I honestly kinda had the same experience as you lol. It really wasn’t until I started to meet a lot of queer people and trans people that I then asked myself “What am I?” After some pondering (really just throwing stuff at a wall and seeing what sticks) I came to the conclusion that Nonbinary and Aro/Ace feels the most comfortable. It’s always cool to see a journey and also be apart of one. No matter what you are we’ll always be here because you are a really cool person and it’s wonderful to be around you. W Genderfluid
Thank you goat I appreciate you 😭 I’m super stoked to hear that you’re figuring it out too and found something that’s super comfy!! The goal is always to be our happiest selves 😎
YEEEEAAA ANOTHER BLACK QUEER CREATOR FOR THE CLUB!! AS IS THE OCCASION, MY DUDEGIRL-BRO, I WOULD LIKE TO ISSUE A COMPANY MANDATED DAP UP 🤝 SUPER PROUD OF YOU AND SOMEHOW EVEN MORE HYPE TO SUPPORT YOU AS A FAN!! LETS GOOOOO!!
I’m so proud of you Wiwi!! Discovering yourself can be hard, and accepting yourself can be even harder- but you’ve been working so very hard for so many years to be who you are now. Even if things end up changing or you feel something fits you better we’ll be here right beside you to cheer you on and laugh alongside you :>
Honestly man I'm happy that usa dropped me into your chat 2 years ago watching your journey even if I never experience it personally is great ots nice that you feel comfortable enough to share that with us as your community and to us you could be a sushi roll and we'd still love you cause at the end of the day you're WiWi the draconic cat that always makes me smile and that's enough for me ❤
LMFAO thank you homie. You’ve always been so kind to me, and people like you in my community are why I feel so comfy sharing this stuff in the first place ❤
It's super hard to settle on a label when you feel so in-between everything. I went from straight woman to pansexual demi-girl to bisexual nonbinary person. And that was all over the span of a decade! You taking your time and figuring yourself out before you tell anyone was just part of your process. There's no right way to come out, and I'm glad we get to be part of your journey~ Also: Love you bud~
Congrats Wiwi!!! To be honest im in that spot in my life right now and its so nice and comforting to see someone ive watched silently for two years be open about this too especially ano er black creator. We have your back wiwi and i know its a long journey of discovery but it’s definitely worth it and you’re no longer alone! Keep being you and always you! ☺️💕
It takes so much to even just notice something when it comes to your own gender, let alone be able to properly and happily label it as you have. I'm so happy for you, Wiwi!!!
Love you so fucking much dude! Your journey is gonna be different from everyone else's, but that doesn't matter as long as it helps you find your best life
Riri thank u so much for sharing with us! 🫂🩷 You delivery was really smooth and as pansexual trans woman - u are VALID in labels you utilized and can confirm that’s really similar to my experience with a tad different time frame. Went from cishet man, to gay man, to nonbinary to a pan trans woman. Remember you are not a fraud. You don’t have to go out of ur way to prove u r pan or gender-fluid. And you don’t own anyone androgyny or certain gender performance to “prove” ur gender identity. U just are. I’m a woman who don’t transition (disability, laws, and I don’t want to) but I’m still a woman because f**k white suprematist colonial gender binary. And f**k ppl who try to push it onto u. Feel free to explore. It’s okay if your pronounce, gender expression and gender identity could be not coherent things that “don’t go together”. Don’t feel pressured to force urself into a mold because u used these labels. You still pansexual if ppl say “you just not sure u gay” (f word the ppl) and you still gender fluid (even if ppl perceive u as anything different). You are pan and gender fluid not because you need to “perform it” but because you said so and feel like it today. Ok? I’m proud of you for transparency WITH YOURSELF and pls remember - there are already ppl who love you and respect you, and you don’t have to go a mile to prove ur identity to them or anyone. You did amazing gamer, congratulations and I’m grateful you shared this intimate part of you with us :3 🫂🫂🩷🩷
Hihi Wiwi. Dude, I'm sorry you had to go through such a hard ass time. Nobody deserves that kinda thing. And having to deal with it all at the same time... I'm glad that you're finding yourself more and more. I'm happy that you have supportive friends around you to lean on. You're a cool person, and I wish you all the best. Leme tell you, you were one of the peeps who really helped me out even if you don't know it or know how. So thanks for being you. Even when you didn't know who you were.
Wiwi I'm so proud of youuuu!!!! All of your thoughts & feelings are 100% valid. Parts of your journey & the thoughts that your mind goes through in those stages of self discovery I know all too well. You're such a strong, amazing, and sincere person, really happy for you to be discovering yourself & supporting you furthermore!!! 💕✨
Most folks don't have it all figured and labels aren't permanent and are more often used to give a vague idea of a person's traits. To some Bi, Pan, Omni, etc. are very similar and to other they each are distinct and very different. It's up to you to find a label you feel you like the most (It can even just be "oh hey I really like the bi flag colors over the pan or omni"). I'm not sure I can ever claim to have it figured out, I know what I want in a general sense but the self-doubt of "Is that me? Do I deserve this? Is this where I belong?" will probably always haunt me. If you ever wanna talk gender and sexuality, I'm always open for chats.
I sincerely do not remembering subscribing to you but I'm so happy you made this video . This is a well thought out piece and you seem really cool I planned to get into bribing and I plan to do it as 4 personas who all have thier own sexuality/gender/and pronouns so although I will not say I completely understand I do get some of your experience
Hey, congrats on the genders, Riri! 🫂 It takes a lot to figure out that kind of stuff, and I'm proud of you for taking those steps to figure out who you are!! Gender and sexuality is COMPLICATED, and even though I've known I'm Not Cis for a decade now- my label has changed a lot over the years, and after realizing the DID stuff, I settled on not using labels because nothing sounds Accurate. It's hard to figure out, so I'm really proud of you!!
