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She said on her account she is so happy with so many subscribers and feels like a cheerleader. I don’t think a woman wants a husband who is having marriage issues goes and open her own RU-vid account while her his ad wears the wedding band to show her he was willing to fix things. Some woman don’t need marriage .
Thank you for this video. I really enjoyed this conversation and I love the questions you ask Victor. As someone who was born in South Africa and lived most of my life in North America I can say the mistreatment of women is global. I think our global society has failed both men and women. I think these conversations are what’s needed to create change. We must honour women and we must encourage our boys to share their feelings and allow them to be vulnerable. We can heal together. One Love💛🙏🏽✨
What interesting conversation, not being African it’s interesting to have an insight into your Kenyan culture. Victor you are amazing and I can’t think of anything negative to say about your Channel, just keep smiling that amazing smile.More content like this would be very interesting.Thank you.
Fantastic. I enjoyed watching. Victor👏👏. We should strike a compromise between our boundaries and our partiner's needs and desires. Talk about it and agree. Love is a sweet thing.
Wow such deep conversation. I really enjoyed learning more about African culture prospective from Vic and Vinn as well as German culture prospective from Leni. Thanks so much for sharing 😁👍
Hi Victor. Really enjoyed your video. If I may, sexual relations goes both ways. It is about pleasing and exploring each other. A woman cannot always be ready just to please a man. What about her needs? Unfortunately, majority of the men only thinks about his needs.
I had a long relationship with a Kenyan man who did not treat me well. He doesn’t cry, have conversations were non existent. When it came to intimacy he was an animal just jumped on me and only thought of himself only Sad story… I’m from the USA and all he wanted was money 💰
It’s modern times now and life, cultures are evolving, if it’s positive change then this should be embraced. There is a Massai man in a Kenyan village who married a white western woman 15 years ago, His culture promotes polygamy but he never married another wife. The white wife was embraced by the whole village and in turn really respected the village. The western woman is a pioneer of so many good projects in that village and women and children in that village adore her. When they were showing a video of herself in her twenties, it reminded me so much of Leni♥️ The Massai and the white lady are still together to this day. They have a lovely, handsome son who is 12 or 13 years now. Changes can mean development or failure. Which one will you choose?
I think change can be made if there is respect ,honesty and trust between husband and wife. It doesn't matter if it's white women or not. I think also if you are open in others culture and don't disrespectful of it then it works,but if you come in being judgemental about others religion, culture then it will never work
Very thought provoking! We enjoyed the conversation. Polygamy is prohibited in Barbados. I believe that couples should respect each other. Keep up the good work!👍👍
😂😂😂 Hello 👋 Pastor this made me laugh am sure my neighbors wonder what’s making me happy. Thank you for your continued suppprt Pastor Greetings from Kenya 🇰🇪
Your mindful questions shows, that you are a true philosophic being that likes to dive deep into sensitive topics! I appreciate that very much! Thank you for this beautiful interview ❤🧡💛💚💙💜🤍 More "deep talks" please 🙏 We all are human family and we come into this life naked and we will leave it naked - the real treasure of ones life is experience & consciousness 🪶 What really matters in the end is how much you loved & was loved by others! And I mean all 3 forms of Love - Agape, Philia & Eros - not just Eros 😂😇 Be blessed bro! Greetings from Austria
I subscribed to your channel after watching the video when you offered your car to Vinn & Leni. You are too funny. I couldn't stop laughing. I'm watching from NYC. Wha a gwaan.
This is a very important conversation, and Vinn does not seem to contribute to it as he should. The husband should protect his wife, especially if he married out of his culture. Line loves her husband, and she got into this marriage without reservation. My opinion
The wives should both beat him for not setting boundaries in the first place. 😂 You're creating an impact on Vinn & Leni. Your content is very informative/challenging. I enjoyed this video immensely. ❤
@@victorswithvictor do you know how many men I have comforted in my lifetime lol..quite a few🥰 letting go tears can help the mind a lot..otherwise you get a build up of anger worry stress,and sadly the ending isnt well..if you know what I mean..never judge a book by its cover, we dont know what people are battling in their minds..times are changing,hopefully that stigma of a man crying will end..
Very interesting again. I would never share my husband, never! I would die of jealousy 😂 but anyway I am happily single after 32 years of marriage. And I totally agree with Leni. Maybe because I am German as well…
I think the basics of a relationship is communication,Trust,Respect and love so how do you do that to two or more individuals ,every woman is jealous for her man so how can you believe its going to be easy its abuse of woman s feelings to Marry more than one woman 😊
Some things definitely are not to be shared. Jamaican men are not going to be caught in polygamy, but I can tell you they have dozene baby mothers about the place.
@@victorswithvictor polygamy is legal in my country especially in southern part of country the tribe called (Tonga) people can marry even more than five women,for example Mami's young brother is married to 9 women and he has 47 children and 78 grandchildren and he is only 58years😁
Thank you Victor for the topic this was very interesting that even long standing couples see themselves through with marriage without knowing how their successful marriage happened. You have really brought us closer to finding out more about partnership ❤. I salute you Victor and please keep posting more of this kind. ❤❤❤
@@claireclarkeignite8458 Those are your words and do not put words in my mouth. What I said was she jumped on one man to the next which is what she did and said it in the interview .
Anyway Thanx Vic for the topic it's a good lesson to most of the new generation to do away with the old culture of polygamy, especially in this nowadays wereby life is changing dramatically and it's not easy 😅😂🙏
If you want to build intimacy first of all you need to be good to each other. you need to treasure each other value each other respect each other have conversations help one another stand at each other side as you build one block at a time if you’re open and your tender hearted and merciful and forgiving one another you will build intimacy… And eventually it leads to sexual intimacy. But if you’re selfish thoughtless callous disrespectful how can you expect someone to want to build intimacy with you whoever their partner is
Oh i did not realize that 😂 thank you for explaining it. Over here we would say I can’t agree with you more which means you’re in total agreement. I can’t agree less would mean you disagree 😊🎉 It really is all about communication isn’t it! Thank you so much for helping me to understand what you were really saying!!!!!🦋
@@vickiedemand112 haha 😂 grammatical it’s not right but in the streets we say it a lot 😂😂😂 the most grammatically correct should be I couldn’t agree more
A woman says yes when is no she means because she is tired of the arguments or because she feels intimidated and is abuse if she tells him she is not satisfied
Victor I agree with Len I. it is against the law to have two wives in USA. I will Love my husband and that is one thing I dont share. That is why I am single. 19 yrs married and my ex cheated.
it’s still happen around the world the man has a legal wife and a spiritual wife even in the USA . Some woman say never but when you in love you do wild things.
Very interesting discussion. I appreciated the insight of everyone. In order for any relationship to be successful, there must be respect, understanding, honesty and good communication. Those are the backbone of having a successful marriage. My parents are 46 years married and they have set the perfect example for me to follow once I'm ready to find love again. 🥰
@@victorswithvictor yes but Victor you can respect and understand your partner and she you but you guys are not mind readers , without communicating properly there will always be problems as she assumes you're angry when you might not be and you assume she's tired and doesn't want to be intimate when it might be stress from work and not you . Without communicating properly everyone is in the dark.
It’s illegal in America as well if I was married to an Africa man it would be no second wife I would get that on paper before I would married him are I wouldn’t married him good content victory
This is not for everyone to agree the husband to have 2 wife. If you know that you are an African man you get married to a muzungu that means you have no way to get married to another woman. All the European countries they don't do that kind of thing
What about special needs children in the culture. They can’t provide a thing for the parent they can be financially cared for their entire life. What status is that? Where do Disabled Children go?
People in the US sometimes do open marriages but they don’t have to support or live with them. They stay with their own spouse. That is more for sex and whatever then pro creation. :)
This shows how emotionally immature Vinn is. He hasn’t got a clue really to answer any questions. He doesn’t understand what women really want. This is why he has no wife. Leni is only one year older but emotionally she is years ahead.
@victorswithvictor OK so you understood that morrow or morrows means tomorrow. Just as how see you in the strong would mean the same thing or later. Big up
Polygamy is a no no to my understanding it's a way of oppressing women in the tribes where they implement it Most of the times the man who have 2wives doesn't afford to look after those 2wives and their kids.
Once upon a time in our culture, boys were given prominence, but now, even though it is still present , it has dropped significantly. They are called mules if they do not have children
Victor! The word of God states in the book of Genesis, that a man should leave his father and mother and join his wife in holy matrimony/marriage and the two shall become one. Only one wife!
