What’s even more hysterical is the gender stereotypes, some girls grow up to be tomboys and won’t automatically turn out to be a pink barbie girly girl and some guys grow up to be feminine and won’t automatically turn out to be a macho manly man. Girls can like bikes, rock music, wearing tees and jeans, getting messy, and Boys can like fashion, theatre, pop music, and skin care
The worst part about these gender reveal parties is the amount of waste they create and the harm they cause to the enviroment. I wonder how many animals and trees died in the wildfire and how many fish died because of the blue dye. What these people are doing is horrifying. Edit: Watched more of the video and it just gets worse. The pidgeon dyed pink reminds me of those chicks dyed blue to be sold and die a week later. Absolutely horrible
And its not going to do something at all a boy could love barbie and a girl could like cars and a boy could like pink like girls could like blue these gender reveal parties doesn't mean something
@@buzgucu4594 I was just talking about in a different comment thread the gender stereotypes, some girls grow up to be tomboys and won’t automatically turn out to be a pink barbie girly girl and some guys grow up to be feminine and won’t automatically turn out to be a macho manly man. Girls can like bikes, rock music, wearing tees and jeans, getting messy, and Boys can like fashion, theatre, pop music, and skin care
like if i have a kid, i just want a simple cake and like those little smoke things at my own house. there’s no need for all of these things! edit: the little small fireworks smoke balls is what i meant* not those big ones in the video.
@@buzgucu4594 Isn't gender reveal only to for pre/newborn babies ? I mean, a baby doesn't care about the color of his/her reveal and while, yes, pink for a girl and blue for a boy is stereotypical, it's pretty normal to associate these colours for these gender. After all, we associate white for wedding and black for funerals.
The worst part about this, to me, is that the woman who invented gender reveal parties only did so because she had previously had multiple miscarriages, and she wanted to celebrate the fact that one of her babies had survived long enough to the point that its sex could actually be determined. It was purely meant to celebrate life and joy, and people have taken that concept and completely fucking ruined it.
If this is an agreement paper, I'll sign it multiple times. Almost all people on earth went crazy since COVID-19 pandemic. Who invited this extreme level of gender reveal parties (not that woman in 2008, which started this trend; it was purely meant to celebrate life and joy.) should be ashamed.
It’s basically people trying to one up each other and see who could have the coolest reveal. When my sister was born, we found out her gender through ultrasound. Afterwards, my mom called everyone up and told them. Gender reveals don’t need to be so extreme.
2:23 You can see only five people running to the plane, checking if everything is alright. FIVE FREAKING PEOPLE. While the others are cheering. Thats just sad. May the pilot rest in peace.
When I first saw the video, I saw the version of the one person that was recording that was actually concerned I never saw the version where the girl turns back like a plane crash. It’s no big deal. It may look like it’s a graceful crash, but there’s no such thing as a graceful plane crash And just because it’s a small plane doesn’t mean it’s not going to be bad if they crash it’s actually worse
my mom didn't even gaf about my gender, she was just like "wow, baby" and never even hosted a gender reveal party because she thought it was a waste of money and that it was useless 💀
What’s even more hysterical is the gender stereotypes, some girls grow up to be tomboys and won’t automatically turn out to be a pink barbie girly girl and some guys grow up to be feminine and won’t automatically turn out to be a macho manly man. Girls can like bikes, rock music, wearing tees and jeans, getting messy, and Boys can like fashion, theatre, pop music, and skin care
These gender reveal parties should become a relationship test: if your significant other acts disappointed by the thought of the baby having a different gender than the one they desired, or if your significant other prioritieses their friends over you, then it’s time to pack your bags.
To add it up with Funkyfrogbait's most recent video about gender-reveal parties, this world's humans' obsession with their future-offspring's gender is insane and dangerous. People who make too big a deal over their child's gender at birth should neither biologically nor adoption-wise have children or non-human companions.
Yeah I saw that video too. It's kinda disgusting how these kinds of parents react when they don't get the gender they wanted. That's just a recipe for parental neglect or worse, abuse.
How anyone can be so obsessed with the genitals of their unborn baby is beyond me. Humans are way more complex than girl = pink and dolls/boy = blue and cars. What happens if their kid is intersex? Or later turns out to be trans? Can't people just be happy if they are lucky to have a healthy child?
We overlook a park. One day I heard what sounded like a fun, looked out the window to see pink smoke rising in the air with a group "Nóooooooooooooo!" People were covering their faces, kids running around shaking fists and the look of disappointment on every face except the weeping pregnant woman. I couldn't help yelling out the window "Woo hoo!!! The world needs more women, you go girl!"
I would say something along the lines of an OG Dick Masterson quote as a joke, but then I realized there’s a Boy Mom epidemic, so I’ll shut the fuck up.
If people are going to be disappointed about having a girl or a boy, they should not have any children at all. Also those mothers whose partners choose to celebrate with their friends, should prepare the divorce, because that's not a healthy relationship.
I've given birth twice and we went the old school way of revealing the gender. It's when you give birth and the doctor tells you. Easy peasy and no glitter involved.
I don't think it's a old schooled..it's sensible one.. because in old schooled one ,u can able to tell about what gender they will be getting and if there is a girl they would abort it..which make these telling gender banned
I know everyone is entitled to their own feelings, but something about couples with multiple healthy children being so disappointed with a gender reveal makes me feel a bit sick, knowing how many people struggle to conceive at all or have sick or severely disabled kids. A child's gender seems so trivial compared to any real issues. When my partner and I found out we were having a daughter, we got multiple remarks from loved ones as well about how much trouble she would be. Some people around us were visibly disappointed. Why does it matter? She is a healthy baby and she's so wanted and loved...
I couldn't agree more. And why would anyone say something like that to you instead of just being happy for you? I'm happy for you, stranger. Congratulations! 🎊🎉
I DID NOT ASK + MY CONTENT IS BETTER. I'm a 30+ year old media creator with aspergers syndrome who is a jack of all trades with a passion for fighting against cyberbullying. I've been doing these kinds of things for over 10 years and I've picked up a whole set of different skills along the way.
As someone that can't get pregnant (I'm not bitter at all... Promise 😊), I feel sad for children with parents that feel the need to be upset bc they couldn't get the gender of choice for their next baby. I'd be happy with one or multiple of the same gender of children. It sounds like a fun way to grow up and less expensive.
I went to a home gender reveal party (uk), and it was actually simple. My aunt and uncle had a balloon they'd pop, and me and my grandad had these things that shot confetti when you twisted them. It wasnt overboard like these ones. There wasnt any gender dissappintment. People can just be normal, so why dont they?
For my gender reveal party I would 1. Bake a cake 2. Food color the cake blue or pink and white frosting 3. Invite people over to eat cake That can literally be it. It doesn’t need to involve explosives or try to one up others. Just be with your family. That’s what it should be about.
AGREEDD, why tf do these parents think it’s all about flexxing instead of just love and wishes for a healthy pregnancy. This is supposed to be an event for you and your family/community not social media 🤦
That sounds like the original gender reveal including cake pops I think And many people just used balloons with colored confetti and food But how did it become this
i really do think these people should be held accountable in the legal sense, i think they also should pay for reperations for anyone harmed or anything damaged during a gender reveal. im so tired of the human race.
idk I'm not American and I find a concept of a gender-reveal party to be very sweet. BUT! I imagine it to be a little homeparty with relatives and maybe little treats with pink/blue colours or a little funny competition. And I think that the whole point of those parties should be a reason to get together and celebrate the miracle of giving new life independently of gender 🥺 Also, I think that mothers reeeally need to see support and care and it is a nice way to show it
I m not American and I find this parties totally narrow minded..in one side playing human equality sh*t and then doing such things only to be disappointed
I remember one of my elementary teachers was pregnant and would sometimes give us updates on the baby's size. She also put on a mini-party towards the end of the year that was just a fun little reveal since we were all curious. We got blue candy canes and vanilla cupcakes with blue icing, and that was pretty much it. It was fun.
For us people usually mash together the baby shower and the gender reveal, "we're having a kid, the gender is inside the cupcakes, please for the love of god give us your old baby clothes" 🤣
8:34 you can even hear in the background someone say “I wanted it to be a boy” so now the guests are pissed bc the baby isn’t the sex they wanted. Absolutely wild
The thing is... whether it's a boy or a girl DOES NOT matter. The gender of the baby doesn't determine their whole life nor their personality. It's A BABY. You can still have just as much happy memories with a boy than you can with a girl. I does not matter!!
What’s hysterical is the gender stereotypes, some girls grow up to be tomboys and won’t automatically turn out to be a pink barbie girly girl and some guys grow up to be feminine and won’t automatically turn out to be a macho manly man. Girls can like bikes, rock music, wearing tees and jeans, getting messy, and Boys can like fashion, theatre, pop music, and skin care
What’s hysterical is the gender stereotypes, some girls grow up to be tomboys and won’t automatically turn out to be a pink barbie girly girl and some guys grow up to be feminine and won’t automatically turn out to be a macho manly man. Girls can like bikes, rock music, wearing tees and jeans, getting messy, and Boys can like fashion, theatre, pop music, and skin care
I'm pregnant with my third currently but during my first pregnancy the girls at the office threw me a gender reveal, we had a simple cake that I cut into and the color inside the cake was the reveal as well as a pamper party which I thoroughly enjoyed. My boss spent a pretty penny to treat us all to a nice BBQ lunch as well. I'm thankful I did it but I only did it during my first pregnancy because I was surrounded by women who were older and involved with in my business as they witnessed the whole three trimesters lol.
I chose not to find out with either of my 2. There was nothing that could take that moment from me. Seconds after birth I took my newborn in my arms and the midwife said "Look and see what you've got". It was a beautiful, magical personal moment. Nobody got hurt, died or trashed the environment.
Yesss! I did this with my second (last) child. And I wish I had done it with my first. The experience and suprise was so fun! Made for a fun game at my baby shower where everyone voted what they thought the gender was by wearing a pink or blue clothes pin. It was cute and fun. And the day my daughter was born, I remember just holding my tint baby on my chest and crying. And since I pulled her out myself, no one knew the gender for a moment. She just laid on my chest until everyone in the room was like "WHAT IS IT??" And couldn't wait any longer. I just said "IT is MY baby and I don't care" lol. I eventually looked after a minute or so. I just wanted to snuggle her...
my family’s gender reveal party is just sending the members the baby’s gender in text apps and that’s it. 😅 we celebrated when the mother was actually pregnant. i don’t mind gender reveal parties, they can be fun. but please for the love of every holy deity and textbook don’t make them as risky as whatever this people were doing.
I don’t get why it’s so difficult for these parents to just order a cake with coloured frosting inside, or getting a balloon filled with coloured confetti. You still get to find out in a fun way and it doesn’t hurt anyone.
@@Gnexz.Well if it’s done indoors where they can clean it, it’s just find!
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If I'm ever pregnant, I would want to know the gender immediately but might buy neutral clothes. Not going to throw a baby shower. I'm pretty sure I'll be considered high risk so don't want to get excited in case of miscarriage
As someone who has a mom who said she never wanted girls and ended up having 2 daughters after she had a boy (my older brother) … yeah let’s just say my older brother is the favorite child. I know my mom loves me but every time she brings up How she never wanted girls because they are “too much” really tells me a lot about how my parents just should of never had more kids if they couldn’t handle the idea of having daughters.
I'm so sorry for that. I know how it must feel. I remember a conversation came up about what our mom thought when she was pregnant with each one of us. My two brothers all she could say was how happy and excited she was. For me the only girl all she could talk about was how it would be great to finally have someone help her around the house and do all the chores.
It’s all good! I think our parents just don’t know better. It still hurts as the oldest daughter but I just have learn to do better then my older family members and call out the bullshit.
Gender reveal parties are not a thing here in Malaysia, and I am absolutely grateful for that. I can't imagine all the crazy things some people here would do if it was a thing. But after looking at this video, I think we aren't as insane as we thought.
My friends just had a joint birthday/gender reveal. It was just a nice simple event that was mainly to let close friends and family about the new baby and celebrate a birthday at the same time. They had stickers for people to choose team boy or team girl, then later in the evening they pulled a small hand-held confetti-cannon and cut into a cake. Nothing left the event space and it was an easy clean-up. Honestly the worst part of the event was the fact the restaurant messed up the food lol. I can appreciate these kind of gender reveals because it's on such a small scale and really just a get-together with a theme. These crazy over-the-top stunts are just ridiculous.
It’s like who needs to go through so much to reveal the baby’s gender and put people’s lives at risk when you can simply share the news over a nice meal or a phone call, or just keep it a surprise until the baby is born.
What’s even more hysterical is the gender stereotypes, some girls grow up to be tomboys and won’t automatically turn out to be a pink barbie girly girl and some guys grow up to be feminine and won’t automatically turn out to be a macho manly man. Girls can like bikes, rock music, wearing tees and jeans, getting messy, and Boys can like fashion, theatre, pop music, and skin care
My niece (5 at the time) was dressed in a bright summer dress against her will, she kept shouting "I want shorts!" My sister wouldn't change her, UNTIL five minutes later the little princess came into the house with dirt in her hair, and all over her dress, and she had the sweetest grin on her face. My sister wasn't pleased, but after that my niece always seemed to have shorts on. 🤣😂
Yes!! My brother used to wear dresses when he was younger and he has long hair now, i'm a girl and i'm not intrested in makeup and almost never played with barbies
@@sunnytsuu I know, I'm sorry. I know it's a bot, I just felt like speaking up because there's a time and a place to promote yourself, and under a comment mourning someone's death isn't one of them.
30 years ago, I was pregnant. Due to some medical issues, I needed an amniocentesis and I went to a specialist for it. I was asked if we wanted to know the sex of the baby and we said no. We loved waiting and finding out on the day he was born!
Omg the waterfall makes me want to cry! I found out both my kids gender at the ultrasound, then text the ppl who would care.. these stupid reveals have been spinning put for the last decade plus. So crazy OK I got to all the deaths , holy ish 😮 they really didn't care when those planes went down! 😢
I was told that when I wasn't born yet. I was seen to be the opposite sex that apparently they were slightly surprised when I came out. Imagine having a gender reveal party only to find out OOPSE, THAT WAS WRONG XD
my best friend is 8 months pregnant right now and her gender reveal was: her and her bf went to get a set of boy baby clothes and a set of girl baby clothes from the store, he knew which she was having before she did, picked the corresponding outfit and put it in a gift bag for her to open. they both decided on this together, I watched from facetime too and we all laughed a lot and got very excited and had a joyful time. when you don’t crave attention from the whole world memories are made safely :’) idk what these ppl are on about
I've only ever been to one gernder revel party, hosted by this lady from church. She was saying how she didn't want a girl, and that if it was a girl she would try again or adopt a boy, because she would just be too disappointed... she already had a 9 year old daughter, and she would say this in front of her... she did have a boy but I wonder how terrible the life of a little girl would have been in that family.
I cake. A simple cake with food coloring. Classic. Also saw one with cupcakes that was adorable, but you always have the one-biter that might forget what they’re there for. 😂
5:49 bro this couldve been done so cute AND eco friendly, get some pink wildflowers or blue wildflowers or buy some white flowers and dye them to blue or pink with food safe color in their water. Then find one of those balloons that won't pop into a bunch of pieces but will stay in one piece of plastic to clean up so it wont fall in the water, and fill it with petals instead of glitter or paper or plastic pieces like ...
People shouldn't care whether they are having a "boy or girl" with BS gender normative colors. I'm a guy and my FAVORITE color is pink. Always has been. The ONLY thing that should matter to a couple having a child is whether or not it is going to be healthy.
I agree with you. My friend had two miscarriages and a stillborn before she was able to have two beautiful daughters. She and her husband were grateful to have children.
True. I'm a woman and my favorite colour is blue. I don't like the colour choices for the genders as they are too stereotypical, but it's a tradition, it has always been that way and i don't think is changing. I think it's not harmful as long as these gender normatives stay on the cake only.
When my mother was pregnant with me, she didn't have any gender reveal party, she knew already what gender she's getting. These people are polluting the earth way more. It's heartbreaking.
I'm so sick of this divide with men and women, we are 50/50 on this planet. We have to try to get along, we're supposed to compliment eachother but all I see is the spreading of pain.... Also im so sick of censorship, why can't I speak freely? Why does what I say have to be deleted because a noncurseword is flagged. I just want to be able to speak freely
My gender reveal was Harry Potter themed. A pink onesie folded underneath a sorting hat. Wasn’t the coolest thing ever, but it had no effect on the environment. To be completely honest I had no desire for a gender reveal, but my sister really wanted to throw one. I can totally understand the want for gender reveals, but like maybe bake a cake with blue or pink under the frosting you cut into? Or just one of those simple things. The gender of your child should be something to be celebrated yes, but never to such lengths and extremes. The fact that a man lost his life. I don’t care how much money I spent or how excited I was, If i see the plane go down I would be running to see if he was okay, F the gender reveal my baby’s safe inside me, that man in that mechanical death trap is NOT. People’s priorities are absolutely insane.
No mine did that as well. For all three kids. Everybody did assume I was going to be a boy for some obscure reason, even the doctor went "oh it’s a ginger boy" before realising I was a girl - or so the legend goes. At least it’s an interesting story 😂
I'm a Mum and Granny. When I found out I was pregnant (8 weeks along) I was super excited! My husband was thrilled and asked me if I wanted him along when I went for my first scan at 4-1/2 months because he wanted to know the sex. I turned to him and said "It's a girl". When we told the prospective grandparents, they also asked us if we were going to find out the sex. Again I said "It's a girl.", and so on and so on to friends/other relatives. Surprise! (NOT!) I had a beautiful baby girl Then when my daughter got pregnant, I told her what she was having for all three of her pregnancies (girl, boy and boy). Her partner said, "You can't know that. We're going to ask when the scan is done." LMAO! She asked me if she should try for another girl and I just noped the fuck out of there. I did this for friends when they asked as well and was right each time. What can I say? It's a gift 😁
2:04 That plane created too much thrust from the “pink powder” or whatever tf that is. It reached a high angle of attack as a result of it, the wings couldn’t handle the g-force, and it looks like it snapped? But regardless, the plane stalled at an alarming rate :/
I'm so glad you spoke about this. I was watching RU-vid shorts and was horrified to see a big plane with loads of pink smoke for gender reveal it's just not needed I think cutting into a coloured cake or something is just fine people go to far .
3:40 I think it's a cultural kinda of thing, a lot of Mexicans joke about disturbing topics as a way to cope but they rarely mean it. I think they were actually really fucking scared and they were just taught to joke about stuff of that nature (it's still completely inappropriate to do that don't get me wrong.)
Can confirm, they will joke about anything it's not out of ill intent it's just a coping mechanism. They're the sweetest kindest people I've ever met and they've taught me to not take life so seriously. It does take some getting used to their type of humour and I've been told many times when something was spoken out of turn and I looked horrified that "we're only joking"
Yeah. It’s obviously a VERY different vain than the clip of the people just laughing and continuing to celebrate not acknowledging what has just happened.
One thing that wasn’t mentioned was that the first gender reveal party happened because the women had so many miscarriages that when she finally got a pregnancy to where she could tell the gender she wanted to celebrate, so it was more of a celebration of life than anything
the ones where the dads are so pissed about having a girl is just so fucked. Idk if my dad cared this much (we didn't do gender reveal parties) but they were trying to get a boy, had 6 (or 7 to count out deceased sister, never born). It felt like they were just continously pumpin' out kids to get a boy and were disappointed everytime after like. the first 3 kids were afab. It is not a big deal, i would be so hurt seeing them freak tf out or be so openly disappointed. I am glad they never did these for me to see -_- it would be crushing
What’s even more hysterical is the gender stereotypes, some girls grow up to be tomboys and won’t automatically turn out to be a pink barbie girly girl and some guys grow up to be feminine and won’t automatically turn out to be a macho manly man. Girls can like bikes, rock music, wearing tees and jeans, getting messy, and Boys can like fashion, theatre, pop music, and skin care
@@GarudaLegendsThat's the same thing. You don't "have to try again" because you didn't get a boy. It also means the other "tries" were a failure to them. That's pretty disgusting.
@sylverscale stop being dramatic. It is common for many parents to want a son or daughter. If a father wants a son but gets a daughter, he wont hate his daughter or treat them any different than if she was a boy. If i ever have kids i want a son. If i get daughters i wont treat them any different than my son when i finally get a boy. Stop being fake mad for no reason, because it is cringe.
@caitlingill I imagine it may also have to do with the care each gender takes. With a boy they'll generally have to protect him against himself & the weird stuff he may get himself into & otherwise they'll just let him do his own thing, while with a girl she must be protected against the weird things other may try to do to her even into adulthood. (Both things apply to both genders though it's generally disproportionate) Along with dealing with periods (in general as well as in terms of extra costs). I can understand those who just want to experience both sides of parenthood but it is a bit messed-up seeming when they only aimed for one gender & are visibly upset over not getting them.
This is absolutely getting out of control! Like you said, what's wrong with a simple cake reveal? Not caring about others getting hurt or dying or even the environment just bugs the hell out of me! Starting a wildfire costing millions? Dyeing a bird pink causing it to die? I have no words.... Love your videos and look forward to each one!
I blame social media, social media has basically turned everything into a competition of who can do it bigger, better and more extravagant. I bet that some of these people care more about how many likes their gender reveal videos get, than the actual gender of the baby
I used to feel sad that I never had a gender reveal party and now I really don't 2 reasons. It's ridiculous like you said. The second reason is I gave birth to 2 girls 17 years later. I now have a son and a daughter. My son is transgender, so you never really know what you're gonna end up with. Not that I need to put it out there, but I fully love and support my son. Just as I supported him when he was my daughter. Just as I will both my children, no matter what their gender is.
Also, who says your child's gender decides what toys they get or what they're interested in? Maybe your future son might want to play with dolls. Maybe your future daughter might want to shop at GameStop. Kids - especially kids that young - almost always don't care. If they feel they can't play with a certain toy or go to a certain store because of their gender, it's because they were taught that.
Didn't even have one for the only child I have. Literally found out from a blood test bc I was at high risk for downs syndrome. Got the call at the gas station and lost my shit in the parking lot lol. Had a Halloween themed baby shower. That was the extent of my crazy baby parties. The worst ones are the ones where everyone yells NOOOOOOOOOOO!!! Srsly yall grow tf up
The fact that the last time I had watched a gender reveal was people eating cake pops, and a random one had either blue or pink icing. Now I see them, and it’s literally KILLING and injuring nature AND people.
Go for something cheap just, like get a board, out a bunch of balloons on it, if u pop the right balloon color will fly out, there, like $30 maybe even a lil bit more, or the cake thing, and c if there’s a blue or pink icing, or blue or pink m and ms
The fact that dads don't want daughters and dads don't want sons is very sad. I have two older brothers both almost in their 40s and one older sister my daddy was a static for all of us this is just very sad you can't choose the gender you want and I'm hoping we never decide to do that because that would be very scary love him for who they are. If you didn't want them don't have them
This is why I rate my colleague who invited her close friends and family to cut a cake to reveal the gender of their first born, which from my understanding they were trying for 7 years to get pregnant. As for me I have 2 children and my friends and family waited until after their birth for me to announce their entrance into this world. Gender reveal should be for couples like my colleague, they shouldn't be a thing for every pregnancy.
First off it infuriates me when I see mothers and fathers throw a fit and get all mad bc things didn’t go the way they wanted it to because they wanted a boy so bad instead of being grateful that they had a girl BETTER YET A CHILD IN GENERAL!! Especially since some woman struggle with infertility and want children so it really does make me mad when I see videos of husbands and wives being ungrateful about the gender of their baby.😤
I used to work in a bakery and saw some cute ideas for a gender reveal. Like the person would hand us the sonogram photo in an envelope, we’d look and then hollow out the middle of some cupcakes, fill it with pink or blue frosting, and then use mixed colors on top. There are cute, SAFE ways to do gender reveals
8:26 i dont think anyone understands that THE DAD IS WEARING PINK…. he wanted a girl while the mother wanted a boy CUZ SHE WAS WEARING A BLUE DRESS, the father kept painting because #1 he has expensive equipment in his hand so he cant break it. the father WANTED a girl while the mom did not, the father should get no hate what so ever
Whatever happened to just letting family know on Facebook or in the group chat? Whatever happened to just buying a simple cake to cut open (WITHOUT something cringey on it) or just letting the gender be a surprise? And don't even get me started on the fools who pitch a fit when the baby isn't the gender they wanted (usually when the baby's a girl)! Those fools don't deserve to be parents and if the kid ends up mad at them later, then so be it! People are losing their lives and damaging the environment over something that's so stupid! Remember the super genius who set off an explosion that registered on the Richter Scale? Pepperidge Farm remembers. 🙄
It's sad how many fathers get disappointed when they know their child will be a girl, "oh, i won't be able to play football with them and teach them how to fight" as if girls can't do that, it's not 1950 anymore. Honestly, i don't think men like the idea of having a child to love age care for, they love the idea of having a MALE child who can "carry their name" i know there is also mothers who get sad when their child is a boy, but those are pretty rare. Most of the time the man is the one getting triggered because their kid won't have a penis.
Gender parties are fine. I really don’t care on how they go about it if it’s just ppl outside the family is fine. But airplanes is just insane and harming those around them.
I can't wait to get to the point when I have a kid. My gender revel part will just be coloured paper in an envelop, with a few close friends, siblings and my Mum, dad and step mum. we'll have purple Cupcakes
I'm so glad, my parents never threw those and just smiled in joy realizing our genders. May the people who have been victimized rest a beautiful graceful life in heaven.
Having a child is a blessing and it doesn’t matter whether it’s a boy or a girl its still a blessing and I’ve been trying for two years and it is so aggravating to see people and TikTok getting disappointed over a boy or a girl when some people can’t have neither
I love your content because you help manage my anger (like when you are angry, I feel like I am also venting my anger out but for personal problems). TYSM❤
@@pleasepicture.me.in.thetrees from what I’ve heard baby showers are just baby showers, no gender reveals, at least that’s what my mum did, but maybe they do gender reveals with baby showers now idk
Like- having a gender reveal party is fine in my opinion as long as you're like- putting food coloring in a cake or something like that- literally just do something small and simple with friends and family- it's insane how people wanna one up each other constantly even if it means people getting hurt or dying. People are absolutely insane-
