Nakakaganda kasi kapag itinitreat ka ng maganda ng straight na guy. Natural kasi and hindi sa kanila awkward kaya madalas namimiss interpret natin. Hindi lahat ng straight guy ay bigot at homophobic. Sino din nman kasi ang ayaw maitrato with sweetness. Basta iba. Nangyari na din ito sa akin before and I must say na kahit ganun kasakit, it really done a lot para magmature ako. However, kailangan lng natin mahanap yung sweetness nila sa sarili natin and instead, be intelligent in choosing romantic partners. At least alam natin what quality in other men feels good for us. Napakanaive and pure ng feelings kaya hindi mo makakalimutan.
I had a relationship sa straight guy na kasama ko abroad (workmates) but it took only 1 month kasi may girlfriend sya pinas and ako na nakipaghiwalay dahil ayaw ko maging selfish kahit mahal ko pa yung guy kasi nakokonsensya ako kasi may girlfriend sya. But in the end naging mutual naman ung decision na mag seperate ways kami and now happy ako for him kasi married na siya now. I hope we can get exact loved that we give to other people. Hugs 😘
Nakakarelate ako sau. This happened to me as well, falling for a straight guy friend. Agree much , "never assume, unless otherwise satated". I'm still friends with them. Yun isa kinuha pakong abay sa kasal nya. Then, yun isa naging ninong pako ng first-born nya..😊
Relate much. Marvin, we have something in common, honor student from elementary to college but lumantad ako at age of 32 pero demure pa rin dahil laking Probinsyano. I prefer straight rather than Bi. Kesyo may datung involved or di pangmatagalan. Just enjoy your trip and be happy
Buong video na to nakangiti lang ako kasi relate na relate ako hahaha, nagkagusto din ako sa straight best friend ko, 4 years kaming mag best friend, gaya sayo sabay kami sa halos lahat ng gawain sa school, pati sabay kami umuwi, tapos same din tayo sa part na nagseselos ako kapag may kausap at masaya sya sa iba, same din tayo dun sa nagpabebe at dahil don na awkward sya at umiwas na, nawirduhan sakin, and same din don sa part na pag sa classroom ako lang tao, lalabas sya hahahhaa, pero ako kasi umamin sa kanya i wrote a song for him, a confession, then after that di na nya ko pinansin for almost 7 months, then after that nagmessage sya and naayos kami pero may ilang na at yung closeness namin ay hindi na gaya ng dati, kamustahan nalang ganon. so para sakin yung aral na natutunan ko is, Huwag nating pilitin yung taong magustuhan tayo at mag expect na gusto tayo, wag nating asahan na susuklian nila yung effort at love na binibigay natin,
Actually this happens talaga khit anong gender mo. Especially sa mga nice na tao. It was late for me to realize that " Hindi dahil single ka or pede sya seo eh kailangan jowain ". Minsan mas tumatagal pa ung friendship at mas ok pa ang maging friends kesa Lovers. Ung mga exes ko nk add pdin sa fb ko kc we end in good terms. Khit nag asawa na cl yeah at Hindi kmi nag uusap na.. atleast nkikita ko ung pag evolve nila into something more fruitful in life. Godbless and more Power po sa inyo ..
Same setting. Same character (role). Na-fall din ako sa straight guy. I really don't know kung anong pakay niya sa akin pero umabot kami sa point na magkatext sa gabi. Naggogood night, nag-ily pa nga eh. Magagalit kapag hindi nakapagresponse sa ily. Umeffort din na makitext sa iba para sabihin na wala siyang load, "expired na load ko, nakitext na lang ako, goodnight", etc. Basta ang bilis ng pangyayari. Hindi ko na siya pinapansin, hindi ko alam kung anong nangyari sa akin. Nag-iba trato ko sa kanya. Ang cold ko. Pero ang pagkakatanda ko, gusto ko lang din ng lambing. And idk kung nahihiya ba siya mag-approach sa akin or ayaw na niya din. Tamang parinig na lang ako sa text, uso pa kasi ang GM that time. Ewan, baka na-toxic-an siya sa akin. Lagi na lang kasi ako ganun. Baka nga ayaw niya ng ganun. Kaya sorry sa'yo (i mean sa kanya). Ito legit to ah. Kung ano na nagpapasaya sayo ngayon, mas masaya ako kasi nakikita kong masaya ka. Ingat ka palagi ah? ❤️
i can totally relate to you Sir. mine happened with my previous work. i dont know kung pano nya nalaman un but he became distant to me. biglang naging awkward ang lahat. magkatabi kami pero d kami nagpapansinan. it really affect me to the point na I quit my job. now he's getting married. and i am very happy 4 them. i totally moved on. never assume unless otherwise stated talaga.🙂
I've always been in love with a straight guy. Based on exp boys oftenly get closed to us (discreet guys) not knowing na ganito tayo. Simply because gusto lang nila nung friendship na nakikita nila satin. Yung comfortable lang sila kasi sakto lang yung tandem. Hindi gaya ng ibang straight friends nila na mas more angasan at asaran lang.
Haist, relate much. If only i have the control na hindi sabihin sa kanya na gusto ko siya, di sana mas okay pa friendship namin ngaun, anuways! Nevermind regretting atleast kahit na ganun nangyari sakin, naging honest naman ako sa sarili ko at nailabas ko ung feelings ko sa kanya, and tingin ko mas madaling tanggapin yun kahit masakit kesa sa unspoken feelings, mas masaklap ang mga "what if"s kasi malay mo gusto ka din nya dba, di lang naging open kayo sa isat isa, 😊
Such an adorable story from you vin... I love d way you share it, with al your smiles and kilig moments.. Very charming personality,, and you bring us some kilig (im 57 years old and discreet)... Good luck sa iyi,, and you will always be.. loved.. GOD bless you always
Nakakatuwa ka po magkwento.. feel na feel talaga reminisce ang college days. Hehe Napapangiti ako habang pinapanood kita. 😅🤭☺️ OMG one sided love nangyari! Sayang.hehe
Same here Kuya Marvin, bat ganun kapag nalaman na nila na may gusto tayo sakanila, bigla nalang silang iiwas or minsan mararamdaman mo na nanlalamig na sila sau, kasi yung closeness parang nagkaroon na ng gap. kaya ako kapag may gusto ako sa isang tao lalo na kapag straight, mas pinipili ko nalang itago. para kahit papaano, walang magbago sa friendship nio😢
I freakin LOVED this #StoryTime episode - sharing your honesty, heart & embarrassment with us - made me giggle throughout [so entertaining!] as I could totally relate since I've experienced similar in my college days - "My cravings for today's video ay #LAMBING ..." ROFLMAO 😅 BUT in all seriousness, I appreciate your making us gay guys feel LESS alone in our embarrassing experiences 🌈🙏💞
Gusto ko yung mga ganitong vlog mo, Marvin.. Kakaaliw ka magkwento.. Mas masaya siguro kung talagang nagkukwentuhan tayo nang personal. Somehow, nakaka-relate rin ako sa mga story time mo. Haha! 😅
New subscriber here. Sana next vlog mo lods, meet mo just to clear out and be friends. Hahaha Pero I think nothing wrong naman siguro if maging friends kayo since you know your stand now. 😊 Masarap lang na kahit papano after your have been through maging friends na kayo for real..❤️ I dont know if possible, masarap lang isipin na friends nalang kayo. Agree! Kasi sayang ang friendship built. But siguro tadhana nadin, importante naman you've learned from it. ❤️
I also have this experience nong 1st year college ako. may classmate ako na guy na sobrang bait at naging crush ko tapos nag chat kami nalaman niya na crush ko siya pero mas lalo kaming naging magkachat. pero parang i have this feeling na parang mas lalo akong mahuhulog kapag magkachat kami ng magkachat tapos parang di ko alam kung ano ba nararamdaman niya. siya kasi yung straight guy na parang soft tsaka ambait. tama yung sinabi mo na assuming lang talaga tayo na akala natin gusto tayo yun pala mabait lang sila at yun naman talaga ginagawa nila kahit sa iba. it's really sad lang how we think of something na di naman talaga.
hi! ngayon lang nakapag subscribe, been watching some of your latest videos and i only comment here...hahaha nakarelate lang.. may mga lalaki talagang darating sa buhay natin na magbibigay lang ng masasayang memories tapos iiwan ka din sa huli,
I have been in this situation so many times hahahaha. Tatanggapin mo na lang na hanggang doon lang talaga kasi masakit kapag napaso ka. Pero totoo, nakakahaba ng hair kapag extra nice yung straight guy sa kagaya natin.
But it was also happened to me in 18yrs relationship namin dapat ksi my self respect , understanding,love , tapos nag asawa na sya ,until we are friends ,parang extended family ko na sila and di ako nag sisi dhl mahal nila ako hanggan ngayon
I like your story. Kinilig ako ha. I felt your struggle. But it was a learning experience and it taught you how to know more yourself and be aware of what really straight guys should be treated without malice.
Thanks for sharing ur story. Nangyayari naman talaga din yan sa mga straight boy-straight girl relationships but kadalasan c boy ang assuming na gusto din sya ni girl, pero ang ending na friendzone c kuya at di talaga sya feel ni girl na maging jowa at tulad din sa kwento mo na nagbago ang tingin sa kanya ng girl na gusto sana ni boy na lambingin sya nito at one time kasi feeling insecure na sya sa tuwing makita nyang fond c girl sa ibang kaklase o kaibigan nila. Tama yung comment ni Jeff Villanueva na it happens in all genders, hindi lang sa str8 guys-gay guys. The lesson here is that we should not expect reciprocation in every stage of a growing relationship. Pag feel ka talaga ng isang tao na maging romantic partner nila ay talagang mag ma-manifest yan sa motive nila even if it's against their personal standards of getting involved in a relationship (for example just in case being subjected to a gay relationship due of a bad or a traumatic heterosexual experience or a political or cultural constraint like the case in most middle eastern countries like Saudi Arabia that most straight men are never allowed to marry a woman if they cannot pay their dowry to her parents, and due to their repressed libido they vent it out to other str8 males and luckily to the gay guys available) but most commonly mag involve talaga yan ng monetary o financial motive. Di man talaga maging sexually attracted na ang isang str8 guy sa isang bading one day, kasi pag str8 guy talaga sya ay sa babae lang talaga sya magkakagusto at wala, as in wala talaga tayong magagawa dyan just like most people especially our parents wants us to be straight pero wala as in wala din talaga silang magagawa sa kung ano talaga ang gusto natin labag man sa religion o sa heterosexual preferences ng iba. Otherwise everything else is platonic and that's what we gay guys often miss the picture because we often forget we are physically in a male body just like them. We expect that str8 guys would reciprocate our gay feelings because we think they would eventually be attracted to our "female" attributes with our emotions and mannerisms regardless of being in a man's body. But the good news is, most straight guys nowadays is ok with gay sex and the bad news is don't expect romantic relationships with them because it's not gonna happen at all unless if they're bi or gay too. There are many good-looking straight-acting muscle gay men out there (my type if course!😍💪😜) so why not give it a good shot? Anyways most gay guys aren't really romantically attracted to straight guys just because they like women but because they exhibit the straight macho attributes of a typical heterosexual male (they way they walk, the way they talk, and most especially the way they look very manly and handsome, admit it Marvin!).. Now, bakit pa natin pahihirapan ang mga sarili natin sa mga purely str8 guys when we can get our ticket to romance with the equally handsome, manly and straight-acting bi's and other manly (closeted) gay guys out there?? Str8 guys will always seek the real female form because that's where they get their carnal satisfaction of their desires equipped with their innate pride of being a heterosexual male virile and capable enough to beget offspring from a female.
mostly sa bi men, sa straight/bi women ang ending. Ayaw ma judge/criticize ng society kaya dun cla pumupunta sa mga merlats. Kumbaga safe cla, ndi mahahalata or masabihan na gays cla. Kaya karamihan sa gay guys, ayaw sa bi men.
Love this story. Nakarelate ako in some ways, I had a HS close friend and every day kami maghangout (basketball, billards, video games, etc) and to a point na fell inlove ako sa kanya , but i choose to just keep it to myself... iyak iyakan ako deep inside and outside rin kapag magisa (emote yarn). I thought i'd save the friendship na lang. Nag College kami our friendship slowly changes and parang less attention and time na ung paghangout namin, siguro dahil straight talaga sya, he would eventually hangout with other people and eventually have GF, which he'd hangout with more often... another iyak moment ko. Yun siguro nakapagpamove on sa akin nung malaman ko na may GF na sya and come to my senses na its hard to fall inlove to a straight person. Nawala na ung closeness namin. He's married (not the same girl) na rin with a kids. Ako naman ito closeted gay parin that's slowly coming out.The funny thing is, I have 3 bestfriends and all of them are Straight and i'm happy i can say I love you to them without any malice and i'm happy that they say I love you to me as well which i know they mean it (not romantically as they do know i'm gay).
Medyo relate to my experience during college days but opposite the situation at that time I am not sure myself and my feeling to him so I ignore it.... I like ur vlog today bigla ko tuloy naalala yon mga good memories.
Hi I just randomly came across this vid and I HAVE TO SAY, THIS VID BROUGHT BACK SO MANY MEMORIEEEEESSSS!!!! Been in the same situation before and I can totally relate. Thanks for this! you gained a new subscriber *wink
I accedentally saw this and watched 😂 it hits me sa part na " ginawa kong mundo ko " at sa marami pang bagay. . Now na mature nako, i know better i realized a lot of things. Kaya natutunan ko na its okay to be friends with straight guys. Pero wag lalagpas don. Period. And those what happens in the past serves us a good lesson to be the better version of us in the future.
I really like Vin how you tell a story. Napaka-genuine and hindi bastos ang dating. Tumatawa lang ako while watching and listening to you, sympre nakaka-relate din. hahaha!
hays, nararanasan kopo ito ngayon kuya Marvs, napakatimely ng story time mo na ito sakin. Gaya mopo, accountancy student rin po ako. Honestly, graduating napo ako this june. As an accty student, totoo po talaga na iba parin ang may study buddy. kaya po naging close kami ni kuya guy na ito. nung 3rd year po kami sabay kami na broken. sya from his long term relationship na almost 7 years ako naman po with my first bf. so yun, to make it short, naging sandigan namin ang isa't isa. sinabi nya rin sakin na nakatulong daw ang aking presensya sa pag momoveon nya and ganon rin naman ang pakiramdam ko rin sa kanya. na part rin sya ng healing process ko. so yun, lage kami magkapalitan ng message at arguments about accounting related topics. he checked all the boxes ng standard ko. Matalino sya kaya ayun mas nagpapapogi sa kanya. Sya ang pinakamagaling samin sa FAR at ako naman ay madalas icompliment ng grupo na gamay ang TAX (at kinikilig ako everytime na nagagalingan sya sakin. tingin ko dagdag ganda points) . kapag ka major exam nagkikita kami kahit online class lang haha magkatabi kami nagtatawanan. Sabay kaming dalwa uuwi maglalakad at maguusap ng personal life at plano sa buhay. Minsan kapag na da down ako at naanxiety, isa sya sa nag roroot sakin na kaya ko raw ipasa ang board exam ng isang take lang dahil mabilis daw reflexes ng braincells ko hahahaha. Ang hirap nyang hindi mahalin kuya Marvs, alam mo yun? kase tinulungan nya ko mag grow at magheal as a person academically at emotionally. ngayon, nagwowork na sya at ako ay nagrereview for upcoming cpale... ironic lang yung kasabihan sa ating accty student na, "don't assume unless otherwise stated" pero ang poqpoq na ito assume ng assume ng ilang taon.🤣
Masarap sa feeling na may care ang isang straight guy sa atin yung feeling na alam nila na gusto mo sila na mag papa cute lng sila sayo and by that youre happy na rin not expecting anything more.Simple joy❤️❤️❤️
Sobrang relate ako dyan marvin, nagka gusto rin ako sa straight guy, sobrang maalaga sya sa akin nerespito nya ako , hanggang sa nalaman nya na maygusto ako sa kanya , friend lang talaga ang turing nya sa akin at sobrang iniyakan ko sya ...pero naka move on na ako , friend parin kami hanggang ngayon.
I think hoping ka pa rin na makasama siya. Ako nga recently lang nagkaroon din ako ng feeling na ganon with my friend sa bago kung work. Tsaka may times na feeling ko may gusto siya sa akin. Tsaka nagseselos din ako. Hayss,, sana
Sarap talaga pag kwentuhan mga ganyan bagay lalo na with coffee. Hehe. Not exactly been there Vin, but i have a lot of straight guy frnds, they treat u nice but i’ve nver assumed na they like back romantically bcoz they styrt nga. Lesson learned, ahm control ur emotions in a sense that don’t be assumed. Pero nakakatuwa ka magkwento Vin. Hehehe
Wow naka relate ako dito...same experience..pero pinigil ko feelings sakanya ayaw ko kc masira friendship nmin..college nmn may nkilala ako guy straight sa school naging friends kmi then 1 day niyaya nya maginuman with friends then paguwi nmin niyaya nya mag motel nagulat ako sabi nya gusto daw nya magenjoy so ayun we had d best night..sa knya ko laht na experience hindi ko expect gagawin nya.haha
I also fell for a straight best friend nung college ( close pa rin kami now though) I thought also na may something sya sakin. Niyayaya nya ako matulog sa dorm nya. We watched cinemas na kami lang . Ako yung go to person nya pag gusto nya gumala at bumili ng kung anu ano. And that time super hit yung “my husband’s lover” na series sa gma. So tinatawag nya akong “bhe” . Seatmates kami by the way kaya no choice katabi ko sya sa halos lahat ng subjects, and also magkasunod bdays namin kaya we celebrate din our birthdays nang sabay. Until nung year na malapit na kami grumaduate, umamin ako sa kanya. Kasi nalilito ako. And I don’t wanna regret telling him na na fall ako sa kanya and baka ganon din sya sakin. So baka need may maunang umamin. Umamin ako sa text. Turned out sabi nya, Mali ako ng iniisip . Sorry daw kung namisunderstood ko yung actions nya. Sa sobrang nahurt ako, and parang feeling ko defeated ako , humanap ako ng ibang jojowain . Hahaha. Reason ko is, para magkaron ako ng excuse na after school may ibang puntahan. Di ako Sumabay sa kanya. Then after a year kami pa rin nung Jinowa ko noon. That time uso naman yung kantang “mahal ko o mahal ako” so casual naglalakad kami kasama nung bestfriend pa naming girl. So tatlo kami. This time pala, okay na kami ni bestfriend. Pero parang mas naging touchy sya sakin , at clingy nung nalaman nya na May jowa akong iba,. Sabi ko sino pipiliin Nila, mahal nila or yung mahal sila? Sagot ko, yung mahal ako. Sagot ni bestfriend, yung mahal din daw sya. Sabi ko “kaya pala” sabi nya “ bakit sino ba hindi nakapaghintay?” Then kunyare nabingi ako, pero di nya Inulit yung sinabi nya. Until now, iniisip ko pa din yung sinabi nyan yon. Though may long time gf na sya now. And okay na rin kami as friends.
nakakatuwa ka real story tuloy tuloy at nakuhanan ng lessons sabi wag umaasa baka mali ang naramdaman mo may tao talagang mabait at maalaga kaya minsan tayo inaalagaan ma fall sarilihin na lang at pakiligin ang sarili mo inspiration kung baga ingat ikaw balikan kita po naubos yung slot ko hehe
HAHAHAHAH iba talaga kapag tumama si "karufokness." It is regrettable to assume things, especially when someone already shows "special actions." However, we should also need to clear some things, specifically the relationship with someone. But you know what? Isn't it a sweet thought when someone also gives back the feelings you wanted for so long? Isn't it nice when that "special" someone also reciprocates the love or actions you craved for a long time? But isn't it also sad that your relationship gradually broke up when that happened? So, it is safe to say that we should always guard ourselves. But isn't it cute also that sometimes we should just let ourselves free of hold-ups and just let ourselves fall for someone?
Hello Marvin,new subscriber mo ko and I like mga content mo.U know I'm very much older than you pero nkAka relate ako sa mga escapades mo before hahaha 😄. Expecting for more vlogs please 🙏😄
nung college ako nagkaroon ako ng crush sa isang guy na ka major ko sya sa course, and then na love at 3rd sight ako sakanya then pagnakikita ko sya papalapit at may mga times nadadaanan namin sya eh umiiwas ako, nagtagal tong feelings nato 5 yrs na pero hindi ko naman inaamin sakanya, naging friend ko sya sa fb pro inanftrend ko kasi talagang tinatamaan ako sakanya, nilabanan ko lang naman kasi feelings nato kaya inanfriend ko sya. hanggang ngayon maygusto parin ako sakanya ewan ko kung bakit until now kung bakit ...tinatry ko naman idayvert sa iba, kaya lang pag nakikita ko sya tinatamaan talaga ako.
I super agree 💯 my mga straight guys na gusto ka kasama even if your gay and ang hirap hindi mag over think especially pag nagigiing sweet sila sayo 😅 you have to control your emotions tlaga ng malala.
Wow relate ako dyan , pero ako n lng nag paubaya , but we are friends ninang n lng ako ng anak nya …. Luv ko pa Rin sya … musta ka so till now wla kp pre nahanap ….. Rick Uk 🇬🇧
Hi Marvin Im new subscriber mo. fan or adik ako s mga BL stories although im 47 yrs old girl and single parent. na tutuwa kc ako sa mga ka tulad MO walang arte kc kyo. gustong gusto ko Yung mga gay n nd nagddress Yung normal mag damit like a guy p din. Alam ko masarap mag mahal ang mga LGBT Ma selos nga lang😂Sana magkarun k ng mga stories about gay couple fav ko kc makinig or manood ng mga BL series or movies at stories. ingat k palagi Lalo n s luvlyf❤️😊
“When you least expect it, nature has cunning ways of finding our weakest spot… look, you had beautiful friendship, maybe more than a friendship… we rip out so much of ourselves to be cured of things faster that we go bankrupt by the age of 30 and have less to offer each time we start with someone new. But to make yourself feel nothing so as not to feel anything - what a waste!” - Elio’s father ( Call Me By Your Name, 2017)
Relate n relate ako...bestfriend ko xa sa college...pero di tlaga nya alam na gusto ko xa until now...haha.ako pa ang gumawa ng paraan nuon pra mag date cla nung girl na gusto nya...oouucch😩😩😩haha.. Bsta graabeee ung ginawa ko pra lng xa sumaya at maging gf nya ung girl😭😭😭 Bsta...share ko n lng nxt tym...🤫🤫🤫
KASING UGALI KO UNG GUYS ON YOUR STORY.... i would say i am too because, many times that happend na every time I feel or every time i found out na nagkakagusto na ung kina close friend ko at any gender, i do always to keep distance on that person na i feel nagkaka gusto na sakin like na halata na talaga sa actions nia na may special feelings sa. Hindi naman sa nag fefeling ako no, pero how many times na ganun ulit nangyayari pag meron talaga ako kinaka close. May nangyari pa nga na nagulat ako kasi may sexual movements na sya! To the point na huhubaran nia na ako and atemped to kiss me. (Pero syempre hindi ako pumayag) and i know parang napahiya sya dahil sa pag tanggi ko, pero explained na malaki ang respeto ko sakanya as my valued friend! Kinausap ko sya ng mahinahon na sabi ko naiintindihan ko feelings mo pero hindi ko sisirain ang friendship natin kung masamang kaibigan ako baka diba pumayag ako na may mangyari. Pero hindi ko pinayagan kasi ung respeto ko sayo at sa friendship natin.🙂🙂🙂 then niyakap nia ko, niyakap ko sya, nag sorry sya sakin. (sabi ko okay lang hehe,) friends parin kami until now. Payo ko wag mahiya mag confess ng feeling natin towards foon sa person na nagugustuhan natin sabihin natin kung bakit natin sila nagustuhan, para malaman natin ang sagot, at dapat ready tayo sa magiging sagot nila. At makapag explain sila if ever hindi kau same ng nararamdaman😊 un lang po... Sarap mo siguro ka kwentuhan pre!! Ang daming kwento sa buhay... hehe
