki baada ya chuki. be strong. Mimi mzazi wangu, ata Salam, ni miaka Sasa. Nina mzazi mmoja. Mungu pekee. Hunipa yote. Wengine ni history. Niko peke yangu Dunia hii.
Atakama sijawatch sana ....pole sana but this man is in great pain n his heart is bitter may the Lord God give him peace of heart n mind really ....anahitaji counseling .... That he may talk his heart out .
Laban, don’t be a toxic empath. Focus on repaying your loans. Then build yourself. Don’t force yourself on to people who reject you. You are precious. I support you to stay away from your step father because he is the source of your pain. God will take care of you. Forgive your step father because in so doing you heal. But stay away from him. Spend your money on yourself or anything else you want but not on people who reject and disrespect you. Love yourself.
My advise to this young man is to begin thinking of his own life from now on and forget trying to please his parents. They will never appreciate him onaetungumania atia. Ona kanitha tiga kūmīkua ūrī wiki tondū niyamūingī.
I say exactly that....it was not even necessary to build a house to a step father who wants to be paid for his house to be built and yet he is struggling.Na angekuwa sonko...let him keep off that toxic family.
Wooooi may the Lord see this young man through.He has gone through a rejection and the pain is evidence.he is a good man and loves his family.earning little but so much committed 💕💕💕💕💕💕
May my mum's and dad's souls rest in peace. I remember the way they used to bless us by spitting on their chests even after giving them a five hundred shillings note.
This gentleman amekosa a shoulder to lean on Jane Mwangi plz msaidie until a heal soo heartbreaking ..... ... To Laban a thousand day's is lyk a single day in the eyes of the Lord... He is able to change your test to a great testimony ....... JOSEPH'S BROTHER THEY DIN'T KNOW WHAT THE LORD HAD PREPARED FOR HIM IN A FOREIGN LAND WHERE THEY SOLD HIM AS A SLAVE .... WITHOUT KNOWLEDGE THAT HIS DESTINY AWAITED HIM THERE...later on he came to their rescue .....Just be patient u may not see it know but Trust the Lord Your destiny is far much greater than it may be thought of . Shalom shalom shalom
My son thank God for what you went through..it was for your own good..you will rule that family..on one condition..forgive yourself, forgive your parents n sibling even friends who in one way or another hurted your heart..that way is key to open door of your DESTINY...
Very sad and painful story, parents let's always bless our children and not cursing na tuwe tunasuport and appreciate their hustle. May God bless the work of your hands Laban.
Waaooo am happy kw kujua am not the only one mwenye amepitishwa mangumu na baba yake ,,,my dad enye amenipitishia ,chuki enye ananichukia to an extend ya kwenda akinisengenya kw marafiki zake na kunilaani for nothing adi huwa najiuliza maswali na mm ni second last siezi sema ati mamangu alioleka na mm ,,,mm hushindwa mbona anichukia ivo kutoka nkiwa mdogo
Laban, Proverbs 26:2 says, "As the sparrow in her wandering, as the swallow in her flying, So the curse that is causeless alighteth not". Any curse without a cause has no effect on your life. And whom God has blessed no man can curse. It means that if you did nothing to deserve being cursed, that no matter how much someone tries to curse you, it can't land on you. Your case is a case of a toxic parent with no iota of love in his being. Forgive those who have caused pain in your life and don't be bitter with them. NOW, concentrate and FOCUS on your life! You have a life to live - do your own things now.
Laban, l am sorry for what you went through and l want to applaud you for speaking out. Having said so, it's important for you to know that you are not alone and most of us can relate with you 💯. The solution is what most people in this comment section are saying to you. Focus on yourself. Ain't no need to live a life trying to prove to your family you are worthy. Most of us don't even care about what this world says about us. Have peace and l pray you get the courage to say enough is enough. Peace.
Focus with your life hata sisi tumeona mengi but we thank God we are still alive nanotugutonga niundu wa mwathani wihe hinya mwana witu sasa wazazi wako kama hawajachange to this points weee tarira muturire waku riu tafuta life yako sasa mungu atakubariki
I Thnx God nliolewa na my dota akiwa 1yrs,na saa hii ako University, na hakuna mtu anajua nimeolewa na yeye coz" babake"anampendavile vile tu anapenda wale nizaa hapa
I would like to see this man for me to make sure he change his perspective ,he is in bigg danger and can make him to live in poverty if he don't change that paspective,I wish he can remove bitterness ,
This is the stroy same me l try to do something to mum she doesn't appreciate anymore,,l saute my grandma for walk wit me this journeys n to give love l deserve.
Even some of real parents acts so.the only way is to go far away n mind your own life.but ameongea ukweli ukiona mtu ameamua kukaa life fulani usimulize ama umuchekelee without knowing his or her story.never judge anybody
My brother thama Kwa muthuri ucio, Mimi Sina wazazi Na Sina brother ama sister, Na Bado naendelea Na Maisha, Wewe Uko Na bahati Uko Na Mama Yako My advise is Toka Kwa huyo Mzee uende kabisa guhika Kwa mundurume Ni kumagara
Mimi mpaka saa hii hiyo pain haitawahi Isha Kwa maisha yangu ata mimi nilikuja kuchukuliwa na baba yangu Kwa mama yake akanigonga na bakora Huwa ninaumwa mpaka saa hii na mimi ni third born
Nii dahikire na mwana kairitu mother inlow aheaga shiana kidu akamwima bere ya shiana iria ingi muthenya umwe amuhinguriire kioro atari nguo agiiteithia ati athii kioro Kia mwari nanikieru no Ngai Dari thome atoi mwana ushio niwakirathimo daumire nangimuthomithia e wira wake nonii dietikirite mwana wakwa aherithio ati todu dokire nake ningeua mtu dukamake mwanake irathimo nishiaku🙏🏻🙏🏻
Laban..never give up in life ,because there is God in heaven. 1 day you will stand infront of many ..with your testimony . You made it through. Blessing in Jesus name.
The reason why i didn’t get married i give my son the first priority in my life,i wish You can have a to forget about that family for a moment and do your things God is with you
Mother's stand with your kids..especially out of Wed lock kids..some go through hell at your watch..they will never forget what they went through and this grows to bitterness..you too will never find peace
Worry not bro,,Ngai ti mûndû,,what your father did not know,,we niwe kirathimo kia musie usio,,,for your own sake,,era Ngai ahonie ngoro yaku,,,akuhe thayû wamatha,,
He is a strong and great minded man ..i remember back in ngara last year i had rented a house not far from his shop where i used to buy milk ...feel motivated brother
Very good reason from a smart man. People who were abuse in their young age develop anger and became abusers if they do not heal from the pain. Hope you get healed. Do not carry your family with you in all you do, they will break you. Focus on yourself. Some parents discriminate against even biological children, what a shame.??!!
My step father is better than my birth father I owe My life and upbringing to him and my mom , men like that are rare that embrace kids that aren't theirs with love and utimate sacrifice like he did for me
So many of us can relate with your story. I learned the hard way, blood is no longer thicker. Pls don't try to prove yourself to people. Now start building yourself
This is my story😢😢😢😢 i went through hell....but God is so faithful....i made them pround..niliwajengea nyumba na nikawasomeshea watoto...4 brothers till now I'm the bread winne in that family ....i thank God sijawai kosa..working in gulf for 8 yrs have seen the God.....giving me favor. Later on my dad apologised and now we're good friend.
@@labanmaina9706 take wambui's advice but don't forget urself, you have a life to leave n hope you're heart ♥️ will have peace as not easy when it's comes to parents.
He is a good guy.But the family is toxic.Just work and stay away from them.Jijenge kivyako your hardworking and kind.Wacha kujipendekeza kwa watu hawakupendi.God will bless you na utaenda far.Remember the song by Denis Mutara...Tiga kwíyedithiriria
wambui's advice is very appropriate and important. Laban must also avoid anything that may antagonize his father for his own good. he must also understand that harboring bitterness is like him taking poison and expecting his father to die...bitterness only affects you not your enemy
Injured past/ child trauma & unmet Emotional needs growing up. Unless its dealt with through self awareness ,seek counsel then its carried on to generations.. May You heal.💓
Kuna Mungu binguni..yeye hananga ubaguzi..step children tumainia Mungu.most step parents need God's wisdom and knowledge..n.a. wakubuke watajibu kwa Mungu for every word or action you deed to your step children
Hello wambui...Kindly tell the Young man to save for his life and start personal development. it would be wise for him to keep off for at least four years When he grows and develops much better they will look for him. times heals and tells a changes. Quick recovery to the soul.
It's time to build yourself up or else you will end up loosing yourself. I also chose to build myself now because I realised that people have their own pre determined decision so you might live to try to please them in vain.
My prayer goes out to Laban as God lives and reigns be comfortable with who you're, God loves you and you've a great future ahead of you. So as to heal forgive yourself and others and forget about those fake curses that are spoken out of nothing. Remember God can bless or curse and as long as you do right God will bless you. Wambui your final words are always full of wisdom and you can make a very good cancellar God bless you too. Lots of love, hugs and kisses for both of you 💚💚🤗🤗🤭🤭🙏🏻🙏🏻🔥🔥
Hehe am in the same shoes with this guy bt mine is worst.u are lucky hata high-school ulipelekwa..mm nlimalizia class 8 na masomo ikafika hapo.i have been hustling here and there and by the grace of God today am a better person..would like to share too my story when time comes.
May God be with you always laban and the way we used to laugh together when we used to fellowship at Mwagu new testament i didn't know that u had such a painful past may God heal you completely
