What is a Wednesday without our Lebonza ?🤷🏾♀️ As per usual Bonzys 1. Let's watch the ads pretty please 🙏 2. Let's like👍 comment 🗨and share➡️ the video to our friends and families and their friends and their families 3. Let's sit back and enjoy the Vlog 💃🏾💃🏾 4. If we can super thanks 😊 that would also be appreciated 😉
I personally feel like the wedding process is a personal thing. What you and your partner wants I the correct thing. I can't come and say you're wrong for doing things a certain way, that's not my love story to tell. Its beautiful that Martin loves you loudly, and wants it to be known that he is married. He said "I feel like people don't believe me when I tell them I'm married..." Sis, that's special, most men make women walk around with an engagement ring for 10 years, no lobola and they just a waste of time. Go buy that man a ring, surprise him with breakfast and just put the ring on his dish on the side something like "as long as you're happy, I'll always says yes to you". Then go shopping together for the actual wedding bands. I think sometimes we take away the enjoyment of the wedding process for the husband, this husband is intentional not only about you but also about enjoying the process and being a part of it. Let him have it. Alililililjl🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉riyeriyeriy😂😂re ja ngwana❤❤❤❤Still exhilarated for you guys ❤
Haibo Remza? 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 yoh Thank you so so much for this. I’m going to execute it exactly like this. Let me screenshot this even. Keyaleboha haholo fela ♥️
Did I ever tell the story about how I went to the auditions but the queue was too long and I couldn’t go in 😂 This just reminded me of that. Thank you my love ♥️
Oh and they can do an indoor dinner even in their balcony for Seithati to put Martin the ring after they have bought it instead of him putting it himself😊 for him to feel special too cause he deserves it💯
That pink nails are giving, I remember you did them I think last year they were giving also.❤ The pep talk about friendships, I so hope that people get to meet their right circle of friends. Great vlog, thank you Thati.❤
Hey Thati, regarding the ring topic. I personally think that He listened to you when you asked for dreamy proposal and it wouldn't hurt getting him what he wishes for right now, which is a ring🥰 Please go ring shopping with him so that he can pick what he likes. All the best, I love you both so much 🥰
Kindly allow Martin to wear the ring, that's so lovely and rare...He loves you loudly,so many men hide their rings out there...i loved this vlog, always enjoying ❤
My husband proposed and then paid lobola, it wasn’t dreamy but to me it was sentimental. He got a ring 2 years later because I felt he can’t go around without a ring knowing he’s traditionally married. For me it makes sense to have both of us wear bands even without the “big white wedding”.
I can’t live without you and your little giggles 😂😂 ..”my ring n l says Hi guys “ l died 😂😂 ..your makeup always eatssss bonzey ❤❤ “ we don’t love life to regret things” I’m running with it ❤❤
The part where you spoke about friendship is so true, and I’m glad that my friends and I have formed meaningful friendships, always showing up for each other🥺🥺. Pls get Martin his ring
Look at God ,remember when you wanted to have 22k subscribers as your birthday gift and now you just chilled and not rushing “dilo di changitse magowa”❤
I’ve been married for 12 years, I think because Martin wants a ring now, maybe do consider to go to Home affairs and make it official there before the white wedding then he can wear his ring. It’s not usually a norm to get the ring first before the wedding so rather go to home affairs.
The kind of love Martin gives you is the kind which gives us hope that we have our own husbands waiting on us out there and can only pray we get there. I’d buy him a ring in a blink of an eye because I’ve seen men who are suffocated by a ring and most would prefer not to have it on but not Martin, he loves you so lousy and wants the world to know he’s a married man. Mo rekele wena ngoaneso and make it special. I trust you’ll make it right by him too just so that we see more of that smile and our favorite pose❤❤ 46:20 to add onto this, he didn’t have to propose after he paid for lobola but because he wanted to make you happy, I don’t think you have to follow any protocol on this, just buy that man a ring I beg😭 May God protect you guys now and always
I also watched Lisa’s vlog. It was absolutely beautiful. And yes, friendship is such a beautiful concept. Ekare re ka e thola bohle hle. Mrs Obama actually explains it so beautifully in the book ‘the light we carry’ a re it’s a social convey. They carry different parts of you and just when it’s needed the most, they put them nicely, and present them to you
I understand that Martin feels left out, so I feel he can get something that's temporary or get the actual ring then he can get it polished for the wedding.
From my side I'd also want for my partner to have a "proposal" ring. Then on the big day maybe personalise his "proposal" ring to the actual wedding ring or get a new one. ❤
I love the fact that Martin also wants his ring, please buy him 1. We not used to guys also having an engagemnt ring, but things change. You can change it😊😊
Dumelang ausi Thati. For me personally IT IS NOT a problem if you buy a ring for abuti Martin and he wears it because you guys have already done the Lobala negotiations and the ancestors have agreed and accepted the union. Ke maphelo a lona so you guys are 100% allowed to make decisions that are good for you guys and based on what the both of you guys agree on. ❤ I don't normally comment, i just watch but Thank you for this beautiful vlog. It was wholesome 🤞😍
Personally for me it’s the devotions(your thoughts) at the end of the video that I love so much. I screenshot them to share at our prayer session at work on Fridays. Thank you so much Mme for sharing you’re heal and encourage us❤
Hey Mrs M, my husband paid my lobola on the 17th of December 2022 and same day he proposed. He didn't wear a ring the whole year then we got married last year on the 23rd of December that's when he started wearing a ring. All the best Lebonza🤗❤️. Please don't forget to pray and pray and pray and pray
Enjoyed this vlog and oh wow those Stanley cups/tumbler 😍🔥Love them soo much..Your relationship with your friends,learned soo much I have learned to appreciate very friendships and I'll hold onto them cause I have found my tribe❤ I honestly believe that if my partner wanted one after Lobola and proposal I'd go shopping and let him wear his ring😄
#roadto70k Guys am I the only one who feel bad for watching their favs vlog days after😭 The week was so hectic for me I couldn’t tune in I feel bad😂 Enjoy the vlog Bonzie , I can’t wait you to show us the tribe the day you find it ko woolies❤
Banna ba Stanley hle bathong 🤭🎉… Please get him that ring..there’s absolutely nothing wrong especially when the traditional way is done already. Love you Bonzie❤️
My husband wanted a ring before the wedding too so after the Lobola we went to sign 3 months before the wedding. I didn't want to make him feel some typa way cause I also got things my way like proposal first then lobola so I gave his excitement a chance too❤️
I agree with you Thati. That’s how we did it as well. My hubby paid lobola, then I got my engagement ring and had my wedding ring at the wedding which was a wedding band to add to my engagement ring. Hubby then got his ring on his wedding ring (we chose it together). But I think since Martin wants a ring. Maybe get him those black rings that guys wear or any affordable ring and he will get another one on his wedding day.
😭😭my love for you mara😑🤧Looove loove it here❤️🔥🔥 Also regarding Martin's ring, get him a temporary one "engagement ring" then you will both wear your permanent ones on the wedding day. You know how couples wear promise rings? Like both of them. Yes.😂😂 and i think it would be sweet if you surprised him with it.
I repeat Thathi is really breath of fresh air...watching your vlogs really uplifts and motivate me in ways you could never imagine. Thank you so much for being you.. 🌺
Hae mare guys you are not liking vlogs tsa Seithathi how can it be on 12 thousand something but the likes are only 2 thousands. U are not fair shame. Anyway I think the idea of getting a ring us fine actually I love it.u guys are married so rekela ngwana batho ring hlena.
Always nice catching up with you Lebonzy... Thank you once more for such a great content. And please, if Martin wants to put ring on that finger... Sis let him do so a tsebe ho ho majiteng ka palamonwana like you said! 😂
You were so relaxed throughout this vlog love that for us, just you remembering us with the give away, wooow I'm already happy to us for the love that flows God has truly showed me love through friendships and I consider them family. Thank you for always sharing words of encouragement
I never comment ne but today I had to, just to let you know gore I watch the ads tlhe. So keep telling us, we hear you. Even with subscribing, there was a time I thought I subscribed then you spoke about it n I just decided to check, only to find that I hadn't. ❤❤ amazing content Thati, God bless you.
When you touched on friendship, I also cried coming to think off were I come from with my friend I'm greatful.. its unfortunate that other people have bad experience on friendship.. Such a nice vlog thank you❤
Enjoyed this vlog. When you spoke about friendship, Ono bua kanna. I live for friendship and I am actually grateful for my girls because ke mona ka bona ❤❤❤. We love you Lebonza
Maybe you could get Martin those silicone rings that sports people wear, then when he gyms he can wear that instead of his actual band once y’all have tied the knot…
I was at China mall yesterday, I looked for Arab perfumes but didn’t find any 😢…thank you so much for sharing the name of the shop, I’m gonna go look for it
Love is such a beautiful thing.. When you are loved dearly and loundly 🥰🥰❤️💋 I'm definitely one of the winner 🏆🎊giverway perfume 😂😂.. I love being a girly and smells Rosey 😻
Your vlogs are so calming hle bonzi When you play i am mess in the background it really touches my heart and the little words of encouragement at the end of the vlogs always uplift my spirit please don’t stop❤❤❤❤❤